To engage life fully, you need to be “all-in.” Consider: have you ever looked at a lamp that blinks off and on? First, you suspect a lightbulb. So, you unscrew it and (to test it) screw it into another lamp. It works! Your mind scans possibilities. Could this be poor wiring inside the lamp? Or the cord. As you follow the cord to the wall, suddenly, you see it. The plug is only half plugged-in. To work, you know it needs to be all-in.

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If you are reading this at the beginning of your day, you have no idea how today will look. If it’s the end of your day, you might be pleased – or rather disappointed – depending on how things went. So often, life does not meet people’s expectations. Many times, you must make allowances and adjustments. Especially, when things don’t go well.

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What keeps you from your best? It could be someone, something – or it could be you.

This material is about your health, growth, and progress. Of course, every person of every age continues to grow all their life. However, health and progress depend on some things. Additionally, sometimes there’s interference with progress in your relationship with God.

Let’s look closer.

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Before we start with “Always Say Yes,” I want to tell you about an Easter devotional – FREE – to use this week. This tool gives you 2 pages for each day that feature:

1. First, a “Brief Focus” with reflective thoughts.
2. Second, a “Fun Activity” for each day.
3. Third, a “Teaching Point” that blends those two sections into practical action points for your life.

If you follow us on your favorite podcast app, you’ll get the audio episodes of the same content in your feed. So, you can have a visual and audio version to Prepare For Easter.

Click here to get your free copy.

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Right now, I’m thinking of the late Queen Elizabeth II of England. One thing I remember and admire about her is how she always carried herself. Without doubt, she portrayed quality character, even in difficulties. Matter of fact, as I followed her life and conduct, I witnessed how she portrayed her position of privilege.

How does a discussion about privilege apply to you? Let’s explore together.

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Once-in-awhile, a burner on my stovetop “goes nova!” Unexplainably, it just gets super hot. Interestingly, it even glows! Needless to say, that makes it challenging to cook. As I ponder that frustrating phenomenon, I find myself reflecting about when life heats up and “goes nova!”

When life heats up, you must –

• Manage the heat.
• Address critical details.
• Try not to get burned.
• Maneuver as skillfully as possible.
• Pray for God’s help.

Have you ever gone nova?

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Think for a minute. What is your most valuable and effective daily resource? In fact, what are your top two tools you rely on most to effectively navigate your day? Your phone? Car? Washer and dryer? Backyard grill? To-do list? Cup of coffee? Bread machine? Google maps? What if I told you about two powerful tools that help you navigate the territory of your soul each day? Interestingly, that’s where the power of 2 little verses comes in.

Let’s explore.

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I often wonder what my readers and listeners are thinking as they read articles or listen to podcast episodes. Most importantly, I hope you to always read or hear: God wants you! So, in this content, we explore seven points that prove God wants you.

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Have you ever seen a pressure cooker going full tilt? It’s a noisy, powerful event. Weights rocking. Steam hissing. The sound of boiling water from inside the cooker. It can even be a bit scary if you think about all the built-up pressure and stress going on inside that sealed kettle. Yes, the kettle you are standing right next to! With this illustration, let’s discuss the pressures of life and secrets of hope.

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Be content! What, exactly, does that mean? Realistically, if you were to rate yourself on a scale of 1 – 10 (1 not very content and 10 very content), where would you place yourself? Importantly, why?

Contentment is a critical piece needed to live a healthy life.

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By now, I hope you’ve had a good start into this new year. Like so many other years, you’ll likely find yourself wearing down at some point. First, you’re not alone. Second, the key is to get in front of that reality. In this content, we look at the need for a heart-lift when you’re weary. Plus, we identify what it looks like to pursue a heart-lift. Read More …

I’m sure you’ve listened to the news . . . read the newspapers . . . listened to podcasts. Subsequently, you know the world is really struggling right now. In essence, that’s why we should explore what it looks like to have hope in terrible times.

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The first article this year was “Start This Year Well.” We explored 10 great action points. January is almost over, and some of the emotional energy of starting a new year is wearing off. So, we ask the question – how can you live well this year? The entire year!

Afterall, it’s an on-going question.

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I’m sure you’ve heard the short quote – “life is good.” In fact, I even have a yellow T-shirt with that quote on it. When times are good, it’s easy to believe this is true. However, when times get tough, it takes resolve to fully believe Jesus makes life good.

But! He does make life good. In today’s content, we’ll explore how this is true no matter what happens in your life. Naturally, this content gives you a boost into living well this New Year.

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When you think of “refreshing and rare,” who comes to your mind? What character qualities define this person? I’m guessing they are courageous, personable, persevering. Further, I imagine they are kind and gentle, as well as strong and honest. Most of all, the person who comes to your mind probably lives with hope.

As you enter this next year, you need hope, too. The next 12 months provide opportunity to manage, enjoy, and problem-solve in your life. Thankfully, God provides refreshing and rare hope for every day.

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Happy New Year! May it be a good one for you! Now, to set the tone, here’s a quote from C.S. Lewis – “There are far better things ahead than any we leave behind.” With this insightful observation, let’s explore 10 points to start this year well.

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This week, I get to say – HAPPY NEW YEAR – to you! Of course, it’s also an opportunity for a fresh new start. So, let’s look at some action points for a great start with strong traction this next year.

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I remember one Christmas years ago – I almost missed Christmas! That experience was a “wake-up call.” In my busy life, filling roles and carrying out responsibilities – all the Christmas preparations pulled me off track. I asked God to show me what happened and how to avoid it in the future. That’s when I learned how to pause at Christmastime.

And it works! Now, I use a “pause” all through the year.

Do you need to pause a bit more this Christmas?

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During a season filled with peace and joy, it’s painful to experience grieving at Christmastime. But that’s what many people do. They celebrate. Simultaneously, they grieve.

There are always losses in life. Sometimes, these losses almost consume the space meant to be filled with peace and joy. Strategically, there are ways to keep these spaces free for healthy processes – even at Christmastime.

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Many cherished Christmas carols talk about joy. Consider Joy To The World – “Joy to the world, the Lord has come.” Or While By My Sheep – “Joy, joy, joy! (echo) joy, joy, joy.” If you are looking for joy at Christmastime, you are joined by millions of people.

Interestingly, Paul starts every single letter he wrote in the New Testament with wishes of grace and JOY to his readers.

So, how’s your joy as Christmas approaches?

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Many cherished Christmas carols talk about peace. Consider Silent Night – “sleep in heavenly peace.” Or, Hark The Herald Angels – “peace on earth, goodwill toward men.” Yes, for centuries people have yearned for peace. Particularly, peace at Christmastime.

Let’s face it. This world really needs peace. Interestingly, peace starts in each individual heart. Equally, lasting peace only comes from the “Prince of Peace” – Jesus Christ.

So, peace at Christmastime . . .

Peace At Christmastime

Every Christmas – don’t you wish for peace? Specifically, peace in your own personal life – but also peace for the whole world. Peace at Christmastime starts in you – and then ripples out to others around you . . . even into the world.

So, how is your peace doing as we approach Christmas? Further, are you sharing peace with others?

Receive God’s Gift Of Peace

God gives His peace to you. Naturally, as you accept it by faith, His peace becomes your own personal peace.

Incidentally, receiving peace is similar to receiving a gift:

1. Pick it up.
2. Unwrap it.
3. Eagerly peek inside.
4. Take out the contents.
5. Identify what’s inside.
6. Reflect on why the gift is special by remembering the Giver.
7. Say, “thank you!”

Your Hand – A Reminder Of Peace

Your hand is always with you. But is peace always with you? Maybe – maybe not. Did you know your hand can remind you of peace? Let’s explore The Peace Hand.

Peace Hand

Do you remember nursery rhymes and songs you learned as a child? One little song I remember names every finger to teach small children about their fingers and hand. It follows this format.

First, a question is posed. Then, the answer is given in response. It starts with your thumb. Hide it behind your back with all your fingers until the question is asked.

QUESTION: “Tom Thumb, Tom Thumb. Where are you?”

Then, as you answer that question, you pull your hand out from behind your back. And the “featured finger takes a bow.”

ANSWER: “Here I am. Here I am. How do you do?”

Then the song takes you through all your fingers in the same way. Here are all the fun finger names:

1. Tom Thumb.
2. Peter Pointer.
3. Toby Tall.
4. Reuben Ring.
5. Tiny Tim.

The Peace Hand Reminds

Well, how does the Peace Hand remind you to connect with peace?

First, just as we named each finger in the child’s song, we will name each finger with a question about your personal peace.

Next, ask yourself five questions, one at a time.

Then, answer each question honestly, one at a time.

Interestingly, this exercise helps you quickly re-claim your peace – by faith. And at Christmas, you need this.

Five Questions Of The Peace Hand

The Peace Hand uses five questions to flip out of stress or anxiety back into peace. It’s quick. Short. Easy. Today, we’ll drill down into what each question means for deeper understanding. Incidentally, good questions reveal answers that shape your relationship with God.

Nevertheless, when you’re “on-the-run,” simply ask each short question.

Here are the five simple questions plus some “drill-down” questions to increase understanding.

1. Is God Able?

This question goes with your little finger – “Tiny Tim.”  To understand this simple question, ask and answer these questions –

• Is God able to bring about His good in my current situation?
• Am I willing to let His peace gift look different than I pictured?
• Can I truly expect His interventions and help?
• Is His strength and provision enough?
• Do His miracles and promises actually work – for me?

2. Does God Know?

This question connects with your number four finger – “Reuben Ring.” Actually, it’s comforting to remember God knows and deeply cares about your every life circumstance. Still, these questions help you focus on “Does God Know.”

• Is God aware of my suffering?
• Can He see me struggling?
• Does He see I’m at my wits end, and I don’t know what to do next or where to turn?
• What does it matter that He knows?

3. Does God care?

Get “Toby Tall” – your tall middle finger ready. Consequently, this question helps you define your theology a bit more. In other words, what do you really believe about God – and you?

• If God knows what’s going on – and if He is able – why are things not changing?
• Does God truly care about what’s going on in my life?
• Additionally, are the details of my world important to Him?
• Am I truly valuable to God?

4. Can I trust God?

This question gets paired with your “Peter Pointer” finger. Incidentally, he’s an important finger on your hand. Equally, this is a pretty important question you must come to terms with to enjoy God’s gift of personal peace.

• There have been others I thought I could trust. Sadly, things didn’t turn out very well. How do I know I can fully trust God to do good things in my life?
• Do I believe God’s promises in Scripture are for me?
• Further, am I willing to take His words and apply them to my current situation?
• Do I choose – here and now – to trust God?
• Oddly, I wonder in my heart if God could screw up my life?

5. Am I obeying?

Here’s your “Tom Thumb” question. If you didn’t have a thumb, you’d lose your grip quickly. Incidentally, it’s the same for this thumb question. If you don’t have a good answer, you’ll lose your grip in life. Why? Because obedience follows faith. Equally, faith always follows Jesus – if you want personal peace.

• Will I obey God even if I can’t see and don’t understand?
• To the best of my ability, am I willingly obeying God?
• Additionally, have I done everything I know to please God in my thoughts, attitudes, words, and actions?
• Is it more important to me to please Jesus Christ or myself?

Now, look at this image. Notice the question on each finger.

How Did You Do With Your Peace Hand Questions?

As you wrestle through these 5 questions, there are outcomes you can guarantee.

First, if you answer each of the 5 questions by faith with a definite “yes,” simply – “go in peace.”

Actually, picture yourself picking up the gift of peace. It is wrapped with a bow. Surprisingly, it’s sitting right next to you with your name on it.

