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        <description>This is a safe space for my thoughts—Black, unfiltered, unapologetic.
A Black Canadian voice from Ottawa (Red Black) shaped by the Red, the Black, and the Green and the Red Blue (Rouge et Bleu).

I don’t know exactly where this podcast is headed, but that’s the point. Like me, this podcast is a work in progress. It grows, shifts, and evolves as I do. Maybe it becomes a community, maybe it stays just me and this one mic. Either way, I’m here, and I’ve got something to say—so Shut Up!</description>
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                <itunes:subtitle>This is a safe space for my thoughts—Black, unfiltered, unapologetic.
A Black Canadian voice from Ottawa (Red Black) shaped by the Red, the Black, and the Green and the Red Blue (Rouge et Bleu).

I don’t know exactly where this podcast is headed, but that’s the point. Like me, this podcast is a work in progress. It grows, shifts, and evolves as I do. Maybe it becomes a community, maybe it stays just me and this one mic. Either way, I’m here, and I’ve got something to say—so Shut Up!</itunes:subtitle>
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A Black Canadian voice from Ottawa (Red Black) shaped by the Red, the Black, and the Green and the Red Blue (Rouge et Bleu).

I don’t know exactly where this podcast is headed, but that’s the point. Like me, this podcast is a work in progress. It grows, shifts, and evolves as I do. Maybe it becomes a community, maybe it stays just me and this one mic. Either way, I’m here, and I’ve got something to say—so Shut Up!</itunes:summary>
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                    <![CDATA[330: Not Into Politics]]>
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                <pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 00:40:19 +0000</pubDate>
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                                            <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I discuss my expired driver’s license, the end of Lent, a recent purchase that made me question my ability to speak on financial freedom like I initially intended, and how Darrow, the main character of the Red Rising series, got me thinking about people who aren’t into politics. <strong>(Warning: the last part contains spoilers.)</strong></p>
<h3>LINKS</h3>
<h4>Quoteables</h4>
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<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/psychesystems/comments/1s0l3uq/the_aura_of_selfsufficiency/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Your presence must have a touch of coldness...</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1s5sowk/self_love_is_choosing_yourself/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Self love is choosing yourself...</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1s35x3j/beyoutiful_as_you_are/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Next time you think of something beautiful...</a></li>
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<h4>Couldn’t talk about it...</h4>
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<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/MotivationalThoughts/comments/1s46mmb/successful_people_give_your_advice/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">People who are financially free...</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I discuss my expired driver’s license, the end of Lent, a recent purchase that made me question my ability to speak on financial freedom like I initially intended, and how Darrow, the main character of the Red Rising series, got me thinking about people who aren’t into politics. (Warning: the last part contains spoilers.)
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Quoteables

Your presence must have a touch of coldness...
Self love is choosing yourself...
Next time you think of something beautiful...

Couldn’t talk about it...

People who are financially free...
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                    <![CDATA[330: Not Into Politics]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I discuss my expired driver’s license, the end of Lent, a recent purchase that made me question my ability to speak on financial freedom like I initially intended, and how Darrow, the main character of the Red Rising series, got me thinking about people who aren’t into politics. <strong>(Warning: the last part contains spoilers.)</strong></p>
<h3>LINKS</h3>
<h4>Quoteables</h4>
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<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/psychesystems/comments/1s0l3uq/the_aura_of_selfsufficiency/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Your presence must have a touch of coldness...</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1s5sowk/self_love_is_choosing_yourself/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Self love is choosing yourself...</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1s35x3j/beyoutiful_as_you_are/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Next time you think of something beautiful...</a></li>
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<h4>Couldn’t talk about it...</h4>
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<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/MotivationalThoughts/comments/1s46mmb/successful_people_give_your_advice/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">People who are financially free...</a></li>
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LINKS
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Your presence must have a touch of coldness...
Self love is choosing yourself...
Next time you think of something beautiful...

Couldn’t talk about it...

People who are financially free...
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:32:07</itunes:duration>
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                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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                    <![CDATA[329: Didn't Know Better]]>
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                <pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 19:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
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                                            <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I talk about the new changes to my podcast setup, how the movie Project Hail Mary got me thinking about the art of storytelling, why I didn’t hate Peaky Blinders: Immortal Man, how Democrats who sat out the last election reminded me of a scene from Titanic, and the train of thought I went down while listening to old 80s and 90s slow jams.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<h3>Quotable</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/SocialBlueprint/comments/1rrpl2f/sucks_but_just_the_truth/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I think it’s important to realize that no matter how good you are to people, it won’t make them good to you.</a></li>
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<h3>Randomness</h3>
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<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Project_Hail_Mary" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Project Hail Mary</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peaky_Blinders:_The_Immortal_Man" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Peaky Blinders: Immortal Man</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://memes.yarn.co/yarn-clip/e2085542-b4fa-4caa-86b0-5f373139361a" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Scene from the Titanic I'm referring too</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I talk about the new changes to my podcast setup, how the movie Project Hail Mary got me thinking about the art of storytelling, why I didn’t hate Peaky Blinders: Immortal Man, how Democrats who sat out the last election reminded me of a scene from Titanic, and the train of thought I went down while listening to old 80s and 90s slow jams.
Links
Quotable

I think it’s important to realize that no matter how good you are to people, it won’t make them good to you.

Randomness

Project Hail Mary
Peaky Blinders: Immortal Man
Scene from the Titanic I'm referring too
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                    <![CDATA[329: Didn't Know Better]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I talk about the new changes to my podcast setup, how the movie Project Hail Mary got me thinking about the art of storytelling, why I didn’t hate Peaky Blinders: Immortal Man, how Democrats who sat out the last election reminded me of a scene from Titanic, and the train of thought I went down while listening to old 80s and 90s slow jams.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<h3>Quotable</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/SocialBlueprint/comments/1rrpl2f/sucks_but_just_the_truth/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I think it’s important to realize that no matter how good you are to people, it won’t make them good to you.</a></li>
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<h3>Randomness</h3>
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<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Project_Hail_Mary" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Project Hail Mary</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peaky_Blinders:_The_Immortal_Man" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Peaky Blinders: Immortal Man</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://memes.yarn.co/yarn-clip/e2085542-b4fa-4caa-86b0-5f373139361a" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Scene from the Titanic I'm referring too</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I talk about the new changes to my podcast setup, how the movie Project Hail Mary got me thinking about the art of storytelling, why I didn’t hate Peaky Blinders: Immortal Man, how Democrats who sat out the last election reminded me of a scene from Titanic, and the train of thought I went down while listening to old 80s and 90s slow jams.
Links
Quotable

I think it’s important to realize that no matter how good you are to people, it won’t make them good to you.

Randomness

Project Hail Mary
Peaky Blinders: Immortal Man
Scene from the Titanic I'm referring too
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:34:39</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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                    <![CDATA[328: Outside The Manosphere 2]]>
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                <pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 02:03:43 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I get back into the habit of recording on Wednesdays, explain why I’m pissed at Amazon (despite the long list of other reasons), talk about emotional intelligence, the problem with dumb people, and share some new thoughts since my last episode about Louis Theroux’s Netflix documentary Inside the Manosphere.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/series/117100-red-rising-saga" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Red Rising Saga</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reels/DT1QQAgAfdh/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Emotional intelligence starts with this question</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jackxwil/video/7597571868278672671?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7459548626362435078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The problem with dumb people</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@toureshow/video/7616857523387223326?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">If revenge of the nerds was a documentary</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I get back into the habit of recording on Wednesdays, explain why I’m pissed at Amazon (despite the long list of other reasons), talk about emotional intelligence, the problem with dumb people, and share some new thoughts since my last episode about Louis Theroux’s Netflix documentary Inside the Manosphere.
Links

Red Rising Saga
Emotional intelligence starts with this question
The problem with dumb people
If revenge of the nerds was a documentary
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                    <![CDATA[328: Outside The Manosphere 2]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I get back into the habit of recording on Wednesdays, explain why I’m pissed at Amazon (despite the long list of other reasons), talk about emotional intelligence, the problem with dumb people, and share some new thoughts since my last episode about Louis Theroux’s Netflix documentary Inside the Manosphere.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/series/117100-red-rising-saga" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Red Rising Saga</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reels/DT1QQAgAfdh/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Emotional intelligence starts with this question</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jackxwil/video/7597571868278672671?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7459548626362435078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The problem with dumb people</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@toureshow/video/7616857523387223326?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">If revenge of the nerds was a documentary</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I get back into the habit of recording on Wednesdays, explain why I’m pissed at Amazon (despite the long list of other reasons), talk about emotional intelligence, the problem with dumb people, and share some new thoughts since my last episode about Louis Theroux’s Netflix documentary Inside the Manosphere.
Links

Red Rising Saga
Emotional intelligence starts with this question
The problem with dumb people
If revenge of the nerds was a documentary
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:41:49</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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                <title>
                    <![CDATA[327: Outside The Manosphere]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2026 01:43:58 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I discuss Pi Day, how TikTok recently pissed me off, the sound bite of the week, why I don’t trust people who discourage Black folks from voting, and my raw first thoughts after watching Louis Theroux’s latest documentary, Inside the Manosphere.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleofReddit/comments/1rrn80n/unc_is_free_happy_and_glowing/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tendernism Coded</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVt63k8D2wF/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">A deal only makes sense if it’s better than what you would get with no deal by Doss.Discourse</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt39792948/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I discuss Pi Day, how TikTok recently pissed me off, the sound bite of the week, why I don’t trust people who discourage Black folks from voting, and my raw first thoughts after watching Louis Theroux’s latest documentary, Inside the Manosphere.
Links

