This week we're joined by streamer extraordinaire and Frayzh newbie DeadBlossomJesse for a top tier episode.

This week we're joined by streamer extraordinaire and Frayzh newbie DeadBlossomJesse for a top tier episode. Just listen to it it's real good. We also discuss a bunch of non-sequitur nonsense and discover Jesse's hatred of the vile Rugrats.

Thanks again to DBJ for joining us find them on Twitch and Youtube @DeadBlossomJesse

Friends won't get off the dating apps! | Baddy at the workplace, what do? | Partner showed me a video of an old man wearing an oxygen mask jerking off, is that... what? 

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Thanks again to Pat for joining us - find him on Youtube @pat_finnerty and watch What Makes This Song Stink, might be my favorite channel I'll say it.

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Thanks again to Caitlin for joining us! Go follow her on Twitch @slowpukeLIVE she is excellent

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Video we referenced: Janet Jackson - Would You Mind Live Washington DC

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Thanks to Tony for joining us, we love him and you should check out his show and socials @wordisbondtv

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Thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Love, Loss, and Flagging

Then, we've got a great ep this week as we're once again joined by Brian Alford from The Worst of All Possible Worlds. We're all pretty wiped, we talk about Brian's recent move and the slog of assembling furniture, and then it's your questions.

Thanks again to Brian for joining us, go listen to The Worst of All Possible Worlds wherever you listen to us, they're incredible.

Thank you for listening ❤️

Thanks again to Frankie for joining us, find his stream on Twitch @WizWorldLive

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Thanks again to Jesse for joining us! Check out their stuff at https://twitch.tv/DeadBlossomJesse and on the Stores podcast with another great past guest, Luke Taylor!

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Thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier bonus series and 200+ eps in the backlog that's Patreon.com/rftb

Thanks again to Frank for joining us, go follow him pretty much everywhere @FrankJavCee and keep an eye out for new music releasing the rest of the year!

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Thanks again to Tom for joining us, go listen to Anime Sickos wherever you find us and if you're in Chicago come see Genius Night at Cafe Mustache!

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Thanks again to BJ for joining us, go check out the h_dubb stream at twitch.tv/h_dubb if you haven't!

And also go check out Dono's new stream every Wednesday around 8pm CT at twitch.tv/DonoHell

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Just Audrey and Andrew cuttin' it up big style, lots of fun, good chat. Do it up!

Sick of being pigeonholed as a Big Mommy | Drug drama in relationship | And more

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Thanks again to Alex for joining us, go check out coolalextraining.com if you want some personal training with the legend himself. All comedy aside Alex is strong as hell and knows what he's doing and is just a good dude, you should train with him!

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Korla and Audrey do some cultural analysis re: dating apps and enshittification coupled with atomization and capitalism and encourage a listener to do the right thing re: someone who's real into them that they're just not that into.

The Torment Nexus but for getting dicks in your butt. LFG!

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Moved in with a partner after a long distance relationship and it's going real bad | How much to reveal about yourself on a dating app when you have a lot of personal projects out there and you don't want it to get parasocial-y | Struggling with being avoidant in stressful situations

Thanks again to Charlotte for joining us, find her on Twitch @coollike and go listen to What's All This Then it's a real great listen!

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Friend keeps having dinner parties but they're kind of a bad cook | Dating apps making you feel weird

Thanks again to Luke for joining us! Go check out his podcast Stores with past guest DeadBlossomJesse wherever you find podcasts. And follow him on Twitch at https://www.twitch.tv/thelukeman

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Check out Nakamus' stream here
https://www.twitch.tv/nakamus

Libby questions | Friend is dating a guy who really sucks and won't stop talking about Ron Paul | Update on the friend who ghosted you question from a couple eps ago

Thanks again to Libby for joining us, find her on Twitch @libtron and check out her new show What's All This Then it gets the Dono stamp of approval! Certified! 

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Go listen to Homie Vulgaris it's great Marcos is one of a kind, thanks again to him for joining!

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Thanks again to Xavier for joining, find them and their music on Insta @hag.trap

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We are joined by returning champion, your friend and mine, MaryMary! as we discuss such trenchant topics as: "What's up, how ya been?" And "The Horrors!"

Then, your questions!

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keep an eye out for MaryMary!'s new single on streaming soon!

Followed by your questions but I don't feel like figuring out which ones so you'll have to listen!

Librarypunk.gay for Justin's podcast

0-pix.bandcamp.com for Audrey's music

Boosh

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Thanks again to Ash for joining us, go watch the videohellsystem stream here at twitch.tv/videohellsystem

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People fuckin with Harris | Wildest things we've heard on a date | Relationship orientation mismatch | Catholic guilt time

Thanks again to Beetlemoses for joining us, absolute homie, go check out his comics on Insta and everywhere else @beetlemoses

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Listener questions and good jokes.

We ride out on a live recording of Donovan performing Sports by Viagra Boys at The Burlington Bar.

Sorry it's late! Haven't posted a main feed in 10 goddamn days! Don't worry! We're back!

It's kinda fun! It was actually fun to do!

No Dono this week for medical reasons (they'll be fine, they're just going through it, prayers up,) but we're joined by the lovely and talented Kayte Terry to aid you in healing your miseries.

Check out Kayte on her podcasts!

Fangs for the Memories!
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fangs-for-the-memories/id1600491257

and Tender Subject!
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tender-subject/id1692462745

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WELCOME! To Dono's High Effort Summer™

This week Dono's bringing a high effort segment/game that was absolutely not cribbed from any other show! Tell us if you like it! Don't tell us if you don't! Also reddit questions.

Thanks for your support folks we love ya!

Discord: https://discord.gg/EA9NrtSatR

Worms - Viagra Boys

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WQQMJBNS42g

'96 Neve Campbell - clipping.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tq-hODfHPf0

It's a dry ep but we get to a lot of questions including an update on that date with an alcoholic. 

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Thanks again to Alex for joining us, go find her stuff on bsky @hausofdecline and buy Igor the Assistant in print here

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Thanks again for Evelyn for joining us! You can find her writing here: https://evelynlovelace.substack.com/

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We are joined this week by Korla as well as a bevy of listeners who shared their embarrassing dating and relationship stories! There's drama! There's battle damage! We've got it all this week on Radio Free Tote Bag!

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We are joined this week by Shoggoth from The Ain't Shit Show! It's a blast!

We address the following!

A listener gifts us a spreadsheet. | How do you find success on the apps? | What are some poly-specific terms we can use for partners and situationships? | Date said dating app pics look different from real-life. It has rocked the listner's psyche. Whaddya do with that!? | What if we kissed but it wasn't kiss guys night? | How do you explain you wanna be monogamous without coming off like an asshole? 

Thank you so much for tuning in! 
Check out Shoggy on The Ain't Shit Show!

Take a gander at our Patreon! 

You're doin' great out there! We're joined by fan favorite AJ Ditty from the Worst of all Possible Worlds to discuss your relationship difficulties as well as what liquors ghomes would drink. 

Your questions!

So you're a bottom with digestive issues. How butt stuff? | Partner has repeated pushed/broken boundaries under non-monogamy. Is this airhorns? | A question for Lorne Lagorium. | Is it a Nutty Buddy or a Nutty Debbie?

Check out A.J.'s wonderful podcast!
https://www.worstpossible.world/

Donovan fell ill this week and so we are joined this week by friend of the show, partner of the me, Korla! Tell her she did a good job cohosting! We discuss video games we've been playing and Korla's upcoming visit to Cincinnati to come see me! Then, we handle some listener questions!

How do I get my brother to give me my road bike back!? | How do my wife of 20 years and I ease our way into participating in orgies? | How do I get my girlfriend back? I'm down bad and she's busy with children and medical issues? | What characters are you romancing/fucking in Baldur's Gate III? | I'm a transbian and now that I've met another trans woman, we're having  whirlwind romance. What red flags should I be looking for in this fast-moving relationship? | What dating apps are good for ethical non-monogamous dating?

Thank you for joining us folks! We had fun and hope you did too!

Check out our Patreon!

Check out Data Transfer!

Check out Post Ponies!

Thanks again to Kassidy for joining us, truly lovely person!

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Thanks again to Jesse for joining us, go check out her animations on YouTube here they're so good: https://www.youtube.com/@mallbat

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Thanks again to Nate, go follow him on Bluesky @vrunt.social and also check out Gamer Dilbert and the rest of Powerup Comics @powerupcomics and the other stuff

And thank you for tuning in, go support us on Patreon and get you some bonus episodes each week, over 200 in the backlog, Frasier bonus series, streams, stickers, more! Patreon.com/RFTB

Thanks again to Max for joining us! Find him on Bluesky @maximumgraves and check out his comic What Happens Next right here https://whathappensnext.webcomic.ws/

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~ORIGINAL DESCRIPTION~

Welcome back to mf character zone! What's up gang we're back after our live show sorry for the delay its been a chaotic week but it's showtime once again! We recap the live show, talk music and some great shows we went to over the weekend, debut Dono's new character The Rigatoni Jabroni and then Reddit questions.

Bit of a TW for one of the questions - I give a heads up before we get into it so watch out for that.

