Unfeigned Christianity Castos https://www.asherwitmer.com Becoming Christians who are theologically anchored, emotionally healthy, and loving others well. Wed, 22 Apr 2026 20:16:02 +0000 en-us © 2022 Asher Witmer US CA GB https://episodes.castos.com/wwwunfeignedchristianity/images/podcast/covers/c1a-qm0n-zo79pz59f1o5-fkfr0g.png Unfeigned Christianity https://www.asherwitmer.com Becoming Christians who are theologically anchored, emotionally healthy, and loving others well. Asher Witmer episodic Becoming Christians who are theologically anchored, emotionally healthy, and loving others well. Asher Witmer podcast@asherwitmer.com false https://feeds.castos.com/nzj3 yes <![CDATA[What Leaders Owe the People They Lead | Cliff Stoltzfoos]]> Wed, 22 Apr 2026 20:16:02 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2429651 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/what-leaders-owe-the-people-they-lead-cliff-stoltzfoos I had the honor of interviewing my boss, Cliff Stoltzfoos, on what it looks like to do business while living like Jesus and what leaders actually owe the people they're responsible for. We get into:

  • Why having authority over someone calls you to greater transparency, not less
  • What it means to take seriously that your team members are giving you enormous amounts of themselves — their brain, their time, their energy — and what you owe them in return
  • The company mission that changed everything: multiplying wholeness in the lives of our team, clients, and community, by living like Jesus
  • Team Pulse, a tool Lifex built to help leaders stay genuinely connected to their people — built around Patrick Lencioni's line: people should find healing at work, not need healing from work
  • And the leadership character trait Cliff is still developing: asking for direct feedback, and holding it without getting defensive

If you lead people in any capacity — a business, a church, a nonprofit, a school — this conversation is for you.

Learn more about Team Pulse at teampulse.us. If you would like to grab the two months free, use the promo code Z867DH0O at checkout. Learn more about the Unfeigned Christianity Membership program at asherwitmer.com/member.

Chapters:

00:00 Welcome
07:05 Cliff's Background and Early Influences
17:21 Transitioning into Business and Marketing
28:19 Living Like Jesus in Business
38:06 Stewardship and Leadership Lessons
43:59 Team Dynamics and Growth
48:57 Leadership Responsibilities and Team Care
56:32 Introducing Team Pulse
01:07:40 Creating Healing Workspaces
01:16:05 Final Thoughts on Leadership and Feedback

]]> full 9 8 false I had the honor of interviewing my boss, Cliff Stoltzfoos, on what it looks like to do business while living like Jesus and what leaders actually owe the people they're responsible for. We get into:

  • Why having authority over someone calls you to greater transparency, not less
  • What it means to take seriously that your team members are giving you enormous amounts of themselves — their brain, their time, their energy — and what you owe them in return
  • The company mission that changed everything: multiplying wholeness in the lives of our team, clients, and community, by living like Jesus
  • Team Pulse, a tool Lifex built to help leaders stay genuinely connected to their people — built around Patrick Lencioni's line: people should find healing at work, not need healing from work
  • And the leadership character trait Cliff is still developing: asking for direct feedback, and holding it without getting defensive

If you lead people in any capacity — a business, a church, a nonprofit, a school — this conversation is for you.

Learn more about Team Pulse at teampulse.us. If you would like to grab the two months free, use the promo code Z867DH0O at checkout. Learn more about the Unfeigned Christianity Membership program at asherwitmer.com/member.

Chapters:

00:00 Welcome
07:05 Cliff's Background and Early Influences
17:21 Transitioning into Business and Marketing
28:19 Living Like Jesus in Business
38:06 Stewardship and Leadership Lessons
43:59 Team Dynamics and Growth
48:57 Leadership Responsibilities and Team Care
56:32 Introducing Team Pulse
01:07:40 Creating Healing Workspaces
01:16:05 Final Thoughts on Leadership and Feedback

]]> 01:19:49 <![CDATA[The First Black Suburb in America — and the Day Its Magic Ended | Keith Smith]]> Wed, 25 Mar 2026 20:22:02 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2405742 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/the-first-black-suburb-in-america-and-the-day-its-magic-ended-keith-smith Keith Smith grew up on Montford Street in Pacoima — in the San Fernando Valley — during one of the most culturally distinct decades in American history.

His grandfather was a Tuskegee Airman who helped build what became the first African-American suburb in the United States. His grandmother was a Southern hospitality-giver who always cooked enough for company. His neighborhood was multigenerational, tight-knit, and quietly remarkable.

His mom taught Michael Jackson the robot.

And then, when Keith was 12 years old, a murder on his street divided his childhood into before and after.

The Magic of Montford Street: A Love Letter to the Valley in the '80s is Keith's memoir — his origin story, told before he writes the theological books that are coming next. It's a book about a community that formed him, a magic that was stolen, and what it means to grieve something good.

In this conversation, Asher and Keith talk about:

  • What made Pacoima one of the most unique Black communities in America — and how it got that way
  • The '80s as a bridge generation: still outside until the streetlights came on, but also Atari 2600
  • How the Cosby Show gave Keith the first screen representation of the life he actually lived
  • The crack epidemic and the War on Drugs — what it looked like from a kid's perspective on the street
  • The LAPD battering ram, two blocks from his house, deployed against the wrong family
  • How Rodney King was beaten just down the road in Pacoima — and why it wasn't surprising to the people who lived there
  • What his grandmother's storytelling and hospitality built in him that he still carries as a pastor
  • Why he believes you have to start with your origin story before you can say anything else

This is a rich, warm, personal conversation about memory, community, loss — and the people who form us.

Read the full blog post and show notes here and learn more about the Unfeigned Christianity Membership program at asherwitmer.com/member. Find Keith's book, writings, and soundtracks at www.keithnsmith.com.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Keith Smith and His Journey
05:05 From California to Ohio
08:16 The Impact of Community and Neighborhood
11:14 Processing Trauma and Change
13:59 Nostalgia for the 80s: A Unique Era
16:41 The Day the Magic Ended
19:52 Celebrity Culture in the Valley
22:39 The Influence of Family and Community
25:40 Reflections on Race and Neighborhood Dynamics
35:27 The Legacy of Redlining and Community Building
38:09 Pacoima: The First African-American Suburb
41:02 The Impact of the Drug Epidemic
48:40 Community Responses to Change
55:35 The Evolution of Pacoima Today

]]> full 8 8 false Keith Smith grew up on Montford Street in Pacoima — in the San Fernando Valley — during one of the most culturally distinct decades in American history.

His grandfather was a Tuskegee Airman who helped build what became the first African-American suburb in the United States. His grandmother was a Southern hospitality-giver who always cooked enough for company. His neighborhood was multigenerational, tight-knit, and quietly remarkable.

His mom taught Michael Jackson the robot.

And then, when Keith was 12 years old, a murder on his street divided his childhood into before and after.

The Magic of Montford Street: A Love Letter to the Valley in the '80s is Keith's memoir — his origin story, told before he writes the theological books that are coming next. It's a book about a community that formed him, a magic that was stolen, and what it means to grieve something good.

In this conversation, Asher and Keith talk about:

  • What made Pacoima one of the most unique Black communities in America — and how it got that way
  • The '80s as a bridge generation: still outside until the streetlights came on, but also Atari 2600
  • How the Cosby Show gave Keith the first screen representation of the life he actually lived
  • The crack epidemic and the War on Drugs — what it looked like from a kid's perspective on the street
  • The LAPD battering ram, two blocks from his house, deployed against the wrong family
  • How Rodney King was beaten just down the road in Pacoima — and why it wasn't surprising to the people who lived there
  • What his grandmother's storytelling and hospitality built in him that he still carries as a pastor
  • Why he believes you have to start with your origin story before you can say anything else

This is a rich, warm, personal conversation about memory, community, loss — and the people who form us.

Read the full blog post and show notes here and learn more about the Unfeigned Christianity Membership program at asherwitmer.com/member. Find Keith's book, writings, and soundtracks at www.keithnsmith.com.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Keith Smith and His Journey
05:05 From California to Ohio
08:16 The Impact of Community and Neighborhood
11:14 Processing Trauma and Change
13:59 Nostalgia for the 80s: A Unique Era
16:41 The Day the Magic Ended
19:52 Celebrity Culture in the Valley
22:39 The Influence of Family and Community
25:40 Reflections on Race and Neighborhood Dynamics
35:27 The Legacy of Redlining and Community Building
38:09 Pacoima: The First African-American Suburb
41:02 The Impact of the Drug Epidemic
48:40 Community Responses to Change
55:35 The Evolution of Pacoima Today

]]> 01:12:13 <![CDATA[Is Your Faith Biblical — or Just Victorian? Karen Swallow Prior on the Evangelical Imagination]]> Wed, 18 Mar 2026 20:32:18 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2400055 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/is-your-faith-biblical-or-just-victorian-karen-swallow-prior-on-the-evangelical-imagination Karen Swallow Prior spent 21 years teaching English at Liberty University. She has a PhD in English literature, has taught at a Southern Baptist seminary, and has written extensively about evangelicalism — as an insider who both loves the movement and refuses to look away from its problems.

Her book The Evangelical Imagination: How Stories, Images, and Metaphors Create a Culture in Crisis asks a question that should unsettle all of us: how much of what we've been taught is "biblical Christianity" is actually just Victorian-era cultural assumptions with a Bible verse attached?

In this conversation, Asher and Karen talk about:

  • What a "social imaginary" is — and why every community has one, whether they know it or not
  • How the evangelical emphasis on conversion as a dramatic, singular event produced a generation of people who checked a box and never grew
  • Why sentimentality — emotion elevated beyond the reality behind it — leaves us spiritually immature and ill-equipped to walk with people in real suffering
  • Where our theology of gender roles actually came from (hint: the Industrial Revolution, not Genesis)
  • How Victorian self-improvement culture quietly replaced sanctification in the evangelical imagination
  • Whether authors and speakers are just monetizing people's desire to improve themselves — and what the honest answer to that looks like
  • Why reading great literature actually makes us better at loving our neighbors
  • And why Karen — despite everything she's seen and named — is still evangelical

This is a thoughtful, generous, and genuinely challenging conversation. Karen doesn't throw the tradition out. She loves it enough to examine it. And that's the kind of faith worth having.

Read the full blog post and show notes here and learn more about the Unfeigned Christianity Membership program at asherwitmer.com/member. Find Karen's book, writing, and Substack at karenswallowprior.com.

Chapters

02:08 Understanding the Evangelical Imagination
04:06 The Crisis of Evangelicalism
07:12 Understanding Conversion and Discipleship
09:51 Cultural Influences on Evangelicalism
12:42 The Role of Victorian Sensibilities
15:15 Unpacking Metaphors and Imaginaries
18:14 The Impact of Conversion Stories
21:01 Disentangling Culture from Faith
32:00 The Dangers of Emotionalism in Faith
34:32 Self-Improvement vs. Sanctification
38:56 Navigating the Industrialization of Self-Improvement
41:02 The Power of Literature in Empathy
46:00 Staying True to Evangelical Roots

]]> full 7 8 false Karen Swallow Prior spent 21 years teaching English at Liberty University. She has a PhD in English literature, has taught at a Southern Baptist seminary, and has written extensively about evangelicalism — as an insider who both loves the movement and refuses to look away from its problems.

Her book The Evangelical Imagination: How Stories, Images, and Metaphors Create a Culture in Crisis asks a question that should unsettle all of us: how much of what we've been taught is "biblical Christianity" is actually just Victorian-era cultural assumptions with a Bible verse attached?

In this conversation, Asher and Karen talk about:

  • What a "social imaginary" is — and why every community has one, whether they know it or not
  • How the evangelical emphasis on conversion as a dramatic, singular event produced a generation of people who checked a box and never grew
  • Why sentimentality — emotion elevated beyond the reality behind it — leaves us spiritually immature and ill-equipped to walk with people in real suffering
  • Where our theology of gender roles actually came from (hint: the Industrial Revolution, not Genesis)
  • How Victorian self-improvement culture quietly replaced sanctification in the evangelical imagination
  • Whether authors and speakers are just monetizing people's desire to improve themselves — and what the honest answer to that looks like
  • Why reading great literature actually makes us better at loving our neighbors
  • And why Karen — despite everything she's seen and named — is still evangelical

This is a thoughtful, generous, and genuinely challenging conversation. Karen doesn't throw the tradition out. She loves it enough to examine it. And that's the kind of faith worth having.

Read the full blog post and show notes here and learn more about the Unfeigned Christianity Membership program at asherwitmer.com/member. Find Karen's book, writing, and Substack at karenswallowprior.com.

Chapters

02:08 Understanding the Evangelical Imagination
04:06 The Crisis of Evangelicalism
07:12 Understanding Conversion and Discipleship
09:51 Cultural Influences on Evangelicalism
12:42 The Role of Victorian Sensibilities
15:15 Unpacking Metaphors and Imaginaries
18:14 The Impact of Conversion Stories
21:01 Disentangling Culture from Faith
32:00 The Dangers of Emotionalism in Faith
34:32 Self-Improvement vs. Sanctification
38:56 Navigating the Industrialization of Self-Improvement
41:02 The Power of Literature in Empathy
46:00 Staying True to Evangelical Roots

]]> 00:49:30 <![CDATA[Bill Johnson, People Pleasing & the Emotional Health of Leaders]]> Wed, 11 Mar 2026 21:11:10 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2390736 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/bill-johnson-people-pleasing-the-emotional-health-of-leaders By now you've likely heard about what's been coming out around Bethel Church in Redding, California — Sean Bowles, the cover-up, the repentance service, Bill Johnson's public comments. Mike Winger and others have done significant work exposing the timeline and the failure of leadership.

I'm not here to re-litigate all of that.

I'm here to talk about the one thing I haven't heard anyone name — and the thing that stood out most when I watched Bill Johnson's portion of the repentance service.

Bill Johnson is a people pleaser. And people pleasing is not a neutral personality trait. It is an emotionally unhealthy state. And when you pair it with the kind of authority Bill Johnson holds — and the theological frameworks around apostleship and honor that discourage confrontation — it becomes genuinely dangerous.

In this solo episode, I walk through Bill Johnson's comments carefully and try to name what's being revealed. Not as a takedown. Not as a theological victory lap. But as a mirror — because the same emotional unhealth that let a leader like Bill Johnson look the other way while a predator operated under his platform is the same unhealth that shows up, quieter and less publicized, in every church community and every one of us.

The episode also covers:

  • Why "I didn't want to believe it" is a warning sign, not an excuse
  • The crucial difference between mercy and people pleasing
  • What Biblical confession and repentance actually require
  • How the NAR theology of apostleship and honor creates conditions for cover-up
  • What sweeping, non-specific apologies do and don't accomplish
  • And the honest question Asher sits with at the end: what do I do when someone points something out to me?

This episode will challenge you. But it's not meant to give you something to say about Bill Johnson. It's meant to give you something to do about yourself.

Chapters

02:30 — What this episode is and isn't
06:00 — Background on the Bethel/Shawn Bolz situation
12:00 — Who else has covered this well (Mike Winger, Ruslan KD, Remnant Radio, etc.)
18:00 — Walking through Bill Johnson's comments from the repentance service
26:00 — "He didn't want to believe it" — why that's telling
33:00 — This isn't about gifting. Something else is going on.
38:00 — People pleasing vs. genuine care for wholeness
44:00 — What mercy actually requires (and what Jesus actually did)
50:00 — The theology of apostleship and honor in NAR
56:00 — Sweeping apologies and what they reveal
1:02:00 — The question we all need to sit with

]]> full 6 8 false By now you've likely heard about what's been coming out around Bethel Church in Redding, California — Sean Bowles, the cover-up, the repentance service, Bill Johnson's public comments. Mike Winger and others have done significant work exposing the timeline and the failure of leadership.

I'm not here to re-litigate all of that.

I'm here to talk about the one thing I haven't heard anyone name — and the thing that stood out most when I watched Bill Johnson's portion of the repentance service.

Bill Johnson is a people pleaser. And people pleasing is not a neutral personality trait. It is an emotionally unhealthy state. And when you pair it with the kind of authority Bill Johnson holds — and the theological frameworks around apostleship and honor that discourage confrontation — it becomes genuinely dangerous.

In this solo episode, I walk through Bill Johnson's comments carefully and try to name what's being revealed. Not as a takedown. Not as a theological victory lap. But as a mirror — because the same emotional unhealth that let a leader like Bill Johnson look the other way while a predator operated under his platform is the same unhealth that shows up, quieter and less publicized, in every church community and every one of us.

The episode also covers:

  • Why "I didn't want to believe it" is a warning sign, not an excuse
  • The crucial difference between mercy and people pleasing
  • What Biblical confession and repentance actually require
  • How the NAR theology of apostleship and honor creates conditions for cover-up
  • What sweeping, non-specific apologies do and don't accomplish
  • And the honest question Asher sits with at the end: what do I do when someone points something out to me?

This episode will challenge you. But it's not meant to give you something to say about Bill Johnson. It's meant to give you something to do about yourself.

