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Episode 36: Why Your Healing Tools Don’t Work Anymore

Melinda Cates — Wed, 29 Oct 2025 19:47:35 +0000

Season Two — The Return and Reunion Of Soul And Human

Episode 36: Why Your Healing Tools Don’t Work Anymore

Where working on you becomes working with you

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If you’ve reached the point where the tools you’ve been using for your healing and growth no longer have the same impact, this episode will help you understand why.

This is a powerful and critical point in your journey home to you.

It’s not that the tools stopped working, there’s another important reason, and yes, it has to do with you.

In this episode, I share how this moment marks an important threshold in both the nature of your tools and your approach to personal growth and spirituality.

I also explore what this stage of your journey reveals about the interaction between your human self and your soul self.

Let’s walk this path together — not to become, but to remember, reclaim, and live as the soul you have always been.

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Episode 35: The Reunion — Anchoring the Truth of Who I Am

Melinda Cates — Mon, 26 May 2025 03:09:01 +0000

Season Two — The Return and Reunion Of Soul And Human

Episode 35: The Reunion — Anchoring the Truth of Who I Am

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This episode is not a return to something I left behind, it’s a reclamation of what has always been mine but is now ready to be fully embodied.

It marks the moment where the past, present, and soul converge, where I step forward not as someone reinventing or remaking herself, but as someone who has done the deep work, crossed the internal threshold, and is now prepared to lead unapologetically from her truth.

In this conversation, I share the raw experience of shedding identities, facing the projections and dismissiveness of others, and stepping out of roles, expectations, and systems that were never aligned with who I am at the deepest level.

I speak not to teach or guide, but to embody what it means to stand fully in the clarity, sovereignty, and power of my own essence — without softening or adjusting for the comfort of others.

This episode is for those who have always known they were different — the ones who were never meant to follow, fit in, or be palatable — and who are now ready to reclaim the truth and leadership they have always carried within themselves.

It’s for those who are done waiting, done shrinking, and ready to stand as the whole of who they are, leading not from strategy, but from soul.

Let’s walk this path together — not to become, but to remember, reclaim, and live as the soul you have always been.

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Episode 34: Healing Your Relationship With Your Parents

Melinda Cates — Thu, 22 Jun 2023 15:44:10 +0000

There is profound value in exploring the complex dynamic between you and your parents or parental figures. Whether your upbringing was filled with love and beauty, marked by pain and hurt, or a combination of both, your relationship with your parents holds essential keys to your personal growth and evolution.

While it’s true that you cannot change your parents or their past actions, you have the power to transform how you feel about them and develop your acceptance and openness with them. By exploring the experiences and traits you inherited from them, you gain a deeper understanding of who you truly are.

IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:

The invaluable gifts that your relationship with your parents’ and parental figures offer you for your personal growth and evolution.
The critical role of exploring your relationship with your parents in becoming your true self.
The significance of acknowledging and healing both the hurtful aspects and the beautiful qualities within your parents and your interactions.
How refraining from exploring and facing the truth of your relationship can create distance, not only between yourself and your parents but also within your own being.
The power you possess to create a closer connection with your parents, reflecting a deeper connection with yourself.

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 33: Stop Paying People To Have Coffee With You

Melinda Cates — Tue, 13 Jun 2023 03:58:22 +0000

In your friendships, are you the one who keeps them going? Do you initiate the contact, and put in the time and effort?

You may even be like I used to be where you find when you go for coffee, out to lunch or dinner or to do some other activity, that you are the person who pipes up and says "I'll pay for it".

If you are why are you the person who generally holds the responsibility, pays and organizes things?

Join me as I explore my process of how having coffee with friends, involved me paying for both mine and theirs.

Why? Because I didn't want to owe anyone anything. I didn't know how to receive and my lack of self-worth and neediness were driving me.

THIS EPISODE

You explore:

How what appear to be insignificant and irrelevant occurrences, can be the key to deep-seated patterns of a lack of self-worth
The influence of what may feel like unrelated experiences, on how you live your life now
How the process of sabotage and rejection deny you of what you truly deserve
How ceasing to pay for someone's coffee was an opportunity for huge growth for me.

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference in who we are

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Episode 32: Living The Unlived Lives Of Your Parents

Melinda Cates — Mon, 29 May 2023 17:19:56 +0000

As an adult have you lived your life, where as a child growing up, you did what you wanted to do? Or have you lived your life or some of your life based on what others believed was right for you and what they wanted you to do?

A life that filled the dreams, hopes and missed opportunities of your parents, grandparents and other significant people from your life.

Where expectations were either imposed on you or you imposed them on yourself.

A life where you lived other peoples unlived lives.