Tendernism Coded
A deal only makes sense if it’s better than what you would get with no deal by Doss.Discourse
Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere
]]>
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                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[327: Outside The Manosphere]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I discuss Pi Day, how TikTok recently pissed me off, the sound bite of the week, why I don’t trust people who discourage Black folks from voting, and my raw first thoughts after watching Louis Theroux’s latest documentary, Inside the Manosphere.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleofReddit/comments/1rrn80n/unc_is_free_happy_and_glowing/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Tendernism Coded</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVt63k8D2wF/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">A deal only makes sense if it’s better than what you would get with no deal by Doss.Discourse</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt39792948/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I discuss Pi Day, how TikTok recently pissed me off, the sound bite of the week, why I don’t trust people who discourage Black folks from voting, and my raw first thoughts after watching Louis Theroux’s latest documentary, Inside the Manosphere.
Links

Tendernism Coded
A deal only makes sense if it’s better than what you would get with no deal by Doss.Discourse
Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>01:00:19</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
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                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[326: Finger In The Butt]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2026 01:15:20 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
                <guid isPermaLink="true">
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/326-finger-in-the-butt</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I discuss a quote that got me thinking about boundaries, the passing of Jesse Jackson, why Elon Musk ain’t no Jesse Jackson, redoing my website, a message from TikTok creator @Iamsoulqueenwu, and the events that led me to finally get a physical after turning 40.</p>
<p>Links</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DVTgAf0DhK_/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"You'd have to understand how accessible I am not, to truly appreciate how accessible I am to you."</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://x.com/NS_Neelotpal/status/2030091477360185488" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I am somebody</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@iamsoulqueenwu/video/7609343750573149471?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7459548626362435078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Iamsoulqueenwu - "“Saturate your mind with information that affirms the fact that you are worthy of the best love and the best life."</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@kevonstagetiktok/video/7601678020461497630?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">KevOnStage - Annual Physical</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Soundtack</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://soundcloud.com/eazyeldee/theladiestape?in=eazyeldee/sets/hip-hop-mixtapes" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Ladies Rap Tape - Mixed By Eazy EL Dee</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I discuss a quote that got me thinking about boundaries, the passing of Jesse Jackson, why Elon Musk ain’t no Jesse Jackson, redoing my website, a message from TikTok creator @Iamsoulqueenwu, and the events that led me to finally get a physical after turning 40.
Links

"You'd have to understand how accessible I am not, to truly appreciate how accessible I am to you."
I am somebody
Iamsoulqueenwu - "“Saturate your mind with information that affirms the fact that you are worthy of the best love and the best life."
KevOnStage - Annual Physical

Soundtack

The Ladies Rap Tape - Mixed By Eazy EL Dee
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                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[326: Finger In The Butt]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I discuss a quote that got me thinking about boundaries, the passing of Jesse Jackson, why Elon Musk ain’t no Jesse Jackson, redoing my website, a message from TikTok creator @Iamsoulqueenwu, and the events that led me to finally get a physical after turning 40.</p>
<p>Links</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DVTgAf0DhK_/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"You'd have to understand how accessible I am not, to truly appreciate how accessible I am to you."</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://x.com/NS_Neelotpal/status/2030091477360185488" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I am somebody</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@iamsoulqueenwu/video/7609343750573149471?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7459548626362435078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Iamsoulqueenwu - "“Saturate your mind with information that affirms the fact that you are worthy of the best love and the best life."</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@kevonstagetiktok/video/7601678020461497630?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">KevOnStage - Annual Physical</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Soundtack</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://soundcloud.com/eazyeldee/theladiestape?in=eazyeldee/sets/hip-hop-mixtapes" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Ladies Rap Tape - Mixed By Eazy EL Dee</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                                <itunes:summary>
                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I discuss a quote that got me thinking about boundaries, the passing of Jesse Jackson, why Elon Musk ain’t no Jesse Jackson, redoing my website, a message from TikTok creator @Iamsoulqueenwu, and the events that led me to finally get a physical after turning 40.
Links

"You'd have to understand how accessible I am not, to truly appreciate how accessible I am to you."
I am somebody
Iamsoulqueenwu - "“Saturate your mind with information that affirms the fact that you are worthy of the best love and the best life."
KevOnStage - Annual Physical

Soundtack

The Ladies Rap Tape - Mixed By Eazy EL Dee
]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:50:04</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[325: Don’t Call Me N****r]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2026 04:07:22 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
                <guid isPermaLink="true">
                    https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/61929/episode/2380235</guid>
                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/325-dont-call-me-nr</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I discuss the new ShutupPodcast site, how little I actually knew about credit cards and personal finance, something that bothers me after discovering a new podcast, the kind of book reviews I don’t like, what I’d do if I were on the U.S. hockey team, and my personal history with the N-word.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@drewafualo/video/7611657080663002399?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">“The b*tch a** hockey players...” by Drew Afualo</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@yuvalthenotsoterrible/video/7610937408913247518?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">“After reading John Davidson’s interview...”  by Yuval too</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@londonhughesy/video/7610231628778048782?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">“The BAFTA’s and the BBC don’t want the smoke” by London Hughes</a></li>
</ul>
<p></p>]]>
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                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I discuss the new ShutupPodcast site, how little I actually knew about credit cards and personal finance, something that bothers me after discovering a new podcast, the kind of book reviews I don’t like, what I’d do if I were on the U.S. hockey team, and my personal history with the N-word.
Links

“The b*tch a** hockey players...” by Drew Afualo
“After reading John Davidson’s interview...”  by Yuval too
“The BAFTA’s and the BBC don’t want the smoke” by London Hughes

]]>
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                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[325: Don’t Call Me N****r]]>
                </itunes:title>
                                                <itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit>
                <content:encoded>
                    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I discuss the new ShutupPodcast site, how little I actually knew about credit cards and personal finance, something that bothers me after discovering a new podcast, the kind of book reviews I don’t like, what I’d do if I were on the U.S. hockey team, and my personal history with the N-word.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@drewafualo/video/7611657080663002399?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">“The b*tch a** hockey players...” by Drew Afualo</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@yuvalthenotsoterrible/video/7610937408913247518?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">“After reading John Davidson’s interview...”  by Yuval too</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@londonhughesy/video/7610231628778048782?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">“The BAFTA’s and the BBC don’t want the smoke” by London Hughes</a></li>
</ul>
<p></p>]]>
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                                <itunes:summary>
                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I discuss the new ShutupPodcast site, how little I actually knew about credit cards and personal finance, something that bothers me after discovering a new podcast, the kind of book reviews I don’t like, what I’d do if I were on the U.S. hockey team, and my personal history with the N-word.
Links

“The b*tch a** hockey players...” by Drew Afualo
“After reading John Davidson’s interview...”  by Yuval too
“The BAFTA’s and the BBC don’t want the smoke” by London Hughes

]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:54:51</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[324: Virtuous Con Weekend]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2026 18:19:12 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
                <guid isPermaLink="true">
                    https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/61929/episode/2371862</guid>
                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/324-virtuous-con-weekend</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about the conflict of being a Black Canadian during the Canada–U.S. Olympic hockey finals, the wack-ass open mic show I sat through yesterday, and my reflections from Virtuous Con weekend.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<h3>Quoteables</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DSuK10ujGKH/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Mankind invented the atomic bomb, but no mouse would ever construct a mousetrap</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quotes_Hub/comments/1r62wtn/its_wisdom/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Avoiding certain people to protect your emotional health is not a weakness.</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1r6does/for_anyone_who_needs_to_hear_this/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">You’ve been criticising yourself ofr years and it hasn't worked.</a></li>
</ul>
<h3>Randomness</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jesse_Owens" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jessie Owens</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sarah_Nurse" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Sarah Nurse</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laila_Edwards" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Laila Edwards</a></li>
</ul>
<h3>Final Say</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://virtuouscon.com/faqs" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Virtuous Con</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/41952489-the-rage-of-dragons" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Rage of Dragons by Evan Winter</a> (book refereral) </li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://on.soundcloud.com/EMQ51sSwzYHeD4zs4g" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">BIS Radio Show #1077 with Mark Flash (DTFA/Underground Resistance) - Mark Flash</a></li>
</ul>]]>
                                    </description>
                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about the conflict of being a Black Canadian during the Canada–U.S. Olympic hockey finals, the wack-ass open mic show I sat through yesterday, and my reflections from Virtuous Con weekend.
Links
Quoteables

Mankind invented the atomic bomb, but no mouse would ever construct a mousetrap
Avoiding certain people to protect your emotional health is not a weakness.
You’ve been criticising yourself ofr years and it hasn't worked.