Chapters

02:30 — What this episode is and isn't
06:00 — Background on the Bethel/Shawn Bolz situation
12:00 — Who else has covered this well (Mike Winger, Ruslan KD, Remnant Radio, etc.)
18:00 — Walking through Bill Johnson's comments from the repentance service
26:00 — "He didn't want to believe it" — why that's telling
33:00 — This isn't about gifting. Something else is going on.
38:00 — People pleasing vs. genuine care for wholeness
44:00 — What mercy actually requires (and what Jesus actually did)
50:00 — The theology of apostleship and honor in NAR
56:00 — Sweeping apologies and what they reveal
1:02:00 — The question we all need to sit with

]]> 01:24:29 <![CDATA[Making Disciples Who Actually Reproduce | Brian Dye]]> Wed, 04 Mar 2026 08:30:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2381180 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/making-disciples-who-actually-reproduce-brian-dye Brian Dye grew up in one of Chicago's more impoverished neighborhoods — Puerto Rican and African-American community, a mentally ill mom, an alcoholic dad, and a grandmother who was the spiritual anchor of the whole family.

What changed the trajectory of his life wasn't a conference, a program, or a church event. It was a carpenter named Paul Terry who wasn't paid to do ministry — but who kept showing up on Saturdays to paint houses, move furniture, and bring a kid named Brian along for the ride.

That's the heartbeat of everything Brian has built since.

Brian is the founder of Legacy Disciple, a Chicago-based discipleship ministry that runs annual conferences in 5 cities, reaches 400 kids a year in Chicago's neighborhoods, and is launching Legacy University — accessible online Bible courses for everyday disciples and small groups.

In this episode, I get to talk with Brian about:

  • Why Jesus called us to make disciples, not find them — and why that distinction matters more than we think
  • The Hebrew educational context that helps explain why Jesus chose fishermen and tax collectors nobody else wanted
  • The orphanage vs. family model of church — and why one keeps people dependent while the other releases them
  • His practical 3-year discipleship framework: formal Bible study + informal life-sharing with 3-4 people at a time
  • Why discipleship doesn't mean adding things to your schedule — it means inviting people into your schedule
  • His 20-year relationship with Preston Perry and what the early, unglamorous years of that looked like
  • What he's building with Legacy Disciple now and where the conferences are going in 2025

If you've been in ministry long enough to feel the gap between what discipleship sounds like in sermons and what it actually looks like on a Tuesday morning — this conversation will give you something real to hold onto.

Read the full blog post and show notes here
Learn more about Legacy Disciple at legacydisciple.org.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Discipleship and Legacy Disciple
02:41 The Call to Make Disciples
04:34 Brian Dye's Background and Cultural Context
07:36 The Role of Mentorship in Discipleship
10:26 The Importance of Community in Faith
16:31 The Impact of Personal Relationships in Faith
19:22 Jesus' Model of Discipleship
25:21 The Challenge of Long-term Discipleship
31:20 The Need for Depth Over Numbers
40:59 The Importance of Proximity in Discipleship
43:52 Incorporating Life Rhythms into Discipleship
47:35 Vulnerability in the Discipleship Process
53:39 Legacy Conferences and Community Engagement

]]> full 5 8 false Brian Dye grew up in one of Chicago's more impoverished neighborhoods — Puerto Rican and African-American community, a mentally ill mom, an alcoholic dad, and a grandmother who was the spiritual anchor of the whole family.

What changed the trajectory of his life wasn't a conference, a program, or a church event. It was a carpenter named Paul Terry who wasn't paid to do ministry — but who kept showing up on Saturdays to paint houses, move furniture, and bring a kid named Brian along for the ride.

That's the heartbeat of everything Brian has built since.

Brian is the founder of Legacy Disciple, a Chicago-based discipleship ministry that runs annual conferences in 5 cities, reaches 400 kids a year in Chicago's neighborhoods, and is launching Legacy University — accessible online Bible courses for everyday disciples and small groups.

In this episode, I get to talk with Brian about:

  • Why Jesus called us to make disciples, not find them — and why that distinction matters more than we think
  • The Hebrew educational context that helps explain why Jesus chose fishermen and tax collectors nobody else wanted
  • The orphanage vs. family model of church — and why one keeps people dependent while the other releases them
  • His practical 3-year discipleship framework: formal Bible study + informal life-sharing with 3-4 people at a time
  • Why discipleship doesn't mean adding things to your schedule — it means inviting people into your schedule
  • His 20-year relationship with Preston Perry and what the early, unglamorous years of that looked like
  • What he's building with Legacy Disciple now and where the conferences are going in 2025

If you've been in ministry long enough to feel the gap between what discipleship sounds like in sermons and what it actually looks like on a Tuesday morning — this conversation will give you something real to hold onto.

Read the full blog post and show notes here
Learn more about Legacy Disciple at legacydisciple.org.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Discipleship and Legacy Disciple
02:41 The Call to Make Disciples
04:34 Brian Dye's Background and Cultural Context
07:36 The Role of Mentorship in Discipleship
10:26 The Importance of Community in Faith
16:31 The Impact of Personal Relationships in Faith
19:22 Jesus' Model of Discipleship
25:21 The Challenge of Long-term Discipleship
31:20 The Need for Depth Over Numbers
40:59 The Importance of Proximity in Discipleship
43:52 Incorporating Life Rhythms into Discipleship
47:35 Vulnerability in the Discipleship Process
53:39 Legacy Conferences and Community Engagement

]]> 01:01:28 <![CDATA[What 10 Years of Teaching Underserved Kids Taught My Sister About the Gospel | Carita Witmer]]> Wed, 25 Feb 2026 23:31:39 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2374140 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/what-10-years-of-teaching-underserved-kids-taught-my-sister-about-the-gospel-carita-witmer Carita Witmer has been teaching elementary school in Lancaster City, PA for 10 years. Her school serves a student body that's 50% non-white — kids from immigrant families, unchurched homes, and backgrounds very different from the predominantly white Anabaptist staff that teaches them.

She didn't arrive with a polished framework for cross-cultural discipleship. She arrived with a love for kids, a desire to serve the underserved, and a willingness to keep learning.

In this episode, I sit down with my oldest sister to talk about:

  • Her winding road into teaching (including a few false starts and one embarrassing sibling story)
  • What it actually looks like to build trust and mutual respect across culture and ethnicity
  • Why she's become more hesitant to demand eye contact from students
  • What teaching in a public school taught her about what Christian education offers that secular SEL curriculum doesn't
  • The quiet privilege most of us don't notice we carry
  • And why she's become more and more convinced that "we all need Jesus" applies just as much — maybe more — to the church kids

This isn't a high-energy interview with a platform-building influencer. It's a conversation with a faithful, thoughtful woman who has spent a decade doing the quiet, unglamorous work of discipleship in a classroom. 

Read the full blog post and show notes here.

Chapters

02:52 Carita's Journey into Teaching
09:43 Early Teaching Experiences
14:05 Transition to Pennsylvania and Way of Jesus Academy
21:49 Understanding Student Diversity
25:11 Fostering Respect and Kindness in the Classroom
37:07 Building Trust with Diverse Families
41:10 The Role of Faith in Education
48:21 The Importance of Community Support
52:18 The Journey of Personal Growth in Teaching

]]> full 4 8 false Carita Witmer has been teaching elementary school in Lancaster City, PA for 10 years. Her school serves a student body that's 50% non-white — kids from immigrant families, unchurched homes, and backgrounds very different from the predominantly white Anabaptist staff that teaches them.

She didn't arrive with a polished framework for cross-cultural discipleship. She arrived with a love for kids, a desire to serve the underserved, and a willingness to keep learning.

In this episode, I sit down with my oldest sister to talk about:

  • Her winding road into teaching (including a few false starts and one embarrassing sibling story)
  • What it actually looks like to build trust and mutual respect across culture and ethnicity
  • Why she's become more hesitant to demand eye contact from students
  • What teaching in a public school taught her about what Christian education offers that secular SEL curriculum doesn't
  • The quiet privilege most of us don't notice we carry
  • And why she's become more and more convinced that "we all need Jesus" applies just as much — maybe more — to the church kids

This isn't a high-energy interview with a platform-building influencer. It's a conversation with a faithful, thoughtful woman who has spent a decade doing the quiet, unglamorous work of discipleship in a classroom. 

Read the full blog post and show notes here.

Chapters

02:52 Carita's Journey into Teaching
09:43 Early Teaching Experiences
14:05 Transition to Pennsylvania and Way of Jesus Academy
21:49 Understanding Student Diversity
25:11 Fostering Respect and Kindness in the Classroom
37:07 Building Trust with Diverse Families
41:10 The Role of Faith in Education
48:21 The Importance of Community Support
52:18 The Journey of Personal Growth in Teaching

]]> 00:56:25 <![CDATA[What’s Really Happening in Minneapolis? A Firsthand Conversation]]> Wed, 18 Feb 2026 18:50:30 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2367178 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/whats-really-happening-in-minneapolis-a-firsthand-conversation It’s easy to react to headlines.
It’s harder to listen.

In this episode, I talk with my cousin Sonya, who lives and works in Minneapolis, about the recent ICE activity and what it looks like from someone actually there.

We discuss immigration enforcement, fear within immigrant communities, how local churches are responding, and how Christians can navigate these conversations without living in an echo chamber.

This isn’t about outrage.
It’s about proximity.

If we want to love others well, we have to understand their lived experience.

Also, if you would like to help provide rent support for people affected by the activity, you can do so through this GoFundMe campaign.

Grace and peace.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Context of Minneapolis Events
04:49 Sonya's Journey to Minneapolis and Counseling Career
07:48 Life in Minneapolis: Community and Environment
10:43 Involvement with Immigrant Families and Community Support
13:39 Understanding ICE Activities and Community Impact
16:36 Personal Stories and Experiences with Detention
19:45 Legal and Ethical Concerns Surrounding ICE Operations
22:32 Fear and Anxiety Among Immigrant Families
34:06 Understanding the Hostility of Immigration
35:41 Demographics of Immigrants in Minnesota
37:29 Fraud Cases and ICE Presence in Minneapolis
42:05 Protests and Community Response to ICE
45:58 Christian Community's Involvement and Support
50:37 Misconceptions About Immigrants
52:32 The Human Rights Crisis and Community Support
57:17 Ways to Help Immigrants in Minneapolis

]]> full 3 8 false It’s easy to react to headlines.
It’s harder to listen.

In this episode, I talk with my cousin Sonya, who lives and works in Minneapolis, about the recent ICE activity and what it looks like from someone actually there.

We discuss immigration enforcement, fear within immigrant communities, how local churches are responding, and how Christians can navigate these conversations without living in an echo chamber.

This isn’t about outrage.
It’s about proximity.

If we want to love others well, we have to understand their lived experience.

Also, if you would like to help provide rent support for people affected by the activity, you can do so through this GoFundMe campaign.

Grace and peace.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Context of Minneapolis Events
04:49 Sonya's Journey to Minneapolis and Counseling Career
07:48 Life in Minneapolis: Community and Environment
10:43 Involvement with Immigrant Families and Community Support
13:39 Understanding ICE Activities and Community Impact
16:36 Personal Stories and Experiences with Detention
19:45 Legal and Ethical Concerns Surrounding ICE Operations
22:32 Fear and Anxiety Among Immigrant Families
34:06 Understanding the Hostility of Immigration
35:41 Demographics of Immigrants in Minnesota
37:29 Fraud Cases and ICE Presence in Minneapolis
42:05 Protests and Community Response to ICE
45:58 Christian Community's Involvement and Support
50:37 Misconceptions About Immigrants
52:32 The Human Rights Crisis and Community Support
57:17 Ways to Help Immigrants in Minneapolis

]]> 01:04:10 <![CDATA[7 Dangerous Teachings Shaping the Church Today]]> Sat, 14 Feb 2026 00:18:12 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2362606 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/7-dangerous-teachings-shaping-the-church-today Some teachings sound biblical.

They use Scripture.
They feel familiar.
They often come from trusted voices.

But when you look closely… they aren’t rooted in Jesus as revealed through the Scriptures.

In this episode, I walk through seven dangerous teachings quietly shaping the church right now—from Christian nationalism and Zionism to the Jezebel spirit, same-sex marriage, head coverings, racial myths, and how we address habitual sin. (You can read the article version here.)

This is not about policing pastors.
It’s not about hunting heresy.

It’s about becoming theologically anchored.

Because anything that distracts us from becoming like Jesus—
even if it sounds spiritual—
is dangerous.

Grace and peace.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Unfeigned Christianity
02:19 The Importance of Theological Anchoring
09:45 Seven Dangerous Teachings in the Church
10:33 The United States as a Christian Nation
22:02 The Head Covering and Submission
29:12 Accountability to Christ
29:15 The Curse of Ham Myth
34:40 Consequences of the Curse of Ham Myth
36:45 The Jezebel Spirit
48:00 Understanding Rebellion and Authority

]]> full 2 8 false Some teachings sound biblical.

They use Scripture.
They feel familiar.
They often come from trusted voices.

But when you look closely… they aren’t rooted in Jesus as revealed through the Scriptures.

In this episode, I walk through seven dangerous teachings quietly shaping the church right now—from Christian nationalism and Zionism to the Jezebel spirit, same-sex marriage, head coverings, racial myths, and how we address habitual sin. (You can read the article version here.)

This is not about policing pastors.
It’s not about hunting heresy.

It’s about becoming theologically anchored.

Because anything that distracts us from becoming like Jesus—
even if it sounds spiritual—
is dangerous.

Grace and peace.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Unfeigned Christianity
02:19 The Importance of Theological Anchoring
09:45 Seven Dangerous Teachings in the Church
10:33 The United States as a Christian Nation
22:02 The Head Covering and Submission
29:12 Accountability to Christ
29:15 The Curse of Ham Myth
34:40 Consequences of the Curse of Ham Myth
36:45 The Jezebel Spirit
48:00 Understanding Rebellion and Authority

]]> 01:18:01 <![CDATA[Why I Almost Quit—and Why I’m Beginning Again]]> Wed, 21 Jan 2026 21:16:18 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2332881 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/why-i-almost-quit-and-why-im-beginning-again I almost quit.

After a long season of health challenges, burnout, and disillusionment, I came close to walking away from writing, podcasting, and this work altogether. In this episode, I share what brought me to that edge—and what pulled me back.

This episode marks a reset for Unfeigned Christianity as we begin 2026.

We talk about why the church desperately needs to be theologically anchored, why emotional health is essential for discipleship, and how we are often being formed more by media and politics than by the way of Jesus.

This isn’t a polished manifesto.
It’s an honest conversation.

If you’re longing for a faith that is grounded, emotionally healthy, and capable of loving others well—this journey is for you.

*You can read the written version of this episode here. 

Chapters

00:00 Welcome Back and Personal Updates
01:18 Introducing Zara Aurielle
02:47 Reflecting on the Past Year
04:40 Upcoming Interviews and Themes
09:06 The Importance of Theological Anchoring
17:54 The Need for Emotional Health
27:10 Loving and Discipling Others Well

If you’re tired of shallow faith, reactive Christianity, or pretending everything is fine—this space is for you.

Join the email list
Become a member 
Subscribe for upcoming interviews and teaching

Grace and peace.

]]> full 1 8 false I almost quit.

After a long season of health challenges, burnout, and disillusionment, I came close to walking away from writing, podcasting, and this work altogether. In this episode, I share what brought me to that edge—and what pulled me back.

This episode marks a reset for Unfeigned Christianity as we begin 2026.

We talk about why the church desperately needs to be theologically anchored, why emotional health is essential for discipleship, and how we are often being formed more by media and politics than by the way of Jesus.

This isn’t a polished manifesto.
It’s an honest conversation.

If you’re longing for a faith that is grounded, emotionally healthy, and capable of loving others well—this journey is for you.

*You can read the written version of this episode here. 

Chapters

00:00 Welcome Back and Personal Updates
01:18 Introducing Zara Aurielle
02:47 Reflecting on the Past Year
04:40 Upcoming Interviews and Themes
09:06 The Importance of Theological Anchoring
17:54 The Need for Emotional Health
27:10 Loving and Discipling Others Well

If you’re tired of shallow faith, reactive Christianity, or pretending everything is fine—this space is for you.

Join the email list
Become a member 
Subscribe for upcoming interviews and teaching

Grace and peace.

]]> 00:46:26 <![CDATA[You Weren’t Meant to Heal Alone: The Live Free Mentorship Journey]]> Tue, 25 Nov 2025 20:17:18 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2244755 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/you-werent-meant-to-heal-alone-the-live-free-mentorship-journey After Rewiring Desire, one question remains: Can I really change—and can I do it alone?
In this episode, Asher shares an important announcement: enrollment is now open for the Live Free Mentorship Community—a 5-month guided journey toward sexual and spiritual wholeness.

This isn’t another accountability group. It’s a safe, grace-filled space to process your story, rewire old patterns, and experience the connection your heart was made for.

You’ll learn:

  • Why isolation keeps you stuck

  • What makes Live Free different

  • What’s included inside the mentorship

  • A special Black Friday offer for early members

You don’t need to be perfect to begin—just willing.
Join the community: https://www.asherwitmer.com/the-live-free-mentorship-community/ 

]]> full 5 3 false After Rewiring Desire, one question remains: Can I really change—and can I do it alone?
In this episode, Asher shares an important announcement: enrollment is now open for the Live Free Mentorship Community—a 5-month guided journey toward sexual and spiritual wholeness.

This isn’t another accountability group. It’s a safe, grace-filled space to process your story, rewire old patterns, and experience the connection your heart was made for.