Second, Jesus secured your peace at a very high price – His life. Now, it’s yours! Believe it. Pick it up! Unwrap it. Claim it.

Third, peace is not a feeling. Actually, it’s a “chosen condition” you adopt and believe in good times and bad. God gives peace to His children, but only some pick up the gift. Subsequently, you choose whether you will pick up God’s peace – or not.

What Does Jesus Say About Peace?

Jesus said, “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” Jn. 14:27

Did you hear that? Jesus not only promises to give His peace to you. He also addresses the state of your heart. Remarkably, Jesus does not want your heart to be troubled. Additionally, He does not want you to be afraid as you live each day. Bottom line – you can live in peace. Plus, you can share it with others around you.

Phil. 4:7 says, “. . . because you belong to Christ Jesus, God will bless you with peace no one can completely understand . . . this peace will control the way you think and feel.” (CEV)

Obviously, you won’t understand the gift. However, when you simply receive it by faith, it transforms your life. Especially at Christmastime.

Application Thoughts And Questions

Anytime, anywhere – night or day – ask yourself five short questions –

1. Is God able?
2. Does God know?
3. Does God care?
4. Can I trust God?
5. Am I obeying?

You can choose peace this Christmas. So, accept your peace gift with a receptive heart. Plus, practice joy. Afterall, it’s the season!

Remember how to claim your gift of personal peace:

1. Pick it up.
2. Then, unwrap it.
3. Of course, eagerly peek inside.
4. Take out the contents.
5. Identify what’s inside.
6. Next, reflect on why the gift is special by remembering the Giver.
7. Finally, say, “thank you!” to God for His unspeakable gift. (2 Cor. 9:15; Phil. 4:7)

“Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” Jn. 14:27

* Portions of this content come from my book – Reach Back: Intentionally Reaching Back To God. – This is a study book that covers various topics like –

• Pausing in life.
• How to handle feelings.
• Loneliness.
• Boundaries.
• Forgiveness.
• Gratitude.

You can find this book in our bookstore: www.aliveandactivelife.org/store.

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Visit our website for resources to get into God’s Word and live an Alive and Active Life.

* The Peace Hand is used with permission, adapted from: McDougall, Colin. Models for Disciple-Makers. Robbinsville: Eternal Truth Ministries, 2002. Print.

It’s Thanksgiving! Time for a “self-check” on gratitude. A mindset of gratitude makes a huge difference, even when things are difficult or painful.

So, if you had a Gratitude Scale that measured how thankful you are, where would you score on a scale 1-10?

Let’s explore “mindset of gratitude.” But first – let’s have some fun with that Gratitude Scale we mentioned.

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I can’t think of a better way to begin this content – purpose-filled living – than to quote a good authority on the subject.

“Your most profound and intimate experiences of worship will likely be in your darkest days – when you heart is broken, when you feel abandoned, when you’re out of options, when the pain is great – and you turn to God alone.” (Rick Warren)

This insightful quote leads us into our discovery today.

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Recently, I connected with a dear friend and learned about her struggle with cancer. Not only her courage to face cancer, but the tenacity and grit it takes to go through chemo treatments. On top of that, to deal with side effects. Little sleep, loss of hair, skin so sensitive you can’t comfortably wear a hat or light scarf. Terrible pain. Time off work. Daily responsibilities still demand attention. Without a doubt, it takes courage and confidence to make it through such difficult circumstances.

How I admire this friend. Each day, she rises into new courage as she manages these realities. Plus, she remains confident God will carry her through. At the same time, she is honest and authentic about her sufferings.

So, let’s dive into what it means to live with courage and confidence each day – no matter what your situation.

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Someone’s hanging from a high ledge, ready to fall! They’re yelling for help and losing strength. Now, they hold on with only one hand. You know emergency teams will never make it in time. Frantically, you grab a nearby sturdy tarp and enlist five or six strong-looking by-standers to hold tightly on corners and sides – a “make-shift” life-net directly below. Realizing the person is about to fall, yet is filled with fear, you yell, “Let go. It’ll be OK.”

This is #6 in a series on hope.

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As I consider today’s material: “Strong Hope,” I’m reminded of a Bible passage in one of my quiet times. Interestingly, a thought struck me as I read that passage. Simply this.

If I were to make a list of all the struggles, issues, sorrows, and difficulties in my life so far –

– and if I were to put a column of dates next to them (similar to what I have in my Bible)

– then, if I were to record a verse or promise God gave me for that particular situation in a third column

– I would have an amazing record of God’s faithfulness in my neediness. In fact, I’d have enough material to publish a book about strong hope.

This is #5 in a series on hope.

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Have you ever desperately cried out “change me, Lord?” I have.

I vividly remember a time I said this many years ago. Challenges had piled up. Demands were high. Expectations even higher. I was pulled in too many directions. And I felt overwhelmed.

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As I write “You Are Included,” I remember a special event several years ago.

I was finishing a book manuscript in a bed and breakfast when I met a lovely couple staying in the next room. In the dining area, they invited me to join them at their table. I learned they were on their honeymoon through a previous, introductory conversation. So, I declined. Still, I felt special to be invited.

The next day, they invited me again! I told them my reservation – “You’re on your honeymoon, and I don’t want to barge in!” They reassured they wanted to visit with me. Suddenly, I had courage to say, “yes.” Subsequently, I found myself delightfully included at their table.

This is #3 in a series on hope. It’s been encouraging exploring hope for two articles. Check them out. (See below.)

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Hope is so important, don’t you agree? Sometimes it seems hope just . . . disappears! Or – you can barely it see through a pinhole of hope. Regardless, just like –

• Life-saving fluids enter your body through a “pinhole” of an IV needle.
• The “pinhole” of a telescope, microscope, camera, or binoculars provides a refined, clearer view –

– so the “pinhole” of hope gives you a more realistic view of life. This is critical – especially during difficult seasons.

This is #2 in a series on hope. I’m excited about this series. I hope you will be, too.

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To be without hope is discouraging – even exhausting. Equally, a message of hope is such welcome news. Perhaps you need that right now.

This is #1 in a series on hope. So, stay tuned!

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I’m thinking of a specific person. Actually, a remarkable person. As I got to know and interact with them, I realized they are the perfect example of what we discuss today – well-thought, well-spoken, well-lived. Over time, I came to deeply respect this person because they represent a very well-lived life!

Who comes to your mind as you consider today’s content?

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The power of good ripples is like tossing a pebble into a quiet pond. First, the entry of the pebble creates a “plunk.” As the water receives the pebble, it leaps up with a splash of welcome.

Then the ripple begins! It’s beautiful to watch from the side. Artful, smooth, concentric circles roll outward. Interestingly, their art continues to “tell” about the pebble. Finally, the ripples reach the edge of the water and fade into the bank. Circle by circle becomes still – and once again, you see your own reflection in the pond canvas.

Thankfully, good ripples still happen in life. First, there’s a start – the plunk. Then, the power of good – ripples outward. Considering the upheaval and confused state of our world, wouldn’t you agree you should adopt good ripples on a personal level?

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The highest motive is often identified when a person, family, community, or country is under duress. For instance, both world wars gave the global public – and nations – opportunities to choose motives that are honorable despite risks, sacrifices, and cost.

Incidentally, it’s helpful to know your personal highest motive. Additionally, to let it propel you into opportunities each day. Also, this gives you influence and purpose.

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A couple of decades ago, there was a commercial for Coca-Cola that claimed – “It’s the real thing.” If this is before your time, just google it. There was another trend during those years. Basically, how to be real. I also recall another phrase – “It’s the real deal.” Incidentally, that phrase inspired marketing strategies, shareable images, at least one podcast, creative pictures, and use in daily conversation.

Essentially, it means – “the real thing, genuine, not fake, not imitation, not a copy.”

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What’s the theme of your life? Have you thought about it? Some people target a theme and work toward it for years. Others simply live – and notice a theme forms over time. Interestingly, if you engage some strategy, you can maneuver – and even change – your life theme.

Hope and opportunity are always available to help you move forward. Let’s explore.

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You’ve heard the illustration of standing in front of several doors, having to choose one without knowing what’s behind each. Similarly, doors you choose for your life become your reality. This can be exciting. Contrastingly, some doors bring great sadness. Nevertheless, you discover new things behind doors. And new experiences can provide hope – if you hold God’s hand while you open and close doors of your life.

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OK! Think WINTER! Freezing cold. You feel exposed – at risk. Plus – you’re shivering! Next thing you know, someone offers you a soft, comfortable, big blanket. Plus, it’s an electric blanket, already plugged in – cozy and warm. This word picture shows what it’s like to be covered by God’s love. Particularly in the cold of the world where you are sometimes exposed and at risk.

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Back in the year 2000, in the Disney movie, “The Kid,” two grown-ups have a conversation about growing up. One of them, Amy, says, “Well, we can’t go around anymore talking about what we’re going to be like when we grow up. We are up.” Basically, she’s saying – it’s time to live grown up.

So, let’s explore what it means to live grown up.

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Question for you. What does the White City and your life have in common? Of course, you’ll remember the White City is straight out of J. R. R. Tolkien’s Lord of the Rings trilogy. Interestingly, between the White City and another city, Osgiliath, there’s a lot in common with your life. Let’s look.

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In your opinion, what are the most important 3 things to care about? Do you have a list? For the record, I have a list. Interestingly, the things we care about most – directly influence how we live each day.

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Do you remember Aragorn’s famous quote in The Lord Of The Rings? “There is always hope!” Then there’s another quote by the great soccer player, Pele. “Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice – and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do.” Hope and hard work are guideposts that keep you on a good path.

The first quote provides a picture of avoiding despair – when there is still hope. The second is a realistic picture of what hard work looks like.

Now – let’s tear into hope and hard work.

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Last article, we explored how to respond When Life Gets Hard. Here’s the thing. Sometimes, life stays hard for a long period of time. Despite your best efforts, practicing great action steps, and staying close to the Lord – you can still end up in a place of discouragement or depression. So, how do you cope? What can you do to manage these conditions?

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I remember a time when I made a plunge I didn’t intend to. Nor did I want to. Matter of fact, it surprised me when I realized where I ended up. Interestingly, I found myself in the very place a guy in Scripture landed. When life gets hard, it can knock the wind out of you. Also, you feel exhausted. Things pile up over your history. Then, you can plunge – and slip from the comfortable place you normally enjoy.

When life gets hard, it’s critical to pro-actively do certain things to re-enter a comfortable, healthy place. Incidentally, that’s what God wants for you. So, let’s look at some helpful action points.

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You know what it’s like when you’re about to tell someone a secret. Or when they want to tell you a secret. You “lean into” the other person with eager expectation. Even excitement. There are many kinds of secrets to share with a friend in life. And the best ones are secrets about your life in Christ.

So – let’s tear into it!

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I’m thinking back to when I was a young adult. I’ve discovered people think differently when they first enter the adult world than when they have a decade or two of life experience behind them. That was certainly true for me. As life “happened” and challenges piled up, I began to realize I need a little more wisdom! So, what did I do?

Fortunately, I pursued wisdom – because I realized I didn’t have much on my own. Now, I frequently visit the timeless library of wisdom. Thankfully, it’s open anytime – night or day. (More on that in this content.)

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It’s planting season once again in many countries. In fact, some farmers, gardeners, and community agriculturalists have already finished planting seeds for this year’s crops – with hopes of a good harvest. Incidentally, planting a seed means the death of a seed. And from this “death” comes new life. Subsequently, what is the cycle of a seed? And how could information like this affect your daily life?

Let’s look at the cycle of a seed.