Thanks for your support folks we love yall, hope 2024 is treating ya alright so far ❤️

Thanks for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Thanks again to Crud Country, go find em on Insta and Youtube and Tiktok to watch their stuff it's extremely good! Here's a couple of my favs:

My Weekend As A 28yo In Chicago

I Hosted A Dinner For 8 Great Men

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Is it fucked up to jerk it thinking of a friend | Dating when you go to alaska for work every three months | Is foreplay supposed to be a two-way street? (Yes) | Weird spot with a guy where youre bein cute with each other but its not a relationship relationship

Thanks again to Deanna for joining us go listen to The Worst Week Yet wherever ya find podcasts

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Dating app profile advice returns | Dipping toes into g e n d e r | Update on friend getting back together with crappy ex | Another one I can't remember

Thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Thanks again to the Gock gals for joining us, find them on Insta @gocknroll and listen to their music wherever ya find music!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Recommended resources that informed our views on sexuality | New partner seems to be doing a lot of shit-talking to you about their other partner

Thanks again to Jon and Natalie for joining us, find Fun With Sex wherever you get podcasts or on TikTok/Insta, and find their Chicago events on Insta @slutspartychi

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Thanks again to Mary for joining us, go listen to her music as MaryMary! and find her on insta @marymarychic

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Having trouble cumming during sex and partner is feeling bad about that | Relationship of over a year is feeling off | Is Libby mad at chat? | Response to the nausea/eating problems question from last week

Thanks again to Libby for joining us, lovely person, find her on Twitch @libtron and Bluesky @libbycwatson

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Help finding a side hustle without getting burnt out | Follow up to weight loss kink question | Partner has issues with eating

Thanks again to Very Tall Bart for joining us, go find his stuff on Youtube and Bluesky @verytallbart and you can find info on his trans support organization at loushouse.org

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Feeling lightly weird when people find out you've been in a relationship since high school | Friends keep asking for help moving but they're kind of hoarders and are never packed up when you get there | Having trouble wanting to be intimate with people after a breakup

Thanks again to Brian for joining us, go check out The Worst of All Possible Worlds if you haven't already it's a great show and we've been on a few times. And if you have already? Do it again! Right now! GO GO GO!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Navigating being aromantic but wanting to have kids | Cheap date ideas for when ya broke | How do you wipe?

Thanks again to Eli for joining us, go check out his podcast What A Time To Be Alive (with past guest Kath Barbadoro) it's one of my weekly listens. And find him on Insta @chilisrestaurants

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

How do you smile through the pain of a divorce | Stressing about dating as a newly out trans woman with no sexual experience | How to tell your friend you want to go to their sex party

Thanks again to Jesse for joining us, absolutely lovely human being. Go watch their stream @DeadBlossomJesse on Twitch or see the recordings on their Youtube channel!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Dating while living with your parents | Partner seems to be using their autism as an excuse to be shitty to you | Afraid you're becoming an incel

Thanks again to Marcos for joining us, find him and his show on socials @Aintershow!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb, plus our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Dating as women for the first time as a newly out gay woman is stressing you out! | Things are going great but you have no one to share life with - what do you do when your relationship needs are specific and you're having no luck?

UPDATE FROM KATIE: "The caramel was good"

Thanks again to Katie for joining us! Follow her on Bluesky she's excellent @juicysteak117.gay and on Letterboxd at KatherineTea

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Update to the music festival ex question from last week | How to cope with not having someone to always text and flirt with after a breakup | Can't seem to find motivation to make art even though you want to | Keep seeing someone you think you went to school with at the grocery store but not sure whether to say something

Thanks again to Dan for joining us, go hear him on Blocked Party (while supplies last) and Your Kickstarter Sucks and find him on socials @Early90sPants

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

GF can't cum and seems fine with that but you're not | Someone writes in about hemorrhoids for some reason | Weight/body image issues making you feel like shit

Thanks again to Bryan for joining us, follow him on socials @murderxbryan and listen to Guys podcast wherever you listen to us!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week (plus the new Frasier bonus series) at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Thanks for tuning in folks! Want to support the show and get a bonus episode each week, plus our Frasier bonus series PLUS stickers PLUS OUR DISCORD AND MORE?? Griddy on over to Patreon.com/rftb

Ended friendship with a guy after he turned out to be a creep, are you a bad person for having been friends with them? | Ex's friends/your neighbors are "mean gays" and they're talking shit about your ex but you're no contact - do you say something? | In love with your best friend to the degree that you had to come clean and ask for space - how do you know when you can go back?

Thanks again to Kath for joining us, we love her, find her on socials @kathbarbadoro and listen to What A Time To Be Alive and Lie Cheat And Steal wherever you find podcasts!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb!

Sitting in as Definitely Not Donovan Donovan this week is friend of the show Andrew Hilary joining us for a rollicking discussion of your questions, queries, quandaries and other sundries.

We answer these burning questions!

A listener updates us on an apology to an ex. | Is it problematic to stay friends with an ex? | Unicorn is growing angry at being forced into that role. What do? | Friend is probably gonna get back together with their shitty ex. How do you tell them no without being relentlessly negative?

Check out The Worst Week Yet everywhere you find your podcasts!

Check out our Patreon! Patreon.com/RFTB

A relationship is long over and there's still guilt about how a listener treated their ex partner. Should they contact them and apologize? | Someone encourages your friend to go monogamous and she goes for it. Then the guy cheats! They make up after the cheating and then the friend treats you poorly. THEN you find the partner on Tinder!? What the hell! | A FINAL mention of the Blocked Party toilet jerk-off question. | A friend is into you and you're not into them. That's all well and good, but you ARE into their friend? How much should you spare the friend's feelings?

Follow Rebecca on Twitter!
https://x.com/ralter

Check out our Patreon!
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Then, listener questions!

Anxious/Depressed person with ADHD has it all but the ability to text back. How do you find success in dating? | Partner has a physical illness preventing them from taking care of their half of the chores and you're getting burnt out. How do you navigate this? | Girlie at the gym is flirting with you, a happily married man. What's next?

Thanks so much to Tåsi for joining us! We had a lot of fun!

Follow her at @islandgoth on Bluesky

Check out our Patreon for bonus episodes and video content!

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Dating after being hardcore gaslit | Struggling with the initial loneliness after moviing to a new city | Nebraska dog - good or nah? | Where HAVE all the cowboys gone?

Thanks again to Darren for joining us, go listen to PROBLEMS it's really good music and it's on streaming and keep an eye out for tour dates!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week (plus the new Frasier bonus series) at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Relearning how to have sex after gaining the ability to orgasm for the first time | Another scorcher | How to stop being an over-apologizer | Another response to the crankin' it in the toilet survey

Thanks again to Ash for joining us, listen to Horror Vanguard wherever you find us!

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Follow-up from the sexy mailman who wrote in | Gender dysphoria from a disability? | Best coffee table books to INTIMIDATE GUESTS

Thanks again to all the Librarypunk punks for joining us, they're great we've been on their show go check it out at librarypunk.gay

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Like stickers! Discord! And a new Frasier series we're doing on account of hitting our Patreon goal! Patreon.com/rftb gogogo

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A mysterious insect cartoonist wonders what the calling card of 2020s music will be | How different is FJC online vs offline? | Partner looking at cis porn every time you have sex and it's making you insecure | Several responses to the Toilet Jerkoff Survey

Thanks again to Frank for joining us, this one was a blast! Find him basically everywhere as FrankJavCee

And thank you for tuning in! Hey want to support the show AND get bonus episodes each week PLUS almost 200 in the backlog AND Discord access AND sticker AND MORE? Head to patreon.com/RFTB gogogo

Poly but a new partner is making you want to go monogamous | Wanting to leave your twitch cohost in a glue trap | Wondering if you're mediocre at life (you aren't) | Would you help your friend jerk it??

Thanks again to Stefan for joining us (and bumping us over our $500 goal! what a homie) You can find him on Bluesky @stefanheck and check out his work on Blocked Party pod and the Go Off Kings stream on Twitch!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week, access to over 180 eps in the backlog, Discord access, a sticker, and MORE at Patreon.com/rftb 

Trying not to fall into codependency again and SPOOKED | You're a mailman and you keep getting hit on and you're worried it's gonna cause problems

Thanks again to Robin for joining us, we love her and you should check out her music! Find her and her stuff on social media @robinhatch on Twitter and @robin__hatch on Insta

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! If we get two more Patrons we're doing a Frasier watch/rewatch, make it happen!

A new listener says very nice things about us but is worried about overcoming their disability | Beer and margarita guy follow up | Rat Girl Summer | Pedal circuit question | Partner wants you to learn Chinese but turns out it's real hard | Would Johnny date a fan?? | Most annoying type of relationship to see in public?

Thanks again to Johnny for joining us, seriously go listen to HEALTH and see them live when they're near you, extremely great band! And find em on Insta @_HEALTH_

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff like streams and stickers wow!

How do you navigate seeing people you know on dating apps? | A beer and a margarita is a cause for concern? If you've ONLY had a beer and a margarita? | An existential sub follows up. | What do you do to cope in the hours and days following a breakup of a relationship of 5 years? | For Beetlemoses: What comics did you expect to be successful that were less so? | For Beetlemoses: What motivates you every day and which is your favorite comic that you've done?

Thanks again to Beetlemoses for joining us! What a homie!

Check out the comics here! https://comicskingdom.com/beetle-moses

Follow Beetlemoses on Twitter and Instagram! @Beetlemoses on both!