As a parent or grandparent have you not lived the life you wanted to, and you encouraged your children or grandchildren to do what you missed out on, believing it was the right thing to do?

If your answer is yes – this episode is for you.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Understand what means to be living the unlived lives of your parents and others
Work through how a parent can unconsciously and consciously impose their expectations of what they did not fulfil in their life, on to you
Explore how this process conditions and impacts a person as a child and then as an adult
Come to understand how not only your parents can impose expectations and responsibilities on you but how you can do this to yourself too
Acknowledge the steps for you to take to work through these expectations that were imposed on you

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 31: Emergent Processing; Not Giving Up On Hope

Melinda Cates — Tue, 16 May 2023 15:45:24 +0000

I invite you to embark on my exploration of hope with me.

How a personal meditation I won as a prize, which involved an initial conversation, prompted processing in me that took me on a journey of reflection on my life and my relationship with hope.

In this episode, I delve into the transformative power of meditation and it’s impact on my journey toward finding inner peace and stability. How it became a beacon of hope for me until I realized that my growth, was being hindered and limited by it.

This episode explores how through my processing I uncover my journey of hope from how I had defined it as a lifeline for me to escape where I was at, to becoming something I suppressed, ultimately rejected and gave up on. To embracing it as an internal flame of belief, trust, and self-driven progress.

My introspection led me to release old conditioning, connect more to my true self, and embrace a new perspective on hope. I discovered what hope truly means to me, its implications in my life and its transformative potential. I came to appreciate hope in a way I have not previously done so.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Share in my journey of meditation which led me to connect with hope
Explore how hope is an important process for our growth and evolvement
Come to know how, in becoming my true self I rejected hope and made it wrong
Hear how I gave up on hope and the impact of that on me
Explore how I reconnected to hope in a new and different way

If you are interested in knowing more about WENDY DARLING you will find her at wendydarling.com

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

As humans, hope plays a crucial role in our lives, precisely because we often find ourselves lacking it within ourselves. Our journey towards hope is intertwined with our sense of self-worth and deservedness. It is when we question our own value and worthiness that hope becomes elusive. But there is hope for finding hope again. To explore strategies for cultivating hope within ourselves, I invite you to download your free copy of:

13 Ways To Recognize And Own Your Self-Worth Guide

My Deservedness Video And Workbook

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Episode 30: Being Inspired By Yourself

Melinda Cates — Fri, 03 Mar 2023 12:46:20 +0000

Being inspired by yourself, is a natural and powerful process. Where you are fascinated and curious about who you are, the inspiration and potential you have within you, and the inspiration you will discover and express from you. Yet you may look to other people, objects, and environments for inspiration. You can experience bursts of inspiration instead of a flow. When you are inspired, the energy you experience is vibrant and can even be overwhelming. Why? Why do you experience all of these processes? The answer is in where you are at in your growth and connection to yourself, the true you.

In this episode I explore:

The process of inspiration
What inspiration is
Why do you experience flashes of inspiration
Why you may look to external things for inspiration
Your true inspiration and being inspired by yourself
Some key questions to support you to explore your inspiration

There are questions at the end of the episode to encourage your exploration of your self-inspiration, so you grow your awareness and understanding of your process of inspiration, and or DOWNLOAD your free copy of the SELF INSPIRATION WORKBOOK

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference in who we are

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Episode 29: Processing Reflections With Minz And Barb – Welcome Barb

Melinda Cates — Fri, 27 Jan 2023 11:14:09 +0000

I am so excited to introduce you to ‘Processing Reflections With Minz And Barb’ and to one of the most beautiful people I have ever met, someone so dear and precious to me – Barbara Binns.

Barb, as she is called by many people, is someone whom I have journeyed with for many years. We share the love of I Make a Difference, personal growth, and catching up to share and explore our processing together.

Barb mentioned to me at the end of last year that her daughter had said to her “you and Minz should do a podcast together”. These were the spoken words of what I had already been processing and pondering, so action was taken.

‘Processing Reflections With Minz And Barb’ will now be a regular feature of the I Make a Difference podcast. How regular? Good question. We are going to trust the process and see what unfolds.

Barb and I are going to have our catch-ups and explore and share processing about different aspects of our personal growth, the processes we explore, and the processing we experience.

In this episode, I wanted to ensure that you got to meet and know Barb and a snapshot of how we came to connect and be friends.

If you are wondering who Minz is – that is me (Melinda) it is a nickname I have been called for many decades and it also stands for Made In New Zealand.

You might want to check out the new I Make a Difference Youtube Channel and the video version of this episode which is in the playlist Processing Reflections With Minz And Barb

WE look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference together.