You’ll learn:

  • Why isolation keeps you stuck

  • What makes Live Free different

  • What’s included inside the mentorship

  • A special Black Friday offer for early members

You don’t need to be perfect to begin—just willing.
Join the community: https://www.asherwitmer.com/the-live-free-mentorship-community/ 

]]> 00:03:28 <![CDATA[From Escape to Connection: How to Heal Porn Patterns (Biblical + Practical)]]> Sat, 22 Nov 2025 06:01:07 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2237003 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/from-escape-to-connection-how-to-heal-porn-patterns-biblical-practical Freedom isn’t about a flawless record. It’s about connection in the moment of pain. In Part 3, we get practical: unblending from Exile/Manager/Firefighter, using simple daily practices to calm your nervous system, and building secure attachment with God and safe people. Learn why willpower fails, how neuroplasticity helps, and how to turn relapse into relationship—so your automatic response becomes “I’m hurting → I connect.”

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Healing and Rewiring Desire
00:48 Understanding Internal Parts and Their Roles
02:20 Identifying the Root Causes of Pain
03:37 Neuroscience of Healing and Rewiring the Brain
05:18 Setbacks and the Journey to Wholeness
06:10 Community and Support in the Healing Process

Resources & updates:

]]> full 4 3 false Freedom isn’t about a flawless record. It’s about connection in the moment of pain. In Part 3, we get practical: unblending from Exile/Manager/Firefighter, using simple daily practices to calm your nervous system, and building secure attachment with God and safe people. Learn why willpower fails, how neuroplasticity helps, and how to turn relapse into relationship—so your automatic response becomes “I’m hurting → I connect.”

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Healing and Rewiring Desire
00:48 Understanding Internal Parts and Their Roles
02:20 Identifying the Root Causes of Pain
03:37 Neuroscience of Healing and Rewiring the Brain
05:18 Setbacks and the Journey to Wholeness
06:10 Community and Support in the Healing Process

Resources & updates:

]]> 00:07:43 <![CDATA[What If the Part of You That Runs to Porn Is Actually Trying to Help?]]> Wed, 19 Nov 2025 22:09:37 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2233861 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/what-if-the-part-of-you-that-runs-to-porn-is-actually-trying-to-help What if porn is an emergency strategy—a frantic part of you chasing relief? In Part 2, Asher unpacks Internal Family Systems (Exile, Manager, Firefighter) alongside Romans 7 and Galatians 5 to name the war you feel inside—and to show how Jesus meets every part with safety, truth, and love. You’ll learn a simple prayer for the moment the urge hits, hear a real-life trigger story (the peach tree), and get a free 7-day Porn Recovery Journal to practice this work all week.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding the Roots of Pornography Use
01:52 The Internal Family Systems Model
05:01 The Divided Self and Spiritual Conflict
09:05 Integrating the Inner Parts with Christ
12:30 Healing Through Connection and Presence

Links:

]]> full 3 3 false What if porn is an emergency strategy—a frantic part of you chasing relief? In Part 2, Asher unpacks Internal Family Systems (Exile, Manager, Firefighter) alongside Romans 7 and Galatians 5 to name the war you feel inside—and to show how Jesus meets every part with safety, truth, and love. You’ll learn a simple prayer for the moment the urge hits, hear a real-life trigger story (the peach tree), and get a free 7-day Porn Recovery Journal to practice this work all week.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding the Roots of Pornography Use
01:52 The Internal Family Systems Model
05:01 The Divided Self and Spiritual Conflict
09:05 Integrating the Inner Parts with Christ
12:30 Healing Through Connection and Presence

Links:

]]> 00:16:45 <![CDATA[What If Your Struggle with Porn Isn’t About Lust?]]> Fri, 14 Nov 2025 23:48:09 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2210845 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/what-if-your-struggle-with-porn-isnt-about-lust Most men think their problem is lust. But what if it’s pain?

In this opening episode of Unfeigned Christianity, Asher talks about the hidden shame beneath pornography—the exhaustion, the self-protection, and the ache for connection we rarely admit.

You’ll hear:

  • Why porn is more about pain than pleasure

  • How our attachment wounds drive unwanted behavior

  • Why Jesus doesn’t shame us—He meets us

  • A simple practice called The “Where Are You?” Pause to begin healing

If you’re ready to move from willpower to wholeness, this episode is for you.

 

Chapters

00:00 Confronting the Shame of Pornography
01:23 Understanding the Emotional Roots of Porn Use
03:37 The Path to Healing and Wholeness

Join me as we talk about the pain beneath the porn—and how the gospel meets us there.

Join the conversation & go deeper: http://asherwitmer.com/what-if-your-porn-struggle-isnt-about-lust 

Subscribe & join the journey: asherwitmer.com/subscribe

]]> full 2 3 false Most men think their problem is lust. But what if it’s pain?

In this opening episode of Unfeigned Christianity, Asher talks about the hidden shame beneath pornography—the exhaustion, the self-protection, and the ache for connection we rarely admit.

You’ll hear:

  • Why porn is more about pain than pleasure

  • How our attachment wounds drive unwanted behavior

  • Why Jesus doesn’t shame us—He meets us

  • A simple practice called The “Where Are You?” Pause to begin healing

If you’re ready to move from willpower to wholeness, this episode is for you.

 

Chapters

00:00 Confronting the Shame of Pornography
01:23 Understanding the Emotional Roots of Porn Use
03:37 The Path to Healing and Wholeness

Join me as we talk about the pain beneath the porn—and how the gospel meets us there.

Join the conversation & go deeper: http://asherwitmer.com/what-if-your-porn-struggle-isnt-about-lust 

Subscribe & join the journey: asherwitmer.com/subscribe

]]> 00:05:33 <![CDATA[Exiles, Not Emperors: Jeremiah 29:7, Christian Nationalism, and the Way of Jesus]]> Fri, 17 Oct 2025 12:00:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2167012 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/exiles-not-emperors-jeremiah-297-christian-nationalism-and-the-way-of-jesus We’re not called to win an empire. We’re called to make disciples. In this episode, I respond to an email about Charlie Kirk, “common sense” politics, and whether America was founded on Christian values. We unpack Jeremiah 29:7 in context, ask what actually reduces harm (from abortion to gender transitions), and confront a hard truth: politics is downstream of culture. If laws can’t change hearts, then discipleship—slow, messy, neighbor-level discipleship—must lead the way. I also talk frankly about Trump, calling out evil on both sides, and why I don’t vote so I’m free to pastor people rather than defend a party. Agree or not, I’d love your feedback and stories from your community.

Chapters

00:00 Context to an Email I Received
08:56 Exploring American Culture and Christian Values
17:13 The Role of Political Ideologies in Christian Values
28:11 Evaluating Leadership and Moral Integrity in Politics
29:55 Engaging with Compassion and Conviction
35:54 Politics and Culture: The Interconnectedness
40:40 The Role of Christians in Cultural Impact
47:31 Discipleship Over Political Activism
52:35 The Call to Make Disciples

]]> full 1 3 false We’re not called to win an empire. We’re called to make disciples. In this episode, I respond to an email about Charlie Kirk, “common sense” politics, and whether America was founded on Christian values. We unpack Jeremiah 29:7 in context, ask what actually reduces harm (from abortion to gender transitions), and confront a hard truth: politics is downstream of culture. If laws can’t change hearts, then discipleship—slow, messy, neighbor-level discipleship—must lead the way. I also talk frankly about Trump, calling out evil on both sides, and why I don’t vote so I’m free to pastor people rather than defend a party. Agree or not, I’d love your feedback and stories from your community.

Chapters

00:00 Context to an Email I Received
08:56 Exploring American Culture and Christian Values
17:13 The Role of Political Ideologies in Christian Values
28:11 Evaluating Leadership and Moral Integrity in Politics
29:55 Engaging with Compassion and Conviction
35:54 Politics and Culture: The Interconnectedness
40:40 The Role of Christians in Cultural Impact
47:31 Discipleship Over Political Activism
52:35 The Call to Make Disciples

]]> 00:57:33 <![CDATA[Love Is a Battlefield: How to Fight for Intimacy in Your Marriage]]> Wed, 30 Jul 2025 19:59:08 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2101692 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/love-is-a-battlefield-how-to-fight-for-intimacy-in-your-marriage
In this episode, I discuss the recent scandal involving two executives from the company Astronomer who were caught in an affair at a Coldplay concert. The conversation explores the implications of infidelity, the public's reaction on social media, and the importance of maintaining intimacy in marriage. Intimacy requires effort and sin can destroy connections between spouses. What if instead of mocking or defending people during this time we chose instead to reflect on our own relationships and the importance of emotional health?
 
 
Referenced in this episode is the Esau McCaulley Podcast.
 
 
Become a Member:
Become a member of Unfeigned Christianity on Patreon for as little as $5/month and take your journey deeper. We have six different tiers of membership with different resources available depending on what you're looking for. Check it out here.
 
 
Subscribe to our email list:
Be sure and at least subscribe to our email list as well as the podcast so you don't miss any future episodes.
 
 
Connect with Asher:
Facebook | @asherwitmer
Instagram | asher.witmer
Threads | @asher.witmer

Chapters

  • (00:00:00) - Andy Byron and Kristin Cabot Caught in Affair
  • (00:02:34) - Public Reaction and Social Commentary
  • (00:05:20) - The Impact of Infidelity on Relationships
  • (00:08:10) - The Battlefield of Love and Intimacy
  • (00:10:37) - The Importance of Emotional Health
  • (00:13:09) - Understanding Sin and Its Consequences
  • (00:16:06) - The Role of Shame in Sin
  • (00:18:21) - Pursuing Intimacy and Connection
  • (00:21:03) - Reflection on How to Go Deeper
]]> full false
In this episode, I discuss the recent scandal involving two executives from the company Astronomer who were caught in an affair at a Coldplay concert. The conversation explores the implications of infidelity, the public's reaction on social media, and the importance of maintaining intimacy in marriage. Intimacy requires effort and sin can destroy connections between spouses. What if instead of mocking or defending people during this time we chose instead to reflect on our own relationships and the importance of emotional health?
 
 
Referenced in this episode is the Esau McCaulley Podcast.
 
 
Become a Member:
Become a member of Unfeigned Christianity on Patreon for as little as $5/month and take your journey deeper. We have six different tiers of membership with different resources available depending on what you're looking for. Check it out here.
 
 
Subscribe to our email list:
Be sure and at least subscribe to our email list as well as the podcast so you don't miss any future episodes.
 
 
Connect with Asher:
Facebook | @asherwitmer
Instagram | asher.witmer
Threads | @asher.witmer
]]> 00:31:37 <![CDATA[Why Christians Need a Better Response to Immigration]]> Thu, 10 Jul 2025 20:16:48 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/2085658 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/why-christians-need-a-better-response-to-immigration Many people wonder why I speak out about immigration. Some ask, “Why didn’t you speak up about abortion or LGBTQ+ issues?”

 
Here’s the truth: I believe in legal immigration. I care deeply about obeying Jesus. And I’ve spent most of my adult life among immigrants—so this isn’t just politics to me. It’s personal.
 
In this video, I share:
-Why undocumented doesn’t always mean “illegal”
-What we’re missing when we label immigrants as “criminals”
-How our politics have shaped us more than the Gospel
-And what it really looks like to follow Jesus in this moment
This isn’t about siding with Trump or Biden. It’s about being faithful to Christ.
 
Watch now. Think deeply. Let’s grow in being theologically anchored, emotionally healthy, and loving others well.

Chapters:

01:12 Personal Context and Cross-Cultural Experiences
04:02 Navigating the Abortion Debate and Christian Responses
08:49 Discipleship and Political Engagement
10:34 Legal vs. Illegal Immigration: A Personal Perspective
16:47 Understanding the Complexity of Immigration Issues
20:36 The Human Side of Immigration: Empathy and Understanding

]]> full false Many people wonder why I speak out about immigration. Some ask, “Why didn’t you speak up about abortion or LGBTQ+ issues?”

 
Here’s the truth: I believe in legal immigration. I care deeply about obeying Jesus. And I’ve spent most of my adult life among immigrants—so this isn’t just politics to me. It’s personal.
 
In this video, I share:
-Why undocumented doesn’t always mean “illegal”
-What we’re missing when we label immigrants as “criminals”
-How our politics have shaped us more than the Gospel
-And what it really looks like to follow Jesus in this moment
This isn’t about siding with Trump or Biden. It’s about being faithful to Christ.
 
Watch now. Think deeply. Let’s grow in being theologically anchored, emotionally healthy, and loving others well.

Chapters:

01:12 Personal Context and Cross-Cultural Experiences
04:02 Navigating the Abortion Debate and Christian Responses
08:49 Discipleship and Political Engagement
10:34 Legal vs. Illegal Immigration: A Personal Perspective
16:47 Understanding the Complexity of Immigration Issues
20:36 The Human Side of Immigration: Empathy and Understanding
26:00 Criminality and Immigration: Debunking Myths

Related blog post:
https://www.asherwitmer.com/americanism-immigration-and-a-low-view-of-the-gospel/

Subscribe to the Unfeigned Christianity podcast
Join my email list: https://www.asherwitmer.com/subscribe
Support this work on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/asherwitmer

]]> 00:31:44 <![CDATA[3 Truths Your Children Need to Know Every Day for Strong Mental Health #mentalhealth]]> Wed, 19 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1995528 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/3-truths-your-children-need-to-know-every-day-for-strong-mental-health-mentalhealth As a dad of five, I've been thinking a lot about how to nurture strong mental health in my kids. In this video, I share three essential truths that children need to hear every day—truths that shape their identity, sense of belonging, and purpose. These insights come from my own journey, my studies in emotional health, and what I wish I had known earlier. If you're a parent or mentor, I hope this encourages you! Let’s raise emotionally healthy kids together.

Subscribe to join the journey in becoming Christians who are theologically anchored, emotionally healthy, and loving others well! #childmentalhealth #emotionalhealth

Chapters

00:00 The Importance of Mental Health in Children
02:37 Three Essential Truths for Children
11:32 Fostering Identity and Contribution in Kids

]]> full false As a dad of five, I've been thinking a lot about how to nurture strong mental health in my kids. In this video, I share three essential truths that children need to hear every day—truths that shape their identity, sense of belonging, and purpose. These insights come from my own journey, my studies in emotional health, and what I wish I had known earlier. If you're a parent or mentor, I hope this encourages you! Let’s raise emotionally healthy kids together.

Subscribe to join the journey in becoming Christians who are theologically anchored, emotionally healthy, and loving others well! #childmentalhealth #emotionalhealth

Chapters

00:00 The Importance of Mental Health in Children
02:37 Three Essential Truths for Children
11:32 Fostering Identity and Contribution in Kids

]]> 00:12:14 <![CDATA[One Year Later: What Happened & Where We Go from Here]]> Fri, 28 Feb 2025 16:25:12 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1983692 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/one-year-later-what-happened-where-we-go-from-here Hello friends! It's been nearly a year since I published anything. Today, I share my personal journey through a mysterious health crisis and the challenges of seeking medical help for it. I reflect on the impact of this experience on my life, work, and relationships, which has helped me realize the importance of understanding and empathy in the face of chronic health issues. Then I look at the interplay between physical health, emotional stability, and God's grace during difficult times. Finally, I wanted to share the renewed vision God has given me for this work, focusing on being theologically anchored, emotionally healthy, able to love others well.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Update
02:59 Health Struggles and Mysterious Symptoms
05:51 The Impact of Illness on Daily Life
08:46 Seeking Medical Help and Testing
12:11 Navigating Uncertainty and Mental Health
15:00 The Role of Family and Community Support
17:54 Exploring Possible Diagnoses
20:52 The Neurologist's Insights and Diagnosis
24:13 Reflections on Recovery and Ongoing Challenges
40:23 Navigating Health Challenges and Spiritual Insights
45:09 The Impact of Physical Health on Mental Well-being
51:42 Understanding God's Grace in Suffering
56:24 Reflections on Blogging and Podcasting Journey
01:01:51 Reawakening Vision for Church Engagement

]]> full 105 false Hello friends! It's been nearly a year since I published anything. Today, I share my personal journey through a mysterious health crisis and the challenges of seeking medical help for it. I reflect on the impact of this experience on my life, work, and relationships, which has helped me realize the importance of understanding and empathy in the face of chronic health issues. Then I look at the interplay between physical health, emotional stability, and God's grace during difficult times. Finally, I wanted to share the renewed vision God has given me for this work, focusing on being theologically anchored, emotionally healthy, able to love others well.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Update
02:59 Health Struggles and Mysterious Symptoms
05:51 The Impact of Illness on Daily Life
08:46 Seeking Medical Help and Testing
12:11 Navigating Uncertainty and Mental Health
15:00 The Role of Family and Community Support
17:54 Exploring Possible Diagnoses
20:52 The Neurologist's Insights and Diagnosis
24:13 Reflections on Recovery and Ongoing Challenges
40:23 Navigating Health Challenges and Spiritual Insights
45:09 The Impact of Physical Health on Mental Well-being
51:42 Understanding God's Grace in Suffering
56:24 Reflections on Blogging and Podcasting Journey
01:01:51 Reawakening Vision for Church Engagement

]]> 01:17:28 <![CDATA[God Is Good (Another health update)]]> Mon, 01 Apr 2024 23:20:33 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1710413 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/god-is-good-another-health-update Hey friends,

I just wanted to pop in here and say "Thank you!" to all of you who've reached out and expressed that you're praying for me and my family with the health issues that have come up in the last couple of months. I'm grateful that I am feeling better. My energy is recovering and the last several weeks have been quite a bit better all around. Here's a bit of an update.

