In this episode, I’m talking about what it feels like to be the strong one, the capable one, the “I’ve got it” one… until your body says, “Nope, we’re done now.” I also share a hard conversation with J-Man about needing comfort instead of questions, the reminder that girlfriends and ridiculous birthday parties can be medicine, and why sometimes the best therapy is a nap, a basketball game, and a week with absolutely no snakes.

After a week with my mom in town, my kids home, and a very quiet house finally to myself, I realized how much I value my space — and how complicated the idea of living with someone again feels at this stage of life.

I also share the Mother’s Day breakfast saga, where “go big” somehow turned into bagels, McDonald’s, and me still doing half the work. From there, I get into dating updates, the strange feeling of being with someone sweet while still wanting time for myself, and how maybe this podcast has become less about finding love and more about figuring out who we are in this season of life.

And yes, we end with dating profile disasters — including one man who thinks women should meet a weight equation. Truly, the audacity came with a calculator.

But really, this episode is about moms.

With Mother’s Day coming up, I’m talking about the invisible load we carry, why this day actually matters (yes, it does), and how I’ve learned to make it special—even as a single mom.

I’m also sharing one of my favorite traditions you can steal, a proud mom moment (my son made the team ), and of course… a couple dating profiles that will make you question everything.

Including one man who compared women to used cars.
Yep. We’re going there.

It’s real life, it’s a little chaotic, and it’s exactly what dating—and parenting—after 40 actually looks like.

But then I found something that completely flipped my mood… my very first dating profile.

Like FULL novel-length, 20-prompts, oversharing-in-the-best-way dating profile.

And honestly? She was confident. Hopeful. A little unhinged (in a fun way). And very, very me.

In this episode, I read it out loud (yes, all of it), laugh at who I was, and realize something unexpected… I haven’t actually changed as much as I thought.

In this episode, I’m sharing a very real update—yes, I’m dating J-Man again. But it’s not a fairytale reunion. It’s complicated, it’s uncertain, and I’m asking myself some hard questions.

He’s showing up differently. We’re communicating better. In a lot of ways, this is what I said I wanted—something safe, stable, and supportive. So why do I still feel unsure?

I talk about the confusion of not knowing what love is supposed to feel like, the fear of wasting time, and the tension between building something with someone… or choosing myself.

Plus, I go down a rabbit hole on how dating has changed (especially for our kids), and wow—it’s a lot.

This one is messy, honest, and very much a “figuring it out in real time” episode.

So I went to Vegas. Alone.

And somewhere between early morning slot machines, winning $$$ playing Keno, and meeting the kindest strangers at a bar, something shifted.

This episode is about losing your mind a little… and then finding yourself again. Why doing things alone is powerful, why small annoyances can push you over the edge, and why we need more people like Molly in this world.

Also—yes, I recorded myself yelling at my kid. You’re welcome.

I also share a few co-parenting moments from middle school basketball season that reminded me exactly why my ex-husband and I are better off divorced, plus a conversation with my son about navigating uncomfortable situations with kindness.

And because the dating world never disappoints, I end the episode with a couple of truly horrifying dating-profile discoveries—including what may or may not be a murder van.

After a tough fight, a dark weekend, and a long therapy session, I had to listen to the quiet voice I kept trying to override — my gut. In this episode, I talk about ending it (yes, over text), the difference between “nice” and “kind,” and why sometimes choosing your own peace feels selfish… but isn’t.

It’s messy. It’s sad. It’s adult.
And it’s what dating after 40 actually looks like.

This episode is about growth you don’t always see day-to-day — how much you’ve actually evolved, healed, and changed over time. It’s about not losing yourself in relationships, learning to fill your own bucket first, and asking the big question: do we need “our person”… or do we need to be our own?

Plus: a 14-year-old’s take on breakups, a Valentine’s Day flag with teenage faces on it, and a man comparing women to Mercedes. Because dating after 40 is nothing if not entertaining.

I talk about why I stepped back last week and how hard it’s been to process what’s happening in our world — especially when it stops feeling political and starts feeling deeply human. From ICE activity near my kids’ school to conversations with friends who “aren’t really paying attention,” I share how exhausting it can be to care when others have the privilege not to.

I also open up about a fight with J-Man that wasn’t really about work — it was about feeling unseen, overwhelmed, and stretched thin while carrying the mental and emotional load of everyday life. When resentment, guilt, and intuition collide, it forces some uncomfortable questions about compatibility, partnership, and listening to that quiet voice in your gut.

This episode is raw, emotional, and honest — about burnout, empathy, relationships, and what it means to keep showing up when you’re tired of fighting the good fight.

