Yes, it's true. For so many years, it bothered me so badly, and I was so frustrated that I was single. But now, 4 years later, I genuinely am happy N Single.

Take a walk with me as I look back on my journey for the past 20 years or so.

Enjoy!

Sometimes, even if we win an argument, we lose. Why is that? Today's podcast explores what we gain by losing some argument

Yes... listen to this episode to hear how.

For years, that was me. Recently, though, I have noticed that a schedule is very helpful for some things and very unhelpful for others. In today's episode, I share how to have more freedom and flow in your life.

Then this episode is for you! Many people spend so much time at the beck and call of other people that they aren't taking time to live their lives. So what are you really giving up as a people pleaser? You are giving up Your happiness.

I've seen in my life that if I can't have what I currently want, I may sit and pout. Well, yeah, that's about as helpful as watching paint dry! 

What I see now is that if I can't currently have one dream, I simply can just pick another and pursue it.

Me TOO! You see, I realized that I lost all of my rhythm when I recently took a three-week vacation. I didn't write in my book, focus on my business, or do plenty of other things. When I got back it took me a month to get back in rhythm. However, I realized today that if I had just spent a few minutes each day doing those things, even on vacation, I would have maintained my momentum.

So even if you have 15, 5, or 3 minutes, doing what you need to even while on vacation, could be very beneficial. that I could have. I realized recently, what if I just spent a few minutes each day doing the things that I love to do?

What if you could live in that flow and rhythm of life all the time? 

Each of us has our own rhythm of life, and often, when we read a book or hear a guru talk to us, we try to copy their rhythm of life, which doesn't work for us. What if, instead, you could find your own rhythm of life that makes you the happiest and most productive? Today, I share how I've experimented and how I'm finding my flow and rhythm of life to inspire you to do the same.

To achieve most things, in life, we do need to put in the time. However, most people put in the time in an attitude of drudgery and duty, what if you could live in a sense of wonder and joy, no matter what you were doing?

Recently, while at a training in London, I realized that i use my imagination less than 1% of the time to think of amazing, magical and wonderful things. This means I used it 99% of the time to think of unhelpful things. Today, I share something I learned of how we can flip our imagination and use it to think of wonderful things.

Sometimes, we feel that the best thing to do when someone tells us about their lives is offer our best advice to fix it. But if you pause for a minute and ask yourself, has that ever really worked? You would see that the answer is no. However, if you just sit and listen to a person, you will be astounded by how good they will feel after the conversation, and so will you.

If you want to help someone, don't try to fix them, just listen.

If so, this episode is for you. So many of us spend so much time worrying about what other people are doing with their lives. Whether it's a car that cuts you off or won't let you merge or a child or friend that won't stop their bad habits. I would invite you to stop caring more than they do and you will find more peace in your life.

Many people feel that unless they are in a relationship they can't feel secure. Today's podcast episode shares how we can have real security no matter our relationship status. 

Me too, when we have become used to a certain level of life for a while, it can seem so challenging to do new things. In today's episode I share how you can break those invisible boundaries of possibility that seem to stop you from progressing and going after what you desire! 

Little children are in the moment, they don't overthink, and they trust that it's okay to want what they want. Listen to this episode to hear more about how you can find more child-like joy!

Today's episode explores what you can do to create more of what you want in your life.

Today I talk about how we can be pacified into thinking our life is already great enough because we are happy that we don't need to progress anymore. However, I also talk about how progress  and growth are really what makes us truly happy. We can still be happy as we constantly set new goals that help us to grow and become the person the Lord intended for us to be. 

Well Stop! It doesn't work that way. We all have it backword. If you just start following those sparks of joy inside of you, you will naturally fall into your life purpose. It will be a journey more amazing than you can ever imagine. 

So let's take the pressure off and just start enjoying life!  

Listen to this episode!