Partner is saying your friend is too mean to you | Feel like you're not asexual anymore after a psychdelic experience? | What would we name a race horse | Feeling weird because you're still friends with someone who has distanced themself from your other friends | 

Donovan is Siskel coded.

A listener follows up about setting up their friend who has autism. | How do you *not* masturbate because you believe its effecting your sexual energy for your partner? | We don't care for coochie coochie coo. Also, should you let your freak flag fly on the dating apps? | How do you get to a place where you're okay with being a stay-at-home sub? How do you find internal validation?

Thanks again to Alex for joining us! He's considering starting a new podcast! You can contribute to a survey to help him get some figure out how to go about starting/sustaining that below!

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How much oil is TOO much in your pee? | A lovely follow-up on the unexpected pregnancy question from last week | Partner won't knock off the baby voice | Catching flak for a pretty reasonable kink

Thanks again to Kayte for joining us! Check out her shows Fangs For The Memories and Tender Subject - we've been on both! And find her on socials @kayteterry to see her rad art

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff like sticker! and Discord!

Friends with both sides post-breakup - how to handle social event invitations | How to navigate accidentally getting one your partners pregnant in a poly relationship | Feeling not-put-together at 29 | Anxious about getting back into dating after not having sex for 14 years

Thanks again to John for joining us, what a homie! Listen to Blocked Party and What Is A Jeopardy Podcast whever you listen to us. And find the link to John's upcoming show below:

Broomgate: A Curling Scandal - https://link.chtbl.com/ijykS7P8

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Follow up from the listener who felt like they didn't have a strong sense of personality | You've got big social anxiety, should you fight it to go to an out of town party? (I say yes) | How do I stop crushing on every attractive person?

Thanks again to David for joining us! Follow him on Insta @killtveite and look out for him doin standup!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

How pull weirdo baddies? | Follow up on befriending a quiet person | Partner stopped engaging with their passions but said they're not depressed

Thanks again to Merritt for joining us! You can find her most places @merrittk and find her new book LAN Party wherever ya buy books!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb plus 180+ backlog episodes, a sticker, and more Patreon.com/rftb

How to be a flirt without making people unccomfortable? | Getting past residual "men are trash" bad feelings when topping after transitioning | When/how to mediate when your partners are fighting with each other

Thanks again to Rivka for joining us! Listen to her podcast Movies vs Capitalism wherever ya find us and follow her on insta @therivkarivera

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week, Discord access, a sticker and more at Patreon.com/rftb

Followup question on feeling out your sexuality and desire | Double compliment! RIP McAfee! | Friend is newly out as trans and she's doing great but she keeps making digs at you about how she's glad she doesn't look like that anymore | How to get back into dating after some bad experiences

Thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff what a steal Patreon.com/rftb

New LGBTQ - Where tf are the gays? | Is this person into you and what should you have said? | Dad won't stop talking about podcasts

Thanks again to Brad for joining us! Again, go listen to his show it rocks, look up Self Worst wherever you're listening to this.

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week plus stickers, Discord access, and streams at Patreon.com/rftb

How to find a creative outlet | Audrey is really cute and writes bangers | How to survive as a beefy thicc boy | Navigating a snoring partner who's disrupting your sleep

Thanks again to Tony for joining us! Listen to Minion Death Cult wherever you get your podcasts and find him on Insta @wordisbondtv

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as Discord access, a sticker, streams, and more

Struggling with sexuality after trauma but unsure if ace or just figuring things out | In a great relationship but potentially have to move back home - would an LDR be worth it? | How to befriend a quiet person? | Already in love after leaving a long time marriage - should you be taking space to process the divorce and not dating?

Thanks again to Brian for joining us, extremely good people, go listen to The Worst of All Possible Worlds wherever you find podcasts or at worstpossible.world and follow Brian on Bsky @spocksbrian.worstpossible.world

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

The Spongebob Podcast
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Thanks again to Lavender for joining us! You can find her on Insta @theconvincingactor and find her music under the same name!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! What a steal! Thief!

Thanks again to Dave for joining us! Find all his stuff at davehillonline.com

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

We're joined this week by Brad Pearson from Self Worst podcast, a show we both recently guested on that I cannot recommend enough. We're on a similar sincerity wavelength. We're also in a goofy as hell mood on this one so buckle in. We talk about my horrific congestion, Brad's show, and get a great embarassing dating story about a very personal question. And then your questions:

TW on this first one - a follow up to a reddit question from the bonus | Having trouble keeping friends | A comment that I do not understand | Creepy dad problems when you're trying to support your bedridden mom

Thanks again to Brad for joining us! Again, go listen to his show it rocks, look up Self Worst wherever you're listening to this.

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week plus stickers, Discord access, and streams at Patreon.com/rftb

Then we do some questions!

How do you, an ADHD having adult who was diagnosed in childhood, handle a partner with a recent ADHD diagnosis navigate impuslvity in spending? How do you address rejection sensitive dysphoria? | A listener follow up about a long-distance age gap relationship. | A harrowing question about family chaos and what to do about a parent who is threatening to harm theirself if you move away. | An RFTB Classic: We give advice to somone who feels trapped in their job and too paralyzed to make a change. (spoiler, you're not!)

Content warning for suicide mention at ~49 minutes in.

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Kind of accidentally became poly, what should you know? | Challenges of dating a sex worker? | Should you break up with someone as soon as you know you need to, or wait for a holiday/important event to pass?

Thanks again to Tim for joining us! Find him on Bluesky and Twitter @crulge(.urinal.club)

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wowza!

We killed it at the live show! (thank you!) | Partner went to visit their other partner and that other partner ignored them for their other partner! | Keep hearing you give off more of a friend vibe what do you do? | Another one I forgot

Thanks for tuning in folks and thanks to everybody who came to the live show we love y’all ya made our year already ❤️

You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Then, of course, the listener queries from our Question Box!

We offer some guidance to a person who's just ended a long relationship in the midst of a shift in their gender identity. | How do you handle a friend group that ~just~ wants to go to bars and shows when you want to do lower key things? | When you're making art, do you have the audience in mind or do you create for *you?* | I'm a guy but I feel ~gender~ feelings when I see attractive women. What do I do?

Then we talk about Nick Kroll's dad and Blink-182's connections to the military industrial complex.

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LIVE SHOW! Come see RFTB on stage in Chicago at The Hideout, Saturday January 20th tickets here: https://www.etix.com/ticket/p/33413936/radio-free-tote-bag-chicago-hideout-chicago

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How to slide into DMs on Discord? | How to handle resenting a friend who is "perfect" and makes you feel bad by comparison? | Update on the "saying bro during sex" question | So hot that it's making people always message you mundane compliments on dating apps (what a struggle!) 

Thanks again to Tom for joining us! Listen to Ten Thousand Losses wherever ya find your podcasts!

LIVE SHOW! Come see RFTB on stage in Chicago at The Hideout, Saturday January 20th tickets here: https://www.etix.com/ticket/p/33413936/radio-free-tote-bag-chicago-hideout-chicago

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb!

Navigating exploring your sexuality for the first time during gender transition | How to not shock your cat with static (an absolute tragedy) | How to stop cohabitating with your partner without breaking up | Passed out from hookah on a first date | Can you make a relationship work when you're both bottoms?

Thanks again to Craig for joining, seriously a gem of a human! Find him on insta @itsmecraiglee and check out his VO classes at Real Voice LA

RFTB LIVE SHOW! Saturday, January 20th at The Hideout in sunny Chicago! Get tickets here we'd love to see you: https://www.etix.com/ticket/p/33413936/radio-free-tote-bag-chicago-hideout-chicago

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as Discord access, a sticker, and more!

How to get back on track with your routine after a big depressive episode | How to find community in queer spaces that aren't strictly for gay men, as a gay man | Can't make a relationship last longer than three months is there something wrong with you?

Thanks again to Grace for joining us, listen to The Girl God Experience wherever you find podcasts and go see Girl God LIVE in LA January 6th tickets here: https://www.elysiantheater.com/shows/girlgod0106

Speakin of live shows, come see RFTB LIVE in Chicago at the Hideout, Saturday January 20th tickets here: https://www.etix.com/ticket/p/33413936/radio-free-tote-bag-chicago-hideout-chicago

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb!

Split between two potential partners who both want monogamy | Nice words for us and also what’s some growth we’re proud of this year? | New to gay stuff - can you call a guy bro during sex? | Bring back Horse Dono | Actually belly jiggling during sex is hot

Thanks to Dylan for joining us find him on Twitter @itsprobablycrab

RFTB LIVE SHOW! Saturday, January 20th at The Hideout in sunny Chicago! Get tickets here we'd love to see you: https://www.etix.com/ticket/p/33413936/radio-free-tote-bag-chicago-hideout-chicago

And finally thank you for listening! You can support us and get a bonus episode each week, discord access, a sticker, and more at patreon.com/rftb

How to support a depressed partner when their material conditions are bad and out of their control? | Is that actually sugaring or just a relationship with a weird power dynamic? | How to support a friend when you're both dealing with mental health struggles?