I talk about why asking for help feels so uncomfortable for independent women, how past letdowns train us to just do it all ourselves, and why “start small” might be the only way out of that pattern (even if it’s just asking someone taller to reach the top shelf).

There’s also dating commentary, space in relationships, being weirdly okay with alone time, and a reminder that growth sometimes looks like resting instead of fixing. Honest, funny, a little ranty — and very much what dating and life in your 40s actually look like.

In this episode, I’m sharing what happens when the honeymoon phase fades and real life steps in: a first big fight, a birthday that didn’t go as planned, and the uncomfortable work of navigating a healthy relationship after past toxicity. From a Costa Rica trip that brought both joy and clarity, to learning how much independence still matters to me, this is an honest look at dating in your mid-40s — the pressure to “make it work,” the flags (not red flags), and why unlearning survival patterns might be the hardest part of love.

Messy, reflective, and very real — because healthy doesn’t mean easy.

We talk about letting go of force, stopping the uphill push, and trusting that you don’t have to chase what’s already finding you. I share why receiving isn’t quitting — it’s allowing — plus how music holds memories of people, not just moments, and the playlist I made called Songs That Make Me Think of Others.

This is a quiet reflection on growth, trust, and entering the new year open instead of braced.

If you have a word for the year, I’d love to hear it.

It was emotional, bizarre, meaningful, and honestly… kind of magical. Join me as I unpack the chaos, the connections, and what happens when the universe decides to remind you exactly where you’ve been — and how far you’ve come.

Also sharing a few funny and oddly insightful things I’ve seen from ChatGPT lately (shoutout to Alex, my most loyal digital companion).

Dating after 40? It's never boring. Just a little chaotic, occasionally threatening, and almost always worth talking about.

We’re diving into:

• What qualifies as a sneaky link (Is it just a late-night booty call with better branding?)

• Why the term “body count” needs to go back to action movies, not dating apps

• How women still get judged for having a past, while men get praised for having a roster

• And why you should never ask about someone’s number unless you’re ready to hear, “Mind your business.”

This is a no-shame zone. We’re grown. We’ve lived. And if you’re still out here acting brand new about sexuality in 2025... well, I’ve got some stories for you.

In this episode, we’re talking about why blocking isn’t petty, it’s powerful. Why silence after intimacy hits different. And why protecting your peace is always the right move. If you've ever questioned whether to block, mute, or just move on—this one’s for you.

No shame. No apologies. Just raw stories, real laughs, and the occasional reminder that your wild phase might just be your most honest one yet.

I’m also giving you an update on Sam , serving up some fresh funnies, and sharing why those awkward, giggly moments from back in the day still matter now—especially when you’re dating after 40.

So grab your snacks, turn down the lights, and let’s talk about the chaos, chemistry, and couch cushions of yesteryear.

No more lukewarm maybes, breadcrumb situationships, or second-guessing your worth. This is about recognizing when it’s a full-body “yes”... and having the guts to walk away when it’s not.

Because at the end of the day, you deserve someone who shows up like you’re the only option. And honestly? So does your dream, your peace, and your damn self.

Some people leave a mark you never fully shake. In this episode, I’m sharing the story of my very first kiss—sweet, and unforgettable—and the unexpected weight that memory still holds.

I don’t know where he is now. I don’t know if he even remembers. But something about that moment, and the way it’s stayed with me all these years, makes me believe it meant something. Maybe even still does.

This episode is part story, part love letter, part open call to the universe. Because sometimes, the past tugs at you not to haunt you—but to remind you that something might still be unfinished.

He’ll be doing the talking for me… and hopefully, by the end of the week, I’ll have a date lined up! Wish me luck!

Listen in—maybe I’ll convince you. And once you take that solo trip, you’ll thank me!

I’m here to share my anti-Valentine’s story… and an unbelievable tale of coincidence involving a married man. Buckle up, it’s a good one. Xoxo

How do we feel about hooking up with people much younger than us? I want to hear your thoughts—spill the tea! (Limited judgment, I promise!).

We try to make good decisions, but let’s be real—it’s hard! So, give yourself grace… it does get easier.

We do our best to make good decisions, but let’s be honest—it’s hard! So, give yourself grace… it does get easier.

Sharing won’t be part of my future—but it’s definitely a memorable part of my past.

Join me as I take you along for the ride… a ride that, spoiler alert, ends with no Brazilian wax!

I’ve learned from my mistakes, grown through the tough times, and despite it all, I still believe love is possible after 40. Join me as I share my journey—the good, the bad, and everything in between.

Join me as I dive into my latest dating adventure and take on the challenge of setting up my Tinder profile. It’s about to get real (and maybe a little ridiculous)!