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When I was in college, I took a “Camping – Hiking Course.” It fulfilled a basic requirement. Overall, it was a good experience. Interestingly, I learned a lot. However, I remember one bad experience – the weather didn’t cooperate. Our group pitched our tent. But it started POURING. Then, the temperature dropped dramatically. It was a freezing, soppy mess. Sadly, our group squeezed into a car and spent the night there – shivering. Unfortunately, our tent nor our car, provided the covering and protection we needed. Thankfully, God’s covering and protection doesn’t look like that.

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Do you remember being a little kid and you just thought it would never get to your birthday – or to Christmas? Now, fast-forward to your current age. Whatever decade you’re in – your perspective is likely different. Even teens start to say things like – “time has passed so quickly.” Essentially, time is growing short. We live knowing we will eventually die. If nothing else, time is certainly limited.

So, let’s explore how to live each day while time is growing short.

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In our last article/podcast, A Plan To Be More Like Jesus, we laid out a reasonable plan using twenty-five helpful action points to keep you matched up with Scripture. You’ve likely formed many plans over the years with strategies to carry them out. Subsequently, it makes sense to develop a plan and long-term strategies to be more like Jesus.

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Do you need a long-overdue vacation? Or perhaps you want to pay off a loan quickly. Maybe you’ve never gardened, but you want to try one. Could be you’ve decided to change careers but need more education. Or you might commit to lose a few unwanted pounds. Regardless, whatever the scenario, you need a plan – or you’ll get nowhere fast. Similarly, you need a plan to be more like Jesus. Incidentally, it doesn’t just happen.

So, let’s look at a good plan to do just that.

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A few years ago, we published an article about “your number.” The content is important enough to explore again with a fresh look – especially considering current global times. Interestingly, everyone uses numbers each day – finances, critical dates, paying bills, trips to the grocery store or gas pump. Then there are birthdays – “how old are you this year?” Incidentally, what’s your number for your tax return this year? So many numbers! Most important, what’s your number that represents your life?

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Just the other day, I was putting on a pair of gloves – without paying attention and with some difficulty. Wouldn’t you know it! I was trying to maneuver the left glove onto my right hand, leaving the right glove waiting for my left hand. Silly, eh? Needless to say, it wasn’t going well. After a good look, I saw the problem and switched them out. No wonder they didn’t fit! I think there’s a life lesson in this. Namely: how well do your gloves fit?

Time for a fit check . . .

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Some years back, I accompanied my grandkids to a park. They were full of energy and expectation. Upon arrival, I gave the usual warning – “Now, be careful as you tackle this playground!” Their response? “O.K. We will!” Well, they climbed equipment, explored, and jumped from tree stump to every conquerable obstacle. The oldest mid-teen made a bounding leap – landing in a wipe-out. Boom! “Are you OK?” “Ya. I’m fine.” Then, another bounding leap – another wipe-out! Kersplat! “You still OK?” “Yup, I’m good.” Remarkably, yet another attempted giant leap for “teen-kind.” Ya-hoo-hoo-hoo! Trip-and-sprawl! Back up again – still grinning. Goodness! That brilliant offspring found every stumbling stone the park offered. Perhaps a successful visit?! I think it’s worth exploring what a stumbling stone is.

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This past Christmas season, my family watched a wonderful concert of M.W. Smith, Amy Grant, and Michael Tait. It was so good! The vocals were beautiful, the band professional and creative, the lights and special features very well-done. Best of all, the message was inspiring. Worshipfully, the entire concert focused on Jesus Christ. One of the talking points impressed me. So, as I’ve been pondering it, I decided to write an article about “love, like, and fond-of.”

This is the perfect material for Easter week.

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Last article/podcast, we explored “A Positive Mindset Works.” Actually, there’s nothing more critical to your success as a Jesus follower. Why? Simply, because a person’s mindset propels them forward into response. Essentially, into action. Subsequently, let’s look at more healthy mindset action points today, with the goal of building character like Christ.

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I’m sure it’s not just me. Surely, you’ve been there, too. Your computer, phone, or device just isn’t cooperating. So, you refresh. If that doesn’t work, you turn it off – and back on again. Plus, you take care of any updates. Worse case scenario, you back-up data and re-format your device. Honestly! A lot of management! Similarly, there’s management needed for a mindset to work well. However, it involves certain reboots, re-starts, updates, and even re-formats to have a positive mindset work.

Let’s see what Scripture says.

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In our last article/podcast, “Refuse To Refuse,” we talked about living with hope. Since hope is so critical, it’s worth a look at how God tethers you to hope. Actually, it’s challenging to be a Jesus follower in today’s world. Equally, to live without hope is tragic.

Let’s explore how God tethers you to hope – and exactly what a tether is.

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“No thank you. Perhaps some other time. Nah, not doin’ it! No – I don’t think so. Ask me next week.” Those are some ways people refuse something. But, what does it look like to “refuse to refuse.” Remarkably, this little phrase has been behind many world-changing events. It’s made heroes out of ordinary people. That means you and I can be heroes-of-a-kind. Interestingly, refusing to refuse provides constructive action that makes significant differences in your life. Often, it’s your best choice!

So, let’s look at “refuse to refuse.”

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I don’t know about you, but the words – “It’s for your own good” – conjure up numerous memories. Think back to your childhood. Surely, you had adults and various others who had influence in your life . . . and said – “it’s for your own good.” Chances are, most of those folks were trying to cast a purposeful vision forward into your life. Plus – don’t you sometimes say the same thing now as you attempt to influence someone you care about? Whether or not you do – God does. In case you didn’t know, that phrase – “for your own good.” – is straight out of Scripture.

Now, let’s explore exactly “what” is supposed to be for your own good.

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Have you ever seen a good three-strand cord? It’s super strong! Basically, it’s impossible to rip apart. In fact, it looks strong enough to hold a ginormous military ship with aircraft landing strip, or perhaps a cruiser with intimidating deck canons and torpedoes – securely to a dock.

Today, we’ll explore a three-strand cord, but in a slightly different way. Essentially, your “past, present, and future.” You are a three-strand cord through all tenses of your life. Consequently, your history, your current scenario, and your future options are woven into one strong cord.

Past, Present, Future: A Three-Strand Cord

“A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” (Ecc.4:12)

God loves humanity! He created their design to flourish.

A Three-Strand Cord

God weaves your past, present, and future together creatively. Remarkably, He’s had your life cord in mind before creation. In other words, you’re always on His mind always. Your life matters!

It’s hard to break a three-strand cord. However, much depends on how you respond to God’s creative weaving. God weaves His tenacious love into your three-strand cord life. But you must say “yes” or “no” to His weave. His unlimited creativity makes each tense matter.

Let’s explore.

Past

It’s hard to imagine a “less than healthy” past could contribute anything to a three-strand cord. Rather, it seems only a successful, positive past would be strong enough for such a cord. Not so. Christ redeems a whole life when you accept Him. Actually, even a good past (outside Christ) isn’t strong enough for a durable three-strand cord. God weaves your past in with tenacity and beauty when you completely surrender to Him.

Consider the Apostle Paul who literally hunted Christians. Incidentally, he knew they could be jailed, tortured, or killed. His past is rather despicable. Yet, his past was woven into his three-strand cord in a remarkable way to bring glory to God.

The Lord chose this man with a less-than-respectable past to be “His guy.”

Incredibly, the same is true for you – whatever your past.

Present

The only life tense you have any control over is your present. Sure, there are things you can prepare for in your future. You can also “call on” experiences in your past. However, your present is where you live.

Every thought, attitude, word, and deed takes place here – in your present. Essentially, today becomes tomorrow’s yesterday when all current choices are gone. Subsequently, this is the power of the present. Your will gives you the only control you have.

God steadies you if you let Him. Jesus makes Himself available to you at all times. In –

• Problems.
• Hurts.
• Losses.
• Trials.
• Conflicts.
• Illness.
• Death.
• Disappointment.

Jesus is with you. Here and now, in the present.

Some folks have made incredible contributions by “being present” each moment. Many have changed history, medical advancement, discovery, inventions, and so on. Most have the power to quietly make a significant difference in daily details.

Incredibly, the same is true for you – whatever your present.

Future

Your future is filled with possibilities. Essentially, you have blank pages waiting to be filled. Your part is to fill those blank pages with good choices that make a difference in your life and the lives of others. You can make choices that honor God.

God is your Partner. This sets you up for future successes. Jesus gives hope that reaches forward. Your future is best when you –

• First, plant your past in Christ.
• Then, work in your present by partnering with Him.
• Finally, commit your future to honor God.

This will look differently than what you picture. Often, blessings flow out of difficulties as you rest in the Lord’s wisdom, timing, and interventions. God will never leave you without help if you eagerly connect with Him in your present.

God loves you. He never misses anything. He wants your three-strand cord life to succeed. Thousands of people have partnered with God. Consider Abraham, Moses, Joseph, Christ’s disciples, Apostle Paul. Now consider people you know who are committed Jesus followers. Some are famous. Many are not.

Incredibly, the same is true for you – whatever your future.

Respond To God For A Strong Cord

We’ve identified and defined past, present, and future. Now, let’s look at each again, but this time with deliberate response to God.

Cord #1 – Past

Whatever your past, God redeems all things. If you have a broken past, give it freely to Jesus. He makes brokenness and strife into something beautiful. If you have a faithful past, give it freely to Jesus. This is your service record. Regardless, God knows what to do to effectively weave your past into a strong three-strand cord.

Cord #2 – Present

The present is such a gift. It keeps on giving – if you engage it thoughtfully. This means you will live with purpose. Match every thought, attitude, word, and action to God’s Word and Christ’s character.

The Lord faithfully points out what’s not pleasing to Him. Immediately thank Him when He points it out. God wants you to succeed. Essentially, this means He will show you any missteps. Cooperate with His training. Fix issues. As for His help. As you accept His training, you bring the cord of your life into alignment with God’s Word.

Learn to think with Scripture’s strategies. Paul calls this – “work out your salvation.” This helps you lean into a sin-free life. (Phil. 2:12; Jn. 8:11)

Cord #3 – Future

The future is unknown. Yet, your future is filled with possibilities and opportunities that increase God’s work in lives. Determine to discover God’s intentions for your life. God’s design is strategic and He values your partnership. So, engage His strategies. Partner with God. As one would say in chess: It’s your move.

Life is like a game of chess. Interesting pieces placed on an equally interesting board of contrasting squares. Then it starts: strategies, choices, and patterns. It only takes a few minutes to realize you can’t play life chess without being very engaged and thoughtful. This content helps you identify strategies and action steps to make good choices and build strong, healthy life patterns. You can be confident each day by adopting God’s methods when It’s Your Move.

Your Life – Continually Woven

Your life is continually being woven. You’re a miracle from birth through eternity. We’ve mentioned regrets from the past. Plus, the unknowns of the future. Regardless, when you live your present by faith in Jesus, you partner with God in weaving your miraculous three-strand cord life. God wants you to enjoy His love and goodness at all times. Plus, He has great purpose for your life.

There are three “p” words that flow from your relationship with God:

1. Power. Life is big. Sometimes too big. However, ” . . . with God, all things are possible.” (Mt.19:26) God’s power transforms your past, present, and future into a strong three-strand cord.
2. Presence. God is present in your life at all times. The question is – are you present with Him at all times? Partnership means both parties are present. There’s no better way to have relationship with God.
3. Promises. God has made many incredible promises to you. Claim them! They are yours! When you claim His promises and obey His instructions, you prove you love Him. Incidentally, you have promises to make and keep to God, too. How are you doing with that?

When you trusted God for salvation, He justified you. What does “justify” mean? Made right. Lined up. Straightened out. So, you have been made right with God.