Thanks again to Rory for coming on the show! Check out her podcast Crimes of the Heart it's excellent and follow her on Insta @icouldbeblonder

RFTB LIVE SHOW! Saturday, January 20th at The Hideout in sunny Chicago! Get tickets here we'd love to see you: https://www.etix.com/ticket/p/33413936/radio-free-tote-bag-chicago-hideout-chicago

And finally thank you for listening! You can support us and get a bonus episode each week, discord access, a sticker, and more at patreon.com/rftb

Getting back together casually with a former romantic partner and it's good but is that good? | Is the relationship losing its luster or are you just depressed? | Miserable in your current city and wanting to move but is the grass actually greener on the other side? | Introducing your trans partner to your grandma, how to feel this out?

Thanks again to Korla for joining us! Listen to Data Transfer and Post Ponies wherever ya find our show!

LIVE SHOW! Chicago at The Hideout Saturday 1/20 get tickets here: https://hideoutchicago.com/event/radio-free-tote-bag/hideout-chicago/chicago/

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

How to break up with someone you live with? | Ready to come back to dating after six years of working on yourself but still not feeling ready? | Been feeling low and empty and not enjoying things but suicide jokes are giving a weird dopamine boost. What's happening here?

Thanks again to Mo for joining us! Follow him on Bsky @bongineer.cloud and his photography on Insta @wolverine.photos

And thanks to Josh for stepping in as guest host! Go listen to The Worst Of All Possible Worlds it's a great show we love em

And finally thank you for listening! You can support us and get a bonus episode each week, discord access, a sticker, and more at patreon.com/rftb

Lovely update from the person who asked about dating someone with autism | Family your parents cut off are trying to reenter your life, should you let them in? | Feeling skeezy putting yourself out there in the dating world even though you'd never think of anyone else like that

Thanks again to Sarafina for joining us! Find her at https://sarafinavecchio.com/

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Your kids love the zoo but your wife wants to explain that it's a bad time for the animals and you agree but you don't want to ruin the zoo - what doo? | High stress job fucking up your ability to do anything else - stick it out? Or somehow find the energy to find something new? And how do that?? | Correlation between not having a type and aphantasia?

Thanks again to June for joining us, find her on Bluesky @junlper.bsky.social and listen to Western Kabuki wherever ya found this podcast!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as Discord access, stickers, and other cool stuff it's incredible what a steal!

EDIT: I reuploaded the audio, soundboard cues should be fixed now, my b.

Buffyverse Boyfriend Watch | Is it kosher to rematch with someone on a dating app after kind of ghosting them a year ago? | A discussion of BORG and Riot Punch | Trouble supporting a partner with chronic illness while working a demanding job and needing to handle most housework | Feeling self-conscious about entering the dating world/queer scene as a newly out 42yo | Can't seem to ever make it past the second date

Thanks again to Kayte and Leslie for joining us, we love them! Follow them on Bluesky @lesliejrising and @wormbuxx and listen to their podcasts Fangs For The Memories and Tender Subject!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/RFTB where this week we're covering long distance relationships with our friend Mo! Plus immediate access to over 150 episodes in the backlog wow what a deal, Patreon.com/RFTB

Coming out as trans to your bigoted parents while you're stuck living with them for a couple more months? We say ya don't have to | Struggling with telling people you use she/her pronouns bc you feel you're still too masc looking 

Thanks again to Brynn for joining us! Listen to her band Stay Inside and her podcasts Generation Loss and Beep Beep Lettuce!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Dating an autistic person and having trouble conversationally | Navigating an open marriage when your kids and your partner's kids all go to school together | How to handle a friend who's always talking down to himself | A second date (or is it?) and how to proceed

Thanks again to Drew for joining us! Follow him on Bluesky @drewtoothpaste.bsky.social and check out Everything Is Real at garbagebrainuniversity.com

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week, Discord access, and a sticker at Patreon.com/rftb This week we have Josh from TWOAPW joining us and we get into the weeds about our high school dating, dance, and internet experiences with some goofy reddit questions and a heinous sponcon article at the Future of Sex

Getting ghosted often and unsure why this is happening | But at what cost | How to make yourself more approachable to other people? Should you? | What is consciousness what is happening | How many insta stories posted by a long distance crush can you like before it's too much?

Thanks again to Katie for joining us and also just bein great people. Follow her on insta @ohhellokatierose and bluesky @krl

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! This week Audrey and I are losing our dang minds after 6 hours of recording!

Friend is wanting chaos, consciously, how to help them out? | How to get out of bed when depression is paralyzing you? | Lost all your friends in the divorce, what to do? | What is Bill Clinton's attachment style? | What if Ralph Nader won in 2000?

Thanks again to Anders for joining us we love him! Listen to Pod Damn America wherever you find podcasts and follow him on Insta @derslee1 and Twitter @andersleehere

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! This week we trawled Amazon for heinous cheap sex toys and found some HORRORS! Plus over 140 episodes in the backlog, check it out!

Feels like your partner is gonna propose and you're a lil nervous | Still not over ex after almost a year, will it ever get better? | Getting phalloplasty but your therapist who's supposed to write the rec letter is being real unprofessional | Figuring out sexuality when you're a former incel and ace-spectrum

Thanks again to A.J. for joining us, extremely lovely person, follow him on Twitter and Insta and Bsky and stuff @TheFuzzyMaskedMan and listen to The Worst of All Possible Worlds wherever ya find podcasts! We were on an episode recently it was great check it out!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Why do people want to fuck ghosts so bad | Parents split recently and are asking you, their adult child, for dating advice and you don't love it | Dating and socializing while you're taking care of your elderly parents and can't risk covid | Does this bartender have a crush on you or is he just being nice?

Thanks again to Ash for joining us, listen to Horror Vanguard wherever ya find podcasts and follow him on Insta @darrowscope

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! We did an in person ep with our good friend Dylan this week check it out!

Partner's mom went through trauma recently and you've ended up as her confidant - how to convey she needs therapy without being harsh? | Newly transitioning, going through mental health stuff, and now have a long distance crush with lots of caveats. What do? | What would you do if you brought a date home and they said they hate cats? | Partner's mom looks like Donald Trump, can you say something? (Yes)

Thanks again to Josh for joining us! Find him on Bluesky @bosh.worstpossible.world and Twitter @boshj and listen to The Worst Of All Possible Worlds wherever ya find podcasts! We were on the recent Fireproof episode on the main feed and it's a banger check it out!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Next, listenter questions!

Should a 24 year old bisexual man who's never dated men before break off a long distance relationship for the opportunity to date men? Even if this man's career would make gay dating complicated? | What can a man do to improve his self image? Even if he "feels sick" when he looks in the mirror? | Is Brian a furry? | How would Brian review the 2006 Volkswagen Jetta, a car without fault or shortcoming?

Huge thanks to Brian for joining us! You can find his incredible catalog of content at https://www.youtube.com/@RegularCars/about

Find Regular Car Reviews on Twitter at https://twitter.com/regularcars

A comment about our recent Seroquel talk | Should you reach out to a long time friend who's gone dark on you and ask what's going on? | Dono looks like Winslow from The Lighthouse so we talk about lighthouses | How to develop a sense of style after wearing nothing but jeans and graphic Ts for years

Thanks again to Jake for joining us again, we love him! Find him on Bsky and Twitter @feraljokes and listen to Pod Damn America wherever ya find podcasts

Jake's show with Jamie Peck "The Woke Mob" in NYC Saturday September 2nd
https://wl.seetickets.us/event/THE-WOKE-MOB/564089?afflky=TVEye

Minion Death Cult with The Antifada and Pod Damn America LIVE in NYC Sunday September 10th
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/minion-death-cult-live-tickets-691958234707?aff=oddtdtcreator

Our lovely friend KRL asks about what it's like doing a show with a romantic partner and if she should | Extremely heavy breakup and isolation taking you to the brink | Why are people into anal how to tell partner you're just not into it | A very goofy time where a listener totally misreads the signs and plans a trip to see an ex

Thank you all for tuning in we love you we love doing this show we believe in you. You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

What to do when a partner or friend or loved one falls into MLMs | Job is giving you overhwhelming panic attacks and no credit | A goddamn LOTR joke | Horse Dono fandom

Thanks again to Luisa for joining us! Find her on Insta and Bluesky @luisadieznuts (and then the other bsky stuff)

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow! This week John Cullen from Blocked Party returns as replacement Audrey for the bonus it was great :)

What is cumballs? | How to navigate having sex when you have a roommate and are new to this whole sex thing | What's up with the mystery binder at Alex's place? | Dating a woman but it doesn't seem like it's going anywhere | How to bridge a music taste gap with your partner

Thanks again to Alex we love him. Listen to Quorators podcast you simply must.

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Partner is credulous to a fault - should you address this and how so? | How to ask a coworker out without making it weird? | How to do dick ratings when at best you feel neutral on them?

Thanks again to April for joining us, we love her! Find her on social media @autogynefiles, check out The Girl God Experience wherever podcasts are found, and check out dates for the Girl God US tour at girlgodlive.com

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow! This week we are joined once again by Haus of Decline and it's a hoot, get in here!

Thrill at the thought of your boyfriend affecting "Las Vegas Swagger!" Witness as we tease apart a difficult question about the fetishization of transfemme genitalia and how one approaches a conversation with their parter about their feelings on the subject! Gasp as we figure out the "sweet spot" of how long to wait before returning to the dating market after a difficult breakup! Shriek as we search for a foot glory hole!

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Thanks for listening!