Please continue to pray for us as you think about it.

]]> bonus false Hey friends,

I just wanted to pop in here and say "Thank you!" to all of you who've reached out and expressed that you're praying for me and my family with the health issues that have come up in the last couple of months. I'm grateful that I am feeling better. My energy is recovering and the last several weeks have been quite a bit better all around. Here's a bit of an update.

Please continue to pray for us as you think about it.

]]> 00:02:44 <![CDATA[Health Update + Live Free Video Series Launch Delay]]> Thu, 29 Feb 2024 17:27:14 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1677298 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/health-update-live-free-video-series-launch
Hello friends,
 
This month has been a pretty difficult month for us as a family. I've been hit with some fairly significant health issues and it has led us to put pretty much everything on hold as we seek out some answers. Here's an update on everything.
 
We envy your prayers and thank you for your participation in this work!
 
Grace and peace.
Asher
]]> bonus false
Hello friends,
 
This month has been a pretty difficult month for us as a family. I've been hit with some fairly significant health issues and it has led us to put pretty much everything on hold as we seek out some answers. Here's an update on everything.
 
We envy your prayers and thank you for your participation in this work!
 
Grace and peace.
Asher
]]> 00:05:10 <![CDATA[The Bible Is Not about You - It's about God and His Partnership with Humanity]]> Thu, 08 Feb 2024 22:04:10 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1657946 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/the-bible-is-not-about-you-its-about-god-and-his-partnership-with-humanity Sometimes we mistakenly center ourselves in the story of the Bible, as though the Bible is all about answering our questions and giving us direction for life. But the Bible is not simply about helping us navigate through life successfully. 

It could be said the Bible is about God—who he is, what he has done, and what he is doing. More specifically, the Bible is Messianic literature. It’s about the Messiah: the God who became human. Therefore, it’s about US—God and Man. Following Jesus is about becoming him, becoming a part of His body.

Why might it be important for us to see the Bible as a story of humanity becoming the body of Christ as we read it? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> full false Sometimes we mistakenly center ourselves in the story of the Bible, as though the Bible is all about answering our questions and giving us direction for life. But the Bible is not simply about helping us navigate through life successfully. 

It could be said the Bible is about God—who he is, what he has done, and what he is doing. More specifically, the Bible is Messianic literature. It’s about the Messiah: the God who became human. Therefore, it’s about US—God and Man. Following Jesus is about becoming him, becoming a part of His body.

Why might it be important for us to see the Bible as a story of humanity becoming the body of Christ as we read it? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> 00:16:58 <![CDATA[What Does Asher Actually Believe about Gender?? (Responding to Questions)]]> Thu, 01 Feb 2024 00:31:17 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1649785 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/what-does-asher-actually-believe-about-gender-responding-to-questions I recently published an article, Is It Sinful to Use “Transgender Pronouns”? In the article, I explored how Rosaria Butterfield recently “repented” from using what she calls, “transgender pronouns.” Why is she doing that? Should you feel the same way? A few people responded with some questions that I thought were worth responding to in a specific episode. So that's what we dive into today.

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]]> full false I recently published an article, Is It Sinful to Use “Transgender Pronouns”? In the article, I explored how Rosaria Butterfield recently “repented” from using what she calls, “transgender pronouns.” Why is she doing that? Should you feel the same way? A few people responded with some questions that I thought were worth responding to in a specific episode. So that's what we dive into today.

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]]> 00:33:33 <![CDATA[#100 - Jesus Sees Himself As Embedded within a Large Story]]> Wed, 24 Jan 2024 22:30:05 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1641356 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/100-jesus-sees-himself-as-embedded-within-a-large-story How does the rest of the world view the Christianity that comes from the West? David Swartz does a wonderful job giving us reminding us that evangelical networks not only go out to, but also come from, the ends of the earth as he shares stories of resistance, accommodation, and cooperation in his book Facing West.

Then we dive into the third paradigm shift that helps us better understand the story of the Bible. That is that Jesus saw himself embedded within a large story.

Why is it important to understand that the Old and New Testaments are not separate messages but one continuous message climaxing in Jesus? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> full false How does the rest of the world view the Christianity that comes from the West? David Swartz does a wonderful job giving us reminding us that evangelical networks not only go out to, but also come from, the ends of the earth as he shares stories of resistance, accommodation, and cooperation in his book Facing West.

Then we dive into the third paradigm shift that helps us better understand the story of the Bible. That is that Jesus saw himself embedded within a large story.

Why is it important to understand that the Old and New Testaments are not separate messages but one continuous message climaxing in Jesus? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> 00:35:19 <![CDATA[#099 - The Bible Is a Collection of Writings by Various Authors]]> Thu, 18 Jan 2024 06:34:06 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1636956 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/099-the-bible-is-a-collection-of-writings-by-various-authors God Doesn't Waste a Thing! That's the book I talk about at the beginning of this episode. Even when life has changed in inconvenient ways, God will use it to further his purposes, as Luke Chance shares in his beautiful testimony of redemption.

After the blurb about the book, we dive into the second paradigm shift that helps us better understand the story of the Bible: it's made up of many pieces of writings written by many different authors. 

Since the Bible was written by many different people, what implications does this have for how we read and study the Bible? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> full false God Doesn't Waste a Thing! That's the book I talk about at the beginning of this episode. Even when life has changed in inconvenient ways, God will use it to further his purposes, as Luke Chance shares in his beautiful testimony of redemption.

After the blurb about the book, we dive into the second paradigm shift that helps us better understand the story of the Bible: it's made up of many pieces of writings written by many different authors. 

Since the Bible was written by many different people, what implications does this have for how we read and study the Bible? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> 00:34:14 <![CDATA[#098 - The Bible Is a Story: Everything That Does and Doesn't Mean]]> Wed, 10 Jan 2024 21:03:30 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1630596 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/098-the-bible-is-a-story-everything-that-does-and-doesnt-mean This week I discuss two books I've been reading, Counting the Cost by Jill Duggar Dillard and Becoming Free Indeed by Jinger Duggar Vuolo, and an important lesson I was reminded of as I've read them. Then, we dive into everything it does and doesn't mean that the Bible is a story. Does the fact that the Bible is a story mean we don't have follow any of its rules? We get into all that and more in this week's episode.

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]]> full false This week I discuss two books I've been reading, Counting the Cost by Jill Duggar Dillard and Becoming Free Indeed by Jinger Duggar Vuolo, and an important lesson I was reminded of as I've read them. Then, we dive into everything it does and doesn't mean that the Bible is a story. Does the fact that the Bible is a story mean we don't have follow any of its rules? We get into all that and more in this week's episode.

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]]> 00:45:10 <![CDATA[#097 - God Gave Us His Word Through Story -- A Paradigm Shift]]> Thu, 04 Jan 2024 20:48:06 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1627464 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/097-god-gave-us-his-word-through-story-a-paradigm-shift Hey friends! Welcome to 2024!

To kick things off, I'm going to be sharing a series of episodes with you that addresses how we ought to interact with scripture. It'll be a paradigm shift for many of us: the Bible is a story, not a reference book. Today's episode introduces it all. Enjoy!

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]]> full false Hey friends! Welcome to 2024!

To kick things off, I'm going to be sharing a series of episodes with you that addresses how we ought to interact with scripture. It'll be a paradigm shift for many of us: the Bible is a story, not a reference book. Today's episode introduces it all. Enjoy!

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]]> 00:30:55 <![CDATA[#096 - End of Year Reflections + My Five Favorite Reads]]> Sat, 30 Dec 2023 17:36:22 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1624915 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/096-end-of-year-reflections-my-five-favorite-reads As an end of year roundup, I discuss the interviews I did in 2023 that were highlights to me plus share my top 5 reads of the year. Here are some time-stamps for the episode:

The birth of our daughter (0:32). My three favorite conversations from the last year (1:56). Quarterly guided studies coming up in 2024 (24:42). WAP in 2024 (27:43). My five favorite reads (29:33). 

What are your favorite reads of this past year? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> full false As an end of year roundup, I discuss the interviews I did in 2023 that were highlights to me plus share my top 5 reads of the year. Here are some time-stamps for the episode:

The birth of our daughter (0:32). My three favorite conversations from the last year (1:56). Quarterly guided studies coming up in 2024 (24:42). WAP in 2024 (27:43). My five favorite reads (29:33). 

What are your favorite reads of this past year? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> 00:54:34 <![CDATA[#095 - Three Lessons about Spiritual Abuse I Learned the Hard Way]]> Fri, 08 Dec 2023 18:52:49 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1612554 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/095-three-lessons-about-spiritual-abuse-i-learned-the-hard-way This episode is exclusively for our valued patrons on Patreon.

In this episode, I dive into three valuable lessons I've learned the hard way about spiritual abuse. These lessons aren't just "failures vs. successes," but rather insights gained through challenging experiences that can benefit us all.

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  • Raw discussion: I've gone through some experiences that were pretty tough to sort through and I share about the disillusionment that comes with that.
  • Practical lessons: As a result of those experiences however, I've learned a lot about having greater self-awareness when it comes to spiritual leadership, church dynamics, and disciple-making.
  • Three key lessons and responses: We're not just going to look at the negative side but offer a healthier way forward as well.

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]]> trailer false This episode is exclusively for our valued patrons on Patreon.

In this episode, I dive into three valuable lessons I've learned the hard way about spiritual abuse. These lessons aren't just "failures vs. successes," but rather insights gained through challenging experiences that can benefit us all.

Access the episode here.

Here's what you can expect:

  • Raw discussion: I've gone through some experiences that were pretty tough to sort through and I share about the disillusionment that comes with that.
  • Practical lessons: As a result of those experiences however, I've learned a lot about having greater self-awareness when it comes to spiritual leadership, church dynamics, and disciple-making.
  • Three key lessons and responses: We're not just going to look at the negative side but offer a healthier way forward as well.

If you're interested in this episode and haven't already joined the Unfeigned Christianity Patreon community, I invite you to explore the benefits of membership:

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Thank you for being a part of Unfeigned Christianity. Together, we can continue exploring what it means to live faithfully in our current cultural moment.

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]]> 00:04:20 <![CDATA[#094 - The Church Is Not As Bad Off As We May Think]]> Wed, 22 Nov 2023 17:16:39 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1601673 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/094-the-church-is-not-as-bad-off-as-we-may-think In this episode, I share some reflections on being a part of the Christian community, particularly relating to my experiences with the challenges of maintaining faith within flawed institutions. I opened up about my previous experiences with panic attacks, depression, and dealing with some personal and systemic issues in church communities, which sometimes led me to ask raw questions about faith and the role of the church. What I've discovered, however, is that despite the faults and failings, the church is not as terrible as it might seem.

It is filled with people who are on their own complex faith journey and who are also striving to live a more Jesus-embodying life. Contrary to my assumptions coming out of some really difficult experiences, there are people willing to have open-minded conversations about differing perspectives and issues within Christian communities.

While our experiences may cause us to doubt, it is important to remember our experiences are just a small part of the larger picture. There is hope for healthier Christian communities.

What makes you the most hesitant to open to people? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> full false In this episode, I share some reflections on being a part of the Christian community, particularly relating to my experiences with the challenges of maintaining faith within flawed institutions. I opened up about my previous experiences with panic attacks, depression, and dealing with some personal and systemic issues in church communities, which sometimes led me to ask raw questions about faith and the role of the church. What I've discovered, however, is that despite the faults and failings, the church is not as terrible as it might seem.

It is filled with people who are on their own complex faith journey and who are also striving to live a more Jesus-embodying life. Contrary to my assumptions coming out of some really difficult experiences, there are people willing to have open-minded conversations about differing perspectives and issues within Christian communities.

While our experiences may cause us to doubt, it is important to remember our experiences are just a small part of the larger picture. There is hope for healthier Christian communities.

What makes you the most hesitant to open to people? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> 00:55:02 <![CDATA[#093 - Unfeigned Christianity Update: Where I’ve Been and Where We’re Going]]> Mon, 13 Nov 2023 20:28:36 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1595728 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/093-unfeigned-christianity-update-where-ive-been-and-where-were-going It's been three months since I released an update. I share why in this personal update. 

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]]> full false It's been three months since I released an update. I share why in this personal update. 

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]]> 00:46:29 <![CDATA[#092 - A Conversation about Parenting, Women's Roles in the Church, & Participation in Broken Systems with Dorcas Smucker]]> Wed, 20 Sep 2023 16:32:40 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1559800 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/092-a-conversation-about-parenting-womens-roles-in-the-church-participation-in-broken-systems-with-dorcas-smucker It was a pleasure to sit down with Dorcas Smucker and discuss all kinds of things, not the least of which included parenting.

We spent a good bit of time in the expanded version reflecting on some of the broken systems we've been a part of and talking about what to do when we realize we are currently participating in such a system. You can access that version here.

Be sure to check out Dorcas' blog and her books for yourself.

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]]> full false It was a pleasure to sit down with Dorcas Smucker and discuss all kinds of things, not the least of which included parenting.

We spent a good bit of time in the expanded version reflecting on some of the broken systems we've been a part of and talking about what to do when we realize we are currently participating in such a system. You can access that version here.

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]]> 00:44:33 <![CDATA[#091 - Why Women Should Get Theological Training w/ Kristi Mast]]> Fri, 11 Aug 2023 17:28:43 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1535591 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/091-why-women-should-get-theological-training-w-kristi-mast I had the honor of talking with Kristi Mast about her experience in Bible college, discovering the whole scope of Scripture more in-depth, and the importance of women getting this sort of Bible training.

Kristi serves on staff with Sattler College, and has recently published a Bible study specifically designed for guided women through the process of studying the Bible for themselves. You can check it out here.

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]]> full false I had the honor of talking with Kristi Mast about her experience in Bible college, discovering the whole scope of Scripture more in-depth, and the importance of women getting this sort of Bible training.

Kristi serves on staff with Sattler College, and has recently published a Bible study specifically designed for guided women through the process of studying the Bible for themselves. You can check it out here.

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]]> 00:59:22 <![CDATA[#090 - Discover Your Place in God's Story]]> Mon, 31 Jul 2023 10:42:35 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1525714 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/090-discover-your-place-in-gods-story I am SO EXCITED to tell you that we've opened enrollment once again to ​Finding My Place in God's Story​. I share the full scoop in today's episode of Unfeigned Christianity.

Finding My Place in God's Story walks you through a 5-part process for understanding scripture and discovering your life's purpose.

You can learn all the details about the course and how to sign up through this link.

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]]> full false I am SO EXCITED to tell you that we've opened enrollment once again to ​Finding My Place in God's Story​. I share the full scoop in today's episode of Unfeigned Christianity.

Finding My Place in God's Story walks you through a 5-part process for understanding scripture and discovering your life's purpose.

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]]> 00:42:19 <![CDATA[#089 - What It Looks Like to Live Out God’s Story]]> Wed, 19 Jul 2023 18:44:22 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1520046 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/089-what-it-looks-like-to-live-out-gods-story "If the Bible is story and not a reference book where we find answers to theological questions, moral guidance for navigating ethical issues, or inspiration for the day, what are we to do when we face ethical struggles? Are you telling me not to go to the Bible for answers? What do we do with the various beliefs about God and doctrine and so forth? What do we do when we struggle to feel inspired?"

We look at all this and more in today's episode of Unfeigned Christianity.

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]]> full false "If the Bible is story and not a reference book where we find answers to theological questions, moral guidance for navigating ethical issues, or inspiration for the day, what are we to do when we face ethical struggles? Are you telling me not to go to the Bible for answers? What do we do with the various beliefs about God and doctrine and so forth? What do we do when we struggle to feel inspired?"

We look at all this and more in today's episode of Unfeigned Christianity.

I'd love to hear what questions do you have about God's story and about connecting it with yours after you listen to this. You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> 01:03:34 <![CDATA[#088 - How to Read the Bible As Story]]> Mon, 17 Jul 2023 14:53:20 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1518598 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/088-how-to-read-the-bible-as-story As we continue our series on how to connect with God and your purpose through His story, we take a deep dive into what God's story is and how to read the Bible as story. Just like all good stories, in God's story there are many moving pieces and it can be easy to miss the story unless we take time to step back and observe it fully. That's what we learn how to do in today's episode.

When you're done listening, I'd love to hear how seeing God's story and understanding the Bible as wisdom literature changes the way you've viewed scripture? What questions do you have about God's story and about connecting it with yours? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> full false As we continue our series on how to connect with God and your purpose through His story, we take a deep dive into what God's story is and how to read the Bible as story. Just like all good stories, in God's story there are many moving pieces and it can be easy to miss the story unless we take time to step back and observe it fully. That's what we learn how to do in today's episode.

When you're done listening, I'd love to hear how seeing God's story and understanding the Bible as wisdom literature changes the way you've viewed scripture? What questions do you have about God's story and about connecting it with yours? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> 01:34:22 <![CDATA[#087 - Connect with God and Your Purpose Through His Story ]]> Mon, 10 Jul 2023 19:46:24 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1513525 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/087-connect-with-god-and-your-purpose-through-his-story Do you long to be close with God and have a deeper confidence that you know why you exist? I think many people feel distant from God and unclear about life because they haven't gotten a good grasp of His story. In this episode, we're beginning a three-part series on finding connection with God and clarity about life purpose through a better understanding of His story. 