Nevertheless, there’s something that comes first in receiving grace. Here are the steps:

1. Confess you are lost without Christ. ADMIT.
2. Repent of sins. REMORSE.
3. Receive God’s forgiveness because of what Jesus accomplished on the cross. HOPE.
4. Accept you are now holy – as you would have been before the fall – covered by the blood of Jesus. FREEDOM.

God Weaves Your Three-Strand Cord

Interestingly, God weaves your three-strand cord together through daily situations of your life. You partner with Him by –

• Faith and obedience.
• Resting in Him when you would otherwise be anxious.
• Defining the success of your life – His way.

How does God define “success”?

1. Become increasingly like Jesus.
2. Trust and obey God to form strong and beautiful character.
3. Since Christ lives inside you, reach for the glory He created you to have.
4. Rest in God’s goodness and grace. This seals your success as a believer.

These definitions help you be the person you were created to be. All of that together brings glory to God. 

Christ anchors you in all three tenses of your life. What if your past or present is filled with mistakes and regrets? Actually, Jesus addresses this. And He invites you to “get into His weave.” Rev. 21:5 says, “I am making everything new!” So, weave yourself into God with all your heart. A three-strand cord is woven.

Engage your present fully each day. The present becomes the past. The future becomes the present. Be a miracle. Live every present moment in Jesus Christ.

Application Thoughts And Questions

1. Have you thought about your past, present, and future as powerful – even if there are broken parts and errors?
2. Are you living in God’s power each day?
3. Do you focus on God’s presence with you in each situation?
4. How many of God’s promises are you claiming for your life?
5. How are you doing with your promises back to God?

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There are lots of resources about boundaries. Equally, there’s lots of confusion about that topic. I’ve heard many opinions about setting boundaries. Some are helpful. Others are uninformed. A few are arrogant. And some are rather judgmental. Basically, it seems many folks are unsure about boundaries.

So, is “boundaries” just another “buzz” word? What does God think about boundaries? And why would you set boundaries in your life?

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Have you ever wondered if God cries? Well, He does. In fact, God weeps! I suppose most people don’t think about it. Nevertheless, it likely happens more often than you or I can imagine. When God weeps, He connects with you and me. Actually, that’s quite comforting. Plus, it gives permission to you to weep when your life overflows with disappointment.

What does God weep about?

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There’s a whole section of published books called “self-help” books. Some of these resources have helpful information. Others – not-so-much. Some topics are – habits, leadership, rest, self-care, and many more. Interestingly, I happen to know a very effective book that covers the entire spectrum of your life – all topics! Further, it provides focus points to improve your character.

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I’m sure you’ve heard warnings about looking straight at the sun during an eclipse. Well, what about looking straight at God? Recently, we published “Turn Your Face Toward It.” I recommend this article/podcast which explores a phrase right out of Scripture – “turn your face toward it.” The intent? Well, to turn your face toward God’s face. Especially interesting because Scripture says no one can look at Him and live! So, the question is – can you look at God?

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I remember a funny quote in the movie, “Mulan.” : “Dishonor! Dishonor on your whole family! Dishonor on you, dishonor on your cow . . . ” Do you remember it? Incidentally, this rebuke is spoken by Mushu, a Chinese dragon – Mulan’s companion. Actually, dishonor is something like shame. In fact, dishonor is a strong match for shame according to a thesaurus. You might wonder if I’m going to suggest – – under no circumstances should you allow yourself to experience shame. Not so. Unfortunately, too many people don’t have healthy contrition anymore. Conversely, many people don’t know what to do with undeserved shame. Let’s explore the shame thing.

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When I’m driving somewhere, I always look for road markers and signs to assure I’m in the right place, ready for what’s coming. In fact, road markers help you stay in the right place in every day life. Knowing your surroundings provides perspective and management options – particularly when you’re down. Let’s explore two verses that give helpful actions steps to manage difficult times and still keep you on a good path.

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In the first few months of a New Year, there’s a unique opportunity to change – or tweek – perspectives. However, to do this, you need to “turn your face toward it.”

In today’s content, we’ll explore this interesting phrase. Oddly, it comes straight out of Scripture. And actually, it applies to every new month. Each and every week. And particularly, each new day. Matter of fact, learning to do this gives you an effective and powerful tool to maintain a healthy, balanced life.

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If you could choose only one thing you need this year more than anything else – what would you pick? That’s a hard question to answer. Actually, I’m not sure I could do it. Nevertheless, let’s see if God’s Word has any input about the one thing you need this year.

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A New Year is an opportunity to let go of some things, hold onto other things, and reach for new things. That process involves various emotions. Even though a New Year can feel scary, not knowing what’s ahead, it can also be exciting with new opportunities. In some cases, it may be a relief to walk into fresh perspective. Hope for new possibilities begins to rise. Simultaneously, sadness about aging, saying good-byes, accepting losses, or letting go of previous endeavors can be painful. Even knowing there will be difficulties ahead – overall, people embrace hope as one year morphs into another. God gives hope for a New Year.

Let’s explore what this looks like.

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It’s Christmas week! How can you prepare your heart to receive Emmanuel in fresh new ways during busy Christmas week? In this content, we look at simple action steps to focus on Emmanuel: God With You. Preparing your heart is just as important as all the other preparations. Perhaps even more important.

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You might be surprised to know Christmas sadness is a real thing. It hits when people go through difficulties that stretch into the Christmas season. Or with unexpected bad news. Sometimes, it’s an on-going, unhealthy relationship or life situation. Interestingly, Christmas sadness can sometimes appear though everything is going fine. Unexpectedly, something rises inside you without permission and surprises you. In fact, you may even wonder why it’s there because there’s no identifiable reason.

Whatever the scenario, you are not alone if you experience Christmas sadness.

Subsequently, the kindest thing you can do for yourself is to learn how to manage Christmas sadness.

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You know the little kid in the back seat on a long trip? Every 15 minutes, they ask (with a tired sigh) – “Are we there yet?!” That’s the same little cherub, along with a host of other little kids and just as many adults, who asks, “Is it Christmas yet?” The first exclamation – “Are we there yet?” – is more like – “Gosh! How much longer?!” An impatience and a feeling of being confined. The second exclamation – “Is it Christmas yet?” – is more like – “I’m so excited, I can hardly wait.” An expression of the joy of anticipation.

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Most people really like Christmas. There are a few grinches who despise the annual celebration. But many more cherish this annual holiday. They lean into invisible qualities of hope and joy connected to the evergreen tree, lights and decorations, beautiful music, giving and receiving, special goodies, and moments of reflection. Unfortunately, many of these same “Christmas-loving” people feel overwhelmed at the hustle and bustle. So, how do you prepare your heart for this beloved holiday?

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Thanksgiving is a time to practice exceptional character. Why is that? Because thankfulness is one of the noblest character qualities.

Additionally, it’s a time for celebration and fun activities. In this content, we look at both:

• A thankful heart.
• Celebration and fun.

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I remember communion from when I was a child. Even as a youngster, I wanted to understand the bread and cup. But honestly, I did wonder why the bread was so “itty-bitty.” And the cup was barely a good swig! Don’t you remember sticking your tongue into that tiny cup and licking every drop out when you were a kid? Nevertheless, it was clear to me as a child, that communion is not a meal – or even a snack. It’s about celebrating a precious sacrament – and remembering. Today, let’s take a fresh look at communion.

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So, are you an Apple user or an Android user? Regardless, have you noticed what I’ve figured out? As soon as you update your device, you’re made aware of the latest and greatest? New features. Better camera. Faster processing. Greater connectivity.

Technology is a fast-paced industry. Frankly, it affects pretty much everything in our lives. Things would really change if all our technology suddenly stopped working. For example, with an EMP (electromagnetic pulse) or a Geomagnetic storm. Thankfully, that’s not the norm.

Regardless, life is so much more than technology. In fact, I suggest the latest and greatest you can experience in life is found in God. Let’s explore.

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Some years back, we published an article called “The Sin List.” About a year later, we published another article – “The Skinny On Sinning.” Recently, we published “When You’re Down.” In that content, we mention two modern sins.

Oddly, people are always curious about “what’s on the serious sin list.” Additionally, folks are interested in how to get “Relief and Hope” in hardships. So, people flux between –

1. Living good lives.
2. Being encouraged.

Underneath this flux is the reality of two modern sins.

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You’ve been there. I have, too. In fact, pretty much everyone has. When you’re down, it’s hard to function at your best. Things don’t look normal, and you can’t quite get your bearings. Things may not be going as you expected. Or, you’ve had a disappointment – possibly a piercing loss. Perhaps you lack energy from carrying your load a long time. Often, there’s a pile-up of things. “Stuff” is going on in your heart – and in your world. Regardless, you need to manage this stuff!

However, it’s not those things, alone, that get you down. Something else is going on – and you can’t quite put your finger on it. Matter-of-fact, if you could put your finger on it, you’d know better how to address being down. So, it’s tricky to to be your best when you’re down.

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Don’t you just love it when someone gives you the “heads-up?” It helps you know what’s coming – and what to do next. Yes, we really like a “heads-up.” So, it’s even more valuable when the heads-up comes from Jesus. He’s always giving helpful information, insights, a peek into the future, and – yes – thankfully – warnings. Let’s explore how these timely messages are a life-saver. And while we’re at it – let’s figure out what a “woe” is!

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Do you remember in Star Wars when Han Solo and Princess Leia barely escape with their lives from the enemy forces of Darth Vader? On their escape journey, Han suggests they go to Cloud City where one of his buddies, Lando Calrissian, lives. They’ll be safe there. So, with new hope, they arrive in Cloud City, and Lando escorts them into a room. As they approach the room, the door opens. Incredibly, Darth Vader is in the room! Do you remember the look on their faces? Disbelief. Even horror. This is discouragement – when hope flickers.

If you’re not a Star Wars fan, you still know what I mean. Think of your own example. Perhaps you only need to look in the mirror to see discouragement – when hope flickers.

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In a previous article, we shared a fun excerpt from the movie, “The Kid.” Bruce Willis plays Russ Duritz, a grown-up under stress. He regresses to a comfort when he was a kid – a sandwich. As he makes one, he says – “There’s safety in a sandwich!” He grips his almost finished sandwich and flips it around while stressfully raving. Alfalfa sprouts fly everywhere. Then, lettuce flips out. It’s not much of a sandwich any more. Certainly not a perfect sandwich.

So, let’s take a few minutes to explore the perfect sandwich in your “on-the-go life.” Afterall, you need to fill the hunger in your soul.

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For just a moment – think basketball, football, soccer, ballet, or gymnastics. Now, consider how agile some athletes are. They just seem to pivot into position on a dime, as needed – with little or no warning. Similarly, your life pivots. Actually, with so many events, people, and unknowns – your ability to maneuver is a critical skill. Consequently, during challenge, disappointments, threats, bad news, conflict – there’s good news! Your life pivots on principles that never change. So, let’s explore practical ideas and helpful action steps to pivot skillfully – with little or no warning.

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During many wars, including world wars, there are clever, secret codes used to conceal a powerful message intended for an ally. Espionage and undercover work quite literally help nations advance and win wars. The powerful message is coded for transmission. Eventually, it’s decoded – translated – into it’s true meaning. Essentially, this is the method used to deceive those who shouldn’t receive the information, as well as make it plain and simple for the receiver once it’s decoded.

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Recently, we entertained special guests – dear friends of many years. It was great to see them again. But – people change. Incidentally, this is exciting. Why? Because it means there’s more to know about them. In contrast, God never changes. (Heb.13:8) Remarkably, there’s always more opportunity to know and see God in life. In fact, this continues through eternity. God is incredible!

To know and see God is a privilege to celebrate even in difficult times.