How to navigate moving in with a partner for the first time | How to loosen up around sex while recovering from Catholic guilt | Thought you were fine with your new partner being poly until six months in | 

Thanks again to Aries for joining us, they're wonderful :) Check out the Death Curious website here! And listen to the podcast here or wherever you get your shows: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/deathcurious

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

We talk golf, skipping straight to the sweatpants phase of a friendship, The Simpsons tattoos, curiosity about sex without a whole lot of visceral desire and best opening lines!

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Partner passing a lot of gas due to a medical issue and feeling hurt when you laugh | How to find cis guys who don't suck when dating as a trans woman? | We're cute

Thanks for tuning in folks! Want to support the show and get a bonus episode each week and access to 130 in the backlog? Head on over to Patreon.com/rftb

How much of a red flag is wall punching? | How to break up with partner whose job is destroying them but they won't quit? | Follow up on dating an addict question | How to do dirty talk when you have previously got in your head super bad and said some goofy shit and are SCARRED | Do you like me circle one

Thanks again to doink for joining us! Follow her on twitter and bsky @doinkpatrol

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

GoFundMe for Korla and Lexie's housing crisis

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Being a "wingman" for a friend keeps being a shitty time | Opened up your relationship and your partner like immediately outed you as bi | Higher libido than partner but she's telling you you cant crank it??

Thanks again to Brendan for joining us and being rad! Go see Wheatus on tour this summer, check the dates on their website https://wheatus.com/shows

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow! This week Merritt K returns it's gonna be good :)

Feeling completely burnt out | Should you date a narcissist? (In this case no lol) | Is polyamory a mistake (no) | Have we ever been in a distance relatioship that actually worked out?

Thanks again to Robin for joining us! Find her on Twitter @robinhatch and check out her music it's rad as hell

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! This week Dono's in Montreal we're going international on this bonus!

Coworker bein shitty and now it's impacting you | Moving very very slow in a new relationship | Have connected with a cashier at a place you're a regular at, where to go from here (don't be weird) | Perspective on a recent BPD question from someone with BPD

Thanks again to Aiden for joining us we love her! @aidenarata on insta and twitter follow her she's great :)

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow! This week we've got Lotion Wizard with us it's gonna be good

Trying to date after spending your life with effectively one person | Who is most divorced on WK | Dating tall ladies (we love it) | We hit you with some date ideas | An extremely uplifting update from MR from the eel episode who is now one of our favorite listeners we love you

Thanks again to Caleb for joining us! Genuinely lovely person! @BirdRespecter on Twitter and listen to Western Kabuki wherever podcasts are found

And thank you for tuning in! Want to support the show and get a bonus episode each week, Discord access, stickers, and our love? Find us at Patreon.com/rftb!

How to handle dating someone who does online sex work | WYR spider in room or tickle torture | Advice on flirting for unsmooth autistic dude | Want to be pegged but long term partner not into it | The listeners say Dono should officiate weddings | How to keep healthy relationships 

Thanks again to awlivv for joining us, just an extremely sweet person! Find her and links to all her stuff on Twitter @awlivv

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! This week Dono's in person with friend of the show and fellow podcaster Liam from WTYP it's gonna be a good bonus

We're very excited to be joined by Kristi Yamaguccimane of Twitter and JortsCenter fame! We discuss dating in a friend group, being cock-blocked by the ghost of your spouse and dating an addict in recovery. Heavy stuff!

Follow Kristi Yamaguccimane on Twitter! @Wapplehouse 
Listen to his podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jortscenter/id1552720070

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Fictophilia! Falling in love with characters after a bad breakup | A kink you're embarassed about - can you admit it to your partner? | Great! | How does Strongbad type with gloves? And then Audrey does the Homestar voice

Thanks again so much to Alec for joining us under these insane circumstances, an extremely good dude. Follow him and find Mr Boop on Twitter @alecrobbins

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! And you'll heal me, your dear friend Dono, Patreon.com/rftb 

Moved to a new city, finding your queer and poly identity, but feeling intimidated and "not queer enough" | Trying to date while managing a chronic pain condition and mental illness | How to be as chaotic as Swan Boy? | Wet egg question | What can Swan Boy teach us about LOVE

Thanks again to Branson for joining us! You can find him and his work on Twitter @bransonreese and on Insta @bransonofgod

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! This week Alex from Haus of Decline returns and we find an enclave of weird mid-2000s internet.

Dealing with existential dread after dealing a pile of rough life events and newly single | How to support a pretty naive friend in their job hunt | How to deal with OCD spirals so you don't get stuck | Feeling weird about watching stereotypical vanilla cis straight porn | Wife keeps yelling X Games? Is that a thing from something? How to stop?? 

Thanks again to Vic for joining us we love him! Find him on Twitter and Instagram @VicBergerIV and hear him each week on Office Hours Live

And thank you for tuning in! Support us on Patreon and get a bonus episode each week - this week LibraryPunk podcast joins us! Get access to that episode and 100+ more at patreon.com/rftb

Partner hair clogging the hell out of the drain oh no | Where to start with 90 day fiance | Job causing panic attacks and massive depression but afraid to quit | How to bring up cleaning with partner without it starting a fight | What's the messiest someone's place could be before you wouldn't hook up with them | How are we so great?

Thanks again to Mike for joining us, really just an extremely good dude. Follow him on Twitter @dogboner and listen to Your Kickstarter Sucks wherever ya find podcasts!

And thank you for tuning in! Support us on Patreon and get a bonus episode each week - this week Mike also joins us on the bonus! Get access to that episode and 100+ more at patreon.com/rftb

How to convey you have good politics on a dating app profile - or should you? | An update from the person with the shitty mom being shitty to their wife | How to tell a partner they're venting to you too much without hurting them | Friendship with ex is getting weird 20% of the time - how to make that stop

Thanks again to Tazer for joining us! Follow her on Twitter @ohtazer

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff like the RFTB Discord and stickers!

Thanks again to Kath for joining us, we love her and you should follow her on Twitter @kathbarbadoro and check out her podcasts! And if you're in Austin go see her like tonight when this is out, plus other dates on her Twitter.

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff like Discord access and a sticker and our undying love.

Relationships always ending at the six month mark and feeling like it's because you're depressed | New partner has an 11yo who they haven't told the truth about their parentage - red flag? | Shibari comes up multiple times in the box now why could that be? | Oh no Star Wars erotica!

Thanks again to Stefan and John for joining us this was such a great time! Follow them on Twitter @boring_as_heck and @cullenthecomic and find links to their shows, streams, and show dates!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as Discord access, a sticker, and of course our undying love.

Question in a blender | Not jiving with a group you're making music with - how to know whether to smooth things over or leave | A follow-up from the listener who called their friend mid | Feeling like you're trans but feeling like you can't explore that until losing weight and working through general body dysphoria | Discussing working thru addictions

Thanks again to Max for joining us! Follow him on Twitter @Eve6 for tour and music updates, links to his Buzzfeed column, and just some pro-tier tweeting

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Dating poly people as a mono person | KRL boyfriend voltron | Converting to judaism to get a big ass? | Communication issues in a new potential romance | Attachment style mismatch in an LDR and struggling to handle this | Trying to marry KRL | Sad breakup update but with personal work alongside it | How to be more physically attractive | A mean question that better be a bit

Thanks again to Katie for joining us we love her so much! Listen to Ballin Out Super and follow her on Twitter @katierose

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Friends say you're too mid for dating apps what to do? | BeetleJuice cancelled | Is Harris single? | Dommy mommy has become abusive | Bees as a gift with flowers? | Single by choice but how to deal with craving for attention | Beetle-Yolo romance? | Boyfriend may have been making up all his stories from high school

Thanks to Harris for joining us! Follow him his comics are fantastic @beetlemoses on twitter and insta and all them things and listen to Cold Cuts wherever podcasts are.

And thank you for tuning in! Hey get a bonus episode each week and support the show at patreon.com/rftb this week we've got Whack Nicholson back with us get in here!

Have a date planned with a coworker but starting to think you're not into them | Bad twitter sex scene takes - what gives? | Feeling isolated post breakup and at a loss for what to do

Thanks again to Juniper for joining us! Follow her on Twitter @JUNlPER and listen to the Western Kabuki gooning episode you simply must

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Navigating incestuous friend group drama. In Spokane! | Did we ever poop ourselves? | Funny or romantic valentine best? | Partner got ya a sweet gift, how to repay? | Recently ended LTR where you lived together - be alone or get out there?

Thanks again to Max for cohosting this week, find him on Insta and TikTok @farbsy

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Friend keeps getting nausea but refuses to take medication for it | Dad has an online girlfriend on facebook and it seems to be a genuine thing but you're concerned | Different types of dicks and their differences | Person with crippling fear of not finding a meaningful connection has crush on person with crippling fear of abandonment

Thanks again to Alex and Stephen, you can find them and their work on Twitter @hausofdecline and @snapdeus

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff like Discord access, stickers, and shoutouts!

Who is The Boy?? | In a loving hetero relationship but feeling longing towards an old friend and thinking you may be bi | Love for both of our shows and a game show question | Top Tip Tips 2023

Thanks again for Howell for joining us, what a lovely guy! You can find him and links to his shows on Twitter @HowellDawdy

And thank YOU for listening! 

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Coworker might have overhead you say "I want to die" and a lil worried | A follow up on the person whose therapist set them up on a date with another patient | New relationship haunted by an insane ex - red flag city | A nice message from a listener :)

Thanks again to Whack for joining us, follow him on Twitter @WhackNicholson and listen to Western Kabuki wherever podcasts are! 