When you're done listening, I'd love to hear whether you've ever seen your life as being a piece of God's greater story before? What questions do you have about God's story and about connecting it with yours? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> full false Do you long to be close with God and have a deeper confidence that you know why you exist? I think many people feel distant from God and unclear about life because they haven't gotten a good grasp of His story. In this episode, we're beginning a three-part series on finding connection with God and clarity about life purpose through a better understanding of His story. 

When you're done listening, I'd love to hear whether you've ever seen your life as being a piece of God's greater story before? What questions do you have about God's story and about connecting it with yours? You can send your feedback to podcast@asherwitmer.com.

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]]> 00:33:55 <![CDATA[#086 - Reading the Bible As Story w/ Ricky Miller]]> Fri, 30 Jun 2023 19:42:20 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1508771 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/086-reading-the-bible-as-story-w-ricky-miller My friend, Ricky Miller, joins me to discuss reading the Bible as story. Discovering the story nature of scripture has radically changed the way Ricky views the Bible.

While this approach can feel modern, it's actually a more historically accurate approach to scripture. We've simply grown accustomed to the more rigid approach to scripture perpetuated by the Reformation and the Fundamentalist movement.

Ricky serves as associate pastor of Skyline Mennonite Church, as well as a prison chaplain for New Horizons Ministries. 

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]]> full false My friend, Ricky Miller, joins me to discuss reading the Bible as story. Discovering the story nature of scripture has radically changed the way Ricky views the Bible.

While this approach can feel modern, it's actually a more historically accurate approach to scripture. We've simply grown accustomed to the more rigid approach to scripture perpetuated by the Reformation and the Fundamentalist movement.

Ricky serves as associate pastor of Skyline Mennonite Church, as well as a prison chaplain for New Horizons Ministries. 

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]]> 01:05:01 <![CDATA[#085 - Reading Scripture As Literature w/ Dru Lattin]]> Wed, 28 Jun 2023 18:29:48 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1507682 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/085-reading-scripture-as-literature-w-dru-lattin Dru joins me once again to dive deep into reading scripture as literature. How does this shape the way we interpret the Bible? Listen and find out! 

You can hear more from Dru on his own podcast, That Jesus Podcast, where he explores what it means to be a radical apprentice of King Jesus.

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]]> full false Dru joins me once again to dive deep into reading scripture as literature. How does this shape the way we interpret the Bible? Listen and find out! 

You can hear more from Dru on his own podcast, That Jesus Podcast, where he explores what it means to be a radical apprentice of King Jesus.

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]]> 01:05:10 <![CDATA[#084 - Responding to Questions about Spanking, Same-Sex Attraction, and Sheila Wray Gregoire]]> Mon, 19 Jun 2023 15:40:34 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1499116 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/084-responding-to-questions-about-spanking-same-sex-attraction-and-sheila-wray-gregoire In this episode, I take some time to respond to feedback I've gotten over the last couple of months about my interviews on spanking, same-sex attraction, and Sheila Wray Gregoire. 

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]]> full false In this episode, I take some time to respond to feedback I've gotten over the last couple of months about my interviews on spanking, same-sex attraction, and Sheila Wray Gregoire. 

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]]> 03:20:36 <![CDATA[#083 - Using Data Responsibly (w/ Byran Smucker)]]> Wed, 07 Jun 2023 22:05:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1492151 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/083-using-data-responsibly-w-byran-smucker How can statistics demonstrate the attributes of God? What does it look like for Christians to engage data honestly? 

I thoroughly enjoyed my conversation with Byran Smucker on using data responsibly. Byran lives in Hamilton, OH (close to Cincinnati) with his wife, Amy, and their four children. He has a PhD in Statistics and Operations Research from Penn State and is an Associate Professor of Statistics at Miami University in Oxford, OH.

In the expanded version, we spend an extra twenty minutes discussing what to do when data contradicts our beliefs. You can listen to it here.

Mentioned in the episode is Byran's blog, The Bylog Redux. I recommend checking out his reflections on the book Jesus and John Wayne.

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]]> full false How can statistics demonstrate the attributes of God? What does it look like for Christians to engage data honestly? 

I thoroughly enjoyed my conversation with Byran Smucker on using data responsibly. Byran lives in Hamilton, OH (close to Cincinnati) with his wife, Amy, and their four children. He has a PhD in Statistics and Operations Research from Penn State and is an Associate Professor of Statistics at Miami University in Oxford, OH.

In the expanded version, we spend an extra twenty minutes discussing what to do when data contradicts our beliefs. You can listen to it here.

Mentioned in the episode is Byran's blog, The Bylog Redux. I recommend checking out his reflections on the book Jesus and John Wayne.

If you'd like to check out the Dwell App, click here.

Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

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]]> 00:59:36 <![CDATA[#082 - Laurie Krieg on What Her Mixed-Orientation Marriage Has Taught Her about Love and the Gospel]]> Wed, 31 May 2023 20:42:02 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1488499 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/082-laurie-krieg-on-what-her-mixed-orientation-marriage-has-taught-her-about-love-and-the-gospel What is the purpose of marriage? Is it possible to marry the wrong person? What do you do if you find yourself in a marriage that feels impossible, like an impossible marriage?

I'm honored to have as my guest this week, Laurie Krieg. Along with being a wife and mother, she's an author and serves on the board of the Center for Faith, Sexuality & Gender. In this episode, we discuss the book she wrote with her husband, Matt, about being in what some call an "impossible marriage."

If you would like to read the book for yourself, you can purchase it on Amazon here, OR become an Advanced Member of Unfeigned Christianity and get a copy for free. Click here to learn more about becoming a member. 

In the expanded portion of this episode, we talk about navigating sex in marriage when you're not feeling attracted to each other. You can access the expanded version here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/laurie-krieg-on-83855579. 

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]]> full false What is the purpose of marriage? Is it possible to marry the wrong person? What do you do if you find yourself in a marriage that feels impossible, like an impossible marriage?

I'm honored to have as my guest this week, Laurie Krieg. Along with being a wife and mother, she's an author and serves on the board of the Center for Faith, Sexuality & Gender. In this episode, we discuss the book she wrote with her husband, Matt, about being in what some call an "impossible marriage."

If you would like to read the book for yourself, you can purchase it on Amazon here, OR become an Advanced Member of Unfeigned Christianity and get a copy for free. Click here to learn more about becoming a member. 

In the expanded portion of this episode, we talk about navigating sex in marriage when you're not feeling attracted to each other. You can access the expanded version here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/laurie-krieg-on-83855579. 

If you'd like to check out the Dwell App, click here.

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]]> 00:42:41 <![CDATA[#081 - Spanking As Sexual Violence Against Children]]> Wed, 24 May 2023 10:29:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1484433 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/081-spanking-as-sexual-violence-against-children Did you know spanking can cause some children to experience sexual arousal? I didn't either until recent months. In this week's episode of Unfeigned Christianity, we dive into this with my guest sharing personal experience and research on the topic.

In the expanded version, we discuss how to discipline children without spanking them, particularly when it requires physical restraint. You can access that version here.

Mentioned in the episode is an essay: Why spanking children is sexual violence and a violation of God given bodily autonomy.

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]]> full false Did you know spanking can cause some children to experience sexual arousal? I didn't either until recent months. In this week's episode of Unfeigned Christianity, we dive into this with my guest sharing personal experience and research on the topic.

In the expanded version, we discuss how to discipline children without spanking them, particularly when it requires physical restraint. You can access that version here.

Mentioned in the episode is an essay: Why spanking children is sexual violence and a violation of God given bodily autonomy.

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]]> 00:55:41 <![CDATA[#080 - Finding Belonging in Singleness (Greg Coles Interview Pt. 2)]]> Thu, 18 May 2023 18:26:57 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1481838 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/080-finding-belonging-in-singleness-greg-coles-interview-pt-2 In Part 2 of my conversation with Greg Coles, we look at how to find belonging in singleness. Our conversation touches on aspects of his second book, No Longer Strangers: Finding Belonging in a World of Alienation.

You can check out the rest of Greg's work and his book at https://www.gregorycoles.com/. 

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]]> full false In Part 2 of my conversation with Greg Coles, we look at how to find belonging in singleness. Our conversation touches on aspects of his second book, No Longer Strangers: Finding Belonging in a World of Alienation.

You can check out the rest of Greg's work and his book at https://www.gregorycoles.com/. 

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]]> 00:35:51 <![CDATA[#079 - Single, Gay, and Christian (Greg Coles Interview Pt. 1)]]> Thu, 11 May 2023 10:45:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1475640 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/079-single-gay-and-christian-greg-coles-interview-pt-1 I'm super stoked to share with you my conversation with Greg Coles. We discuss his memoir, Single, Gay, Christian: A Personal Journey of Faith and Sexual Identity. This episode is Part 1 of my conversation with him as we look at what it means to be gay and how to walk faithfully with Jesus while being undeniably gay.

You can check out Greg's work and his book at https://www.gregorycoles.com/. 

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]]> full false I'm super stoked to share with you my conversation with Greg Coles. We discuss his memoir, Single, Gay, Christian: A Personal Journey of Faith and Sexual Identity. This episode is Part 1 of my conversation with him as we look at what it means to be gay and how to walk faithfully with Jesus while being undeniably gay.

You can check out Greg's work and his book at https://www.gregorycoles.com/. 

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]]> 00:51:42 <![CDATA[#078 - Sheila Wray Gregoire on the Lies We've Been Taught about Sex & How to Recover What God Intended]]> Fri, 05 May 2023 21:06:03 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1473391 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/078-sheila-wray-gregoire-on-the-lies-weve-been-taught-about-sex-how-to-recover-what-god-intended Sheila has written many books on sex, but in The Great Sex Rescue, she specifically addresses the ways in which many Christian books and teachers on sex have misled people about what sex is and what healthy sex in marriage looks like. We dive into all of that in today's episode.

We spend an extra 10-15 minutes talking about what she would tell her younger self in the expanded version, here.

I'd love to hear your feedback when you're done. Leave a review and let us know what you think!

You can purchase your own copy of The Great Sex Rescue on Amazon or follow Sheila's work on her blog at https://sheilawraygregoire.com/.

Also, if you would like to join our guided study, Creating Sexually Healthy Romance, you can do so by visiting this page. And to check out the Dwell App, click here.

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]]> full false Sheila has written many books on sex, but in The Great Sex Rescue, she specifically addresses the ways in which many Christian books and teachers on sex have misled people about what sex is and what healthy sex in marriage looks like. We dive into all of that in today's episode.

We spend an extra 10-15 minutes talking about what she would tell her younger self in the expanded version, here.

I'd love to hear your feedback when you're done. Leave a review and let us know what you think!

You can purchase your own copy of The Great Sex Rescue on Amazon or follow Sheila's work on her blog at https://sheilawraygregoire.com/.

Also, if you would like to join our guided study, Creating Sexually Healthy Romance, you can do so by visiting this page. And to check out the Dwell App, click here.

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]]> 00:52:28 <![CDATA[#077 - Social Work as an Act of Justice w/ Lowell Herschberger]]> Tue, 25 Apr 2023 21:43:04 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1464886 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/077-social-work-as-an-act-of-justice-w-lowell-herschberger I recently had the privilege of interviewing my friend Lowell Herschberger about his work as a social worker. I loved my conversation with him as a way of learning how to do justice as disciples of Jesus. 

We get into what it's like to work with a secular government, how Christians can serve as social workers in good conscience, and much more. 

In the expanded version, we spend 10-15 minutes talking about the role of gratitude in the work of justice at the very end. You can access that here.

I'd love to hear your feedback when you're done. Feel free to share in the comments below!

*Check out more of Lowell's writing at https://www.lajourney.net/. 

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]]> full false I recently had the privilege of interviewing my friend Lowell Herschberger about his work as a social worker. I loved my conversation with him as a way of learning how to do justice as disciples of Jesus. 

We get into what it's like to work with a secular government, how Christians can serve as social workers in good conscience, and much more. 

In the expanded version, we spend 10-15 minutes talking about the role of gratitude in the work of justice at the very end. You can access that here.

I'd love to hear your feedback when you're done. Feel free to share in the comments below!

*Check out more of Lowell's writing at https://www.lajourney.net/. 

Also, if you'd like to check out the Dwell App, click here.

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]]> 00:54:20 <![CDATA[#076 - A Conversation on Power, Gender, and Roles within Creation w/ Rebekah Mui & Dru Lattin]]> Tue, 04 Apr 2023 20:06:38 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1452189 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/076-a-conversation-on-power-gender-and-roles-within-creation-w-rebekah-mui-dru-lattin In this week's episode, I was privileged to be joined by Rebekah Mui and Dru Lattin to discuss power, gender, and roles.

Now, we recorded this episode in early February, so we don't discuss any of the conversations that have taken place around the Christian world regarding gender and sexuality in the last month or so. But this episode is powerful, nonetheless. We're really peeling back the first layer of many in a complex conversation.

You can access the expanded version of this podcast here.

I'd love to hear your feedback when you're done. Feel free to share in the comments below!

*Check out more of Rebekah's work at https://kingdomoutpost.org/ and Dru's work at That Jesus Podcast or anywhere podcasts are found.

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]]> full false In this week's episode, I was privileged to be joined by Rebekah Mui and Dru Lattin to discuss power, gender, and roles.

Now, we recorded this episode in early February, so we don't discuss any of the conversations that have taken place around the Christian world regarding gender and sexuality in the last month or so. But this episode is powerful, nonetheless. We're really peeling back the first layer of many in a complex conversation.

You can access the expanded version of this podcast here.

I'd love to hear your feedback when you're done. Feel free to share in the comments below!

*Check out more of Rebekah's work at https://kingdomoutpost.org/ and Dru's work at That Jesus Podcast or anywhere podcasts are found.

Also, if you'd like to check out the Dwell App, click here.

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]]> 01:34:23 <![CDATA[#075 - Dylo Cadet on Abuse That Happens in the Name of "Mission Work"]]> Fri, 03 Mar 2023 20:56:45 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1428698 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/075-dylo-cadet-on-abuse-that-happens-in-the-name-of-mission-work I'm honored to be joined by Dylo Cadet to discuss his recent book, In the Name of "Mission Work." Dylo is a native Haitian who was raised in a loving Christian family. For almost a decade he has worked with different mission agencies from the Anabaptist denomination. He is a husband and a young father of two.

Dylo firmly believes that truth is our most important weapon in combatting any type of evil. In this book, he wishes to help arm the public with firsthand knowledge of how he has witnessed authority being misused in the context of the church and mission works. Hoping to nudge our community towards awareness and accountability. You can get a copy of Dylo's book here. 

You can access the expanded portion where we discuss what CAM should have done here.

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]]> full false I'm honored to be joined by Dylo Cadet to discuss his recent book, In the Name of "Mission Work." Dylo is a native Haitian who was raised in a loving Christian family. For almost a decade he has worked with different mission agencies from the Anabaptist denomination. He is a husband and a young father of two.

Dylo firmly believes that truth is our most important weapon in combatting any type of evil. In this book, he wishes to help arm the public with firsthand knowledge of how he has witnessed authority being misused in the context of the church and mission works. Hoping to nudge our community towards awareness and accountability. You can get a copy of Dylo's book here. 

You can access the expanded portion where we discuss what CAM should have done here.

Also, if you'd like to check out the Dwell App, click here.

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]]> 01:25:44 <![CDATA[#074 - What Are We to Make of All the Commentary about Asbury?]]> Tue, 21 Feb 2023 18:11:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1419387 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/074-what-are-we-to-make-of-all-the-commentary-about-asbury There has been a lot of commentary around the revival taking place at Asbury University. What are we to make of it all? What are we to make of Asbury? What are we to make of revivals? 

All this and more on this week's episode. 

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]]> full false There has been a lot of commentary around the revival taking place at Asbury University. What are we to make of it all? What are we to make of Asbury? What are we to make of revivals? 

All this and more on this week's episode. 

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]]> 01:20:41 <![CDATA[#073 - What Does Jesus Really Say about Divorce & Remarriage? (w/ Dwight Gingrich)]]> Tue, 14 Feb 2023 00:40:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1411153 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/073-what-does-jesus-really-say-about-divorce-remarriage-w-dwight-gingrich I am thrilled to share with you all my conversation with one of my friends and mentors, Dwight Gingrich. He has been doing an in-depth study on divorce and remarriage. So far he has looked at the historical Anabaptist perspective on the exception clause and some of Jesus' teachings on divorce and remarriage. He plans to finish up Jesus' teachings and move on to Paul next.

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]]> full false I am thrilled to share with you all my conversation with one of my friends and mentors, Dwight Gingrich. He has been doing an in-depth study on divorce and remarriage. So far he has looked at the historical Anabaptist perspective on the exception clause and some of Jesus' teachings on divorce and remarriage. He plans to finish up Jesus' teachings and move on to Paul next.

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]]> 01:32:46 <![CDATA[#072 - Dru Lattin on How Our Faith Changes As Life Unfolds]]> Wed, 25 Jan 2023 23:03:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1391549 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/072-dru-lattin-on-how-our-faith-changes-as-life-unfolds Got to sit down with my friend, Dru Lattin and discuss "deconstruction" from a pastoral perspective. Although, we both acknowledge there are terms we like better. Basically, we talk about the ways our faith has changed as we gain more experiences.

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]]> full false Got to sit down with my friend, Dru Lattin and discuss "deconstruction" from a pastoral perspective. Although, we both acknowledge there are terms we like better. Basically, we talk about the ways our faith has changed as we gain more experiences.