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As we explore good news in difficult times, consider this story. You’re on a long trip. You’re really hungry. Mmmm – a hamburger and an ice-cold soda comes to mind. So, you off-ramp into a small town with one grocery on the only street. The grocer says, “Well, go down the aisles. Gather supplies. Make your own sandwich. Soft drinks are stacked by the bread.” Consequently, you head to the next off-ramp – a gas station. The owner says, “Sorry. All we got is cold beer and a bathroom ’round back.” Next off-ramp – an ice-cream stand. But you’re told – “Only ice-cream here. Sorry.” All you want is a burger and a soda!

Interestingly, this “less serious scenario” describes how people feel when they need good news. Instead, they are offered everything else. Nevertheless, there’s still one source of good news in difficult times.

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Do you take the trash out at your house on a regular basis? Or is that somebody else’s job? Have you ever had a pile-up of junk and stuff that needs to be thrown out? Realistically, keeping up with trash, junk, and stuff is part of living well. This is true for your inner person, too. I’m excited to get into this content.

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How much can a person take? It’s hard to keep going when the onslaught just won’t stop! Nevertheless, no matter what you are going through, there’s a very “special something” that links you to relief and hope. Incidentally, you and I both know we often need relief and hope. In fact, more frequently than we might wish. So, what is that “special something” that links you to relief and hope? Let’s explore.

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Life is an amazing privilege with many opportunities. But let’s face it: life is also really hard – especially when you are stressed out.

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You go to the mail box and pull out a crisp white envelope with an official seal. The exquisite handwriting specifies your name and address. Rather than ripping it open – like junk mail – you pull out your letter opener to surgically slide along the top envelope crease. From the open slot, you gingerly slip out a beautiful, heavy-weight card that says, “You Are Invited.” In surprise and wonder, you flip open the card to see – it’s the very event you’ve always wanted to attend! Up till now, you’ve never dreamed you’d have the opportunity.

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As we discuss the cloud and sea, I’d like to lead with two examples. One is literal. The other is figurative.

This past spring when we planted our garden, the sun pierced our bodies as we bent over the soil. Then, every-so-often, a coolness enveloped us. Why? Well, clouds moved in. Subsequently, their shadow covered us from the hot sun. It was quite pleasant. I’m sure you’ve had a similar experience. This is the literal example.

A second, figurative example. You pursue forward movement in some endeavor. Yet, you continually find road blocks and barriers that work against you. A “sea of obstacles” prevents progress. So, your goal awaits your arrival from a distance. This happens often in life.

Clearly, there’s a need for cover and a path through in daily life. So, let’s dissect the idea of “Under The Cloud; Through The Sea.”

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You’ve seen it in a parking lot. Or even on your driveway. Perhaps in a community park. A tiny green “fragile-looking” plant pushes up through pavement, concrete, or asphalt as it reaches for the sun. That’s power! And it’s impressive. In fact, it’s a good picture of will power – a skill you need daily. Many people have lost this critical skill. At the same time, others break through concrete on their way to healthy living. Thankfully, will power is a skill you can pick up again any time.

Last article, Upended, we talked about will power. But, today’s content explores how will power helps you each day in everything you do.

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As I considered this article, I decided to look up the word “upended.” The definitions made me think of a boat or canoe. Maybe a personal craft on the sea of life. Here are synonyms I found to help define upended.

• flipped
• inverted
• overturned
• upset
• bottom-side-up
• tipped over
• capsized

I don’t know about you, but these synonyms gave me a mental picture of upended.

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Have you ever dissected something? High school biology? Perhaps college anatomy? If you’ve been following Alive and Active Life, you know you can dissect Scripture, too. Thankfully, I’m not talking about heavy–duty, theological stuff. Rather, this is a lighter approach to dissect something meaningful – with practical action steps for your life.

Much like you command a kitchen knife, you must learn how to wield your Sword – the Scriptures. So, why not dissect something meaningful with me today?

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How many times have you heard – “Did I happen to mention . . . “ and then someone finishes a thought. Indeed, every mention can become a conversation. Incidentally, this is exactly what Jesus does. He mentions things. In fact, He’s a master at mentioning critical information.

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Every nation goes through seasons of change. This election year in the United States brings a responsibility to remember who we are. And I, for one, still believe in this country of opportunity. Additionally, I’m thankful for freedom. As complicated and challenging as democracy can become, it’s still quite a worthy experiment. Matter of fact, Winston Churchill once said: “Democracy is the worst form of government – except for all the others that have been tried.” If that is true, then what responsibilities must we faithfully carry forward to preserve this country’s foundation? What is required of us to be worthy citizens, as well as followers of Jesus?

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As we explore “Little gods,” I’m thinking about a superhero movie – The Avengers. There’s an exchange between the Black Widow and Captain America. Oddly, they are discussing whether to go after Thor and Loki. If you’re familiar with the Marvel superhero movies, you’ll remember the conversation –

Natasha Romanoff (Black Widow): I’d sit this one out, Cap!

Steve Rogers (Captain America): I don’t see how I can!

Natasha Romanoff: These guys come from legend. They’re basically gods.

Steve Rogers: There’s only one God, Ma’am, and I’m pretty sure He doesn’t dress like that!

You know, it’s one thing to talk about make-belief superheroes as “gods.” But to talk about people like you and me being gods? Realistically, that’s a stretch! Interestingly, Scripture does. Consequently, what practical application does “little gods” have for you?

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Most people have felt alone at least once in their life. What about you? Perhaps you’ve been forgotten by friends or family, and you feel set aside. It could be your child or spouse dies, and you are left. Sometimes, you stand alone in conviction when others around you do what you know is wrong. Then, there’s a scenario you are seriously ill, so you must fight to survive. Maybe, you’ve taken a critical moral stand everyone is against, and you suffer by yourself. Unfortunately, you may have had to leave your home, and you have no idea if/when you can return. Perhaps you’re in a marriage you thought was a partnership, but you realized over time you are alone. To all these situations – and many more – I strongly encourage you to believe the truth. You’re not alone!

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As we discuss the mark of a Christian in this content, we need to look at a modern, booming industry – marketing. Have you considered specific “marks” of your business, career, organization, and even your lifestyle? Think with me about some examples of “marks” – a logo, a saying or jingle, even a color.

For example, the color brown is trademarked by UPS. Did you know the background color orange is trademarked by Hershey’s for their Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups? What about a red circle with a red dot inside it – like a target? That’s right, the mark – the logo – of Target stores. Or consider the Olympic logo: 5 intersecting colored rings – blue, black, red, yellow, green. Then there’s that one-liner from the 1980’s commercial – “Where’s the beef?!” So, what do you think of? Wendy’s restaurants, right? What about the cute jingle – “I wish I were an Oscar Mayer wiener!” Guess what that mark was for? Yup! Oscar Mayer hot dogs!

Considering all these examples of marks, what’s the mark of a Christian?

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You’ve heard it now for generations: How to live a healthy life. In fact, one of the popular “sign-offs” for emails and letters now is – “Be Well!” So, what does this mean? Truly, all over the world, you hear talk shows, podcasts, seminars, and even friends talk about being healthy:

• Use My Plate – to help eat a balanced diet.
• Drink plenty of water – stay hydrated and promote your internal systems.
• Stay active – keep moving with exercise, biking, jogging, tennis, golf, etc.
• Get outside – enjoy fresh air. See the beauty of creation. Be quiet and calm. And, breathe deeply.
• Spend time with friends – enrich and nourish your inner person.
• Be well-read or well-listened – know what’s going on around the globe to have an accurate perspective.
• And I add – Get into God’s Word – for key points and action steps you need to guide your life.
• Plus – Get God’s Word into you – grow and change by doing what Scripture says. Remember, what you practice is what you become.

In conclusion, all these – and more, help you live a healthy life.

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Recently, I looked at a picture and saw the most beautiful landscape. Upon further study, I realized – it was upside-down. A bit stunned, I figured out I was looking at the perfect reflection of a landscape on a calm, serene lake. It got flipped! Interestingly, God flips some things, too. 

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Remember Downton Abbey – the television series and movies? If you watched this excellent period drama, I’m sure you’ll remember frequent times the Dowager Countess and Cousin Isobel are completely indignant toward one another. Their continual sparring is a unique dimension of their very unusual friendship. So, what exactly is “indignant?” Let’s look at what it means and who uses it.

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Growing older? Me, too. We all are. The days seem to fly by. And over time, people change. As your life goes on, are you the same person you were as a youngster? I know I’m not. Recently, we explored an all-around good guy who had lots of troubles. Remarkably, he’s given 3 chapters in Scripture – very unusual. So, he deserves another look as he grows older.

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Have you given much thought to what Jesus predicted? All my life, I’ve heard about end times. When I googled “the end of all things,” I saw all kinds of entries –

• A book title.
• Definition of “the end of all things.”
• A song.
• Movie.
• Cartoons.
• Videos.
• Even the Lord of the Ring – When Sam helps Frodo on a journey of hardship to destroy a ring of evil power in Mount Doom.

But none of these give any definitive help in exploring what life will look like in end times. So, let’s look at what Jesus predicted.

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We had a leap year this year. And it struck me again how that phenomenon only occurs every four years. So, what happens to the important stuff that occurs on Feb. 29th? Like a birth, anniversary, a death, start date of a business, etc. Do those special events get appropriate attention? Or do they make it on a list of important stuff we forget for another four years? From my connection with people who have a Feb. 29th event, most retain their date – but move celebrations or remembrances to the day before or after. What can we learn from this interesting reality?

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I bet you’ve lost something on occasion. You know how it is to misplace an item – and then spent far too much time looking for it. “Keys” is the big one. (Where do those keys always disappear to?) Sometimes it’s a gift item you purchase and put it in a logical place – and then can’t find it when you need it. Then there’s your vehicle! “Where in blazes did I park in the lot outside this store?!” Well, this content highlights the guy who found it. Interestingly, he wasn’t even looking for it. Incidentally, what he found was much more precious than keys, gifts, vehicles, and other things commonly misplaced. What this young man found had been hidden a long time.

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Do you like chess? Surely, some of you do, while others of you . . . well, not-so-much. Perhaps you prefer checkers, scrabble, trivial pursuit, monopoly, or nertz. Regardless of your preferred game, life is like playing a board game – in some respects. For example – chess. Interesting pieces are placed in a certain order on an equally interesting board of contrasting squares. Then it starts: the strategies, choices, and patterns. It only takes a few minutes to realize you can’t play chess without being very engaged and thoughtful. Subsequently, you realize there’s an element like this in the game of life and relationships. Let’s look at helpful similarities.

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Remember when the pandemic was in full swing? Everybody was buying masks and medical gloves. Well, I found some medical gloves for a great price. So I ordered. When they came, I checked the box front. Sure enough – one size fits all. Not true! Those gloves were big enough to fit a professional basketball player who can “palm” the ball! So, I was stuck with these huge gloves. Incidentally, there was so much room in each glove finger, I could have packed snacks in there. So much for one size for everybody!

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You know the story from Lord of the Rings. Beautiful Arwen loves Aragorn. However, Aragorn left to protect Frodo on his quest. Incidentally, he’ll end up fighting a war. Unfortunately, He may never return. As a result, Arwen is overcome. And she lingers in middle earth rather than join her kin to travel to their forever home. Having remained, she has a conversation with her elf-father. Interestingly, Arwen clings to hope. And she wants to know how to live in hope.

Elrond: “He is not coming back. Why do you linger when there is no hope?”

Arwen: “There is still hope.”

Elrond: “If Aragorn survives this war, You will still be parted.”

Sadly, Arwen’s dad doesn’t sound very hopeful, does he?