Randomness

Jessie Owens
Sarah Nurse
Laila Edwards

Final Say

Virtuous Con
The Rage of Dragons by Evan Winter (book refereral) 
BIS Radio Show #1077 with Mark Flash (DTFA/Underground Resistance) - Mark Flash
]]>
                </itunes:subtitle>
                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[324: Virtuous Con Weekend]]>
                </itunes:title>
                                                <itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit>
                <content:encoded>
                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about the conflict of being a Black Canadian during the Canada–U.S. Olympic hockey finals, the wack-ass open mic show I sat through yesterday, and my reflections from Virtuous Con weekend.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<h3>Quoteables</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DSuK10ujGKH/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Mankind invented the atomic bomb, but no mouse would ever construct a mousetrap</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quotes_Hub/comments/1r62wtn/its_wisdom/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Avoiding certain people to protect your emotional health is not a weakness.</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1r6does/for_anyone_who_needs_to_hear_this/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">You’ve been criticising yourself ofr years and it hasn't worked.</a></li>
</ul>
<h3>Randomness</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jesse_Owens" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jessie Owens</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sarah_Nurse" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Sarah Nurse</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laila_Edwards" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Laila Edwards</a></li>
</ul>
<h3>Final Say</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://virtuouscon.com/faqs" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Virtuous Con</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/41952489-the-rage-of-dragons" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Rage of Dragons by Evan Winter</a> (book refereral) </li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://on.soundcloud.com/EMQ51sSwzYHeD4zs4g" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">BIS Radio Show #1077 with Mark Flash (DTFA/Underground Resistance) - Mark Flash</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                                <itunes:summary>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about the conflict of being a Black Canadian during the Canada–U.S. Olympic hockey finals, the wack-ass open mic show I sat through yesterday, and my reflections from Virtuous Con weekend.
Links
Quoteables

Mankind invented the atomic bomb, but no mouse would ever construct a mousetrap
Avoiding certain people to protect your emotional health is not a weakness.
You’ve been criticising yourself ofr years and it hasn't worked.

Randomness

Jessie Owens
Sarah Nurse
Laila Edwards

Final Say

Virtuous Con
The Rage of Dragons by Evan Winter (book refereral) 
BIS Radio Show #1077 with Mark Flash (DTFA/Underground Resistance) - Mark Flash
]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>01:05:02</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[323: Speechless]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2026 02:54:49 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
                <guid isPermaLink="true">
                    https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/61929/episode/2363956</guid>
                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/323-speechless</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about the latest improvements to my setup, this week’s soundclip courtesy of Zurich High School, reflections on the last episode, AI slop, Black History Month, and how finishing Light Bringer left me speechless.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<p>Quoteables</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DTd3AVAj1Bi/?igsh=MTN6ZzdlMXBwbmJ3MA%3D%3D" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">You never understand they did it.  Your mind doesn’t work like that.  You’re not a demon</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Adulting/comments/1r3o9eu/this_works/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">One of the greatest cheat codes in life is assuming everything is happening in your favour.</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/MotivationalThoughts/comments/1r2ryat/took_me_some_time_to_accept_this_hard_truth/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">You’re going [to] piss a lot a people off when you start doing what’s best for you.</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1r16otm/not_lost_in_translation_anymore/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Stop translating your soul for people who can’t read</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quotes_Hub/comments/1qn9eod/you_have_three_choices/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">When something bad happens you have three choices.</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Randomness</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.lakemchenryscanner.com/2026/02/14/viral-video-purportedly-shows-student-holding-pro-ice-sign-getting-punched-by-another-student-at-lake-zurich-high-school/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Viral video purportedly shows student holding pro-ICE sign getting punched by another student at Lake Zurich High School</a></li>
<li><a href="https://youtu.be/uUuypfwXDSA?si=lyMOLd-95JQ28vNe" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Ice Cube - My Summer Vacation (The Cinematic Visual)</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DGioyGbxT-n/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Zainatvofficial reciting Black Leaders</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleytheebarroness/video/7600495233985465630?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">AshleytheeBarroness on Viola Desmond</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Final Say</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Light_Bringer_(novel)" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Light Bringer (novel)</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.magicalquote.com/seriesquotes/stories-are-like-people/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Stories are like people</a></li>
</ul>]]>
                                    </description>
                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about the latest improvements to my setup, this week’s soundclip courtesy of Zurich High School, reflections on the last episode, AI slop, Black History Month, and how finishing Light Bringer left me speechless.
Links
Quoteables

You never understand they did it.  Your mind doesn’t work like that.  You’re not a demon
One of the greatest cheat codes in life is assuming everything is happening in your favour.
You’re going [to] piss a lot a people off when you start doing what’s best for you.
Stop translating your soul for people who can’t read
When something bad happens you have three choices.

Randomness

Viral video purportedly shows student holding pro-ICE sign getting punched by another student at Lake Zurich High School
Ice Cube - My Summer Vacation (The Cinematic Visual)
Zainatvofficial reciting Black Leaders
AshleytheeBarroness on Viola Desmond

Final Say

Light Bringer (novel)
Stories are like people
]]>
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                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[323: Speechless]]>
                </itunes:title>
                                                <itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit>
                <content:encoded>
                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about the latest improvements to my setup, this week’s soundclip courtesy of Zurich High School, reflections on the last episode, AI slop, Black History Month, and how finishing Light Bringer left me speechless.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<p>Quoteables</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DTd3AVAj1Bi/?igsh=MTN6ZzdlMXBwbmJ3MA%3D%3D" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">You never understand they did it.  Your mind doesn’t work like that.  You’re not a demon</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Adulting/comments/1r3o9eu/this_works/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">One of the greatest cheat codes in life is assuming everything is happening in your favour.</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/MotivationalThoughts/comments/1r2ryat/took_me_some_time_to_accept_this_hard_truth/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">You’re going [to] piss a lot a people off when you start doing what’s best for you.</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1r16otm/not_lost_in_translation_anymore/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Stop translating your soul for people who can’t read</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quotes_Hub/comments/1qn9eod/you_have_three_choices/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">When something bad happens you have three choices.</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Randomness</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.lakemchenryscanner.com/2026/02/14/viral-video-purportedly-shows-student-holding-pro-ice-sign-getting-punched-by-another-student-at-lake-zurich-high-school/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Viral video purportedly shows student holding pro-ICE sign getting punched by another student at Lake Zurich High School</a></li>
<li><a href="https://youtu.be/uUuypfwXDSA?si=lyMOLd-95JQ28vNe" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Ice Cube - My Summer Vacation (The Cinematic Visual)</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DGioyGbxT-n/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Zainatvofficial reciting Black Leaders</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleytheebarroness/video/7600495233985465630?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">AshleytheeBarroness on Viola Desmond</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Final Say</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Light_Bringer_(novel)" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Light Bringer (novel)</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.magicalquote.com/seriesquotes/stories-are-like-people/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Stories are like people</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                        type="audio/mpeg">
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                                <itunes:summary>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about the latest improvements to my setup, this week’s soundclip courtesy of Zurich High School, reflections on the last episode, AI slop, Black History Month, and how finishing Light Bringer left me speechless.
Links
Quoteables

You never understand they did it.  Your mind doesn’t work like that.  You’re not a demon
One of the greatest cheat codes in life is assuming everything is happening in your favour.
You’re going [to] piss a lot a people off when you start doing what’s best for you.
Stop translating your soul for people who can’t read
When something bad happens you have three choices.

Randomness

Viral video purportedly shows student holding pro-ICE sign getting punched by another student at Lake Zurich High School
Ice Cube - My Summer Vacation (The Cinematic Visual)
Zainatvofficial reciting Black Leaders
AshleytheeBarroness on Viola Desmond

Final Say

Light Bringer (novel)
Stories are like people
]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>01:04:38</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[322: The Biggest Hater]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2026 02:11:06 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about Donald Trump disrespecting a female reporter, my journey into subscribing to the Grits &amp; Eggs Podcast, hearing my email read on my favorite shows, and a journal entry I wrote about my biggest hater.</p>
<h2>Soundtrack</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Kendrick-lamar-mother-i-sober-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kendrick Lamar - Mother I Sober </a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Kendrick-lamar-euphoria-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kendrick Lamar -  Euphoria</a></li>
</ul>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1qu5oe1/love_yourself_enough_to_choose_differently/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">“Every pattern in your life repeats until...”</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/-_CNSuMYU7w?si=NcvN6tRm4dywYVmR" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Trump disrespecting a female reporter</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about Donald Trump disrespecting a female reporter, my journey into subscribing to the Grits & Eggs Podcast, hearing my email read on my favorite shows, and a journal entry I wrote about my biggest hater.
Soundtrack

Kendrick Lamar - Mother I Sober 
Kendrick Lamar -  Euphoria

Links

“Every pattern in your life repeats until...”
Trump disrespecting a female reporter
]]>
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                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[322: The Biggest Hater]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about Donald Trump disrespecting a female reporter, my journey into subscribing to the Grits &amp; Eggs Podcast, hearing my email read on my favorite shows, and a journal entry I wrote about my biggest hater.</p>
<h2>Soundtrack</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Kendrick-lamar-mother-i-sober-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kendrick Lamar - Mother I Sober </a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Kendrick-lamar-euphoria-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kendrick Lamar -  Euphoria</a></li>
</ul>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1qu5oe1/love_yourself_enough_to_choose_differently/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">“Every pattern in your life repeats until...”</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/-_CNSuMYU7w?si=NcvN6tRm4dywYVmR" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Trump disrespecting a female reporter</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about Donald Trump disrespecting a female reporter, my journey into subscribing to the Grits & Eggs Podcast, hearing my email read on my favorite shows, and a journal entry I wrote about my biggest hater.
Soundtrack