Hope you enjoy!

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]]> 01:28:19 <![CDATA[#071 - The 3 Biggest Surprises I've Faced in Bible College]]> Thu, 15 Dec 2022 13:00:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1349611 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/071-the-3-biggest-surprises-i39ve-faced-in-bible-college In today's episode, I share how Bible college has impacted me. I specifically share the three biggest surprises I've faced in the five years of Bible college so far. In the expanded version, I also go into detail about the two biggest challenges. You can access that version right here.

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]]> full false In today's episode, I share how Bible college has impacted me. I specifically share the three biggest surprises I've faced in the five years of Bible college so far. In the expanded version, I also go into detail about the two biggest challenges. You can access that version right here.

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]]> 01:06:56 <![CDATA[#070 - Why Should the Church Care about Racial/Cultural Issues? (Keeshon Washington)]]> Thu, 01 Dec 2022 17:37:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1339234 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/070-why-should-the-church-care-about-racialcultural-issues-keeshon-washington My friend Keeshon is back on to discuss some of the work he's been involved with lately, his journey of forgiving his parents, and why the church should care about racial issues (or other cultural issues). Has the church learned anything in the last couple of years with racial tensions at the forefront of American society?

We also spend some time in the expanded version discussing how to empower/transfer ownership to those you disciple. You can access the expanded version here.

You can find Keeshon's work and learn more about him at https://keeshonwashington.com/. To become a Patreon member and support his work, visit his membership page for info on how to enroll.

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]]> full false My friend Keeshon is back on to discuss some of the work he's been involved with lately, his journey of forgiving his parents, and why the church should care about racial issues (or other cultural issues). Has the church learned anything in the last couple of years with racial tensions at the forefront of American society?

We also spend some time in the expanded version discussing how to empower/transfer ownership to those you disciple. You can access the expanded version here.

You can find Keeshon's work and learn more about him at https://keeshonwashington.com/. To become a Patreon member and support his work, visit his membership page for info on how to enroll.

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]]> 01:26:36 <![CDATA[#069 - [NEW AUDIOBOOK] Live Free: Making Sense of Male Sexuality]]> Fri, 25 Nov 2022 09:29:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1334313 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/069-new-audiobook-live-free-making-sense-of-male-sexuality You can now purchase Live Free: Making Sense of Male Sexuality as an audiobook!

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]]> full false You can now purchase Live Free: Making Sense of Male Sexuality as an audiobook!

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]]> 00:03:16 <![CDATA[#068 - Worship, Sex, WOW]]> Wed, 23 Nov 2022 13:15:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1330187 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/068-worship-sex-wow With this final chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com, we wrap up my review of my first book. Yes, there are things I would say differently. But I'm grateful this books has blessed and helped as many people as it already has. I believe it will continue to. 

What about you? What do you think? Have you read it?

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]]> full false With this final chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com, we wrap up my review of my first book. Yes, there are things I would say differently. But I'm grateful this books has blessed and helped as many people as it already has. I believe it will continue to. 

What about you? What do you think? Have you read it?

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]]> 00:09:05 <![CDATA[#067 - Accountability, Internet Filters, and the Fear of God]]> Tue, 22 Nov 2022 13:15:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1330184 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/067-accountability-internet-filters-and-the-fear-of-god In this second-to-last chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com, I discuss the role accountability and internet filters can play in living in sexual freedom. I'm grateful I didn't address any earlier in the book. Find out why in today's episode!

Mentioned in the episode is my interview with Arthur Nisly where we discuss handling internet filters as we raise our kids. You can access that expanded podcast interview here.

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]]> full false In this second-to-last chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com, I discuss the role accountability and internet filters can play in living in sexual freedom. I'm grateful I didn't address any earlier in the book. Find out why in today's episode!

Mentioned in the episode is my interview with Arthur Nisly where we discuss handling internet filters as we raise our kids. You can access that expanded podcast interview here.

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]]> 00:09:33 <![CDATA[#066 - You Can Live without Sex, but Not without Intimacy]]> Mon, 21 Nov 2022 13:15:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1326600 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/066-you-can-live-without-sex-but-not-without-intimacy Is it true that men pursue conquest primarily through a cause worth living for while women pursue conquest primarily through relationships? I don't think I'd say it that way if I wrote chapter 18 of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com, today. I explain why in today's episode.

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]]> full false Is it true that men pursue conquest primarily through a cause worth living for while women pursue conquest primarily through relationships? I don't think I'd say it that way if I wrote chapter 18 of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com, today. I explain why in today's episode.

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]]> 00:12:45 <![CDATA[#065 - What I Learned about Purpose While Reading a Book in One Sitting]]> Sun, 20 Nov 2022 13:15:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1326583 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/065-what-i-learned-about-purpose-while-reading-a-book-in-one-sitting We can find our life's purpose by seeing where God has already worked in our lives. That's what we look at in chapter 17 of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com.

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]]> full false We can find our life's purpose by seeing where God has already worked in our lives. That's what we look at in chapter 17 of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com.

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]]> 00:06:42 <![CDATA[#064 - A Cause to Call Our Own]]> Sat, 19 Nov 2022 13:15:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1325533 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/064-a-cause-to-call-our-own What is the mark that you are leaving in this world? What is the specific way you are participating in the greater story God is writing? Finding that and pouring energy into that is key to staying free from unwanted sexual behaviors. We discuss it more in chapter 16 of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com.

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]]> full false What is the mark that you are leaving in this world? What is the specific way you are participating in the greater story God is writing? Finding that and pouring energy into that is key to staying free from unwanted sexual behaviors. We discuss it more in chapter 16 of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com.

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]]> 00:14:21 <![CDATA[#063 - In the Middle of Something Bigger Than Ourselves]]> Fri, 18 Nov 2022 13:15:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1325532 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/063-in-the-middle-of-something-bigger-than-ourselves A crucial part of staying free is discovering how our sexuality fits into God's larger story. That's what this chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com is all about.

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]]> full false A crucial part of staying free is discovering how our sexuality fits into God's larger story. That's what this chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com is all about.

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]]> 00:09:51 <![CDATA[#062 - More Than Conquerors]]> Thu, 17 Nov 2022 13:15:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1322847 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/062-more-than-conquerors I would use a different word than "conqueror" if I wrote this chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com again. There are a few other ways in which I talk about purpose as men that I would change, but I'm relatively pleased with how little I disagree with myself in this chapter.

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]]> full false I would use a different word than "conqueror" if I wrote this chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com again. There are a few other ways in which I talk about purpose as men that I would change, but I'm relatively pleased with how little I disagree with myself in this chapter.

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]]> 00:12:41 <![CDATA[#061 - Passive or Powerful?]]> Wed, 16 Nov 2022 13:25:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1320998 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/061-passive-or-powerful
In chapter 13 of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com, I transition from talking about sex and emotional health the larger purpose for our existence. Some things I'd say differently have to do with our stereotypes about gender roles. 
 
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]]> full false
In chapter 13 of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com, I transition from talking about sex and emotional health the larger purpose for our existence. Some things I'd say differently have to do with our stereotypes about gender roles. 
 
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]]> 00:18:03 <![CDATA[#060 - Clearing the Fog]]> Tue, 15 Nov 2022 17:56:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1319723 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/060-clearing-the-fog
This chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com deals with lies that trip us up after we have experienced a certain level of freedom.
 
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]]> full false
This chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com deals with lies that trip us up after we have experienced a certain level of freedom.
 
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]]> 00:06:35 <![CDATA[#059 - The "F" Word]]> Tue, 15 Nov 2022 15:39:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1319639 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/059-the-34f34-word-1 This chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com helps you know what to do with the pain caused by wounding experiences, and I feel pretty good about it even today.

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]]> full false This chapter of https://www.TheLiveFreeBook.com helps you know what to do with the pain caused by wounding experiences, and I feel pretty good about it even today.

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]]> 00:17:17 <![CDATA[#058 - What "All Things Work Together for Good" Really Means]]> Sun, 13 Nov 2022 14:00:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1317875 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/058-what-34all-things-work-together-for-good34-really-means I make a statement in this chapter of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com that completely miscommunicates what I intended to say!

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]]> full false I make a statement in this chapter of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com that completely miscommunicates what I intended to say!

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]]> 00:10:58 <![CDATA[#057 - Reckless]]> Sat, 12 Nov 2022 13:52:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1316085 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/057-reckless This is the most important chapter in all of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com. But do I accurately reflect Romans? Watch the episode to find out!

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]]> full false This is the most important chapter in all of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com. But do I accurately reflect Romans? Watch the episode to find out!

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]]> 00:11:43 <![CDATA[#056 - Mud Pies in a Slum, or a Holiday at the Beach?]]> Fri, 11 Nov 2022 13:30:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1316084 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/056-mud-pies-in-a-slum-or-a-holiday-at-the-beach What if your problem with sexual sin isn't the result of having TOO MUCH desire, but too little? In this review of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com we look at how and why we settle for lessers forms of sexual pleasure.

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]]> full false What if your problem with sexual sin isn't the result of having TOO MUCH desire, but too little? In this review of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com we look at how and why we settle for lessers forms of sexual pleasure.

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]]> 00:07:49 <![CDATA[#055 - Finding Freedom from Unwanted Sexual Behaviors (w/ Arthur Nisly)]]> Thu, 10 Nov 2022 15:00:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1315691 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/055-finding-freedom-from-unwanted-sexual-behaviors-w-arthur-nisly I'm excited to have my uncle-in-law, friend, and colleague on the podcast to discuss his work with Hope Journey Guide in mentoring men who struggle with unwanted sexual behaviors. More recently, he has started training others who want to help mentor those struggling.

If you find yourself committing sexual behaviors you don't want to do, or if you desire to help others find freedom from such sexual behaviors, this episode is for you!

*As a heads up -- we botched the audio and video on this one, so it's not the best quality. But it was good enough I decided to go ahead with it. Sorry about that!

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]]> full false I'm excited to have my uncle-in-law, friend, and colleague on the podcast to discuss his work with Hope Journey Guide in mentoring men who struggle with unwanted sexual behaviors. More recently, he has started training others who want to help mentor those struggling.

If you find yourself committing sexual behaviors you don't want to do, or if you desire to help others find freedom from such sexual behaviors, this episode is for you!

*As a heads up -- we botched the audio and video on this one, so it's not the best quality. But it was good enough I decided to go ahead with it. Sorry about that!

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]]> 01:07:38 <![CDATA[#054 - God Isn't Good]]> Thu, 10 Nov 2022 13:15:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1315562 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/054-god-isn39t-good This was the toughest chapter of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com to write and it was tough to read again. But it's necessary. Here's my take on it four years later.

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]]> full false This was the toughest chapter of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com to write and it was tough to read again. But it's necessary. Here's my take on it four years later.

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]]> 00:13:31 <![CDATA[#053 - Fig Leaves]]> Wed, 09 Nov 2022 17:22:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1315275 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/053-fig-leaves One of the key premises of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com is that when we are compromising sexually, we do so because of deep insecurities we feel. One way to figure out what those insecurities are is by looking at the activities or the identity we lean into in order to feel significant. 

We're back with another chapter review, and yes, there are a few things I'd say differently. :)

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]]> full false One of the key premises of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com is that when we are compromising sexually, we do so because of deep insecurities we feel. One way to figure out what those insecurities are is by looking at the activities or the identity we lean into in order to feel significant. 

We're back with another chapter review, and yes, there are a few things I'd say differently. :)

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]]> 00:09:09 <![CDATA[#052 - Drinking from a Well That Doesn't Satisfy]]> Tue, 08 Nov 2022 19:44:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1314596 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/052-drinking-from-a-well-that-doesn39t-satisfy What drives us to sexual compromise? In today's review of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com, we look at how we use sex to try and fill something that it wasn't intended to fill.

Also, I pretty much botched the story of the woman at the well.

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]]> full false What drives us to sexual compromise? In today's review of www.TheLiveFreeBook.com, we look at how we use sex to try and fill something that it wasn't intended to fill.

Also, I pretty much botched the story of the woman at the well.

Check out the previous episodes by visiting this link. 

If you would like to follow along with this review and make sure that you don't miss any of it, be sure to join the book review group, here. 

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]]> 00:10:52 <![CDATA[#051 - Like Wild Bulls Caught in Nets]]> Mon, 07 Nov 2022 21:04:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1313958 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/051-like-wild-bulls-caught-in-nets Welcome back to my review of Live Free: Making Sense of Male Sexuality. We are looking at chapter 4, "Like Wild Bulls Caught in Nets." I reveal the first of several things I would say differently. Listen to find out what it is! :) 

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]]> full false Welcome back to my review of Live Free: Making Sense of Male Sexuality. We are looking at chapter 4, "Like Wild Bulls Caught in Nets." I reveal the first of several things I would say differently. Listen to find out what it is! :) 

Check out the previous episodes by visiting this link. 

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]]> 00:12:44 <![CDATA[#050 - Why We Lie to Our Friends about How We're Really Doing]]> Sun, 06 Nov 2022 14:55:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1312206 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/050-why-we-lie-to-our-friends-about-how-we39re-really-doing Today, we're looking at chapter 3 of Live Free, "Why We Lie to Our Friends about How We're Really Doing"

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]]> full false Today, we're looking at chapter 3 of Live Free, "Why We Lie to Our Friends about How We're Really Doing"

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]]> 00:05:47 <![CDATA[#049 - "Am I the Only One?"]]> Sat, 05 Nov 2022 15:23:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1312200 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/049-34am-i-the-only-one34 And we're on to chapter 2 of Live Free, "Am I the Only One?" 

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]]> full false And we're on to chapter 2 of Live Free, "Am I the Only One?" 

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]]> 00:10:55 <![CDATA[#048 - The Day Every Man Wishes He Could Undo]]> Fri, 04 Nov 2022 14:55:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1311795 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/048-the-day-every-man-wishes-he-could-undo Starting today, I am beginning a chapter-by-chapter review of my book Live Free: Making Sense of Male Sexuality. It's been four years since I published Live Free and there are already a few things I'd say differently. Listen to this episode to find out what those things are for chapter 1, The Day Every Man Wishes He Could Undo.

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]]> full false Starting today, I am beginning a chapter-by-chapter review of my book Live Free: Making Sense of Male Sexuality. It's been four years since I published Live Free and there are already a few things I'd say differently. Listen to this episode to find out what those things are for chapter 1, The Day Every Man Wishes He Could Undo.

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]]> 00:09:35 <![CDATA[#047 - Live Free: a Review of My Own Book]]> Tue, 01 Nov 2022 18:04:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1309533 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/047-live-free-a-review-of-my-own-book I've wanted to do this for a long time. In this episode, I'm announcing several big things coming up, but the first one to land is that I'm taking the month of November to review my book Live Free: Making Sense of Male Sexuality.

It's been four years since I published Live Free and there are already a few things I'd say differently. Listen to this episode to find out what those things are. :wink:

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]]> full false I've wanted to do this for a long time. In this episode, I'm announcing several big things coming up, but the first one to land is that I'm taking the month of November to review my book Live Free: Making Sense of Male Sexuality.

It's been four years since I published Live Free and there are already a few things I'd say differently. Listen to this episode to find out what those things are. :wink:

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]]> 00:30:50 <![CDATA[#046 - Finding My Place in God's Story]]> Thu, 27 Oct 2022 09:13:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1306189 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/046-finding-my-place-in-god39s-story Join Finding My Place in God's Story and implement a 5-part process for better understanding scripture so you can further discover how God has gifted you to participate in his restoring work. Access the course here.

And if you're not ready for the course, get our FREE 6-part eBook that will help you discover the beauty of scripture. You can download it here. 

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]]> trailer false Join Finding My Place in God's Story and implement a 5-part process for better understanding scripture so you can further discover how God has gifted you to participate in his restoring work. Access the course here.

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]]> 00:04:12 <![CDATA[#045 - How Should Christians Think about Wealth? (w/ Jason & Titus)]]> Fri, 07 Oct 2022 21:47:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://permalink.castos.com/podcast/2506/episode/1290330 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/045-how-should-christians-think-about-wealth-w-jason-titus Should Christians pursue building wealth? Are they supposed to give all their money away? Is it possible to serve God and others better by building wealth? Is it okay for Christians to live in luxury? Should they have non-extravagant lives? We discuss all these questions and so much more on today's podcast episode on how Christians should think about wealth.

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]]> full false Should Christians pursue building wealth? Are they supposed to give all their money away? Is it possible to serve God and others better by building wealth? Is it okay for Christians to live in luxury? Should they have non-extravagant lives? We discuss all these questions and so much more on today's podcast episode on how Christians should think about wealth.

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]]> 00:59:18 <![CDATA[#044 - Christians Are Called to Make Disciples, Not Converts]]> Wed, 03 Aug 2022 11:30:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/044-christians-are-called-to-make-disciples-not-converts https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/044-christians-are-called-to-make-disciples-not-converts

Too often, Christian evangelism centers on converting people to the faith. But we are actually called to make disciples.

God seeks to bring about restoration by redeemed people who learn to image Him in creation as they were designed to from the beginning. "Making disciples" entails the whole--sometimes messy--process of learning to image God, following Jesus.

This is what we discuss in the final part of our three-part series on "What Is the Gospel?"

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Too often, Christian evangelism centers on converting people to the faith. But we are actually called to make disciples.