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Episode 28: Emergent Processing; Unraveling Patterns Created New Experiences With Mum

Melinda Cates — Wed, 18 Jan 2023 16:54:28 +0000

For decades one of the most powerful patterns of conditioned approaches I have had with my mum is the responsibility I took on board for her emotional and physical well-being.

My need to be over responsible has governed my interactions, my decision-making, and my relationship with my mum since a very young age. The result is, I have been serious in my relationship with her, the problem solver and protector.

It was late last year when an experience I had gave me the insight I needed to take action in this area. I wanted to give focus to really working on letting go of my over-responsible ways. My commitment was to taking new and different approaches. The key to making this happen was for me to stay open to recognizing all of the opportunities I had in my relationship with my mum, to do things differently.

What I came to see, was that I had not allowed myself to be a daughter to my mum. I had been the parent or protector. Our relationship had been one of seriousness and practicality, rather than fun, laughter, and filled with an abundance of happiness.

So I took action and the amazing new experiences that were created were beautiful.

In this episode, I share that journey with you, or at least the beginning of it and what unfolded in one day, so that you too might gain some gems from my process, that will support you to:

Let go of the responsibility you hold for others
Change patterns of conditioned and emotional processing that are preventing you from experiencing what you truly deserve
Embrace that every new experience does not need to be profound in what is done, it is in how it is received, experienced, and shared
Can get to experience with the people you have taken responsibility for, the relationship you deserve to have with them

Whilst I was changing some patterns, I would change the podcast cover and the format here.

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference in who we are

If You Want To Work On Releasing Your Over-Responsibility And Or Expanding What You Deserve These Free IMAD Resources Are Worth Exploring

Over-Responsbility Checklist

My Deservedness Workbook And Video

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Episode 27: Holiday Time And Emotional Triggers

Melinda Cates — Thu, 22 Dec 2022 14:55:55 +0000

This time of year is powerful on so many levels.

It is a time to celebrate and enjoy family and friends. Yet the coming together of family, having time away from your daily routine where you have space to think and feel, missing people who have been a part of your life, all contribute to you having emotions triggered.

The emotions can end up controlling and dictating what you experience and how you feel and will keep you in patterns of interactions and situations, you have experienced before.

Yet there is something you can do…

THIS EPISODE

Grow your awareness of having emotions triggered during the holiday time
Understand the impact of how you manage your emotions
Identify the choices you have to influence what you experience during this time
Explore an approach to support you to make a difference in how you manage your emotions

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Episode 26: The Truth About Boundaries

Melinda Cates — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 22:06:43 +0000

Boundary setting is encouraged. You probably believe that boundary setting is about valuing yourself.

But is it?

In this episode I explore the truth about boundaries.

One of the truths is you set boundaries for you, with you. You are limiting yourself from doing what you have previously done, accepting and allowing what you do not deserve. So you set boundaries to grow your ability to experience what you do deserve.

Yet boundaries are a little more complex than that, and they can be limiting and restrictive.

IN THIS EPISODE

You will explore:

What boundaries are
Why you get to a place where you require boundaries
What drives your need to set boundaries
Who the boundaries are for
Alternatives to boundary setting

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Episode 25: The Relationship Between My Soul And Self-Responsibility

Melinda Cates — Wed, 15 Jun 2022 06:43:52 +0000

Having explored in the previous two episodes responsibility and self-responsibility, how do these states of being and qualities relate to the world of your soul?

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Explore responsibility and self-responsibility in terms of your soul
Come to know how being responsible is innate and natural to you
Explore the human processes that resulted in you not naturally being responsible
Know how responsibility and self-responsibility in their pure form, are you being your true self

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Episode 24: Over-Responsibility; Do You Take Responsibility For Others?

Melinda Cates — Tue, 07 Jun 2022 04:52:55 +0000

Are you over-responsible?
Do you take responsibility for adults and fulfill their responsibilities?
Do you parent adults? Because if you are over-responsible, that is what you are doing.

If your answer is yes to these questions, then you have learned to take responsibility for others. You have been conditioned to carry the weight of others’ responsibilities and to feel responsible for their emotional well-being. And as you learned this, you can unlearn it.

And why would you want to unravel and unlearn this process?

So that you do not do things at your expense. And so that you are free of worries and concerns that are not yours to worry about. As well as you can grow your ability to support the growth of the people you have been responsible for, to grow their ability to take responsibility for themselves. And you liberate yourself of burdens that are not yours to carry.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Explore what over-responsibility is
Identify how you became conditioned to be over-responsible
Come to know the ways you can be over-responsible
Understand the impacts of over-responsibility on yourself and those you take responsibility for
Explore tips for identifying your responsibilities, so that you only fulfill those

BONUS – download your free copy of the ‘Over-Responsibility Checklist’ and explore what and who you are responsible for and the opportunities you have to unburden yourself

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Episode 23: The Power Of Self-Responsiblity

Melinda Cates — Mon, 23 May 2022 23:57:57 +0000

As you become more and more self-responsible the more powerful you become.