Kendrick Lamar - Mother I Sober 
Kendrick Lamar -  Euphoria

Links

“Every pattern in your life repeats until...”
Trump disrespecting a female reporter
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>01:00:44</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[321: Maestro,  Michie Mee and Muzion]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2026 01:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/321</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I reflect on Day 1 of Black History Month 2026, what it meant to see my heroes on stamps, the mention of Jay-Z and Pusha T in the Epstein files, Jill Scott’s upcoming album, and my week of catsitting.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<h3>Quotables</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/howtonotgiveafuck/comments/1qqtxt2/namaste/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">No one talks about the lates 30s, 40s personality shift</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1qozlm9/free_yourself_this_year/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Free yourself this year</a></li>
</ul>
<h3>Randomness</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleComedy/comments/1qod9k0/psa_black_history_month_247365/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Black History Month 2026</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.canadapost-postescanada.ca/blogs/personal/perspectives/black-history-stamps-hip-hop-2026/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">New stamp set pays tribute to Canada’s hip-hop trailblazers</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://x.com/MrChuckD/status/2016442310029132281" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Congratulations Meastro</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://variety.com/2026/film/news/jay-z-harvey-weinstein-pusha-t-epstein-files-1236647297/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Hov and Pusha T on the Epstein list</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reels/DTyofkHkq0u/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jill Scott Make Music for by Dangerfield Media</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I reflect on Day 1 of Black History Month 2026, what it meant to see my heroes on stamps, the mention of Jay-Z and Pusha T in the Epstein files, Jill Scott’s upcoming album, and my week of catsitting.
Links
Quotables

No one talks about the lates 30s, 40s personality shift
Free yourself this year

Randomness

Black History Month 2026
New stamp set pays tribute to Canada’s hip-hop trailblazers
Congratulations Meastro
Hov and Pusha T on the Epstein list
Jill Scott Make Music for by Dangerfield Media
]]>
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                    <![CDATA[321: Maestro,  Michie Mee and Muzion]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I reflect on Day 1 of Black History Month 2026, what it meant to see my heroes on stamps, the mention of Jay-Z and Pusha T in the Epstein files, Jill Scott’s upcoming album, and my week of catsitting.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<h3>Quotables</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/howtonotgiveafuck/comments/1qqtxt2/namaste/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">No one talks about the lates 30s, 40s personality shift</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/selflove/comments/1qozlm9/free_yourself_this_year/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Free yourself this year</a></li>
</ul>
<h3>Randomness</h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleComedy/comments/1qod9k0/psa_black_history_month_247365/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Black History Month 2026</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.canadapost-postescanada.ca/blogs/personal/perspectives/black-history-stamps-hip-hop-2026/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">New stamp set pays tribute to Canada’s hip-hop trailblazers</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://x.com/MrChuckD/status/2016442310029132281" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Congratulations Meastro</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://variety.com/2026/film/news/jay-z-harvey-weinstein-pusha-t-epstein-files-1236647297/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Hov and Pusha T on the Epstein list</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reels/DTyofkHkq0u/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jill Scott Make Music for by Dangerfield Media</a></li>
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Links
Quotables

No one talks about the lates 30s, 40s personality shift
Free yourself this year

Randomness

Black History Month 2026
New stamp set pays tribute to Canada’s hip-hop trailblazers
Congratulations Meastro
Hov and Pusha T on the Epstein list
Jill Scott Make Music for by Dangerfield Media
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:36:29</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[320: Nightclub Economics]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2026 00:58:37 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/320-club-economics</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I reflect on a viral video from a Miami nightclub that stuck with me more than I expected and sent me down a personal rabbit hole about club culture, status, and masculinity. It brought back memories of how I used to feel in those spaces and made me realize that The Roots and Little Brother were saying something I wasn’t ready to hear back then. I also share a separate reminder to check in on your mental health.</p>
<p>Soundtrack:</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/The-roots-what-they-do-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Roots - What They Do</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Little-brother-after-the-party-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Little Brother - After The Party</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Quotables</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quotes_Hub/comments/1qm9p4x/theres_so_much_power/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">There’s so much power in believing that</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quotes_Hub/comments/1qhzdr4/loneliness/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Loneliness</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Link</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ryker.inthe.6ixofficial/video/7597910596914302215?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Attracted to teenagers</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@blerdwithoutfear/post/DT7CcBkjtxw?xmt=AQF0EbvONeEOmNSFgOHndbgqss5b6ggK26kCBbaA3G-7Bsbjtq1uKGnad93OfN41FFXMQw0t&amp;slof=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">It ain't right</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I reflect on a viral video from a Miami nightclub that stuck with me more than I expected and sent me down a personal rabbit hole about club culture, status, and masculinity. It brought back memories of how I used to feel in those spaces and made me realize that The Roots and Little Brother were saying something I wasn’t ready to hear back then. I also share a separate reminder to check in on your mental health.
Soundtrack:

The Roots - What They Do
Little Brother - After The Party

Quotables

There’s so much power in believing that
Loneliness

Link

Attracted to teenagers
It ain't right
]]>
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                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[320: Nightclub Economics]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I reflect on a viral video from a Miami nightclub that stuck with me more than I expected and sent me down a personal rabbit hole about club culture, status, and masculinity. It brought back memories of how I used to feel in those spaces and made me realize that The Roots and Little Brother were saying something I wasn’t ready to hear back then. I also share a separate reminder to check in on your mental health.</p>
<p>Soundtrack:</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/The-roots-what-they-do-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Roots - What They Do</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Little-brother-after-the-party-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Little Brother - After The Party</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Quotables</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quotes_Hub/comments/1qm9p4x/theres_so_much_power/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">There’s so much power in believing that</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quotes_Hub/comments/1qhzdr4/loneliness/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Loneliness</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Link</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ryker.inthe.6ixofficial/video/7597910596914302215?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Attracted to teenagers</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@blerdwithoutfear/post/DT7CcBkjtxw?xmt=AQF0EbvONeEOmNSFgOHndbgqss5b6ggK26kCBbaA3G-7Bsbjtq1uKGnad93OfN41FFXMQw0t&amp;slof=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">It ain't right</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I reflect on a viral video from a Miami nightclub that stuck with me more than I expected and sent me down a personal rabbit hole about club culture, status, and masculinity. It brought back memories of how I used to feel in those spaces and made me realize that The Roots and Little Brother were saying something I wasn’t ready to hear back then. I also share a separate reminder to check in on your mental health.
Soundtrack:

The Roots - What They Do
Little Brother - After The Party

Quotables

There’s so much power in believing that
Loneliness

Link

Attracted to teenagers
It ain't right
]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:49:17</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[319: Because Quitting is Too Easy]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2026 01:21:50 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/319-because-quitting-is-too-easy</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode I talk about my recent birthday trip to Playa Del Carmen Mexico.</p>
<h2>Soundtrack</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thegremlinlibrarian/video/7592769437594340663?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">thegremlinlibrarian - Desensitization, ignorance, and apathy</a></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=u4fKCR4t1nM&amp;si=G2dLwtgL5dP7JrQ6" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">2Pac - Lost Souls</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=O0Id0olaeFw&amp;si=qCHyfNLiZ_DabQqG" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kendrick Lamar - wacced out murals</a><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=O0Id0olaeFw&amp;si=qCHyfNLiZ_DabQqG"></a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=JSMVpzPlSNs&amp;si=5GI61qFzh2E5zKKy" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Londrelle - Solitude </a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=oAcAXubt3hk&amp;si=jleuBN9eIQXJM-Sq" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lefttizzle &amp; Fuse ODG - Kiki</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=PfeY71rsaMg&amp;si=5O7dEmnOuHJUOn3D" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Don Omar - King of Kings</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=O8ldvZVZ_cw&amp;si=BqJ0aDdoNgaHaxxm" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Bad Bunny &amp; Daddy Yankee - La Santa</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode I talk about my recent birthday trip to Playa Del Carmen Mexico.
Soundtrack

thegremlinlibrarian - Desensitization, ignorance, and apathy


2Pac - Lost Souls
Kendrick Lamar - wacced out murals
Londrelle - Solitude 
Lefttizzle & Fuse ODG - Kiki
Don Omar - King of Kings
Bad Bunny & Daddy Yankee - La Santa
]]>
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                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[319: Because Quitting is Too Easy]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode I talk about my recent birthday trip to Playa Del Carmen Mexico.</p>
<h2>Soundtrack</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thegremlinlibrarian/video/7592769437594340663?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">thegremlinlibrarian - Desensitization, ignorance, and apathy</a></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=u4fKCR4t1nM&amp;si=G2dLwtgL5dP7JrQ6" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">2Pac - Lost Souls</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=O0Id0olaeFw&amp;si=qCHyfNLiZ_DabQqG" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kendrick Lamar - wacced out murals</a><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=O0Id0olaeFw&amp;si=qCHyfNLiZ_DabQqG"></a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=JSMVpzPlSNs&amp;si=5GI61qFzh2E5zKKy" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Londrelle - Solitude </a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=oAcAXubt3hk&amp;si=jleuBN9eIQXJM-Sq" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lefttizzle &amp; Fuse ODG - Kiki</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=PfeY71rsaMg&amp;si=5O7dEmnOuHJUOn3D" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Don Omar - King of Kings</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=O8ldvZVZ_cw&amp;si=BqJ0aDdoNgaHaxxm" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Bad Bunny &amp; Daddy Yankee - La Santa</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode I talk about my recent birthday trip to Playa Del Carmen Mexico.
Soundtrack

thegremlinlibrarian - Desensitization, ignorance, and apathy


2Pac - Lost Souls
Kendrick Lamar - wacced out murals
Londrelle - Solitude 
Lefttizzle & Fuse ODG - Kiki
Don Omar - King of Kings
Bad Bunny & Daddy Yankee - La Santa
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>01:06:55</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[318: Future Me’s Problem]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2026 23:09:16 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                    https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/61929/episode/2310741</guid>
                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/318-future-mes-problem</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I close out the year with my usual randomness: the episode I meant to record last Sunday but didn’t, family gatherings, reflections sparked by my upcoming trip and one thing I’m proud of from 2025, and what to expect in 2026 for this podcast.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@khaledbeydoun/post/DSgXysTgTEM?xmt=AQF0mRRL1EnnJpW-fxLX3cn_Wy5gjz-QObIZkSy54GTtMA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I’ve been enjoying seeing the defeated look on the faces of Andrew Tate and Jake Paul</a>.</li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@taz_makesmelaugh/video/7580523541863419166?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Rather be drunk on Christmas</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueGrit/comments/1q03l41/you_did_great/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Applaude yourself</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I close out the year with my usual randomness: the episode I meant to record last Sunday but didn’t, family gatherings, reflections sparked by my upcoming trip and one thing I’m proud of from 2025, and what to expect in 2026 for this podcast.
Links