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Have become part of an activity-based friend group but feeling left out from hangs outside the activity | Poly time management crisis - three relationships and only like three hours of sleep | How to get better at eating better and getting less fast food | A bdsm relationship that is clearly abusive so we give advice on escaping

Thanks again to Megan for joining us! Find her and her stuff on Twitter @itsmegangraves and keep an eye out for tour dates!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Folks! We're extremely excited this week cause we've got host of Bizarre Beasts and SciShow Sarah Suta with us! We talk to Sarah about her extremely cool work, lasers, and a failed cave date ending in a small town road trip. Then! Questions!

When and if to intervene when your friend is living in squalor and doesn't seem to care | Wanting to sleep separately from a partner but not sure how to communicate it without hurting them | An all new seize or salad - what to do when your mom is being shitty to your partner | If and how to ask a colleague to get together outside of work

Thanks again to Sarah for joining us, she's rad and you should check out her shows on Youtube - Bizarre Beasts and SciShow! And you can follow her on Insta @sarah.suta

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

In an LDR for 4 months after a long friendship and realizing the relationship ain't for you - how to end things | Fresh outta college, feeling bad about self-image, could lifting weights be the cure?

Thanks to Deanna for joining us! Follow her on Twitter @ddddeanna she's great

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

A listener implores us to revisit animorphs | An update from LDR Aussie and they're getting married!! | A listener followup on forgetting about orders reveals some of us also have severe adhd | Have only had short relationships and feeling self conscious about it

Thanks again to Dylan for joining us and thank you for listening! And happy holidays and all that jingle jangle. Listen to Santa and support the show at Patreon.com/RFTB

Donovan and Audrey embark on a quest to defeat their question backlog (unplanned) and answer your questions in this shamble to the finish line. The holidays are almost over folks. We're gonna make it!

Getting into online sex work - is social media expertise a necessity? | Working 50 hours a week on top of taking care of a kid while your partner seems to be dropping the ball - how do you fix this? | What do we love about our jobs? | What's the appropriate way to message/interact with OF creators?

Thanks again to Sandy for joining us, she's just great people! Follow her and find her stuff on Twitter @SandyFrizzle

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb plus instant access to over 100 episodes in the back log! What a steal!

VORE TOWER DEFENSE GAME vore tower defense game how to explain to partner? | How do you open up to your partner about severe depression? | A very nice message for all three of us :) | Afraid to date people who "have their shit together" cause you think you're not good enough | Co-ghosting! Is it a thing, is it bad, or is this just something normal?

Thanks again to Violet for joining us, just a wonderful guest to chat with :) You can find her and links to her stuff on Twitter @slutpilled

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Please enjoy!

Follow Jim on Spotify!
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Listen to Audrey's Digimon podcast she does with her Partner, Korla!
https://data-transfer.castos.com/

Ass eating etiquette - should you clean your mouth? | Crush on a friend but other friend beat you to the ask-out punch and now they're together how to cope | How to get thru long distance in CANADA | A heavier question (TW) on intrusive violent thoughts | A listener is a bad influence on us

You can find Tony on Twitter @wordisbond and his show @miniondeathcult

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Wanting to watch your favorite show with you're partner but they keep cracking jokes the whole time | Dennis follows up | Dating someone new, how to not overwhelm them! | Ending a relationship with someone who is dependent on you | Our bird mating dances revealed

Thanks to Jay and Justin for joining us! You can find them and their show on Twitter @librarypunk

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Wanting to get some unethical past actions off your chest | What's up with orchiectomy what's recovery like | How to kiss good | Queer and poly in the rural midwest - how to meet new partners

Thanks again to Andie for joining us! Follow them on Twitter @AndieIsOnline and keep an eye out for live shows!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Feeling like the odd one out in the friend group after a spooky cabin trip | Is it weird for 27yo to be attracted to 35yo lady?? | How to date a skinwalker? | Trying to help your friend Dennis who's batting out on the apps cause it's getting annoying to hear him complain | Ever start a relationship with someone you only met online at first?

Thanks again to Alex for joining us, an absolute treasure. Check out his many shows but especially his new program Quorators, investigating the queries on Quora.com

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

How to get into group sex with your partner? | Getting people to stop violating your personal space and boundaries | How to handle anxiety when it hits | How to sext without sounding corny or overdoing it? Does that even matter? | A listener tests some open mix material smh

Thanks again to Aaron for joining us! Follow him on Twitter @borgposting and check out his writing and podcasts they're fantastic!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

How to relax in the face of a monolith of stress | A follow-up to the cumming too fast question - now it's the opposite problem! | Getting into being naked online? | Is it normal to feel like your partner is used to you?

Thanks again to Nate for joining us, extremely good dude and an extremely good Twitter follow @Vrunt

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

How to better support your friends with mental health challenges | Encountering a penis for the first time, how to broach the subject of not being experienced without causing dysphoria | A listener skit

Thanks again to Maria for joining us! Follow her on Twitter @Sandernista412

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Bit of a TW for suicide on this first one - we address a concerning message in the question box | A fat gay misanthrope - can you find love? | Audrey's go-to opening message for dating apps is apparently working for a listener | Catching feelings for a close friend | Venting about a recent ex who doesn't use soap (stinky)

Thanks again to Alex for joining us! Find him, his work, and his show on Twitter @hausofdecline it's all extremely good and hey Dono's on a recent ep!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow! 

Partner is being super weird that you, a NB person, are wearing a suit to a wedding | Bag-el or bay-gel and a ruse | Therapist has set you up with a friend - is this ethical? Is it weird? | Poly but a new partner is trying to demand all your time - how to navigate

Thanks again to Aiden for joining us, truly one of our favorite people and we’re excited every time she’s on :) Follow her @AidenArata on Insta and Twitter for very good stuff

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Advice for moving 1500 miles from home | New partner, things are going well, except that they want to check on their dang dog twice a week? | LIGHTNING ROUND | What color will we never dye our hair? | Workout albums | Compliment exchange?

Thanks again to Sophie and Frannie for joining us, we love them and you should check out their pod and follow them on Twitter @GirlsLikeUsShow

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Trying to get a vanilla partner into some kinky shit that's important to you! | Should you go to a wedding when the bride is directly working to destroy the planet? | Feeling like you look like shit in every picture you're in | Do reddit hookup subs actually work? What even are they?

Thanks again to Jake for joining us! Follow him on Twitter @feraljokes and keep an eye out for upcoming tour dates!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! This week it's a banger episode with Low Culture Boil's Amber Rollo so get in there!

We've inspired an LDR between listeners! But how to stay connected from afar without spending too much money? | Partner's got a oral fixation goin that's ending up with them spittin soggy cotton balls during sex | Sandwich artist inquiry | Does BF have a praise kink or is he just lookin for praise generally? | Partner only wants to talk about surface level stuff (or maybe there's another factor here) | Joyfriend? | How to fall back asleep

Thanks again to Alex for joining us, you can follow him on Twitter @AGoldmund

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Worried about a casual relationship with someone in your friend circle | Can you date poly people as a non-poly person? | Wanting to adopt a cat but bf is allergic | A terrible cigaruse | Partner bailed during your manic episode but now claiming they want to come back now that you've recovered? (hate this) | How does Dono keep that ass huge??

Thanks again to Olive for joining us! Find her on Twitter @old_lotion she's great people!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff like Discord access and stickers! Wow!

In other big news, we've got Amber Rollo from Low Culture Boil with us! We talk Love Island and FBoy Island with Amber before hearing an embarassing date story and Dono learns what a meetcute is. And then? Question time!

Surrounded by friends who you love with partners who you don't love - is there anything to be done? | Partner quit drinking, getting back into it responsibly and you're supportive but anxious | Wedding venue cancel, MIL trying to guilt fiancee into making it an intl destination wedding | Finally feeling ready to date seriously again but having trouble navigating some hangups | Which Chapo is best love expert | A really lovely update from a really strong person

Thanks so much again to Amber for joining us, she was absolutely wonderful! You should check out her show Low Culture Boil and follow her on Twitter @ambercrollo where you can find her live comedy dates! 

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb! Now thatsa meet-cute!

Feeling like you're in a queer-platonic relationship but the other half doesn't exactly agree | Sister has an extremely shitty transphobic husband | Fuck a fan challenge - real or fake? | Are you ghosting somebody? Does that even matter?

Thanks again to Savannah for joining us! You can follow her on Insta @SavvyWhite and keep an eye out for show dates!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Long time partner does not wipe properly and it's causing some gnarly issues | Trying to get mom to stop smoking to no avail - let it go? | Followup on the "eating it from the front vs back" question | Audrey thirst post! | Self-deprecating humor question followup

Thanks again to Kumars for joining us! Find him on Twitter @KumarsSalehi and check out his show Delete Your Account!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Sex dreams and their relationship to your sex life | Ever have to fake an orgasm while be-penised? | Partner has been clearly underwhelmed by sex but is claiming everything is fine | Relationship starts with good sex but anxiety starts building out of nowhere and ruins things | Bratty ass boyfriend

Thanks again to Dylan for joining us, follow him on Twitter @itsprobablycrab

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb!