You own more of who you are, what you do, not do, say and not say. And you honor your commitment to yourself to own who you truly are, to do the right thing, and to do right by you.

Grow your ability to take responsibility for yourself and everything you do. And in doing so, grow your power.

Explore seven key processes that I apply in my life, that have supported me to be more aware of all aspects of myself, so that I could recognize and own who I am and the influence I have over my life, situations, and the outcomes I experience. Where I am stronger, clearer, cleaner, and free of the battle I used to have with my truth that was calling me to account for the things I could have and should have done differently if I had been more aware and made different choices.

Grow your love of being self-responsible, by valuing the benefits and the process.

THIS EPISODE

You will explore:

What self-responsibility is and the power that comes from being self-responsible
The seven processes that guide you to grow your self-responsibility
How owning what you do and do not do, strengthens your power and confidence, because you have greater choices as to what you do from there
How to influence your life, rather than having life influence you

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Episode 22: Uncovering Self-Belief

Melinda Cates — Fri, 13 May 2022 04:31:14 +0000

Self-belief is not just about your confidence, it is a process and aspect of you that goes far deeper and lies at the core of who you are.

Being clear on the different elements and aspects of your self-belief supports you to know what processes you need to work with to reclaim your self-belief, for you to grow and strengthen it.

Your self-belief lies at the core of who you are.

THIS EPISODE

You will be:

Explore the essential elements of self-belief
How self-belief influences the expression of who you are
A tip as to how to grow your self-belief

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Episode 21: I Am Visibly Invisible

Melinda Cates — Wed, 04 May 2022 02:05:48 +0000

You would possibly believe that given I am an expressive and outspoken individual who has a very strong energy that this would mean I was visibly visible (in keeping with the title of this episode). However, you would be wrong. Or at least that is what I believe and more to the point experience.

I am, in my world – what I call “visibly invisible”. You know that I am there, but I am invisible to the other person in terms of them potentially connecting to me, seeing and hearing me. Rather they connect more to what is being shared with them.

There are a few individuals though that are very special to me, that have wanted to see and hear me. And to them I am visible. As you will be to the people in your life that are like them.

And even if you are not expressive like me, rather someone who is reflective, you too may experience being visibly invisible.

There are a number of reasons why you (if this is a process you go through) and I experience this.

Some of those reasons are because of our own doing. And some because of where the other person or people are at.

Yet it is an opportunity for your growth and development. For you to be visible to yourself and others.

THIS EPISODE

You will explore:

What being invisible is about
The different areas for you to work with and grow your ability to be visible, in
Some of the reasons why you (if you experience invisibility) and I are not seen, heard, and sensed
Steps you can take so that you are visible
That you and I deserve to be visible

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 20: Emergent Processing; Family Soul Agreements

Melinda Cates — Mon, 14 Feb 2022 00:18:16 +0000

Family soul agreements have an almost mystical element to how they are so interwoven. Exploring whose agreement with whom contributes to and influences the soul agreements you have directly with members of your family, is fascinating in the commitments that we all make to each other.

There are so many layers of purpose and meaning to your soul agreements. They contribute to your growth and evolvement, giving you the opportunity to understand the experiences and journeys you have been on as your human self.

They are a never-ending source of wonder, exploration, discovery, and realization.

The more conscious you are of them, the more conscious you become of your human experience and all the components that contribute to your evolvement. And the more you appreciate and value the souls that joined you on this journey to have the experiences you have had with them.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Explore how family soul agreements, have an interconnected purpose to them, that is magical
Understand how soul agreements can take years even decades after a person has passed for their unfolding and completion
Discover that there are different viewpoints from which to identify, explore and find meaning in your soul agreements
Explore how soul agreements give you the opportunity to see the family through not just your human eyes, but your soul self eyes and the truth

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are.

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Episode 19: Merry Xmas

Melinda Cates — Thu, 23 Dec 2021 22:53:02 +0000

A Merry Christmas to you and if you do not celebrate Christmas, then may you have time to be with yourself and those that are dear to you.

Christmas can surface so many different emotions and can involve so many different experiences.

Embrace this time for building a greater connection with yourself and the people around you.

Have a wonderful Xmas.