God seeks to bring about restoration by redeemed people who learn to image Him in creation as they were designed to from the beginning. "Making disciples" entails the whole--sometimes messy--process of learning to image God, following Jesus.

This is what we discuss in the final part of our three-part series on "What Is the Gospel?"

I'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

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]]> 00:25:46 <![CDATA[#043 - How Can We Reflect God When We Are Actively Struggling with Sin? ]]> Tue, 05 Jul 2022 18:37:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/043-how-can-we-reflect-god-when-we-are-actively-struggling-with-sin https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/043-how-can-we-reflect-god-when-we-are-actively-struggling-with-sin Today we release Part 2 of our three-part series on "What Is the Gospel?"

If mankind's purpose is to reflect God's goodness and beauty in creation, how can we do that when we often still struggle with sin?

Sin doesn't reflect God's goodness, does it? Pride, selfishness, manipulation, impatience, sexual immorality, strife--those all reflect the beast, not God. Yet, too often, even those of us who desire to follow Jesus and live in the power of the Holy Spirit actively struggle with sin at some level. Why is that and how do we overcome it? 

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]]> full false Today we release Part 2 of our three-part series on "What Is the Gospel?"

If mankind's purpose is to reflect God's goodness and beauty in creation, how can we do that when we often still struggle with sin?

Sin doesn't reflect God's goodness, does it? Pride, selfishness, manipulation, impatience, sexual immorality, strife--those all reflect the beast, not God. Yet, too often, even those of us who desire to follow Jesus and live in the power of the Holy Spirit actively struggle with sin at some level. Why is that and how do we overcome it? 

I'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

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]]> 00:35:25 <![CDATA[#042 - What Does It Mean to Image God in Creation?]]> Tue, 28 Jun 2022 22:42:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/042-what-does-it-mean-to-image-god-in-creation https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/042-what-does-it-mean-to-image-god-in-creation Today, we begin a three-part part series looking at the Gospel and the story of mankind that we see unfolding in scripture and the world around us. We start with creation. Specifically, we're looking at the purpose God gave humanity as beings designed to reflect His goodness and beauty in the world.

I'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

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]]> full false Today, we begin a three-part part series looking at the Gospel and the story of mankind that we see unfolding in scripture and the world around us. We start with creation. Specifically, we're looking at the purpose God gave humanity as beings designed to reflect His goodness and beauty in the world.

I'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Homesick by Sean Williams.

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]]> 00:29:05 <![CDATA[#041 - Is It Dangerous to Get Married Young?]]> Fri, 03 Jun 2022 16:25:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/041-is-it-dangerous-to-get-married-young https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/041-is-it-dangerous-to-get-married-young Earlier this year, a listener sent me an article on how studies are revealing that those who do not first live with their partners before getting married have the lowest chance of divorce, even when they get married young.

In this episode, we discuss what this means, how marriage is complex for people coming from non-Christian backgrounds, whether it's wise to get married young, and what it means when someone is not married and they're getting older. 

I'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

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]]> full false Earlier this year, a listener sent me an article on how studies are revealing that those who do not first live with their partners before getting married have the lowest chance of divorce, even when they get married young.

In this episode, we discuss what this means, how marriage is complex for people coming from non-Christian backgrounds, whether it's wise to get married young, and what it means when someone is not married and they're getting older. 

I'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

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]]> 00:56:17 <![CDATA[#040 - My Life Story with Kendrick Byler]]> Wed, 18 May 2022 10:30:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/040-my-life-story-with-kendrick-byler https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/040-my-life-story-with-kendrick-byler Kendrick Byler from Let It Shine recently interviewed me for his podcast. He asked me to share my life story. He particularly asked about key moments in my spiritual formation as well as what I would tell my younger self. With Kendrick's permission, I thought I'd share this episode with you as a way of hearing more of my own personal story.

Check out Let It Shine and other episodes from Kendrick's podcast here.

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Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Believer by David Gives.

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]]> full false Kendrick Byler from Let It Shine recently interviewed me for his podcast. He asked me to share my life story. He particularly asked about key moments in my spiritual formation as well as what I would tell my younger self. With Kendrick's permission, I thought I'd share this episode with you as a way of hearing more of my own personal story.

Check out Let It Shine and other episodes from Kendrick's podcast here.

I'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Believer by David Gives.

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]]> 01:31:05 <![CDATA[#039 - What Overturning Roe Means for Christians]]> Fri, 13 May 2022 13:47:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/039-what-overturning-roe-means-for-christians https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/039-what-overturning-roe-means-for-christians

In this week's episode we discuss the recent leak about SCOTUS overturning Roe v. Wade. Is this a good thing? Why should we celebrate it? What does this mean for Christians? Would overturning Roe eliminate abortion? What else should Christians do to fight abortion?

We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

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]]> full false

In this week's episode we discuss the recent leak about SCOTUS overturning Roe v. Wade. Is this a good thing? Why should we celebrate it? What does this mean for Christians? Would overturning Roe eliminate abortion? What else should Christians do to fight abortion?

We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song isHomesick by Sean Williams.

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]]> 00:46:46 <![CDATA[#038 - How Can Christians Disagree in Love on Social Media? (Seth Richey)]]> Fri, 06 May 2022 10:30:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/038-how-can-christians-disagree-in-love-on-social-media-seth-richey-1 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/038-how-can-christians-disagree-in-love-on-social-media-seth-richey-1 It's no secret that discussions on social media can be extremely volatile and toxic. What's really sad is when even Christians get caught up in arguments and attacks. 

I'm honored to have a new friend on the pod who has modeled to me what it looks like to disagree while still showing respect and love. Seth Richey doesn't always agree with everything I say. He has challenged me and added good counter perspective, but he always does it in love.

I want to be more like Seth.

We spend 30 minutes discussing how to know which conversations to enter on social media, which is available for members of Unfeigned Christianity. If you'd like to become a member and access all our content, visit www.asherwitmer.com/member. 

We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

]]> full false It's no secret that discussions on social media can be extremely volatile and toxic. What's really sad is when even Christians get caught up in arguments and attacks. 

I'm honored to have a new friend on the pod who has modeled to me what it looks like to disagree while still showing respect and love. Seth Richey doesn't always agree with everything I say. He has challenged me and added good counter perspective, but he always does it in love.

I want to be more like Seth.

We spend 30 minutes discussing how to know which conversations to enter on social media, which is available for members of Unfeigned Christianity. If you'd like to become a member and access all our content, visit www.asherwitmer.com/member. 

We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

]]> 01:12:02 <![CDATA[#037 - Walking with Others As They Deconstruct (Christopher Witmer)]]> Fri, 29 Apr 2022 10:30:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/037-walking-with-others-as-they-deconstruct-christopher-witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/037-walking-with-others-as-they-deconstruct-christopher-witmer There's a lot of talk about deconstruction. Some people find it dangerous and concerning. Others just are in a season of re-evaluating what they were taught or what they believe. 

Is deconstruction bad? What if we find ourselves in a season of "deconstruction"? How do we navigate it? 

What if we know others who are "deconstructing"? How do we walk with them? Especially if we see them coming to dangerous conclusions -- how do we walk with them?

In this episode, I'm honored to be joined by my brother to discuss how we can walk ourselves (or with others) as we/they deconstruct.

There is another half of this episode available for members of Unfeigned Christianity. If you'd like to become a member and access all our content, visit www.asherwitmer.com/member. 

You may also be interested in a recent Deep Dive essay I wrote called, "Is Deconstruction Destructive?"

We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

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]]> full false There's a lot of talk about deconstruction. Some people find it dangerous and concerning. Others just are in a season of re-evaluating what they were taught or what they believe. 

Is deconstruction bad? What if we find ourselves in a season of "deconstruction"? How do we navigate it? 

What if we know others who are "deconstructing"? How do we walk with them? Especially if we see them coming to dangerous conclusions -- how do we walk with them?

In this episode, I'm honored to be joined by my brother to discuss how we can walk ourselves (or with others) as we/they deconstruct.

There is another half of this episode available for members of Unfeigned Christianity. If you'd like to become a member and access all our content, visit www.asherwitmer.com/member. 

You may also be interested in a recent Deep Dive essay I wrote called, "Is Deconstruction Destructive?"

We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song isThank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

]]> 01:39:05 <![CDATA[#036 - "He made both groups one and tore down the dividing wall of hostility."]]> Wed, 20 Apr 2022 17:25:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/036-34he-made-both-groups-one-and-tore-down-the-dividing-wall-of-hostility34 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/036-34he-made-both-groups-one-and-tore-down-the-dividing-wall-of-hostility34 Maybe you've wondered why I spend time discussing racial issues. In this episode I explain why.

Contrary to some opinions, I don't discuss issues of race because I am trying to be woke or listen to left-wing media (I addresssed issues of race long before such accusations were trendy). I address these issues because central to the Gospel message is how Jesus has torn down walls of ethnic division and oppression.

Grab your Bibles, and let's dive into Ephesians.

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We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Homesick by Sean Williams.

]]> full false Maybe you've wondered why I spend time discussing racial issues. In this episode I explain why.

Contrary to some opinions, I don't discuss issues of race because I am trying to be woke or listen to left-wing media (I addresssed issues of race long before such accusations were trendy). I address these issues because central to the Gospel message is how Jesus has torn down walls of ethnic division and oppression.

Grab your Bibles, and let's dive into Ephesians.

If you'd like to become a member and access all our content, visit www.asherwitmer.com/member. 

We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Homesick by Sean Williams.

]]> 01:04:37 <![CDATA[#035 - How Christians Should Process CRT: Responding to Questions]]> Thu, 07 Apr 2022 11:16:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/035-how-christians-should-process-crt-responding-to-questions https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/035-how-christians-should-process-crt-responding-to-questions Beginning last fall, I've been writing a series of articles responding to the question, "How should Christians process CRT?" Over the course of the articles, I've received a number of questions and comments that I thought I'd take some time to respond to via a podcast episode.

In this episode we address some of the major concerns people have with CRT and how to frame the conversation in a way that gives clarity for processing the theory as Christians.

If you'd like to become a member and access all our content, visit www.asherwitmer.com/member. 

We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Believer by David Gives.

]]> full false Beginning last fall, I've been writing a series of articles responding to the question, "How should Christians process CRT?" Over the course of the articles, I've received a number of questions and comments that I thought I'd take some time to respond to via a podcast episode.

In this episode we address some of the major concerns people have with CRT and how to frame the conversation in a way that gives clarity for processing the theory as Christians.

If you'd like to become a member and access all our content, visit www.asherwitmer.com/member. 

We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Believer by David Gives.

]]> 01:56:12 <![CDATA[#034 - What Is the Mark of the Beast (w/ Dr. Matthew Halsted)]]> Thu, 03 Mar 2022 12:45:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/034-what-is-the-mark-of-the-beast-w-dr-matthew-halsted https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/034-what-is-the-mark-of-the-beast-w-dr-matthew-halsted There have been speculations about what the "mark of the beast" might be, as referenced in the Revelation of John. Recently, many have speculated that the COVID-19 vaccine might be the "mark of the beast." Is it? Can something like a vaccine be the "mark of the beast"? How are we to understand eschatology and biblical prophecy? We discuss all this and more in today's episode with Dr. Matthew Halsted.

We spent an extra 15 minutes discussing whether or not there is going to be another "beast" or "anti-Christ" rise up and what that might look like. To access that part of the podcast, become a member of Unfeigned Christianity at www.asherwitmer.com/member. 

Dr. Halsted has a blog at www.matthewhalsted.com, and is in the process of writing a book on eschatology. He can be found on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, if you'd like to follow along with his work.

We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

]]> full false There have been speculations about what the "mark of the beast" might be, as referenced in the Revelation of John. Recently, many have speculated that the COVID-19 vaccine might be the "mark of the beast." Is it? Can something like a vaccine be the "mark of the beast"? How are we to understand eschatology and biblical prophecy? We discuss all this and more in today's episode with Dr. Matthew Halsted.

We spent an extra 15 minutes discussing whether or not there is going to be another "beast" or "anti-Christ" rise up and what that might look like. To access that part of the podcast, become a member of Unfeigned Christianity at www.asherwitmer.com/member. 

Dr. Halsted has a blog at www.matthewhalsted.com, and is in the process of writing a book on eschatology. He can be found on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, if you'd like to follow along with his work.

We'd love to hear your feedback on the episode. Be sure to rate and review the podcast to let us know what you thought.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

]]> 01:13:28 <![CDATA[#033 - How Should Christians Think about Same-Sex Attraction? (with Abram Martin & Darnell Rohrer)]]> Wed, 23 Feb 2022 20:56:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/033-how-should-christians-think-about-same-sex-attraction-with-abram-martin-darnell-rohrer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/033-how-should-christians-think-about-same-sex-attraction-with-abram-martin-darnell-rohrer Is same-sex attraction lust? What causes someone to be same-sex attraction? Will I cause someone who is same-sex attracted to struggle with lust if I get too close with them? We get into all this and more in today's episode with my friends Abram Martin and Darnell Rohrer.

This episode was originally recorded as a members-only livestream for our Patreon members. The whole thing is about an hour and a half, and you can access it and other expanded versions of our podcast by visiting, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Mentioned in this episode are two other podcast episodes Abram did with our friends at That Jesus Podcast, which you can listen to here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/55-same-sex-attraction-feat-abram-martin/id1487348559?i=1000522931680. 

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

]]> full false Is same-sex attraction lust? What causes someone to be same-sex attraction? Will I cause someone who is same-sex attracted to struggle with lust if I get too close with them? We get into all this and more in today's episode with my friends Abram Martin and Darnell Rohrer.

This episode was originally recorded as a members-only livestream for our Patreon members. The whole thing is about an hour and a half, and you can access it and other expanded versions of our podcast by visiting, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Mentioned in this episode are two other podcast episodes Abram did with our friends at That Jesus Podcast, which you can listen to here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/55-same-sex-attraction-feat-abram-martin/id1487348559?i=1000522931680. 

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

]]> 00:53:41 <![CDATA[#032 - Faith, Ministry, and Sexuality: What an Unlikely Friendship Taught Me about Them (w/ Luci Kinsinger)]]> Thu, 03 Feb 2022 12:30:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/032-faith-ministry-and-sexuality-what-an-unlikely-friendship-taught-me-about-them-w-luci-kinsinger https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/032-faith-ministry-and-sexuality-what-an-unlikely-friendship-taught-me-about-them-w-luci-kinsinger Today, I'm honored to have my friend, Luci, on to talk about her recent book, Turtle Heart. In it, Luci writes about a friendship she developed with an older Ojibwe lady, Charlene.

Char broke some of Luci's stereotypes of what it meant to have faith in God, challenged her boundaries in time and service, and sent her on a search for a deeper understanding of sexuality. If you would like to read Turtle Heart for yourself, sign up to win a free copy of your own! https://www.asherwitmer.com/turtleheart/.

Or, if you'd like to just purchase a copy for yourself, you can do so on Amazon here: https://amzn.to/3AY8uyY. 

If you'd like to contact Luci, you can visit her website at www.lucindajkinsinger.com. And you can contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

You can become a member and access an expanded version of this episode and other episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

]]> full false Today, I'm honored to have my friend, Luci, on to talk about her recent book, Turtle Heart. In it, Luci writes about a friendship she developed with an older Ojibwe lady, Charlene.

Char broke some of Luci's stereotypes of what it meant to have faith in God, challenged her boundaries in time and service, and sent her on a search for a deeper understanding of sexuality. If you would like to read Turtle Heart for yourself, sign up to win a free copy of your own! https://www.asherwitmer.com/turtleheart/.

Or, if you'd like to just purchase a copy for yourself, you can do so on Amazon here: https://amzn.to/3AY8uyY. 

If you'd like to contact Luci, you can visit her website at www.lucindajkinsinger.com. And you can contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

You can become a member and access an expanded version of this episode and other episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

]]> 00:50:33 <![CDATA[#031 - Ernesto Duke on How to Read the Old Testament]]> Thu, 27 Jan 2022 12:45:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/031-ernesto-duke-on-how-to-read-the-old-testament https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/031-ernesto-duke-on-how-to-read-the-old-testament Since the Bible is a story, how should we read the Old Testament? How do its many stories and subplots fit into the over-arching Message? I'm honored to have Ernesto Duke on the show today to discuss how to read the Old Testament and understand its role in this grand story that points to Jesus. Ernesto is a prof of mine from Eternity Bible College, to learn more about him and about Eternity, visit www.eternity.edu.

As mentioned in the episode, we have just launched our online course Finding My Place in God's Story. Enrollment is open until February 2nd. Visit www.findingmyplaceingodsstory.com to learn more. 

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Become a member and access expanded episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Homesick by Sean Williams.

]]> full false Since the Bible is a story, how should we read the Old Testament? How do its many stories and subplots fit into the over-arching Message? I'm honored to have Ernesto Duke on the show today to discuss how to read the Old Testament and understand its role in this grand story that points to Jesus. Ernesto is a prof of mine from Eternity Bible College, to learn more about him and about Eternity, visit www.eternity.edu.

As mentioned in the episode, we have just launched our online course Finding My Place in God's Story. Enrollment is open until February 2nd. Visit www.findingmyplaceingodsstory.com to learn more. 

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Become a member and access expanded episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Homesick by Sean Williams.