I’ve been enjoying seeing the defeated look on the faces of Andrew Tate and Jake Paul.
Rather be drunk on Christmas
Applaude yourself
]]>
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                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[318: Future Me’s Problem]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I close out the year with my usual randomness: the episode I meant to record last Sunday but didn’t, family gatherings, reflections sparked by my upcoming trip and one thing I’m proud of from 2025, and what to expect in 2026 for this podcast.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@khaledbeydoun/post/DSgXysTgTEM?xmt=AQF0mRRL1EnnJpW-fxLX3cn_Wy5gjz-QObIZkSy54GTtMA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I’ve been enjoying seeing the defeated look on the faces of Andrew Tate and Jake Paul</a>.</li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@taz_makesmelaugh/video/7580523541863419166?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Rather be drunk on Christmas</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueGrit/comments/1q03l41/you_did_great/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Applaude yourself</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I close out the year with my usual randomness: the episode I meant to record last Sunday but didn’t, family gatherings, reflections sparked by my upcoming trip and one thing I’m proud of from 2025, and what to expect in 2026 for this podcast.
Links

I’ve been enjoying seeing the defeated look on the faces of Andrew Tate and Jake Paul.
Rather be drunk on Christmas
Applaude yourself
]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:26:51</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
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                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[317: Ain’t Getting Younger]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2025 03:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/317-aint-getting-younger</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I discuss what I like about this time of year, why I enjoy watching YouTube documentaries about D-Day, the Battle of Stalingrad, and the Battle of the Bulge, The Running Man (2025), and Neil deGrasse Tyson’s thoughts about getting older.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quotes_Hub/comments/1poxvdi/confucious/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">A great man is hard on himself;a small man is hard on others. Confucius</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Running_Man_(2025_film)" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Running Man 2025</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.oprah.com/omagazine/what-oprah-knows-for-sure-about-getting-older" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">What Oprah Knows for Sure About Getting Older</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2C-Hy9NFbEE" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Neil deGrasse Tyson Reflects on Getting Older</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I discuss what I like about this time of year, why I enjoy watching YouTube documentaries about D-Day, the Battle of Stalingrad, and the Battle of the Bulge, The Running Man (2025), and Neil deGrasse Tyson’s thoughts about getting older.
Links

A great man is hard on himself;a small man is hard on others. Confucius
Running Man 2025
What Oprah Knows for Sure About Getting Older
Neil deGrasse Tyson Reflects on Getting Older
]]>
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                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[317: Ain’t Getting Younger]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I discuss what I like about this time of year, why I enjoy watching YouTube documentaries about D-Day, the Battle of Stalingrad, and the Battle of the Bulge, The Running Man (2025), and Neil deGrasse Tyson’s thoughts about getting older.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Quotes_Hub/comments/1poxvdi/confucious/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">A great man is hard on himself;a small man is hard on others. Confucius</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Running_Man_(2025_film)" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Running Man 2025</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.oprah.com/omagazine/what-oprah-knows-for-sure-about-getting-older" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">What Oprah Knows for Sure About Getting Older</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2C-Hy9NFbEE" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Neil deGrasse Tyson Reflects on Getting Older</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I discuss what I like about this time of year, why I enjoy watching YouTube documentaries about D-Day, the Battle of Stalingrad, and the Battle of the Bulge, The Running Man (2025), and Neil deGrasse Tyson’s thoughts about getting older.
Links

A great man is hard on himself;a small man is hard on others. Confucius
Running Man 2025
What Oprah Knows for Sure About Getting Older
Neil deGrasse Tyson Reflects on Getting Older
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:46:54</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[316: Just Be Yourself]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2025 00:29:58 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/316-im-not-them</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I don’t talk about Sherrone Moore. Instead, I talk about being in therapy while the world isn’t, mental rumination, and why Kendrick’s line “Long life battle with yourself” came to mind during my last session.</p>
<p>Quoteables</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@taalamacey/post/DSU6yw4DoNa?xmt=AQF0KFVCsMFpquLkapzoaVlm5C0d22InkHXc9ZALPqY4DslIuWmHdzyBqdcbK9dEtgjXZIk&amp;slof=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"Most people would rather be certain they’re miserable, than risk being happy."</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@taalamacey/post/DSVEr9fkcTA?xmt=AQF0jMelyMNkq6XxXeqy5aCWjxnBB41S0OJQMlLEMUqi2QATHq464u-6cU0A5Lc89sStDc5F&amp;slof=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"Be isolated, be ignored, be attacked, be in doubt, be frightened, but do not be silenced."</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Links</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@rustymk2/post/DSURcvVgk9o/media?xmt=AQF0ci8DnoSfJ9nnFxwJZJhemi5eekKH2NsiwH7EiI0iaJlI9s4u38jzfv4qMU0lk0Igt9Px" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Song I played at the beginning</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://abc7chicago.com/post/2-found-dead-brentwood-home-owned-director-rob-reiner-lapd-launches-murder-investigation/18287399/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Director Rob Reiner and wife Michele Singer stabbed to death in their LA home, sources say</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@mind.abyss.2/video/7574448674013580575?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7459548626362435078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Mental Rumination</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PsnxDQvQpw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Everyday Normal Guy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I don’t talk about Sherrone Moore. Instead, I talk about being in therapy while the world isn’t, mental rumination, and why Kendrick’s line “Long life battle with yourself” came to mind during my last session.
Quoteables

"Most people would rather be certain they’re miserable, than risk being happy."
"Be isolated, be ignored, be attacked, be in doubt, be frightened, but do not be silenced."

Links

Song I played at the beginning
Director Rob Reiner and wife Michele Singer stabbed to death in their LA home, sources say
Mental Rumination
Everyday Normal Guy
]]>
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                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[316: Just Be Yourself]]>
                </itunes:title>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I don’t talk about Sherrone Moore. Instead, I talk about being in therapy while the world isn’t, mental rumination, and why Kendrick’s line “Long life battle with yourself” came to mind during my last session.</p>
<p>Quoteables</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@taalamacey/post/DSU6yw4DoNa?xmt=AQF0KFVCsMFpquLkapzoaVlm5C0d22InkHXc9ZALPqY4DslIuWmHdzyBqdcbK9dEtgjXZIk&amp;slof=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"Most people would rather be certain they’re miserable, than risk being happy."</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@taalamacey/post/DSVEr9fkcTA?xmt=AQF0jMelyMNkq6XxXeqy5aCWjxnBB41S0OJQMlLEMUqi2QATHq464u-6cU0A5Lc89sStDc5F&amp;slof=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"Be isolated, be ignored, be attacked, be in doubt, be frightened, but do not be silenced."</a></li>
</ul>
<p>Links</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@rustymk2/post/DSURcvVgk9o/media?xmt=AQF0ci8DnoSfJ9nnFxwJZJhemi5eekKH2NsiwH7EiI0iaJlI9s4u38jzfv4qMU0lk0Igt9Px" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Song I played at the beginning</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://abc7chicago.com/post/2-found-dead-brentwood-home-owned-director-rob-reiner-lapd-launches-murder-investigation/18287399/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Director Rob Reiner and wife Michele Singer stabbed to death in their LA home, sources say</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@mind.abyss.2/video/7574448674013580575?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7459548626362435078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Mental Rumination</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PsnxDQvQpw" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Everyday Normal Guy</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I don’t talk about Sherrone Moore. Instead, I talk about being in therapy while the world isn’t, mental rumination, and why Kendrick’s line “Long life battle with yourself” came to mind during my last session.
Quoteables

"Most people would rather be certain they’re miserable, than risk being happy."
"Be isolated, be ignored, be attacked, be in doubt, be frightened, but do not be silenced."