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Episode 18: Emergent Processing; Consciously Traveling & Trusting The Process To Fulfill Soul Agreements

Melinda Cates — Thu, 16 Dec 2021 04:13:11 +0000

When you consciously accept the impacting variables that send you on detours, new pathways, and different directions to where you believed you were traveling, and where these experiences would traditionally trigger emotional processing, you find yourself trusting that you are being sent on a new adventure. An adventure where there are immediate benefits you can gain if you choose to see them. And magical benefits that you are not yet aware of that will have you meeting the people whom you made soul agreements with, to support each other in your evolvement.

IN THIS EPISODE

You will:

Journey with me on my recent adventure of seemingly random yet interesting events, that traditionally would have frustrated me, to discover why the journey unfolded
Explore how now is the time to be more conscious and aware of the soul agreements you have, so that you can maximize the purpose and intention of the agreements for your evolvement
Grow your appreciation of the people who have contributed to your evolvement through their soul agreement with you
Explore the different purposes and reasons for soul agreements
Come to see, hear and feel the power of consciously traveling processes of trust to fulfill your soul agreements

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 17: The Underestimated Power Of Neediness

Melinda Cates — Thu, 02 Dec 2021 02:00:26 +0000

How much power does neediness have over you?
Do you squirm at the thought of you being needy?
Are you emotionally attached to people, beings, objects, and substances?

If you are not aware of the levels of neediness you have and how you express your neediness, then the chances are you are needy to be safe and secure from your neediness.

If you squirm at the thought that you are needy, you are needy of being safe and secure and protecting yourself from your neediness and truth.

Any emotional attachment you have to anything, is an indicator of the level of neediness you hold.

Never underestimate how much neediness is influencing you and the people around you.

The power of neediness.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Explore what neediness is
Come to see how neediness is interwoven in so many other processes we experience
Explore how neediness comes to the surface within us
Develop your relationship with your neediness

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 16: Uncovering My Relationship With Vulnerability

Melinda Cates — Fri, 19 Nov 2021 17:21:40 +0000

Vulnerability – your rawness, being exposed and transparent.

When you truly connect to your vulnerability you connect to a gentle, surrendered, and beautiful part of you. You own and honor your truth, without judgment, with acceptance and love. Yet you and I go through a journey to find that out.

I spent time reflecting on my vulnerability journey, and discovered processes I was not fully aware of or even aware of, that contributed to the depth and breadth of healing that I have done with my vulnerability. And I had not recognized with such clarity before, the two key ways we cope with our vulnerability. And I got to appreciate, even more, the people who were fundamental in creating a space for the healing of my vulnerability to happen. As well as how each one of them came into my life to support me with a different aspect of my vulnerability.

The more aware you are of all elements of your vulnerability, the more you can consciously work with each of the different processes that are involved. And the more you value and appreciate what you experienced and who was part of your vulnerability journey.

THIS EPISODE

You will explore:

Why and how vulnerability surfaces within you
What vulnerability is
The two key fundamental things you look for when you are vulnerable
The healing of vulnerability

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Episode 15: The Integration Process Back To My Soul Self

Melinda Cates — Wed, 13 Oct 2021 05:41:40 +0000

Integration, is the bringing together of two or more aspects of yourself so that you can be whole. If only it was that simple, but in reality, it is when you want to know what you are to integrate, how to identify when you are experiencing your integration process, and how to integrate each element of you, during your human adventure back to your soul self.

There are three key areas for integration, but they entail many components for you to work with. So come explore the integration process for the evolvement of your human self, so that you can become whole again, which creates the space for your soul self to shine through.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Understand what the integration process is that is required for you to journey back to your soul self
Explore the three different areas of integration
Understand the components of each of these areas, that call you to work with them
Encouraged to embrace the painful processes and the joyful processes as opportunities for integration of you
Be guided as to a self-facilitation activity for you to explore you

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 14: There Is Magic In The Process Of Grief And Loss

Melinda Cates — Wed, 06 Oct 2021 21:33:04 +0000

You can fear grief, you can be overwhelmed by grief. As grief is the most powerful emotion that you can experience as a human being. But this is one of the many reasons why there is magic to the process of grief and loss.

When you feel grief, you go to depths within you, you generally do not go to. You feel not just the emotion of grief, but many different emotions. This is why it is the greatest opportunity for healing. But it is understanding and recognizing the focus of your grief and what you are grieving for, that enables you to embrace your grief process. This is so that you not only mourn the loss of someone you felt deeply for and loved. It is also an opportunity for you to appreciate, value, and reclaim the beautiful, joyful, and magical aspects and elements of your connection to those that you grieve for. Being conscious of what you learned from your relationship, what you received and treasured, supports you to embrace and create more joy in your life.