Thanks so much for tuning in! You can find Liam and Rin at the twitter links below 

When will steampunk be cool again and also steampunk sex toys? | Feeling body conscious before going to the beach with friends | Are NBs hetero if they're not dating other NBs? | Wanting to get physically intimate with partner but working through trauma after a SA | Penis surgery complications fucking with sex life and that sucks | Kumars demands our stance on geese

Thanks again to Sid for joining us! Check out their band The Bellowing Pines which you can follow on Insta @thebellowingpines and if you're in the Cinci area they've got shows coming up!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb!

Having trouble with feeling shame when you can't make your partner cum every time | Mid sex, new partner asks your mom's name?? | FF14 explanation | Feeling brutally isolated while surrounded by people | Hookup left you a hand-blown glass buttplug as a gift | Extreme insecurity over your height while already in what seems to be a good relationship | A MAIN FEED QUIZ SWARM

Thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow! That's Patreon.com/rftb

Working thru your sexuality after being raised in the LDS church | SOME SMALL PENIS LOVE | Asked somebody out but they're super sarcastic and not sure where they stand | Grunge Dad returns with an update! | What's our favorite fossil critters (you know we're goin off on this one)

Thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/RFTB as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow! Plus we've got some great guests coming up and 80 episodes in the backlog now what could be better than that? 

Two weeks after sudden dumping and still feeling like shit | A fan in Sweden is having trouble making friends due to social anxiety | FUPA causing cond problems! | Partner wants to get into CBT but worried about their trauma from past physical abuse | A goddamn FFXIV ad?? | Ex getting into shape and it's making you feel insecure | A wild FMK

Thanks for tuning in folks! Want to support the show and get a bonus episode each week plus like 80 backlog episodes? Head on over to Patreon.com/rftb

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Someone thought our dear friend Daddy was too harsh to long texters | Having trouble getting aroused at all by vanilla sex while new to the whole sex thing | Guy Fieri cunnilingus controversy | Bringing a lil gift to a first in person date after talking for a couple weeks - hot or not? | In need of tucking advice! | How to JO in a shared bathroom without leaving evidence

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Will yourself to "no horny" | If the US balkanized, which regional celeb would be worst | Mixing fuckin n fooding | Apparently Guy Fieri needs cunnilingus advice | How do eels reproduce??? | Making friends online when you have dyslexia and struggle with text communication | We reiterate we are not capital G Gamers! | Too terrified to make the first move

Thanks again to Garrett and Dylan for joining us again! You can find Dylan on Twitter @ItsProbablyCrab and find Garrett and the Black Box Theater @daytonblackbox

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb do it! Quick!!

Getting past small aggravations that are turning you off of pretty much all potential dates | An update on getting past a sexual anxiety | Trying to get your kid into grunge but it is NOT working | Stressing about dating a woman who's a few years older | Decrees from the Themporer

Thanks again to Kennedy for joining us! You can follow them and find their stuff on Twitter @kennedytcooper

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week and access to all 75 previous eps at Patreon.com/RFTB wow what a steal!

Welcome to Gamer Chat

An update from the "dirty job" question asker | New platonic friendship with a long time ex but not sure whether to tell them you cheated on them 10 years ago | Getting real burnt out in the dating app zone | Navigating a large class difference in a relationship

Thanks again to Tony and Alex for joining us! If you like us you should absolutely check out MDC, heck there's even another crossover episode with us! And you can find them wherever you're listening to this wow!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Text response etiquette with your partner | How to find a community for "Nerd Shit" that is not chock full of assholes and chuds | Thinking you're nonbinary but a friend shut you down when you brought it up | How come it's cool to be into legs but below the ankle is VERBOTEN? | Showering regularly but still feelin like ya smell and self-conscious about it

Thanks again to Luisa for coming back on! Check out her show Why You Mad wherever podcasts are found!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Made some Discord friends but worried people in the server hate you | How we doin? Mental health chat | Partner found out you were into hentai and seem excessively put off | LDR partner taking a break from social media but that's also how you stay in touch

Thanks again to Andrew for joining us! Check out his podcast Worst Week Yet and you can follow him on Twitter @AndrewHillaryUS

And thank you for listening! Everyone's support has meant a lot to us over the past four years because we love makin this thing ❤️ And hey you can get 72 more bonus episodes and a new one each week at Patreon.com/RFTB

How to take oiled-up nudes without gettin oil all over the damn place | How to find a dom partner when you're a straight male sub | Not getting second dates and worried you're doing something wrong | A trickster listener dealin with a messy partner | Miata time

Thanks for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb plus like 70 bonus episodes in the backlog now ain't that great? Hell we'll even send ya a sticker! It's the deal of the century!

LDR partner unwilling to have a first visit with no clear point that they'll be able to | Blanket statement made by a friend invalidates your trauma in a real shitty way | Gf seems to be into giantesses but gets embarassed and won't open up about it | Have a crush on somebody but they set ya up with their friend! What do | Body-image issues getting you down | A sweet message for Rax!

Thanks again to Rax for joining us she was absolutely wonderful! You can find her on Twitter @RaxKingIsDead and her podcast Low Culture Boil wherever podcasts are sold!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

How to satisfy sexual desires in a long-distance relationship? |  Should virgin question asker utilize the services of a sex-worker to get better at sex before their first sexual relationship? | How to handle infidelity and divorce? | What if you want to "fuck someone out of your system? | How do I navigate this SITUATIONSHIP??

We thank Aiden for joining us once again! You can find her work in the following places.

https://www.instagram.com/aidenarata/
https://twitter.com/aidenarata


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Audrey gets dragged over Mad Men knowledge | Some positive feedback for Audrey's magic want recommendation! | Realizing you are mommy in a new relationship | Partner had trouble getting aroused while shithoused | Partner acting full of themself but maybe there are other red flags

Thanks again to Xavier for joining us, we love him! You should check out his band The Bellowing Pines and their new album Citrus! And also Xavier's solo project FaybeBase, great shit on both counts.

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Seltzer addiction commiseration | Struggling with arousal with long term mono partner and not feeling sexually fulfilled | Listen, we're dumb | Hitachi on a penis advice! | Advice for attending first kink community meetup | Struggling with the apps while friends are doing great, what gives? | Tech support for us | Advice for getting into OnlyFans | Constantly leaving social interactions worrying that people hate you

Thanks again to Megan for joining us! You can find her on Twitter @itsmegangraves

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Advice for coming out to your parents | Feeling imposter syndrome as a bisexual person who hasn't "proven" their identity | Breaking a soda addiction | Dating while feeling emotionally unavailable - how do ya do it ethically? | A PSA for a cool online resource | Meeting people in the continuing covid times

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A follow-up to the muscular women question! | Moved in with LDR gf in her city, need to make friends but not getting her support | How to enhance a man butt? | A sweet message from Not Korla

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Breaking out of the ED anxiety cycle | Advice for a 30yo virgin | NOMME DE CUM | FMK vamp edition | Pre flight anxiety after getting hormones to transition | A very sweet message

Thanks again to Leslie and Kayte for joining us! You can find them and their podcast on Twitter @FangsPodcast, listen to the Dono episode they had a blast

Friend chemically transitioning as part of a BDSM thing and wondering what's going on | Wanting to break with a valentine's day tradition for something more romantic but not sure how to tell partner | How to end things with fwb before it gets serious | FRASIER QUERY

Thanks again to Bryn for joining us! You can find her on Twitter @kinematografi

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How to get your partner into a kink they think is weird? Can you at all? | Railroad villain Dono | Developing face blindess and fearing the worst for your relationships | Is there an easy way to come out to your parents? | Getting over addiction to delivery apps and getting better at cooking | How to get a big ass like the chosen people | Partner has an anime body pillow but they hide it from you

Thanks to Katie for joining us, she is wonderful! You can find her on Twitter @katierose and hear her each week on Ballin Out Super!

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Follow up on the sex poop ghosting | How to make an LDR work | Bad feels and insecurities around an ex bubbling back up 10 years later | Wife has lost sex drive while pregnant | Can gf get prefnat?

Thanks again to Molly for joining us! You can find her on Twitter @kornymidwife

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Dumb ally bathroom signs | Contrapoints call out | Partner wants you to get swole and dom them but you're just not into it | Husband cutting ties with his family over a fight that was his fault - can you do anything? | GF ghosted after you had to poop mid sex? We think? | Extremely sweet message for Dono

Thanks again to Doink for joining us! You can find them on Twitter @doinkpatrol and hear them on The Sunday Morning Podcast!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Thanks again to Anders for joining us! You can find him on Twitter @andersleehere and hear him on Pod Damn America and Redacted Tonight on RT.

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Paralyzed and unable to date bc of a hang up on an ex from long ago | Dating while working a "dirty job" | Caught partner masturbating to someone they know | Strong feelings for a friend you only see once or twice a year due to distance | Update on the question about panic attacks during sex | A nice new years message

Thanks again to Korla for joining us! Follow her on Twitter @Korla_Neumono

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as other neat bonus stuff! Wow!