Links

Song I played at the beginning
Director Rob Reiner and wife Michele Singer stabbed to death in their LA home, sources say
Mental Rumination
Everyday Normal Guy
]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:43:03</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[315: At Church's With Pirelli's Skirting]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 15 Dec 2025 00:20:21 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                    https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/61929/episode/2288846</guid>
                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/315-at-churchs-with-pirellis-skirting</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about two incidents that had me thinking about gender roles, Nas and DJ Premier’s new album, and how I ended up with Pirelli all-weather tires.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DR9j7JODiRX/?igsh=MWFnbDVsbWlsMjhmbQ%3D%3D" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"I forgive people by forgetting them."</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@taalamacey/post/DSH-vVOjkkK?xmt=AQF0NTcEIy25iHCkii8uwNPudqpqiNBC1GJP_c4hktbnIeIe2vI_dv7AvXmOZ9dvNqCVdz3Z&amp;slof=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"Don't try to be understood. It is futile. Be.”</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@levinoah_/video/7581924194242333974?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Proposal Gone Wrong</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nypost/video/7582449189406166303?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Columbian Mugging: Woman Fights Off Knife Wielding Attacker</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Light-Years_(Nas_and_DJ_Premier_album)" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Light-Years (Nas and DJ Premier album)</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Kendrick-lamar-money-trees-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Money Trees ~Kendrick Lamar</a></li>
</ul>]]>
                                    </description>
                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about two incidents that had me thinking about gender roles, Nas and DJ Premier’s new album, and how I ended up with Pirelli all-weather tires.
Links

"I forgive people by forgetting them."
"Don't try to be understood. It is futile. Be.”
Proposal Gone Wrong
Columbian Mugging: Woman Fights Off Knife Wielding Attacker
Light-Years (Nas and DJ Premier album)
Money Trees ~Kendrick Lamar
]]>
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                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[315: At Church's With Pirelli's Skirting]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about two incidents that had me thinking about gender roles, Nas and DJ Premier’s new album, and how I ended up with Pirelli all-weather tires.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DR9j7JODiRX/?igsh=MWFnbDVsbWlsMjhmbQ%3D%3D" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"I forgive people by forgetting them."</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.threads.com/@taalamacey/post/DSH-vVOjkkK?xmt=AQF0NTcEIy25iHCkii8uwNPudqpqiNBC1GJP_c4hktbnIeIe2vI_dv7AvXmOZ9dvNqCVdz3Z&amp;slof=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"Don't try to be understood. It is futile. Be.”</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@levinoah_/video/7581924194242333974?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Proposal Gone Wrong</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nypost/video/7582449189406166303?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Columbian Mugging: Woman Fights Off Knife Wielding Attacker</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Light-Years_(Nas_and_DJ_Premier_album)" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Light-Years (Nas and DJ Premier album)</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Kendrick-lamar-money-trees-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Money Trees ~Kendrick Lamar</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about two incidents that had me thinking about gender roles, Nas and DJ Premier’s new album, and how I ended up with Pirelli all-weather tires.
Links

"I forgive people by forgetting them."
"Don't try to be understood. It is futile. Be.”
Proposal Gone Wrong
Columbian Mugging: Woman Fights Off Knife Wielding Attacker
Light-Years (Nas and DJ Premier album)
Money Trees ~Kendrick Lamar
]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:57:19</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[314: I Hate (not all) People]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2025 02:59:55 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                    https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/61929/episode/2283994</guid>
                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/314-i-hate-not-all-people</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I get into finishing the book Project Hail Mary, Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett’s new ad, how I’m in therapy because other people refuse to be, and the possibility that I might not hate people as much as I think I do.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/2pac-fuck-the-world-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">2pac - F**k The World</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m08TxIsFTRI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Project Hail Mary - Official Trailer</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EXFyWQ-RhlY" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett’s new ad</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2025/12/09/oklahoma-teen-convicted-of-rape-avoids-jail/87685499007/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Son of ex-OSU football director gets probation for rape, sparks protests</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@narcissisticabuse__/video/7569278340293528854" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">How would you describe narcissistic abuse to someone who's never experienced it?</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleofReddit/comments/1pi5xh6/its_the_system/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">You don’t hate people</a></li>
</ul>]]>
                                    </description>
                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I get into finishing the book Project Hail Mary, Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett’s new ad, how I’m in therapy because other people refuse to be, and the possibility that I might not hate people as much as I think I do.
Links

2pac - F**k The World
Project Hail Mary - Official Trailer
Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett’s new ad
Son of ex-OSU football director gets probation for rape, sparks protests
How would you describe narcissistic abuse to someone who's never experienced it?
You don’t hate people
]]>
                </itunes:subtitle>
                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[314: I Hate (not all) People]]>
                </itunes:title>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I get into finishing the book Project Hail Mary, Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett’s new ad, how I’m in therapy because other people refuse to be, and the possibility that I might not hate people as much as I think I do.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/2pac-fuck-the-world-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">2pac - F**k The World</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m08TxIsFTRI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Project Hail Mary - Official Trailer</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EXFyWQ-RhlY" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett’s new ad</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2025/12/09/oklahoma-teen-convicted-of-rape-avoids-jail/87685499007/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Son of ex-OSU football director gets probation for rape, sparks protests</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@narcissisticabuse__/video/7569278340293528854" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">How would you describe narcissistic abuse to someone who's never experienced it?</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleofReddit/comments/1pi5xh6/its_the_system/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">You don’t hate people</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I get into finishing the book Project Hail Mary, Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett’s new ad, how I’m in therapy because other people refuse to be, and the possibility that I might not hate people as much as I think I do.
Links

2pac - F**k The World
Project Hail Mary - Official Trailer
Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett’s new ad
Son of ex-OSU football director gets probation for rape, sparks protests
How would you describe narcissistic abuse to someone who's never experienced it?
You don’t hate people
]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:38:39</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[313: Do You Want It]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2025 02:18:25 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
                <guid isPermaLink="true">
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/313-do-you-want-it</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about Kamala’s perspective on Trump supporters, the new Netflix documentary about Sean Combs and the realization that I don’t want to be like him, along with some thoughts on life beyond work.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@cnn/video/7580117906726571278?q=Cnn&amp;t=1765155631872" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Mohamed Amin Ahmed is a Somali immigrant, Republican for 25 years speaks on his support for Trump</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/CringeTikToks/comments/1pes7uj/jane_elliot_was_correct_about_how_trump_was_the/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jane Elliot was correct about how Trump was the white backlash towards Obama</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGyKtVA6ntI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Sean Combs: The Reckoning</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/idle_hands_are_the_devil%27s_workshop" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Idle hands are the devil's workshop</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about Kamala’s perspective on Trump supporters, the new Netflix documentary about Sean Combs and the realization that I don’t want to be like him, along with some thoughts on life beyond work.
Links

Mohamed Amin Ahmed is a Somali immigrant, Republican for 25 years speaks on his support for Trump
Jane Elliot was correct about how Trump was the white backlash towards Obama
Sean Combs: The Reckoning
Idle hands are the devil's workshop
]]>
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                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[313: Do You Want It]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about Kamala’s perspective on Trump supporters, the new Netflix documentary about Sean Combs and the realization that I don’t want to be like him, along with some thoughts on life beyond work.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@cnn/video/7580117906726571278?q=Cnn&amp;t=1765155631872" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Mohamed Amin Ahmed is a Somali immigrant, Republican for 25 years speaks on his support for Trump</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/CringeTikToks/comments/1pes7uj/jane_elliot_was_correct_about_how_trump_was_the/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jane Elliot was correct about how Trump was the white backlash towards Obama</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGyKtVA6ntI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Sean Combs: The Reckoning</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/idle_hands_are_the_devil%27s_workshop" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Idle hands are the devil's workshop</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about Kamala’s perspective on Trump supporters, the new Netflix documentary about Sean Combs and the realization that I don’t want to be like him, along with some thoughts on life beyond work.
Links

Mohamed Amin Ahmed is a Somali immigrant, Republican for 25 years speaks on his support for Trump
Jane Elliot was correct about how Trump was the white backlash towards Obama
Sean Combs: The Reckoning
Idle hands are the devil's workshop
]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:36:54</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[312: Beat Up By Fear]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2025 02:35:19 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/312-beat-up-by-fear</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, all about fear, I share a little humble brag, discuss the recent updates to H-Mart-gate, talk about a moment at work that had me shook, and admit how I know I’m bullsh*tting myself.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Anthony-hamilton-comin-from-where-im-from-remix-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Comin’ From Where I’m From (remix) - Anthony Hamilton</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Jay-z-regrets-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regrets - Jay Z</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/11666516" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fear - Kendrick Lamar</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_lTY0Yg1dE" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Parachute Drop Scene - Band of Brothers "Day of Days" Episode 02</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@say_qis/video/7579473881895800078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"Never back down never what" - Madelaine</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, all about fear, I share a little humble brag, discuss the recent updates to H-Mart-gate, talk about a moment at work that had me shook, and admit how I know I’m bullsh*tting myself.
Links

Comin’ From Where I’m From (remix) - Anthony Hamilton
Regrets - Jay Z
Fear - Kendrick Lamar
Parachute Drop Scene - Band of Brothers "Day of Days" Episode 02
"Never back down never what" - Madelaine
]]>
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                    <![CDATA[312: Beat Up By Fear]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, all about fear, I share a little humble brag, discuss the recent updates to H-Mart-gate, talk about a moment at work that had me shook, and admit how I know I’m bullsh*tting myself.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Anthony-hamilton-comin-from-where-im-from-remix-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Comin’ From Where I’m From (remix) - Anthony Hamilton</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Jay-z-regrets-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Regrets - Jay Z</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/11666516" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fear - Kendrick Lamar</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_lTY0Yg1dE" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Parachute Drop Scene - Band of Brothers "Day of Days" Episode 02</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@say_qis/video/7579473881895800078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"Never back down never what" - Madelaine</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, all about fear, I share a little humble brag, discuss the recent updates to H-Mart-gate, talk about a moment at work that had me shook, and admit how I know I’m bullsh*tting myself.
Links