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Easter week is here! Celebrations! Joyful traditions, activities, and food! Subsequently, the simple reality of this wonderful holiday is – We have hope! We have Jesus!

Before we explore hope in today’s content, I want to mention a FREE Easter week devotional course – Prepare For Easter. It’s already open, and I’ll tell you more at the end of this content.

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We’re going to do something different this week – an interview with the producers to explore behind the scenes of Alive and Active Life articles and podcast. Actually, we’ve been publishing for 14 years and broadcasting for 5 years. But we’ll specifically cover podcast information. WHY do we do this?

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You’ve heard the saying – “I feel like a fifth wheel.” Really – a fifth wheel is not much good . . . unless you’re driving a big rig – and then you need 18 wheels – all in good shape. Today’s content explores what it’s like to be the fifth king. Incidentally, this guy was exceptional! We can all learn from his choices, integrity, and passions.

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Picture the scene with me. It’s from C.S. Lewis’ Prince Caspian. The four children, Peter, Susan, Edmond, and Lucy are traveling in unknown places, trying to get their bearings. Basically – they’re lost. But Lucy keeps seeing Aslan when no one else does. They think she’s making it up . . . or maybe she’s crazy. Nevertheless, Lucy is the one who gets messages and directions from Aslan. In fact, Lucy and Aslan are friends. It seems she’s nurtured the ability to see what others don’t. Incidentally, this ability opens the whole universe to her imagination and her life purpose.

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Hypothetical situation. So, you meet someone. Perhaps you have conversations about strengths and weaknesses as you get to know this new person. It would be rare – but what would you think if that person said, “I don’t have any weaknesses?” Jaw drop! That’s a pretty big wow! A person with no weaknesses! Even Jesus had weakness as a human being – not weakness of character or morality but of learning, growing, and His unique skill sets. Nevertheless, as He grew up into manhood, He learned about areas He did well in – and areas He needed to build strategies to strengthen weakness. That does not mean Jesus sinned. It means He was/is like you and me in every way – fully human, while also being fully God. Let’s explore how to build strategies to strengthen weakness and follow the path Jesus took.

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“Generations” is not only the title of a Star Trek movie. It’s also an important dynamic for families and individuals. Whether or not you are a Star Trek fan, you must agree there’s something important about generations – for family, country, businesses, royal lines, and franchises. Generations can be blood relatives or simply the next legitimate persons. Today’s content focuses on four successful generations of a royal family – with one exception. It’s fascinating.

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When you think back into your childhood, what memories come to mind? Good ones? Not-so-good ones? Maybe you remember events that sculpted or changed your life. Perhaps something “rocked your world.” It might be a special activity is your first thought.  (I’ll share one of my memories directly below.) But, I’m guessing you remember many ordinary days filled with ordinary things. Interestingly, this sets the stage for most of life. We spend long stretches of time waiting and listening for what comes next. Additionally, waiting and listening directly impact all your relationships.

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Look around! Everything has some kind of design and order. Calendars, language, nature, science, and medicine. Then consider fabrics, computers, business, and farming. Design includes appearance, function, and natural / man-made capacity. The world – in fact, the entire universe – overflows with amazing design. Incidentally, you are no exception. Life is more meaningful, pleasant, and manageable when you embrace your incredible design. Let’s explore how to do that.

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When you were a little kid, did you ever dress up or pretend? Maybe you “borrowed” your mom or dad’s clothes, feeling grown-up as their apparel hung bulkily on your small frame. Perhaps you confiscated a large bath towel to be your super hero cape. What about adapting odds-n-ends laying around to dress up like community professionals – firemen, policemen, doctors, scientists, store clerks, movie stars, prince(ess), etc.? But have you ever dressed up to get better at being you?

Let’s explore this fascinating idea – getting better at being you. It’s a healthy way to live.

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Do you remember that funny scene in Shrek? The donkey is behind a group of people in a crowd. Shrek is going to choose a companion. And as Shrek considers his options, all you see is the donkey jumping up – over and over in the background. You don’t see him – and then you do! Over and over. As he jumps high enough to be seen above the group, he’s yelling something – “Pick me! Pick me! Pick me!” Interestingly, all people feel this way at times. Subsequently, it’s noteworthy and meaningful to remember God purposefully picks you.

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We just finished a series in December that focused on how to prepare your heart for Christmas. Then we explored approaching a New Year with hope. Yet, even after those focuses, it’s easy to feel vulnerable when faith hangs by a thread as you look into the future.

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If ever there was an Old Testament story that beautifully exemplifies the Spirit of Jesus, this is it! Not only does it show a man’s healthy choices and conduct. It also portrays the very spirit of Jesus Christ in a person who lived long before Jesus came to earth as the God-man. And further, this story is a strong statement – you and I can ask for a double portion of the nature and character of Christ if we fully surrender to God.

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We just came through one of the most special seasons of the year. So many people love these weeks of holidays despite added stresses and responsibilities. Truly, it’s a treasured time each year: Fall Celebrations, Thanksgiving, Christmas – and now New Year’s Day has come. A favorite theme during Christmas from the carol – “God Rest You Merry Gentlemen” is the phrase – “comfort and joy.” If you’re like me and millions of others, you’d welcome some comfort and joy – in your life and around the world.

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A New Year is an opportunity to let go of some things, hold onto other things, and grab onto new things. It also involves various emotions. Even though a New Year can feel scary, not knowing what’s ahead, it can also be exciting with new opportunities. In some cases, it may be a relief to walk into a fresh perspective. Hope for new possibilities begins to rise. Sadness about aging, saying good-byes, or letting go of previous endeavors can be painful. Knowing there will be difficult challenges is sobering. Yet, overall, most people embrace hope as one year morphs into another. God gives hope for a New Year.

Hope For A New Year

I’ve found hope looks one way in this broken world – but completely different in God’s reality. Incidentally, it makes all the difference to know which hope is which.

How does a typical dictionary define hope?

• The feeling that what is wanted can be had or that events will turn out for the best (noun)
• To look forward to with desire and reasonable confidence. (verb)
• To believe, desire, or trust (verb)

I suggest these definitions are strongly related to the world’s view of hope. God’s definition is different. The third definition above is closest to God’s definition. But it lacks the fullness and promise God offers His people. To get a better look at God’s kind of hope, let’s look into some Scriptures.

Helpful Scriptures About Hope

I want to share one of my personal favorite verses. “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jer. 29:11) Many people hold onto this verse.

Since God already knows –

• Everything about me
• Everything I am going through
• Everything coming tomorrow and in future years –

– and because He is good with good plans – I can trust Him.

Now, “good” also has a different definition in God’s reality than the world’s definition. Subsequently, God is – in every way – morally excellent. Additionally, He is kind and loving with highest of virtues. So this is where you drive a stake of faith into life.

The Lord wants to prosper you into His purpose for your life. He does not want to harm you. And He plans to give you hope in your soul. His eye is on your future. And He cares very much about what is going on in your heart.

Incidentally, one day, I realized that two verses I’d memorized were actually back-to-back in the Bible. Here’s the verse following Jer. 29:11.

“Then you will call on Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you.” (Jer. 29: 12)

Then, to my surprise, I found yet a third verse I’d memorized also connected to these first two verses. “You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart.” (Jer. 29: 13)

God Cares

Because God cares and is everything He claims – we have reason to celebrate Christmas and Thanksgiving each year. Consequently, the person who chooses to believe this even when their heart is breaking – they receive God’s help. Ps. 34:18 says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

God makes it His business to love and tenderly care for the “brokenhearted and crushed in spirit.” Interestingly, He is impeccable at triaging your troubles. And “you” are His priority! All this because He loves you deeply and wants to help. Amazingly, God cares about holiday sadness, too. And He has credibility to teach about managing sadness. Here’s why.

Jesus has two names that are linked, but almost like opposites. “Man of Joy” and “Man of Sorrow.” You can imagine how joyfully He spoke everything into existence at creation. From the clear blue ocean, to flowering green meadows, to towering majestic mountains, to powerful, bounding animals, to delicate, transparent blossoms – and even a flavor-packed, juicy strawberry.

But then consider how filled with sorrow He must be as He sees the devastating effects on His once perfect creation and His own dear children trapped in sin. Jesus knows how to live with the tension of both joy and sorrow.

When Jesus lived on this earth, He was ever-present in the celebration of life while simultaneously participating in human sorrow. Consequently, He joined the human condition by becoming one of us. Jesus was born into the human race and experienced the full spectrum of our joys and sorrows. He was even tempted in every way we are – but without sin. (Heb. 4:15)

Yes, Jesus became a baby! And that’s why we celebrate Thanksgiving and Christmas . . . because God is faithful!

Each Moment Is A Link in Your Life Chain

Interestingly, this present moment, a chain link is forming that ties your past to your future. What you think, say, and do each moment matters. Since you hold both ends of your life together in your middle, a thoughtful, courageous approach helps you make healthy choices.

1. So how do you go into a new year with healthy choices?
2. How do you re-visit – or let go of – unrealized goals and unfinished business?
3. What do you do with unhealed hurts?
4. How do you overcome fear?
5. What about bad habits?
6. Will you set yourself up for maximum success this new year?

Let’s explore six action steps to move you steadily into daily success this new year.

1. REGULAR TIME IN GOD’S WORD:

I know I say this so often. Spending daily time in Scripture makes a big difference. The Written Word affects your life powerfully because it’s the Living Word, Jesus Christ, on paper. This investment of time and space each day brings results:

• Growth in your character
• Guidance and direction
• Purpose to your life
• Intimate relationship with God
• Better relationships with others
• Sense of peace and joy

Regular time in God’s Word helps you live inside Jer. 29:11 – “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

2. SINCERE PRAYER DRAWS YOU CLOSE TO GOD:

Be close in your heart to God at all times by simple faith. Talk to the Lord through your day – about your problems, fears, sadness, joys, plans, needs . . . everything! Set apart Jesus as Lord in your heart. (1 Pet. 3:15) Enjoy His friendship. (Jn. 15:15) Worship Him.

Regular, sincere prayer draws you close to God. Then Jer. 29:12 becomes your reality. “Then you will call on Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you.”

3. CHOOSE CHEER:

You have control over your disposition. No matter how hard things become, choose cheer over anxiety, anger, or pouting. When you suffer, especially unjustly, remain conscious of God’s presence and sovereignty over your situation. Cheer is good medicine.

Prov. 17:22 promises hope through practicing cheer. “A cheerful heart is good medicine.”

4. DEVELOP HEALTHY HABITS:

What you practice is what you become. So, examine your habits and patterns carefully.

How healthy are your patterns?

• Food options.
• Amount of sleep.
• How you spend your free time.
• What you allow yourself to think about all day.
• The quality of relationships you pursue.
• Connecting with God throughout the day.
• Wholesome reading and movie material.
• Edifying conversation and language.
• Are you a good influence to others?

Setting up structured yet flexible patterns helps you develop healthy habits.

5. GOALS AND OBJECTIVES:

There are many resources to help set good goals. And incidentally, thoughtfully written goals and objectives help you carry out action steps to grow personally and professionally.

To set up a simple One-Page Goals Sheet, go to our website for a helpful tool that keeps you on track all year. I encourage you to use this tool to set up reasonable, practical goals for this next year. Just put in the search bar – “One-Page Goals Sheet.” You will see Step One and Step Two. This material helps you set up and carry out simple goals in your life.

Reasonable goals and thoughtful objectives help you live a healthy life all year.

6. BE A WHOLE PERSON:

Many people live their lives as half a person . . . or less. Subsequently, being a whole person means pursuing a variety of relationships, experiences, practices, interests, investments (not necessarily financial), and habits. A whole person appreciates the sciences, various forms of art, literature and world news, engaging a hobby, gathering with a group, simply enjoying quiet time alone. All these, and many more, help you be a more balanced, whole person.