This episode is dedicated to my dad who died a year ago on the 10th of October. And to all the people that have lost their dads (and other family members). No matter whether they were part of your life for a moment or long term. And no matter what the nature of the relationship was. My journey with my dad gifted me multiple layers of grief to process and experience and it was a journey from love to hurt and pain to acceptance, to upon his passing, love again.

Come journey with me through the grief process.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Reflect and feel and see what unfolds

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 13: Unraveling More Limiting Relationship Patterns Of Communication; Part Two

Melinda Cates — Wed, 29 Sep 2021 04:08:45 +0000

Part Two of last week’s episode – involved the unraveling of more limiting relationship patterns of communication.

This week’s episode explores the ‘I am irrelevant’, the ‘hello’, ‘the lob’, and more. Patterns of communication that you are conditioned to be engaged in and where you are emotionally impacted and impacting on the other person. But you can change this.

You, and if the other person is receptive, have an opportunity to unwind what is familiar, unravel what is limiting, undo what is complex, and do something different. You can discover new, more expansive, simple, easy, and direct ways of communicating where there is a mutual exchange of free-flowing energy and connection.

Your relationships can flourish. And you can continue to free yourself of your suppression and protection shackles, what you do not deserve, and strengthen that connection to your true self, your soul-self.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Continue to explore the processes of the next five limiting relationship patterns of communication
Delve into why you and others contribute to these patterns and continue them on
Explore the impacts on your communication, each other’s self-worth and your relationships
Explore how you can unravel these patterns and approach the pattern differently to make a difference to you, the other person, your interactions, and your relationships

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 12: Unraveling My Limiting Relationship Patterns Of Communication; Part One

Melinda Cates — Mon, 20 Sep 2021 01:39:09 +0000

Have you experienced ‘push back’ or being ‘shut down’ in your communication and interactions in your relationships? Are there times when you feel disrespected, not heard, not seen, or understood? These are signs of conditioned patterns of interactions that you are experiencing in your relationships.

Changing the pattern and unraveling the conditioning is what is required for you and the other person (if they are on board and are receptive) to experience more understanding, closeness, and growth in your interactions.

Through exploring some of the patterns of interaction I experience, that is frustrating, negating, and emotionally impacting, I identified the process of the pattern. Then I explored the reasons for it and I worked on how I can change how I approach the interaction. And I also explored the pattern with the people who were open to it, as to how ‘we’ could change our approach so that our relationship could improve and flourish.

Join me in exploring five of the nine conditioned relationship patterns for unraveling with more to come in next week’s episode.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Be introduced to nine different patterns of interaction and communication you can experience in relationships.
Find out what I called each of these patterns and why.
Explore the first five of the conditioned patterns of interaction, working through examples and the process of them.
Gain insight into the reasons for the pattern, the dynamics, and their impacts.
Explore ways of unraveling these patterns, to create more open, understanding, connected, and flourishing relationships.

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 11: Emergent Processing; Seeing Why Is This Happening TO Me Through Different Eyes

Melinda Cates — Wed, 08 Sep 2021 04:17:36 +0000

When you face experiences that trigger emotions, where you feel vulnerability, anguish, disappointment, and even pain, do you find yourself saying “why is this happening TO me?”. Do you believe you are being punished and cannot make sense of why it is happening?

What if you could see these experiences as “why is this happening FOR me?”. And see the experience through different eyes. What if, instead of seeing what you have lost you see what you can gain? Where you discover the meaning in the experience as a gift and an opportunity for your growth and evolvement.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Understand that you experience powerlessness when you feel and think “why is this happening to me?”
See that trying to make sense of what you are experiencing, comes from embracing what is occurring.
Come to understand and see that the experiences you have are an opportunity for you to grow and evolve.

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we a.

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Episode 10: Embracing The Opportunity To Unravel My Conditioning

Melinda Cates — Mon, 30 Aug 2021 21:46:39 +0000

I so so love how our processing unfolds when we are open to it and are committed to unraveling the aspects of our human self that are keeping us separated from our soul self, our true self, from expressing our potential and from living a life of freedom of expression in who we truly are.

The moment I thought of doing this episode, my processing presented me with the first bit of conditioning for me to unravel, thoughts and beliefs. Then memories of conditioning I have worked with during my life flooded my consciousness, supporting me to check whether there was further unraveling to do.

The most significant opportunity for me to unravel conditioning was in the actual recording of the episode. My desire to get it right and perfect was thwarted every step of the process of recording, and when I finally realized what was going on, this was when I embraced the opportunity to yet again free myself of some restrictions I had placed on myself.