Comin’ From Where I’m From (remix) - Anthony Hamilton
Regrets - Jay Z
Fear - Kendrick Lamar
Parachute Drop Scene - Band of Brothers "Day of Days" Episode 02
"Never back down never what" - Madelaine
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:41:53</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[311: Kissing AI On The Lips]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2025 03:23:28 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/311-kissing-ai-on-the-lips</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about the two audiobooks I’m listening to — spoiler alert, they’re science fiction — why I tend to put content creators on a pedestal and forget they’re human, and what I mean by "kissing AI on the lips."</p>
<p>Links</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.piercebrown.com/redrisingsaga" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Red Rising Saga</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Project_Hail_Mary" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Project Hail Mary</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/J-cole-false-prophets-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">J Cole - False Prophets</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Nwa-gangsta-gangsta-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">NWA - Gangsta Gangsta</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://youtu.be/V-nEHu9Cs8g?si=QfDMLwzoo3VNKyp2" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kiera Breaugh - This happened to me at a club</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about the two audiobooks I’m listening to — spoiler alert, they’re science fiction — why I tend to put content creators on a pedestal and forget they’re human, and what I mean by "kissing AI on the lips."
Links

Red Rising Saga
Project Hail Mary
J Cole - False Prophets
NWA - Gangsta Gangsta
Kiera Breaugh - This happened to me at a club
]]>
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                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[311: Kissing AI On The Lips]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I talk about the two audiobooks I’m listening to — spoiler alert, they’re science fiction — why I tend to put content creators on a pedestal and forget they’re human, and what I mean by "kissing AI on the lips."</p>
<p>Links</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.piercebrown.com/redrisingsaga" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Red Rising Saga</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Project_Hail_Mary" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Project Hail Mary</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/J-cole-false-prophets-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">J Cole - False Prophets</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Nwa-gangsta-gangsta-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">NWA - Gangsta Gangsta</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://youtu.be/V-nEHu9Cs8g?si=QfDMLwzoo3VNKyp2" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kiera Breaugh - This happened to me at a club</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I talk about the two audiobooks I’m listening to — spoiler alert, they’re science fiction — why I tend to put content creators on a pedestal and forget they’re human, and what I mean by "kissing AI on the lips."
Links

Red Rising Saga
Project Hail Mary
J Cole - False Prophets
NWA - Gangsta Gangsta
Kiera Breaugh - This happened to me at a club
]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:48:20</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[310: Watching the Cops Roll By]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2025 02:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
                <guid isPermaLink="true">
                    https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/61929/episode/2247316</guid>
                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/310-watching-the-cops-roll-by</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I get into a topic I’m saving for next time, the two guys in Texas who allegedly plotted to take over Haiti, and a workshop I recently attended on Black men’s mental health.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/2pac-it-aint-easy-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">2Pac - It Ain’t Easy</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/QuotesPorn/comments/1p4hvod/friendship_is_unnecessary_like_philosophy_like/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"Friendship is unnecessary like philosophy, like art, like the universe itself..." - C.S. Lewis</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/C0b4mcvM0HQ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"It’s challenging to talk about how you’re doing mentally since it’s an invisible injury..." - Simone Biles</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@teecheriestyle/video/7575570064846441759?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">My thoughts on those guys from Texas trying to “invade” Haiti by @teecheriestyle</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DnFC7_kRVzA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Two Texas Men Tried to Invade Haiti by Xevi</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.npr.org/2025/11/23/nx-s1-5618242/texas-haiti-gonave-island-plot" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Texas men indicted in plot to take over Haitian island and enslave women and children</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jade_tha_gemini/video/7575207016184991006" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Warship in the west,  hurricane in the east by @jade_tha_gemini</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I get into a topic I’m saving for next time, the two guys in Texas who allegedly plotted to take over Haiti, and a workshop I recently attended on Black men’s mental health.
Links

2Pac - It Ain’t Easy
"Friendship is unnecessary like philosophy, like art, like the universe itself..." - C.S. Lewis
"It’s challenging to talk about how you’re doing mentally since it’s an invisible injury..." - Simone Biles
My thoughts on those guys from Texas trying to “invade” Haiti by @teecheriestyle
Two Texas Men Tried to Invade Haiti by Xevi
Texas men indicted in plot to take over Haitian island and enslave women and children
Warship in the west,  hurricane in the east by @jade_tha_gemini
]]>
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                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[310: Watching the Cops Roll By]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I get into a topic I’m saving for next time, the two guys in Texas who allegedly plotted to take over Haiti, and a workshop I recently attended on Black men’s mental health.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/2pac-it-aint-easy-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">2Pac - It Ain’t Easy</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/QuotesPorn/comments/1p4hvod/friendship_is_unnecessary_like_philosophy_like/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"Friendship is unnecessary like philosophy, like art, like the universe itself..." - C.S. Lewis</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/C0b4mcvM0HQ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">"It’s challenging to talk about how you’re doing mentally since it’s an invisible injury..." - Simone Biles</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@teecheriestyle/video/7575570064846441759?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">My thoughts on those guys from Texas trying to “invade” Haiti by @teecheriestyle</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DnFC7_kRVzA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Two Texas Men Tried to Invade Haiti by Xevi</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.npr.org/2025/11/23/nx-s1-5618242/texas-haiti-gonave-island-plot" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Texas men indicted in plot to take over Haitian island and enslave women and children</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jade_tha_gemini/video/7575207016184991006" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Warship in the west,  hurricane in the east by @jade_tha_gemini</a></li>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I get into a topic I’m saving for next time, the two guys in Texas who allegedly plotted to take over Haiti, and a workshop I recently attended on Black men’s mental health.
Links

2Pac - It Ain’t Easy
"Friendship is unnecessary like philosophy, like art, like the universe itself..." - C.S. Lewis
"It’s challenging to talk about how you’re doing mentally since it’s an invisible injury..." - Simone Biles
My thoughts on those guys from Texas trying to “invade” Haiti by @teecheriestyle
Two Texas Men Tried to Invade Haiti by Xevi
Texas men indicted in plot to take over Haitian island and enslave women and children
Warship in the west,  hurricane in the east by @jade_tha_gemini
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:55:40</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[309: Beat Up By Love]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2025 00:56:24 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
                <guid isPermaLink="true">
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/309-beat-up-by-love</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I share a quote from Kendrick, talk about how feminism probably saved my life, reflect on the impact of Amber Czech’s tragic death,  get into a TikTok clip that reminded me why I started this podcast, and unpack how Ms. Momo Jenking, Teddy Pendergrass, and 2Pac had me thinking about my love life this week.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Teddy-pendergrass-love-tko-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Teddy Pendergrass Love TKO</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@worthiii/video/7574615561938799927?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kendrick said... by @worthiii</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/DamnThatsReal/comments/1p2th6r/girl_drugged_an_american_dude_and_emptied_out_his/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Girl drugged an American dude and emptied out his bank and his valuables</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ponyboy_kult/video/7574163301815389454?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7459548626362435078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Blue collar guys,  we failed Amber Czech</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@philgoodwithin/video/7574292642092174622?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Why I'm done explaining myself to people who don't get it.</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ms.momo.jenks/video/7574454125530844447?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7459548626362435078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Wounded Male Feminine</a></li>
</ul>]]>
                                    </description>
                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I share a quote from Kendrick, talk about how feminism probably saved my life, reflect on the impact of Amber Czech’s tragic death,  get into a TikTok clip that reminded me why I started this podcast, and unpack how Ms. Momo Jenking, Teddy Pendergrass, and 2Pac had me thinking about my love life this week.
Links

Teddy Pendergrass Love TKO
Kendrick said... by @worthiii
Girl drugged an American dude and emptied out his bank and his valuables
Blue collar guys,  we failed Amber Czech
Why I'm done explaining myself to people who don't get it.
The Wounded Male Feminine
]]>
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                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[309: Beat Up By Love]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I share a quote from Kendrick, talk about how feminism probably saved my life, reflect on the impact of Amber Czech’s tragic death,  get into a TikTok clip that reminded me why I started this podcast, and unpack how Ms. Momo Jenking, Teddy Pendergrass, and 2Pac had me thinking about my love life this week.</p>
<h2>Links</h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Teddy-pendergrass-love-tko-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Teddy Pendergrass Love TKO</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@worthiii/video/7574615561938799927?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kendrick said... by @worthiii</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/DamnThatsReal/comments/1p2th6r/girl_drugged_an_american_dude_and_emptied_out_his/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Girl drugged an American dude and emptied out his bank and his valuables</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ponyboy_kult/video/7574163301815389454?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7459548626362435078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Blue collar guys,  we failed Amber Czech</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@philgoodwithin/video/7574292642092174622?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Why I'm done explaining myself to people who don't get it.</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@ms.momo.jenks/video/7574454125530844447?is_from_webapp=1&amp;sender_device=pc&amp;web_id=7459548626362435078" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Wounded Male Feminine</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I share a quote from Kendrick, talk about how feminism probably saved my life, reflect on the impact of Amber Czech’s tragic death,  get into a TikTok clip that reminded me why I started this podcast, and unpack how Ms. Momo Jenking, Teddy Pendergrass, and 2Pac had me thinking about my love life this week.
Links