NOTE: Steps 3 – 6 help you be the unique person God created – if you pursue Him with all your heart. “You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart.” (Jer. 29: 13)

Application Thoughts And Questions

1. Will you commit to spend regular time in God’s Word this next year?
2. Have you discovered sincere prayer connects you to God in your heart?
3. Do you choose cheer each day?
4. How healthy are your life habits?
5. Have you set goals and objectives for this next year? I encourage you to use the 1-Page Goals Sheet articles to do this.
6. Do you choose to be a whole person, growing each day to be like Jesus?

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You might be surprised to know Christmas sadness is a real thing. It hits when people go through difficulties that stretch into the season of Christmas. Or it happens with unexpected tragedy or bad news. But Christmas sadness can sometimes appear when everything is going fine. Unexpectedly, something rises up or invades without permission – and surprises you. In fact, you may even wonder why it’s there because there’s no identifiable reason.

Whatever the scenario, you are not alone if you experience Christmas sadness.

Subsequently, the kindest thing you can do for yourself is to learn how to manage Christmas sadness.

Manage Christmas Sadness

Christmas sadness is more common than many realize. Since your life is often filled with difficulties, hurts, losses, and disappointments all through the year – at Christmas, these things can sometimes feel bigger.

Incidentally, there may not even be anything that’s gone wrong as you prepare for Christmas. But the wear and tear of living all year can surface when you least expect it – even when you are hopeful for a holiday of joy, rest, and special times. You live in a broken world, but you instinctively know – “it’s not supposed to be like this.”

The task to manage Christmas sadness becomes overwhelming in the face of a loss. Too often, dreams may have been dashed. Sadly, medical emergencies may invade and drain you of time and energy you hoped to apply differently. Additionally, some people struggle with depression, and that condition is not a respecter of special occasions or good times.

Disappointment creeps in – whatever the situation. Incidentally, this is the time to manage Christmas sadness.

Because of all this, let’s explore some scenarios that can happen – and then some steps to manage Christmas sadness.

Some Scenarios That Can Happen

Despite your best planning and intentions, life can still hand you lemons. Interestingly, this can feel like a betrayal. Especially when you’ve poured your best out and had a good plan, you expect more than a meager outcome. You want some fairness. And you want good outcomes.

Life is unpredictable. Consequently, there are many times you feel the rug is pulled out from under you. As a result, you feel hurt, sad, disappointed, and maybe even angry.

• What do you do after giving your very best, and it still isn’t good enough?
• What’s your next move after pouring into an endeavor, and it didn’t turn out well?
• How about the person who has lived healthy – food and exercise – all their life . . . but they get the news of cancer?
• After befriending someone, they turn around and betray you.
• What do you do when you prayed and trusted – and the bad thing still happened?
• How do you keep going when death invades?
• What about that raise you really worked hard for – and you didn’t get it?
• Maybe you saved up just enough money for Christmas, and something happens that eats into what you worked for.

Christmas becomes a season of mixed emotions when these kinds of things become your reality.

It’s Not Supposed To Be Like This

Christmas is supposed to be a wonderful time of rejoicing, celebration, and encouragement. Plus, it’s time to pause, reflect, and enjoy God’s lavish gift of grace, even in this broken world! But – to keep it real – this life is broken!

So, what do you do when things don’t go well? What do you do when you are sad at Christmas?

How To Manage Christmas Sadness

Steps to manage Christmas sadness are helpful. But perspective also helps. And choices are critical. You do have control over how you manage Christmas sadness. And God promises to walk with you and help with the parts out of your control.

Action Steps To Manage Christmas Sadness

You manage Christmas sadness better with these steps:

1. Identify that you are sad. That’s the first step.
2. Ask yourself good questions to discover why you are sad. If you find nothing, still continue these steps.
3. Pray. Ask God for wisdom, strength, and creative strategies to manage your sadness.
4. Proactively work to lift your spirit. Be intentional. It’s better than staying in sadness. Interestingly, there’s a special power in rising up and moving in a healthy direction.
5. Claim Scriptures that speak to your heart. Remember: God’s Written Word is alive and active. (Heb. 4:12)
6. Ps. 42:5 and 11; Ps. 43:5 all say – “Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise Him, my Savior and my God.” So hope in God – even while your heart is sad. 
7. Some people find it helpful to journal feelings as an exercise of self-discovery. Journal a prayer of faith, too.
8. Involve another person(s) to share an activity or time of fellowship.
9. Don’t turn to food. Instead, let food be a purposeful “add-on” to make a special time more meaningful.
10. Get good sleep. Too often, holidays have a way of stripping you of rest.
11. Get exercise. Take a walk. Stretch and exercise. Get your heart and lungs going. Incidentally, this increases positive mood.
12. Make a favorite drink. Take time to enjoy it. Reflect on uplifting thoughts. Enjoy God’s presence.
13. Call a dear friend and share what you’re going through. Ask them to pray for you.
14. Rise up and practice joy. Since joy is more than a feeling – a choice – you can do this.
15. Practice thinking that focuses on Christ-like character and holds moods in check.
16. By faith, draw near to the grown-up Christmas Baby. Open your heart to receive from Him.

A Helpful Christmas Scripture

“For to us a child is born.

To us a Son is given.

And the government will be on His shoulders.

And He will be called – 

Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”

(Isaiah 9:6)

This verse is filled with hope and instruction. Let’s explore each phrase.  

For To Us A Child Is Born. To Us A Son Is Given

Jesus is your first and best Christmas present! The Son of humanity is a gift to help you manage Christmas sadness. Incidentally, He’s a companion in life’s hardships and pain. Jesus is a powerful and kind friend who cares about you. Emmanuel means God With You!

The Government Will Be On His Shoulders

The grown-up Christmas Baby carries God’s government on His shoulders. He has answers to complicated problems. Christ’s shoulders are broad and strong to carry whatever concerns you. Jesus has thoughtful, brilliant solutions. Consequently, He can train you to “govern” your life successfully – even in Christmas sadness.

And He Will Be Called

God names Himself for your needs. His names fit your needs like a glove. Claim His names by faith.

Wonderful Counselor

Some Bible translations call Jesus “Extraordinary Strategist” in place of Wonderful Counselor. Imagine having this kind of counselor in struggles, griefs, and disappointments. He’s a guide already in tomorrow to receive you as you enter.

Mighty God

God channels His unlimited power through the portal of your faith. Every problem, loss, sorrow, challenge, and assignment falls within His scope of power. “With man, these things are impossible. But with [Mighty] God, all things are possible.” (Mt. 19:26)

Everlasting Father

You belong! Your fabulous Dad loves you tenderly. God holds you close when you’re discouraged. He strengthens you when you’re weak. And He steps in with His glorious right arm when you need help with a bully. Your Heavenly Father is extremely good. Job was so convinced about this, he said – “Even if You kill me, I will trust You, God.” (Job 13:15)

Prince of Peace

This world is full of conflict. Churning, burning, unsettling reality. Subsequently, Jesus promises peace that passes understanding. He offers comfort when you’ve been hurt. He gives rest when you are weary. And He spreads His wings over you.

Come under His wings. “The Lord is close to the broken-hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” (Ps. 34:18)

Choose Hope

Determine how to come through Christmas sadness. Essentially, decide how you will think and what you will do. You have control over what you say and do.

Most important, if you choose hope, you put your precious life directly under God’s care and blessing.

Some sad feelings may remain from serious losses. Always turn to Emmanuel – “God With You.” He loves you so much and knows how to help you move forward.

Application Thoughts And Questions

1. First, do you know the grown-up Christmas Baby loves you?
2. Have you brought your sadness to Him at Christmas?
3. Have you been real about your sadness?
4. Do you reach to Jesus and open to His comfort?
5. Do you practice the action steps in this content to manage Christmas sadness?
6. Be open to the wisdom and comfort of Wonderful Counselor (Extraordinary Strategist). Additionally, surrender your care and heart to Mighty God. Also, rest and fellowship with Everlasting Father. And finally, be completely dependent on Prince of Peace.

Merry Christmas to you. God loves you so much!

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You know the little kid in the back seat on a long trip? Every 15 minutes, they ask (with a tired sigh) – “Are we there yet?!” That’s the same little cherub, along with a host of other little kids – and just as many adults – who asks, “Is it Christmas yet?” The first exclamation – “Are we there yet?” – is more like – “Gosh! How much longer?!” An impatience and a feeling of being confined. The second exclamation – “Is it Christmas yet?” – is more like – “I’m so excited, I can hardly wait.” An expression of the joy of anticipation.

Waiting Is HARD!

Waiting is just HARD! But everybody waits. We wait in line at the gas station. We wait for phone calls, appointments, packages in the mail. For special trips. Birthdays. A long-awaited vacation. We wait to see someone you hardly get to spend time with. And we wait for the rewards of something you worked hard for. But – Christmas waiting – that’s the hardest. Many people just love Christmas.

Here are some special parts of Christmas we wait for:

• For it to actually arrive.
• Anticipating special gatherings.
• So children can open presents.
• For a dessert you’ve been saving up calories to enjoy.
• The anticipation of a special movie or game.
• To engage in conversations that inspire hope.
• For reflections on the amazing Christmas story.
• We wait as we stand in line at a store Christmas shopping.
• We sit at a stop light for holiday traffic to cross.
• To enjoy the season’s first cup of wassail.
• For all the special, festive lights of Christmas that light up the night and your home.

But there are other very unique kinds of waiting that sometimes happen in the Christmas season – like:

• Anxiously waiting for results to a medical test.
• Hoping a person you courageously reached out to might respond back.
• Waiting for a much-needed bonus check.
• Needing to hear a loved one made all their flight connections OR drove many miles safely to their destination.
• Some people in this world are waiting for their next meal.

Waiting is just HARD!

What Is Joy Of Anticipation?

What does the joy of anticipation for Christmas look like?

Well, for starters, joy of anticipation is in the face of every excited child as they “dream forward.” It’s in the lifted spirits of a tired career professional excited about a break from daily demands of the office. You see it in the eyes of a dear friend or loved one as they welcome special traditions and preparations. Sometimes, it’s in the smile of a neighbor as they stop by with unexpected goodies to share. And one can even hear joy of anticipation in freshly expressed sentiments of hope from community leaders. Joy of anticipation can be in the grocery clerk who checks you out and wonders what you will make with the supplies you purchase. In fact, anticipation is in the very air – almost everywhere – as we get closer to Christmas.

More Joy

The joy of anticipation is in so many things people look forward to:

• Time off work.
• Friends and family.
• Good food.
• A bit more rest than the typical race-pace day.
• The sparkle of Christmas tree lights.
• Quality, well-written holiday music.
• A cozy fire in the fireplace.
• Neighborhood lights and decorations.
• Special goodies prepared ahead for celebrations.
• The joy of spying an early present under the tree from someone who couldn’t wait.

But there’s so much more to the joy of anticipation. Christmas reminds us that all history waited for a Baby to be born. Mary, Jesus’ mother, waited 9 months to birth a baby she unexpectedly, miraculously conceived. God, Himself, waited for centuries for the right timing – to be stuffed into a tiny human child and become the promised sacrifice for sins. And another unique way God waits is by patiently stretching Christ’s return to earth just a bit longer. Why? Because of His deep love for lost people – not wanting anyone to perish. So even God waits.

In all these ways, waiting has something to do with the joy of anticipation.