Your conditioning comes in so many different forms and is expressed in so many ways, and it keeps you safe, comfortable, predictable, and suppressed. The more you open yourself up to embracing your conditioning because it is an opportunity for you to free up who you are, the more your system will assist you in the process, and the more magical your life becomes.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Explore how conditioning is repeated patterns of your processing
Grow your awareness of the different types of conditioning you can experience
Develop your understanding of the process of unraveling
Explore examples of the unraveling of conditioning
Gain insight into some tools and approaches for releasing your conditioning
Have every reason to embrace your conditioning as an opportunity to assist you in reconnecting more to the true you

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 9: The Creation Of My Personas

Melinda Cates — Sat, 21 Aug 2021 22:13:14 +0000

Your personas, the different you’s you show the world, came to life through the experience of other peoples’ non-acceptance of your soul self-expression and your natural human self-expression. Where in reaction to the non-acceptance, you changed how you expressed yourself, what you showed the world and how you presented yourself, to ensure that you fit in, belonged, were liked, were acceptable and so that you were safe and secure.

You did not create one persona, you have one for each layer that you put up as a result of the non-acceptance you experienced. The non-acceptance you received from other people, you took on board and treated aspects of yourself in the same way. And you went from natural expression to normal expression. You became the conditioned, persona, different versions yourself.

As your personas were created from non-acceptance, the key to their healing and release is your acceptance of them. Your personas have been important to your human experience, so value and love them.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Explore the process of how you created your persona’s
Understand the reasons for the creation of your persona’s
See the importance of valuing your persona’s
Understand that your acceptance of them is essential for the unraveling and healing of them.

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 8: Becoming My Emotional And Hurt Self

Melinda Cates — Thu, 12 Aug 2021 04:03:20 +0000

When you experienced the situation where you started your journey of becoming your conditioned self, you had emotions surface within you as a result of the non-acceptance of who you truly are. You expressed these emotions, to release them, but they were also not accepted and were rejected, and you became conditioned with what you do with your emotions. You suppressed them inside of you.

This was not just the creation of your conditioned self, it was also the creation of your emotional and hurt self. And your emotions would come to influence you, your choices, your relationships, and your life. Yet you can heal your emotions and unravel the conditioning of how you express them so that you can take back your ability to be the influencer of your human experience.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Explore when and how emotions first surfaced within you
Come to know the process you went through that resulted in you being impacted by your emotions
Understand that the emotions you experience now are emotions from the past
Explore how you became conditioned in the expression of your emotions
Be introduced to two key processes for you to familiarize yourself with, in your steps toward healing your emotions

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 7: Emergent Processing; The Gifts Gained From Health Issues

Melinda Cates — Sat, 24 Jul 2021 23:38:25 +0000

This week’s podcast nearly did not happen, as I have had the flu all week. And what a gift that turned out to be in my processing.

I had an expectation I had to do this week’s podcast, and that I had to continue on with the next step in the journey, but hey when it is not meant to happen it does not happen. But what did happen, was the surfacing of a new addition to the podcast process – emergent processing. This is the first of many ‘Emergent Processing’ episodes I will be doing in amongst journeying the human experience with you.

What this means, is that I will at times do an emergent processing episode where I share with you what my processing has been during that day or week. And in this week’s episode, with having the flu, my focus was drawn to looking at all the times in my life (or the significant ones at least) when I have not been well. In doing so, I acknowledged I have previously viewed, explored, and dug deep into these situations many times before, but not from the perspective I was viewing them from this time. Out of this process, came new insights, discoveries, and distinctions and that is what I share in this episode.

THIS EPISODE

I share with you the process that led me to do this ‘Emergent Processing’ episode
Clarity is given as to what emergent processing is
I share how being ill with the flu, gave me the opportunity to view my physically ill and impacting experiences through different eyes, and what I discovered, uncovered, unraveled, and healed in the process.

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 6: Becoming My Conditioned Self

Melinda Cates — Sat, 17 Jul 2021 06:08:22 +0000

Conditioning is where you change from being natural to being normal. You conform to what you learn from those around you, as to what is acceptable, not acceptable, what others expect of you, and what others say that you did that was wrong, that you were to blame for and responsible for.

Your conditioned self started to come to be, the moment your natural soul expression was not accepted. And each time you experienced the disconnection of energy and non-acceptance of who you are, you took on board the processing of the person or people, and you began to suppress aspects of yourself, including your natural soul expression. You began to protect yourself from judgment and hurt and you created layers. And each time you created a layer, you continued to become your conditioned self – your normal self, as opposed to your natural self – your true self.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Explore what conditioning is
Explore how you become your conditioned self
Know how your conditioning, results in you creating layers of protection and suppression around your soul self

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 5: How My Human Self Learns To Identify My Soul Self

Melinda Cates — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 05:46:29 +0000

The beginning stages of your human experience as a soul in a human body is where you – soul express. You express the purity, rightness, and light of your soul. But the world you are born into does not know how to accept your soul expression, and it is made wrong.