Teddy Pendergrass Love TKO
Kendrick said... by @worthiii
Girl drugged an American dude and emptied out his bank and his valuables
Blue collar guys,  we failed Amber Czech
Why I'm done explaining myself to people who don't get it.
The Wounded Male Feminine
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:43:38</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[308: Time To Set It Straight]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2025 03:13:33 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I talk about a nightmare I had the night before, why I even watch this sh*t, the Sopranos scene that hit differently this time, and how I finally made peace with being part of the undesired 80%.</p>
<p>Links:</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Big-daddy-kane-aint-no-half-steppin-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Big Daddy Kane - Ain’t No Half-Steppin’</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Landman_(TV_series)" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Landman (TV series)</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://memes.getyarn.io/yarn-clip/86ec536d-b021-42ce-ad4c-b09b4d9c703c" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Who’s the douchebag?</a> (The Sopranos S3 E9 - The Telltale Moozadell)</li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nubia.the.creator/video/7573689355336682807" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Nubia.the.creator - Are men and women compatible anymore?</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I talk about a nightmare I had the night before, why I even watch this sh*t, the Sopranos scene that hit differently this time, and how I finally made peace with being part of the undesired 80%.
Links:

Big Daddy Kane - Ain’t No Half-Steppin’
Landman (TV series)
Who’s the douchebag? (The Sopranos S3 E9 - The Telltale Moozadell)
Nubia.the.creator - Are men and women compatible anymore?
]]>
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                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[308: Time To Set It Straight]]>
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                    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I talk about a nightmare I had the night before, why I even watch this sh*t, the Sopranos scene that hit differently this time, and how I finally made peace with being part of the undesired 80%.</p>
<p>Links:</p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Big-daddy-kane-aint-no-half-steppin-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Big Daddy Kane - Ain’t No Half-Steppin’</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Landman_(TV_series)" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Landman (TV series)</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://memes.getyarn.io/yarn-clip/86ec536d-b021-42ce-ad4c-b09b4d9c703c" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Who’s the douchebag?</a> (The Sopranos S3 E9 - The Telltale Moozadell)</li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nubia.the.creator/video/7573689355336682807" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Nubia.the.creator - Are men and women compatible anymore?</a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I talk about a nightmare I had the night before, why I even watch this sh*t, the Sopranos scene that hit differently this time, and how I finally made peace with being part of the undesired 80%.
Links:

Big Daddy Kane - Ain’t No Half-Steppin’
Landman (TV series)
Who’s the douchebag? (The Sopranos S3 E9 - The Telltale Moozadell)
Nubia.the.creator - Are men and women compatible anymore?
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:46:20</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[307: Reality Is Catching Up With Me]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2025 02:32:21 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/307-reality-is-catching-up-with-me</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight:400;">In today’s episode, I get into the Dean Whither clip that grabbed my attention, how the Musk family continues to make white folks look bad, and the reason why I almost didn’t publish episode 306.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight:400;">Links:</span></h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Kanye-west-power-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:400;">Kanye West - Power</span></a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itsdeaann/video/7573076257127124255" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Dean Whither clip that got my attention</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Africa/comments/1oy4stg/from_800_to_50_million/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:400;">The Musk family continuing to make white people look bad</span></a></li>
</ul>
<h2><span style="font-weight:400;">Momen</span><span style="font-weight:400;">t of positivity:</span></h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@globalmindapparel/video/7572744985766890766" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:400;">Debbie Bolton</span></a></li>
</ul>]]>
                                    </description>
                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I get into the Dean Whither clip that grabbed my attention, how the Musk family continues to make white folks look bad, and the reason why I almost didn’t publish episode 306.
Links:

Kanye West - Power
The Dean Whither clip that got my attention
The Musk family continuing to make white people look bad

Moment of positivity:

Debbie Bolton
]]>
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                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[307: Reality Is Catching Up With Me]]>
                </itunes:title>
                                                <itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit>
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                    <![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight:400;">In today’s episode, I get into the Dean Whither clip that grabbed my attention, how the Musk family continues to make white folks look bad, and the reason why I almost didn’t publish episode 306.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight:400;">Links:</span></h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Kanye-west-power-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:400;">Kanye West - Power</span></a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itsdeaann/video/7573076257127124255" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Dean Whither clip that got my attention</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/Africa/comments/1oy4stg/from_800_to_50_million/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:400;">The Musk family continuing to make white people look bad</span></a></li>
</ul>
<h2><span style="font-weight:400;">Momen</span><span style="font-weight:400;">t of positivity:</span></h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@globalmindapparel/video/7572744985766890766" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:400;">Debbie Bolton</span></a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                                <itunes:summary>
                    <![CDATA[In today’s episode, I get into the Dean Whither clip that grabbed my attention, how the Musk family continues to make white folks look bad, and the reason why I almost didn’t publish episode 306.
Links:

Kanye West - Power
The Dean Whither clip that got my attention
The Musk family continuing to make white people look bad

Moment of positivity:

Debbie Bolton
]]>
                </itunes:summary>
                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:52:42</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
                </itunes:author>
                            </item>
                    <item>
                <title>
                    <![CDATA[306: Yo, Then What, Man, What?!]]>
                </title>
                <pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2025 01:52:46 +0000</pubDate>
                <dc:creator>B. Black</dc:creator>
                <guid isPermaLink="true">
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                                    <link>https://shutuppodcast.castos.com/episodes/306-yo-then-what-man-what</link>
                                <description>
                                            <![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight:400;">In this episode, I run through a list of things I won’t be talking about in a segment I’m tempted to call, “I’m not saying… but I’m saying.” After that, I get into a video by TikTok creator @Say_qis that I enjoyed - and white people didn’t, and then unpack how Neil deGrasse Tyson, Nas, and AZ managed to send me spiraling into yet another existential crisis.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight:400;">Links</span></h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/LearningToBecome/comments/1osffy1/let_them_be_disappointed/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:400;">You are not responsible for meeting everyone’s expectations.  Let them be disappointed.</span></a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@say_qis/video/7570197991500303671" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Say_qis: "...and if you think the mere idea of side eye is in any way comparable to literal segregation.….girl"</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/ScienceOdyssey/comments/1ot9m17/we_are_on_the_movescienceodyssey/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Neil deGrasse Tyson: "Ever wondered how Earth really moves through space?"</a>:</li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Nas-lifes-a-bitch-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Nas: Life’s a Bitch lyrics</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tw0sskCqrpI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Dr. Anna Lembke: The Power of Radical Honesty</a>:</li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLFqLoKoxF5/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:400;">Slavoj Žižek on the Inner Self Illusion</span></a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                <itunes:subtitle>
                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I run through a list of things I won’t be talking about in a segment I’m tempted to call, “I’m not saying… but I’m saying.” After that, I get into a video by TikTok creator @Say_qis that I enjoyed - and white people didn’t, and then unpack how Neil deGrasse Tyson, Nas, and AZ managed to send me spiraling into yet another existential crisis.
Links

You are not responsible for meeting everyone’s expectations.  Let them be disappointed.
Say_qis: "...and if you think the mere idea of side eye is in any way comparable to literal segregation.….girl"
Neil deGrasse Tyson: "Ever wondered how Earth really moves through space?":
Nas: Life’s a Bitch lyrics
Dr. Anna Lembke: The Power of Radical Honesty:
Slavoj Žižek on the Inner Self Illusion
]]>
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                                    <itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType>
                                <itunes:title>
                    <![CDATA[306: Yo, Then What, Man, What?!]]>
                </itunes:title>
                                                <itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit>
                <content:encoded>
                    <![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight:400;">In this episode, I run through a list of things I won’t be talking about in a segment I’m tempted to call, “I’m not saying… but I’m saying.” After that, I get into a video by TikTok creator @Say_qis that I enjoyed - and white people didn’t, and then unpack how Neil deGrasse Tyson, Nas, and AZ managed to send me spiraling into yet another existential crisis.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight:400;">Links</span></h2>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/LearningToBecome/comments/1osffy1/let_them_be_disappointed/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:400;">You are not responsible for meeting everyone’s expectations.  Let them be disappointed.</span></a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@say_qis/video/7570197991500303671" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Say_qis: "...and if you think the mere idea of side eye is in any way comparable to literal segregation.….girl"</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/ScienceOdyssey/comments/1ot9m17/we_are_on_the_movescienceodyssey/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Neil deGrasse Tyson: "Ever wondered how Earth really moves through space?"</a>:</li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://genius.com/Nas-lifes-a-bitch-lyrics" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Nas: Life’s a Bitch lyrics</a></li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tw0sskCqrpI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Dr. Anna Lembke: The Power of Radical Honesty</a>:</li>
<li style="font-weight:400;"><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLFqLoKoxF5/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span style="font-weight:400;">Slavoj Žižek on the Inner Self Illusion</span></a></li>
</ul>]]>
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                                <itunes:summary>
                    <![CDATA[In this episode, I run through a list of things I won’t be talking about in a segment I’m tempted to call, “I’m not saying… but I’m saying.” After that, I get into a video by TikTok creator @Say_qis that I enjoyed - and white people didn’t, and then unpack how Neil deGrasse Tyson, Nas, and AZ managed to send me spiraling into yet another existential crisis.
Links

You are not responsible for meeting everyone’s expectations.  Let them be disappointed.
Say_qis: "...and if you think the mere idea of side eye is in any way comparable to literal segregation.….girl"
Neil deGrasse Tyson: "Ever wondered how Earth really moves through space?":
Nas: Life’s a Bitch lyrics
Dr. Anna Lembke: The Power of Radical Honesty:
Slavoj Žižek on the Inner Self Illusion
]]>
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                                                                            <itunes:duration>00:45:18</itunes:duration>
                                                    <itunes:author>
                    <![CDATA[B. Black]]>
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