]]> 01:16:46 <![CDATA[#030 - Does It Matter How I Read the Bible?]]> Fri, 21 Jan 2022 12:33:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/030-does-it-matter-how-i-read-the-bible https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/030-does-it-matter-how-i-read-the-bible The Bible is a story, expertly crafted to tell one cohesive message from beginning to end. Just like we wouldn’t open a book like Pilgrim’s Progress and jump to random parts of the story without reading the whole thing first, neither should we treat the Bible this way.

There is plot, conflict, subplots, and many different characters. The whole story of the Bible points to and culminates in Jesus—even the Old Testament.

But what does it meant to read the Bible as story? And is reading the Bible as story just an excuse for introducing new morals that are more socially acceptable? Furthermore, since the Bible is divine, can’t it speak to people differently? Who says there is one right way to read the Bible? Besides, since the Bible is so old, how can we even know what the right way is?

We get into all this and more in today’s concluding episode of our four-part series on how to read the Bible.

  • 4:23 - Four aspects of the Bible that shape how we should read it
  • 8:08 - Two examples of how understanding the Bible as story impacts our reading of the text
  • 12:09 - The fact that the Bible is a collection of writings with many different types of genre matters in how we read the Bible
  • 21:54 - Responding to objections you may have about the series so far
  • 37:31 - How to find your place in God's story

As mentioned in the episode, this is an introduction to the forthcoming course, Finding My Place in God's Story. If you are interested in the course and want to be notified when it becomes available, sign up at https://www.asherwitmer.com/how-to-read-the-bible/.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Become a member and access expanded episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Believer by David Gives.

]]> full false The Bible is a story, expertly crafted to tell one cohesive message from beginning to end. Just like we wouldn’t open a book like Pilgrim’s Progress and jump to random parts of the story without reading the whole thing first, neither should we treat the Bible this way.

There is plot, conflict, subplots, and many different characters. The whole story of the Bible points to and culminates in Jesus—even the Old Testament.

But what does it meant to read the Bible as story? And is reading the Bible as story just an excuse for introducing new morals that are more socially acceptable? Furthermore, since the Bible is divine, can’t it speak to people differently? Who says there is one right way to read the Bible? Besides, since the Bible is so old, how can we even know what the right way is?

We get into all this and more in today’s concluding episode of our four-part series on how to read the Bible.

  • 4:23 - Four aspects of the Bible that shape how we should read it
  • 8:08 - Two examples of how understanding the Bible as story impacts our reading of the text
  • 12:09 - The fact that the Bible is a collection of writings with many different types of genre matters in how we read the Bible
  • 21:54 - Responding to objections you may have about the series so far
  • 37:31 - How to find your place in God's story

As mentioned in the episode, this is an introduction to the forthcoming course, Finding My Place in God's Story. If you are interested in the course and want to be notified when it becomes available, sign up at https://www.asherwitmer.com/how-to-read-the-bible/.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Become a member and access expanded episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Believer by David Gives.

]]> 00:41:54 <![CDATA[#029 - Do I Have to Read the Bible Every Day to Be a Good Christian?]]> Fri, 14 Jan 2022 21:08:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/029-do-i-have-to-read-the-bible-every-day-to-be-a-good-christian https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/029-do-i-have-to-read-the-bible-every-day-to-be-a-good-christian The Bible is not a reference book; it’s a story. And when we approach it like a reference book, we are susceptible to missing the story. 

In this episode, we’re going to look specifically at the question of whether or not we HAVE to read the Bible every day in order to be a good Christian. I think we all know we need to read it. But WHY? What is the Bible doing or saying that is important for my everyday life?

Since the Reformation, protestant Christianity has emphasized the Bible and personal piety often times at the expense of the sacraments and disciplines such as caring for the poor and vulnerable. 

Some people seem to really know their Bibles but not necessarily Jesus. If the Bible is about Jesus, shouldn’t spending time in it make us look a little more like Him? When those kinds of people are the ones emphasizing reading your Bible every day, it can be hard to see what doing so is important.

Another part of what might lead some of us to ask how important it is to read the Bible every day is because many of our Christian traditions have emphasized less than helpful reasons for reading the bible every day. Let’s take a look at a few of these reasons:

  • 3:00 - Three WRONG reasons to read your Bible every day
  • 8:08 - Three PROFOUND reasons to read the Bible as often as you can
  • 12:25 - Six helpful insights for developing a habit of reading the Bible regularly

 

As mentioned in the episode, this is an introduction to the forthcoming course, Finding My Place in God's Story. If you are interested in the course and want to be notified when it becomes available, sign up at https://www.asherwitmer.com/how-to-read-the-bible/.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Become a member and access expanded episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening...

]]> full false The Bible is not a reference book; it’s a story. And when we approach it like a reference book, we are susceptible to missing the story. 

In this episode, we’re going to look specifically at the question of whether or not we HAVE to read the Bible every day in order to be a good Christian. I think we all know we need to read it. But WHY? What is the Bible doing or saying that is important for my everyday life?

Since the Reformation, protestant Christianity has emphasized the Bible and personal piety often times at the expense of the sacraments and disciplines such as caring for the poor and vulnerable. 

Some people seem to really know their Bibles but not necessarily Jesus. If the Bible is about Jesus, shouldn’t spending time in it make us look a little more like Him? When those kinds of people are the ones emphasizing reading your Bible every day, it can be hard to see what doing so is important.

Another part of what might lead some of us to ask how important it is to read the Bible every day is because many of our Christian traditions have emphasized less than helpful reasons for reading the bible every day. Let’s take a look at a few of these reasons:

  • 3:00 - Three WRONG reasons to read your Bible every day
  • 8:08 - Three PROFOUND reasons to read the Bible as often as you can
  • 12:25 - Six helpful insights for developing a habit of reading the Bible regularly

 

As mentioned in the episode, this is an introduction to the forthcoming course, Finding My Place in God's Story. If you are interested in the course and want to be notified when it becomes available, sign up at https://www.asherwitmer.com/how-to-read-the-bible/.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Become a member and access expanded episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

]]> 00:18:49 <![CDATA[#028 - Why Is the Bible So Hard to Get Into?]]> Fri, 07 Jan 2022 11:45:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/028-why-is-the-bible-so-hard-to-get-into https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/028-why-is-the-bible-so-hard-to-get-into Today, we’re digging deeper into why we sometimes find it hard to be all that interested in the Bible. What makes one feel like they HAVE to read the Bible instead of feeling like they GET to read the Bible? 

  • 2:26 - When the Bible didn't work how I thought it should
  • 3:55 - Reframing how we approach the Bible
  • 8:56 - Three ways we treat the Bible like a reference book
  • 16:55 - What the Bible actually is

As mentioned in the episode, this is an introduction to the forthcoming course, Finding My Place in God's Story. If you are interested in the course and want to be notified when it becomes available, sign up at https://www.asherwitmer.com/how-to-read-the-bible/.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Become a member and access expanded episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Homesick by Sean Williams.

]]> full false Today, we’re digging deeper into why we sometimes find it hard to be all that interested in the Bible. What makes one feel like they HAVE to read the Bible instead of feeling like they GET to read the Bible? 

  • 2:26 - When the Bible didn't work how I thought it should
  • 3:55 - Reframing how we approach the Bible
  • 8:56 - Three ways we treat the Bible like a reference book
  • 16:55 - What the Bible actually is

As mentioned in the episode, this is an introduction to the forthcoming course, Finding My Place in God's Story. If you are interested in the course and want to be notified when it becomes available, sign up at https://www.asherwitmer.com/how-to-read-the-bible/.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Become a member and access expanded episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Homesick by Sean Williams.

]]> 00:21:46 <![CDATA[#027 - God Gave Us His Message by Telling Us a Story Through the Bible]]> Wed, 05 Jan 2022 10:35:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/027-god-gave-us-his-message-by-telling-us-a-story-through-the-bible https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/027-god-gave-us-his-message-by-telling-us-a-story-through-the-bible Have you ever felt discouraged by how difficult it was to muster up interest in God’s Word? Maybe you would read your Bible regularly but struggle to get anything out of it. Maybe what you read never made very much sense to you. Or maybe you struggled how to know what to do with what you read.
 
We get into all this and more throughout this four-part mini course on learning how to hear what the Bible has to say and discovering how you fit into its message.
 
As mentioned in the episode, this is an introduction to the forthcoming course, Finding My Place in God's Story. If you are interested in the course and want to be notified when it becomes available, sign up at https://www.asherwitmer.com/how-to-read-the-bible/.
 
If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.
 
Become a member and access expanded episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.
 
Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.
]]> full false Have you ever felt discouraged by how difficult it was to muster up interest in God’s Word? Maybe you would read your Bible regularly but struggle to get anything out of it. Maybe what you read never made very much sense to you. Or maybe you struggled how to know what to do with what you read.
 
We get into all this and more throughout this four-part mini course on learning how to hear what the Bible has to say and discovering how you fit into its message.
 
As mentioned in the episode, this is an introduction to the forthcoming course, Finding My Place in God's Story. If you are interested in the course and want to be notified when it becomes available, sign up at https://www.asherwitmer.com/how-to-read-the-bible/.
 
If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.
 
Become a member and access expanded episodes at, www.asherwitmer.com/member.
 
Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.
]]> 00:18:49 <![CDATA[#026 - Why Do Christians Hold So Many Differing Perspectives?]]> Sat, 01 Jan 2022 09:30:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/026-why-do-christians-hold-so-many-differing-perspectives https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/026-why-do-christians-hold-so-many-differing-perspectives

You've probably noticed Christians have many different perspectives on things. Why is that? In today's episode Asher discusses four, often overlooked reasons that is, and a few thoughts on what we can do about it.

Mentioned in the episode is the forthcoming mini series on discovering the story of scripture. To make sure you don't miss it, sign up at https://www.asherwitmer.com/how-to-read-the-bible/.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Become a member and access expanded episodes at, https://www.patreon.com/asherwitmer.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

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You've probably noticed Christians have many different perspectives on things. Why is that? In today's episode Asher discusses four, often overlooked reasons that is, and a few thoughts on what we can do about it.

Mentioned in the episode is the forthcoming mini series on discovering the story of scripture. To make sure you don't miss it, sign up at https://www.asherwitmer.com/how-to-read-the-bible/.

If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

Become a member and access expanded episodes at, https://www.patreon.com/asherwitmer.

Transitional music for this episode has been contributed by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com. The opening song is Sunset Drive by Evert Z and the closing song is Thank God for You and Me by Chris Mason.

]]> 00:22:30 <![CDATA[#025 - How the Last Year Has Been for Pastors (w/ Rich Schwartz, Dru Lattin, and Jose Sanchez)]]> Wed, 20 Jan 2021 04:06:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/025-how-the-last-year-has-been-for-pastors-w-rich-schwartz-dru-lattin-and-jose-sanchez https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/025-how-the-last-year-has-been-for-pastors-w-rich-schwartz-dru-lattin-and-jose-sanchez

It's been a rough 12 months for the church, and especially for pastors. In this episode, I sat down with a few pastor friends of mine to hear how the last year has been for them. Part of healing as the body of Christ is going to be listening to those who have devoted their time and energy to shepherding the flock.

If you enjoy this podcast, be sure and subscribe so you don't miss future episodes, and please rate and review the show on iTunes!

If you prefer the video version of the podcast, be sure and subscribe to my new YouTube channel (Asher Witmer) to get future podcast videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh6rTGri8Uy4a2FG0FdY8_w.
 
Mentioned in the episode were Dru on Facebook, Rich on Facebook, and That Jesus Podcast (anywhere podcasts are found).
 
If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

And consider supporting us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/asherwitmer.

Music for this episode is done by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.

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It's been a rough 12 months for the church, and especially for pastors. In this episode, I sat down with a few pastor friends of mine to hear how the last year has been for them. Part of healing as the body of Christ is going to be listening to those who have devoted their time and energy to shepherding the flock.

If you enjoy this podcast, be sure and subscribe so you don't miss future episodes, and please rate and review the show on iTunes!

If you prefer the video version of the podcast, be sure and subscribe to my new YouTube channel (Asher Witmer) to get future podcast videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh6rTGri8Uy4a2FG0FdY8_w.
 
Mentioned in the episode were Dru on Facebook, Rich on Facebook, and That Jesus Podcast (anywhere podcasts are found).
 
If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

And consider supporting us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/asherwitmer.

Music for this episode is done by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.

]]> 01:11:40 <![CDATA[#024 - An Evaluation of the Church and Its Singles w/ Emily Smucker, Abram Martin, Kimberly Kirtz, and Chris Witmer]]> Fri, 18 Dec 2020 09:01:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/024-an-evaluation-of-the-church-and-its-singles-w-emily-smucker-abram-martin-kimberly-kirtz-and-chris-witmer-1 https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/024-an-evaluation-of-the-church-and-its-singles-w-emily-smucker-abram-martin-kimberly-kirtz-and-chris-witmer-1

In this week's episode I had four single friends come on the pod and share some of their experiences with the church as singles. Christian communities could be doing better at remembering that marriage and family is not the ultimate goal in life; oneness with Jesus is. As the body of Jesus, we need each other in growing togetehr in oneness with Him. Sadly, we too often neglect or isolate our single brothers and sisters, thereby not only hurting them but ourselves.

We discuss how to grow our social worlds to be more inclusive of those with various marital statuses. We talk about whether or not to set single friends up with dates--and how to do that if they want it. 

It's a splendid conversation! I learned a lot, and I trust you will too.

If you enjoy this podcast, be sure and subscribe so you don't miss future episodes, and please rate and review the show on iTunes!

If you prefer the video version of the podcast, be sure and subscribe to my new YouTube channel (Asher Witmer) to get future podcast videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh6rTGri8Uy4a2FG0FdY8_w.
 
Mentioned in the episode is Emily's book, The Highway and Me and My Earl Grey Tea. Check it out for yourself at https://www.muddycreekbooks.com/product/the-highway-and-me-and-my-earl-grey-tea/17.
 
If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

And consider supporting us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/asherwitmer.

Music for this episode is done by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.

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In this week's episode I had four single friends come on the pod and share some of their experiences with the church as singles. Christian communities could be doing better at remembering that marriage and family is not the ultimate goal in life; oneness with Jesus is. As the body of Jesus, we need each other in growing togetehr in oneness with Him. Sadly, we too often neglect or isolate our single brothers and sisters, thereby not only hurting them but ourselves.

We discuss how to grow our social worlds to be more inclusive of those with various marital statuses. We talk about whether or not to set single friends up with dates--and how to do that if they want it. 

It's a splendid conversation! I learned a lot, and I trust you will too.

If you enjoy this podcast, be sure and subscribe so you don't miss future episodes, and please rate and review the show on iTunes!

If you prefer the video version of the podcast, be sure and subscribe to my new YouTube channel (Asher Witmer) to get future podcast videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh6rTGri8Uy4a2FG0FdY8_w.
 
Mentioned in the episode is Emily's book, The Highway and Me and My Earl Grey Tea. Check it out for yourself at https://www.muddycreekbooks.com/product/the-highway-and-me-and-my-earl-grey-tea/17.
 
If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

And consider supporting us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/asherwitmer.

Music for this episode is done by Corey Steiner at https://www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.

]]> 01:38:17 <![CDATA[#023 - What Is the Role of Music Style in the Christian Life? (w/ Corey Steiner)]]> Wed, 09 Dec 2020 21:12:00 +0000 Asher Witmer https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/podcasts/2506/episodes/023-what-is-the-role-of-music-style-in-the-christian-life-w-corey-steiner https://unfeigned-christianity.castos.com/episodes/023-what-is-the-role-of-music-style-in-the-christian-life-w-corey-steiner

In this week's episode, I sat down with my friend Corey Steiner and talked about the role of music style in the life of a Christian. We talked about grief and sorrow, praise and thanksgiving, and whether or not all music needs to talk about Jesus.

Corey is the artist behind the intro and outro music on the podcast. He is currently working to put together a Christmas program where they cover Andrew Peterson's Behold the Lamb of God album almost note for note. If you live in North or South Carolina or the Virginia area, be sure and check it out! Find out more through this link: https://www.facebook.com/coreysteinermusic. 

If you enjoy this podcast, be sure and subscribe so you don't miss future episodes, and please rate and review the show on iTunes!

If you prefer the video version of the podcast, be sure and subscribe to my new YouTube channel (Asher Witmer) to get future podcast videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh6rTGri8Uy4a2FG0FdY8_w.
 
If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

And consider supporting us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/asherwitmer.

Music for this episode is done by Corey Steiner at www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.

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In this week's episode, I sat down with my friend Corey Steiner and talked about the role of music style in the life of a Christian. We talked about grief and sorrow, praise and thanksgiving, and whether or not all music needs to talk about Jesus.

Corey is the artist behind the intro and outro music on the podcast. He is currently working to put together a Christmas program where they cover Andrew Peterson's Behold the Lamb of God album almost note for note. If you live in North or South Carolina or the Virginia area, be sure and check it out! Find out more through this link: https://www.facebook.com/coreysteinermusic. 

If you enjoy this podcast, be sure and subscribe so you don't miss future episodes, and please rate and review the show on iTunes!

If you prefer the video version of the podcast, be sure and subscribe to my new YouTube channel (Asher Witmer) to get future podcast videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh6rTGri8Uy4a2FG0FdY8_w.
 
If you'd like to contact Asher and those at Unfeigned Christianity, you can email podcast@asherwitmer.com.

And consider supporting us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/asherwitmer.

Music for this episode is done by Corey Steiner at www.coreysteinermusic.wordpress.com.

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