Dating a recovering gambling addict | Grinch question | A fetish for being held and touched but not in the adult baby way | Thirst | Friends telling your your flirting is too cheesy, how to fix this | Ball retraction continues to haunt Alex | Baby name disagreement 

Thanks again to Alex for comin back, we love him! You can find him on Twitter @PtakTestKitchen

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Best way to break up with someone | When do you have the Cussy Talk with your partner? | Wanting a relationship with an FWB but they don't seem receptive | Dono is Seth Green?? | A follow-up on a recent question | Have ya ever cheated? | Good ways to show your partner you appreciate em | Machiavellian cat shenanigans

Thanks again to Nate for joining us! Find him on Twitter @vrunt he's a great follow if ya don't already

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb holy smokes double the episodes! Special segments! It's a hoot as well as a holler

Feeling weird about your family relationship when one sibling is the clear favorite | Girlfriend wants a prom-posal even though y'all are well past prom age | Terrified of making a first move | Fazolis first date top picks | Detective Fredo vs the ghost

Thanks again to Fredo for joining us! You can find him on Twitter @Utwitily for all your good posting needs

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Anxiety and uncertainty over having kids | Need help with talking to people on dating apps | Surrounded by people in relationships while single and having no luck meeting someone | Getting over big insecurity | What's Ohio's "Club Hedo"

Thanks again to Bryan for comin back! You can find him on Twitter @murderxbryan and hear him on Street Fight Radio and the P.O.D. Kast!

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb!

Realizing you’re pan but primarily attracted to gender fluid and NB folks but don’t want to fetishize | Grippy Tippy shirt request | Male lingerie recommendations | The return of Quizlip and a bed dilemma | First date with a big account Twitter crush | The return of Thicc Tongue | How/if to let a prospective partner know you deal with mental illness | Dating folks with DID | Which cartoon characters triggered our sexual awakenings?

Thanks so much again to Nat for joining us, she is extremely cool and thoughtful! If you'd like to check out her work you can find her on Twitter @LeftAtLondon and her website leftatlondon.com

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To move to "the one that got away" or follow your career? A crossroads | Debating attending the funeral of an ex you dated for a long time | Getting over fear of romantic intimacy after seven years single | Coming out as gay in your 30s | Navigating a relationship where your partner has PTSD | How to stop stressing about a shitty roommate situation

Thanks again to Aaron for joining us! You can find Aaron on Twitter @paradoomer and hear him on The Trillbillies podcast!

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Recovering from emotional agony after breakup | Audrey thirst, more tongue talk, and enby question | Finding a porn source without random thumbnails that might be triggers | How to handle feelings of guilt from a situation too far in the past to address | Handling extreme sadness | Working through self-hate and feeling like a burden

And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week where we answer reddit questions at Patreon.com/rftb!

A message from the real Audrey heads | Gex in the bedroom | How to find big can gf | What are some options for dealing with depression when you don't have access to therapy | Partner dropping tons of money on goddamn NFTs | What DND classes would we be?

Thanks again to Maria for joining us! You can find her on twitter @Sandernista412 and past episodes of The Worst Week Yet

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Here's the TED talk on depression that Audrey mentioned: https://www.ted.com/talks/andrew_solomon_depression_the_secret_we_share

(TW - SA on the second question this episode)

Audrey has that cake | Moving on after an abusive relationship where the absuer faced no consequences | About to hit 30 and feeling shit about not being in a relationship or dating | A terrifying penguin movie | Basketball shorts defender | How to send a good first message on dating apps | One partner into tongue-kissing, the other very much not | Hard Drive questions for Jeremy

Thanks again to Jeremy for joining us! You can find him on Twitter @jeremysmiles and Hard Drive at hard-drive.net

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Ya have a couple casual hookups going but are looking for a relationship, how do you figure this out | Return of the drunk cake slicer | Rock climbing slang in a v different way | A lil pushback on Dono and the GLU gals Croc defense in light of our take on Basketball Shorts BF | More Dono thirst posting | Kelsey Grammar as Mario? Yes | Chii's ghost kitchen

Thanks again to James for joining us! You can find his show That Thing With James J. Asher on Youtube here! 

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Getting burnt out on pursuing love? | Realizing you might be more gay than you thought but currently in a long term straight relationship | A trans listener wants to look more traditionally femme but partner has a distaste for gender norms in general | An incredible q box slide | In defense of Crocs | Getting over past feelings of ugliness after growing into yourself | An update on the drunken bday cake eater | Ex turned out to be on Tinder for the whole three year relationship

Thanks again to Frannie and Sophie for joining us! You can find them and links to the show on Twitter @GirlsLikeUsShow

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A sexting situationship has been very engaging over text but never initiating hangs | How do you hold on in a relationship if you have the anxious butterflies feeling constantly | Protocol for tagging a new partner on social media | ED troubles affecting partner's confidence | Elevate Your Vulva | Struggling with fears of the future as a polyam person | Fuck yea to the new logo :) | A very happy update to the sword collection question from a few weeks back!

Thanks again to Garrett for joining us, you can follow the Black Box Theater on Twitter @daytonblackbox and check out their upcoming shows if you're in the area!

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Link to website we mentioned https://turn-me-into-a-girl.com/

Hi question asker!! | What to do when you're attracted to someone ya don't like | WTF | Eye evolution correction! | Ideological differences between you and your partner leading to pointless arguments | A specific kind of sexuality | Advice for someone coming out as trans as they enter college | Body insecurity and friends calling you an egg | How to move in with a straight guy

Thanks for your questions and/or thanks for tuning in! Want to support the show and get a bonus episode each week? Find us at Patreon.com/rftb!

Music drop question! | "Re-opening" a crush after not seeing each other for a while | Feeling like your relationship has progressed super quickly through the pandemic and worried it will burn out | Getting back into sexual relationships after a traumatic experience and how to communicate with your partner about it | Right person wrong time stories | Choosing your name as a trans woman

Thanks again to Aiden for joining us, she is seriously the best! You can find her and her work on Twitter and on Instagram @aidenarata 

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Clarity on excuuuuse me - it's mf zelda | Into muscular ladies but kinda out of shape |Using forgiveness in processing in processing past hurt | If we were something else besides ourselves | What kinda eyes do we like | Became friends with a TA and caught feelings - how to navigate | Belitting kink question

Thanks again to Rory for joining us! You can find him on Twitter @BoneJail and get yourself one of them official signs at sexybigfoot.com

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First a heads up - Trigger Warning on assault at 37:00. Alright here's what we have:

Kid wants Chuck E Cheese bday, wife afraid of the goddamn robots. What do ya do? | A congrats to Audrey! | You and your partners siblings were dating each other but now broke up and y'all are now getting hassled | Pod-rey and handling weird allegations about having a foot fetish! | Partner came out with a fetish you're feeling a little weird about, how to navigate this? | Wife has made friends with someone who assaulted you in high school and is distrustful of your story | Things to say to make your partner feel good during/after sex

Thanks for tuning in folks and thanks for your questions! We're answering more questions each week on a bonus episode, you can join us and support the show at patreon.com/rftb

Resisting temptation, avoiding Moses' wrath! Hopefully | Partner is upset with your "messy" wing eating. How would it not be messy come on | Where did the name come from? A Donofan asks | Who is the hottest US president embrace debate | Reaching people on either side of you as a leftist Christian | Wife of 20 years upset by your dating past - how to navigate

Thanks again to Korla for joining us for this very special episode and congrats again to Audrey on coming out :)

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Poetry hats strapped on - what is love? | How to tell your partner that you draw giantess fetish art | Your zoomer brothers are callin you a cuck for jerkin it to hentai decades ago which seems excessive! | Feeling unattractive after a date where neither of you was attracted to the other | What makes a good nude?

Thanks again to Andrew for coming on! You can find him on Twitter @AndrewHillaryUS and hear him on The Worst Week Yet!

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 Eating 50 eggs - easy? Overly easy?? lmfao | The merits of The Superswipe | A listener crushes Dono's heart | Ditching a widely respected mustache for a beard - should you? No. | Dating someone is going well until it comes out they're "not political" when they complain about your left views | A neighbor conundrum involving birds | Staring down the barrel of buying a sybian

Thanks again to Kath for joining us! You can find her on Twitter @kathbarbadoro and check out her podcasts What A Time To Be Alive and Lie Cheat & Steal.

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Marvel as we discuss the cuteness of dimples, the utility of a driving job and the healing power of resting your hand on the pommel.

You can find Jesse's handiwork at https://www.twitch.tv/gooffkings and YKS is available wherever podcasts are sold.

Thanks for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at patreon.com/rftb

You can repeal only one law! Which? | Are drugs cool? Embrace debate | Wanting to get over a fetish so cringey you don't want to say what it is | About to move in with your sword-collecting partner and there's too many damn swords for the new space | Partner's friend shitting on you behind your back | Struggling moving to a new place for your partner | Don't get back together with your ex ya broke up with seven times

Thanks again to Liam for coming back on the show, we love havin him! You can follow Liam on Twitter [@oldmanders0n](https://twitter.com/oldmanders0n) and hear him wherever you find podcasts!

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We discuss our theories behind McAfee's untimely demise, Arthur's high-powered business fuckups, Jeff's streaming show, and of course an embarrassing relationship story. With a happy ending this time! Then we hit the ol Q Box where...

Worried about recent ex's mental health but now she's into moon terf shit | More McAfee | Recently out as nonbinary but partner isn't really respecting this | How to bring up marriage in a relationship | Navigating the ol' apps | Physical traits: what are our favs? | GUEST CAT SPOTTED IT'S THE MF CAT CORNER

Thanks again to Jeff for joining us this week! You can find him on Twitter @EminentProf and see him on Good Morning Comrade here!

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