For you to live in the human world, your connection to your soul may not be strong enough to manage the impacts of being made wrong, for expressing your natural self. So you begin to separate from your soul and true self.

Your human experience becomes one of separation and then the adventure of finding your way back to your soul.

But how do you identify your soul? How do you know what you are looking for within yourself?

The qualities you see you are born with, that are good and pure that you express through your soul expression, are a human perspective of what the soul is, looks, sounds, and feels like. And your human qualities and attributes, only become identifiable by the lack of that you experience – the dualities, the opposites of these qualities, otherwise, you would know of their existence or nature. The process of experiencing dualities is the way you learn to identify your soul on your journey home.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Explore the process of disconnection and separation from your soul.
See how the qualities and attributes you see as your soul, are how the human process interprets the soul
Explore how you come to know and identify the qualities in you that are right and good, that you believe are your soul, through knowing and experiencing their opposite.
Explore how the soul is the equilibrium, the balance, and the rightness of the dualities.

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 4: What Differentiates My Human Self From My Soul Self

Melinda Cates — Wed, 30 Jun 2021 01:36:04 +0000

Your human self is unique. Unique in the features that make you human, and the processing that you experience with each of these features.

Your soul self does not have these features, which is why the human experience and journey are very different and powerful. One that offers so many opportunities to work with each of these features, to achieve a place of purity in your processing and expression. A place where your soul is fully expressed in human form.

The first step is recognizing them, understanding them, and being able to distinguish the difference between your pure form and your conditioned state.

As you heal, unravel and uncover your true self – your soul self, the more each of these features will become pure in their processing. And the more you evolve from human consciousness to soul consciousness.

THIS EPISODE

We explore:

That there is a difference in the level of soul consciousness that you have when entering the human body.
The unique features and processes of the human self
The different processing attached to each of these human self features.
How it is important for you to grow your awareness of these features, and your ability to work with them, for your evolvement.

I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are

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Episode 3: My Soul Decisions For My Human Adventure

Melinda Cates — Sat, 19 Jun 2021 01:17:52 +0000

Your soul made decisions, as to the nature of the human experience you would have in this lifetime.

Decisions that would assist your human self on the journey of evolvement to bring your soul and true self fully present and expressed in a human body, where you are fully conscious, seeing and knowing the truth, and are pure.

In this episode, we will explore the key areas your soul made decisions around and why, prior to returning to the human body. Through being aware of the decisions you made, you have an opportunity to embrace every painful, uncomfortable, joyful, and magical experience that you have had and are being offered, as they are gifts in the discovery and reconnection to you. You are able to accept more of who you are and the people and processes that you have chosen to be conditioned and impacted by, emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, and energy-wise. And you are able to appreciate more the people and processes that have shown, shared, and given you love, care, help, friendship, and nurturing. You become aware that every individual you have interacted with, has been valuable in your support of you on your journey to be able to see, feel, hear and uncover more of who you truly are and the expansion of your expression of the true you.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Explore the six key processes that your soul made choices about for this human experience
Delve into the nature of the choices you made and the uniqueness of the process of each choice
Grow your understanding of why you chose whom you would journey with and what experiences you would have in this lifetime
Explore how you can identify some of the key choices you made as a soul, and the benefits of embracing the choices

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Episode 2: Your True Self

Melinda Cates — Tue, 08 Jun 2021 22:00:56 +0000

Your true self is the being you truly are at the core of you, the real and natural you. In this episode, you will explore who you were at the start of your journey as your human self and where you have the opportunity to return to and be as you complete your journey – the true you. That journey requires you to be conscious of the components that make up your true self and some of the approaches you can apply to uncover the connection you have always had, to the unique, beautiful, and powerful essence of you, so that you can strengthen and grow what is natural to you.

THIS EPISODE

You will:

Be introduced to ‘your true self
Explore the components of who you truly are
Be resourced with approaches you can take to guide you to uncover your connection to the true you

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Episode 1: Are You Ready To Unravel, Heal and Uncover?

Melinda Cates — Fri, 04 Jun 2021 11:37:00 +0000

The I Make a Difference Adventure begins and on the first show Melinda shares with you the journey ahead.

The I Make a Difference process explores the journey you have been on in how you became your conditioned and emotional human self and the pathway back to being your true and natural self.

This episode is an introduction to the I Make a Difference adventure, an opportunity for you to journey deeply and broadly into the areas of yourself that are not right and natural to you, to unravel and heal these parts of you. So that you can release the hold your past has had on you and uncover what you have chosen not to see and have hidden within you - the beauty of who you truly are and what is right and natural about and to you.