Waiting Has Benefits

Waiting is both exciting in some aspects, and uncomfortable in other ways. We spend much of our lives waiting for something. So, maybe we should work at waiting better and making that stretch of time more meaningful.

You can “milk it” of every bit of good. Let’s look at some of the benefits of waiting:

1. It validates your patience with the reward of what you are waiting for.
2. Time is the only way you come closer to what comes next. So, waiting helps you number your days better.
3. Waiting trains your heart to trust God with resolve because things don’t always progress in the timing you picture in your head.
4. Engaging uncomfortable wait periods strengthens your faith even while circumstances hang unfinished in the air.
5. You develop more of Christ’s character as you train yourself to wait in faith.
6. Waiting on God draws your heart close to Father’s heart as you nestle inside His love.
7. When you sincerely praise the Lord as you wait for God’s timing, that faith action transforms you from your middle out.
8. As you wait, you learn discipline, resolve, and patience.
9. Waiting sometimes lets you share a tiny bit in Christ’s sufferings – or someone else’s sufferings. And that can also be painful.
10. Your experiences of waiting help others to be brave in their waiting.
11. You can jot a to-do list and plan your approach as you wait.
12. And you can pray.

So, focus on blessings as you wait. Even if your stomach is tied in knots with unknowns and responsibilities, focusing on good that’s still around you provides perspective in waiting.

Christmas Joy Of Anticipation

Of course, waiting at Christmas is hard, especially for children. Nevertheless, adults not only anticipate the joy of Christmas. They also instinctively know Christmas ends another year. A New Year approaches to set new goals and practice fresh ways of waiting.

Waiting can teach you how to relax into the person God created you to be. For example, even if you are suffering or going through a very difficult situation – you can practice the joy of Christmas anticipation in quiet, intimate, personal ways:

1. Simply resting in Jesus.
2. Enjoying His sweet presence.
3. Soaking up His grace.

These “faith anticipations” open a door to joy deep in your heart because of the undeserved opportunity of knowing God as a dear Friend. What a gift from God. Friendship! Christmas is filled with undeserved goodness from God who blesses those who seek His face and wait for Him. Lam. 3:24 says, “The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for Him.”

Wait Well

Why not give intentional thought to wait well this Christmas? Why not purposefully wait well for the New Year? Incidentally, you can wait well for Christ’s imminent return to earth. By focusing on your relationship with Jesus – the Christmas Baby who grew up to be Emmanuel (God With You) – you open your heart to receive more of Him and His joy.

Scripture says, “Since ancient times no one has heard, no ear has perceived, no eye has seen any God besides You, who acts on behalf of those who wait for Him.” (Is. 64:4; 1 Cor. 2:9) So, wait well in every situation. Calm your heart and share moments with Jesus.

Why not let your waiting this Christmas be filled with worship, with intimate fellowship with God, and with periods of rest instead of hustle and bustle that can cheat you out of the joy of anticipation?

Incidentally, you can also purposefully target spending time with friends and loved-ones as you wait. Why not do something unexpected for an unsuspecting person God lays on your heart? That feeds joy of anticipation for you and the person receiving your thoughtfulness.

Sometimes it helps to just step away from too much preparation and simply enjoy. Things don’t have to be perfect. Just wait well.

The joy of anticipation is simple. It quiets your heart and aids your ability to simply be you and receive from God. Incidentally, a quiet spirit can get you through the hustle and bustle you can’t ignore. Focus to wait well.

Why not let go of “too much” Christmas preparation? Simplify your approach to include “much more” of what matters most.

Application Thoughts And Questions

1. What are you waiting for this Christmas season?
2. What is the hard part of your waiting?
3. Where has “not waiting well” robbed you of the joy of anticipation?
4. Why not start a tally of benefits of waiting as each day takes you closer to joyful Christmas celebrations?
5. In what ways might you be doing “too much” and need to pull back as you prepare for Christmas?
6. How can you begin to practice the skill to wait well?
7. Make a mental list of “much more” that really matters in this season.

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Most people really like Christmas. There are a few grinches who despise the annual celebration. But many more cherish this annual holiday. They lean into invisible qualities of hope and joy connected to the evergreen tree, lights and decorations, beautiful music, giving and receiving, special goodies, and moments of reflection. Unfortunately, many of these same “Christmas-loving” people feel overwhelmed at the hustle and bustle. So, how do you prepare your heart for this beloved holiday?

Advent

For more information about Advent, check out last week’s article – “Prepare For Christmas With Advent.” In a nutshell, an advent ushers in the arrival of a remarkable person or event – in this case, Baby Jesus and His birth. Advent is a time to prepare for that notable arrival and celebration.

This is the first in a series to help prepare your heart for Christmas. Each week we’ll light another candle in our hearts to get ready. And each article’s content will be practical and inspirational.

Prepare Your Heart

Because Christmas has become highly commercialized, it takes skill and thought to prepare your heart. As you participate in the hustle and bustle, you don’t want to lose the meaning of Christmas. Each year, I write about Advent and Christmas. So, this content provides helpful tips to make Christmas as rich and meaningful as possible. Incidentally, Christmas is the celebration most highly cherished world-wide.

Three Qualities To Prepare Your Heart

Since Christmas is treasured globally, how can you prepare your heart on a personal and practical level? Interestingly, God esteems three qualities that help prepare your heart for Christmas:

1. Humility – in responses to Him.
2. Contrite spirit – sincere remorse and desire for God’s way.
3. Respect for God’s Word.

Why do you think God values these three qualities? It has something to do with “resting place.” There are two kinds of “resting place.” Let’s explore the first kind now.

Resting Place #1

God created you and knows you inside-out. So, He knows how to best prepare your heart for Christmas – and (BTW) for daily life. And it starts with a term we don’t use often today: “resting place.”

But first, let’s start with God’s knowledge of you.

Have you ever reflected on how much God knows about you? Ps. 139: 1-5 is eye-opening.

“You have searched me, Lord, and You know me . . . when I sit and when I rise; You perceive my thoughts . . . discern my going out and my lying down . . . You are familiar with all my ways. Before a word is on my tongue You, Lord, know it completely. You hem me in behind and before, and You lay Your hand upon me.”

God can choose anywhere to live. So, it’s significant He wants His “home” – His resting place – to be your heart. What a privilege and responsibility! He lovingly made you for Himself with glorious original design to make your life purposeful.

Well, humility, a contrite spirit, and respect determine whether you will be God’s home – His resting place. When you choose the provisions of Christ’s cross, you gain these three qualities.

Have you considered your life to be God’s resting place? Now it’s time to consider the second kind of “resting place.”

Resting Place #2

This “resting place” is yours. Your resting place – is in God’s heart! How does this happen?

First, you accept His invitation into Christ – and you invite Him into you. But humility, a contrite spirit, and respect for God’s Word also determine if you will choose God to be your resting place. Opposite ideas are pride, personal agenda, and lack of esteem for God’s opinion. Consequently, you are in control of these choices.

Why not choose to be humble, contrite, and respectful to prepare your heart for Christmas.

Have you considered God to be your resting place?

A Name And Traditions

A Name For A Baby

God’s name for Baby Jesus has you in mind. Is. 7:14 and Mt. 1:23 both say, “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call Him Emmanuel (which means ‘God with us’).” Emmanuel is a special name for Baby Jesus.

Incidentally, “Jesus” is what an angel told Mary to name her child. (Lk. 1:31) Jesus was a common name in that culture. From the beginning, Jesus identifies with common people.

Initially, before His birth, Jesus was called “The Word.” (Jn. 1:1-3) Jn. 1:14 says, “The Word became flesh and made His dwelling among us.” This is when “The Word” became Jesus.

However, the very special name – Emmanuel: God with you is stunning. Think of it! You have a dear Companion you can trust, and He will never leave you.

• In humility, give Him control.
• In contrite trust, give up your agendas.
• And in respect, consider His words more valuable than your own.

Traditions

Traditions at Christmas are so important to people. Jesus, Himself, intentionally kept meaningful traditions when He lived on earth. However, He always brought something fresh and new into traditions.

Why not prepare your heart by asking Jesus to fill your life with fresh “newness” even as you keep meaningful Christmas traditions? This helps prepare your heart.

Four Preparations

Let’s explore four practical ways to prepare your heart this Christmas:

1. Waiting
2. Trusting
3. Agreeing
4. Resting

1. Waiting Is Preparation

Waiting on God is active faith. It is also expectation. In fact, I wonder if it’s possible to wait without expectation.

True expectation is:

• Receiving from God with a grateful heart. So – be open!
• Focusing on Emmanuel. So – be focused!

As we already mentioned, waiting on God is both a privilege and responsibility.

Waiting for Christmas with active faith and expectation helps safe-guard your holiday preparations.

You can connect with God, enjoy meaningful traditions, and anticipate something fresh and new from God – while you wait.

2. Trusting God Is Preparation

Life has lots of good in it. Still, everyone has bad news, disappointments, and losses. Sometimes Christmas has sad times. But if you draw close to Emmanuel, God promises amazing exchanges. Have you heard about the gift exchanges God offers (Is. 61:3)?

• Ashes exchanged for – a crown of beauty.
• Mourning exchanged for – the oil of joy.
• Spirit of despair exchanged for – a garment of praise.

To claim your wonderful gift exchanges, let go of your losses and preferences.

Instead – connect with God, enjoy meaningful traditions, and anticipate something fresh and new from God as you trust in Him for these gift exchanges.

Scripture Helps

Scripture instructs and encourages every day of the year. Are you in Scripture to hear what God is saying to you? Everyday?

God wants you to be His holy resting place, so He refines you. (Is. 48:10) God also promises to help and strengthen you. Is. 41:10 says, “So do not fear, for I am with you . . . I will strengthen you and help you . . .”

You have a decision to make. Will you soak your soul with God’s Word as you prepare your heart for Christmas?

3. Agreeing With God Is Preparation

Is. 45:9 says, “Woe to those who quarrel with their Maker.” Agreeing with God means not quarreling with Him.

Questions About Quarreling:

1. In what way might you be quarreling with your Maker?
2. Do you wonder if God will cover all your bases?
3. Maybe you wonder if He’ll cheat you out of some experience?
4. Do you sometimes feel under par, but compensate in a way that puts you “at odds” with your Maker?
5. Is God interfering with your agenda?

Instead of quarreling with God, choose to agree with Him. He is –

• Forming you for His glory and purposes.
• Refining you and testing your tensile strength.
• Sharing Himself with you.
• Loving you with everlasting love and drawing you with unfailing kindness.

Connect with God, enjoy meaningful traditions, and anticipate something fresh and new from God as you agree with Him.

4. Resting In God Is Preparation

Life was intended to include rest. God established every seventh day as a holy rest. Planning special “down times” throughout the year also helps you rest. And there’s so much value in a good night’s sleep. God created rest as part of life’s rhythm.

Mt. 11: 29 says, “Take my yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”

God wants you to rest as you prepare for Christmas. This may mean – “less is more.” Simplify your planning. Choose your most meaningful traditions and let go of other things. And be open in your heart to receive something “new” from the Lord.

God goes straight to relationship. Emmanuel. God With Us.

Connect with God, enjoy meaningful traditions, and anticipate something fresh and new as you rest in God.

Application Thoughts And Questions

1. Are you actively choosing to be humble, contrite, and respectful of God?
2. Is fear or doubt in your heart?
3. To connect with God and prepare for Christmas, decide how you can practice –
   • Waiting
   • Trusting
   • Agreeing
   • Resting
4. What meaningful traditions will you keep this Christmas? What should you let go of?
5. Do you engage eager expectation to receive fresh new things from God?
6. Have you exchanged your ashes, mourning, and despair for a crown of beauty, the oil of joy, and a garment of praise?