Today's Episode Is An Interview With My Friend Brigette Heller. Brigette Heller is a Motivational Speaker, Emotional Resilience Coach, Internationally Syndicated Speaker and The Next Great American Speaker Semi Finalist. Driven by personal experiences and a strong passion for empowering women, she runs a successful podcast, “The Strong and Capable.” In her personal life, with her husband and best friend, Mike, Brigette has raised a family of three independent children and two loveable dogs. Brigette loves to read every free kindle book she can find, teaches the piano, sings, serves the youth in her church, and occasionally dresses up as a Disney princess.

We know that one of our purposes for living is to live a life of joy, so why don't we? Today I talk about the benefits of throwing yourself into life with joy!

ME TOO! For years, I have struggled with this question of the right way to live my life, doubting every decision and every step forward. What if it were okay to just live your life the way you wanted to without overthinking it all.

Often time we come through like like the little boy in Oliver twist that asks for a tiny bit more soup that says," Please sir, can I have some more" . What if we were willling to ask GOD for what we really wanted? And what if he were willing to guide us to get it?

ME TOO! I spend so much time wrapped in my thinking, so today's episode talks about how we can start getting out of our heads and taking action and receiving immediate internal feedback if we are on the right track. 

All of us go through highs and lows in our lives, what do you do when you don't feel like doing anything? Today's episode explores what to do when you are feeling apathetic.

The way we see the world really does make a difference in how we see our world. Understand that GOD is actively trying to bless your life with the best and most awesome things. Take a listen as we explore today!

While most of us want to become skilled at guitar, piano, speaking or owning a business; we spend more time worried about it instead of just moving forward and seeing what happens. Toda we discuss what gets in the way of us spending more time on what we really want to do.

Often when we are in our scariest moments we reach out to google to find answers, which often lead us down rabbit holes, todays episode discusses, how to trust in GOD more and google less.

This life is a hands-on experience, and sometimes we are going to make mistakes, however, instead of spending time beating ourselves up, it's helpful to accept what we have done and make peace with it, and then focus immediately on the solution and what we can do about it and then turn to GOD and ask for his incredible help to help us.

We want what we want and want it now. But what happens when we don't get what we want immediateley? What happens when we have been waiting for years and it still hasn't happened? Today we explore about our path being delayed.

For years, I used to believe that this was the voice of GOD. However, after having had many different experiences in my life, I have come to learn that the voice of GOD that comes through that still small voice is one of gentleness, kindness, and love. All of the other thoughts that leave us feeling that kind of yucky unsettled feeling do not come from GOD.

Listen to today’s episode as we explore this topic in greater detail, and then share it with that friend of yours that is constantly experiencing feelings of guilt and not being good enough.

Today’s episode delves into the all too familiar experience of starting something only to stop midway. We take a look at why it happens and also what we can do to overcome it.

Join us as we navigate the intricacies of our motivations, fears, and self-imposed limitations. Discover practical strategies and empowering insights that will empower you to break free from the cycle of starting and stopping, ultimately paving the way for lasting success and personal fulfillment.

Tune in and embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery, where you'll find the inspiration and guidance needed to stay the course and achieve what you desire

In this thought-provoking podcast episode, the topic of traumatic experiences is approached from a new and illuminating angle. The episode acknowledges the profound impact that trauma can have on individuals, leaving them uncertain about how to rebuild their lives. It offers a fresh perspective on trauma and delves into practical insights on effectively navigating the journey of healing and recovery.

Today's episode explores a much different way to look at panic attacks.

Every one of us has challenges that seem insurmountable. However, you have already come so much further than you thought you could and if you just keep going you will move those mountains. There's also a really powerful life-changing visualization in her as well.

I get it! Each of us wants to be married to the person of our dreams, but we also have other hobbies and interest and talents we can be creating in the mean time. Often times as we learn new skills and further our talents, we will have new opportunities to meet people maybe even a new romantic interest, and you can also have a really fun time doing it! 

Today we explore how as we get engaged in life, we will begin to enjoy it a lot more! 

Today we explore what you can do to get others to talk to you, and also we share how often people connect with those that have similar interests.

What if wasn't telling you anything except to slow down and check in with yourself? All of our feelings have been given to us as gifts, today we explore discouragement.

So many of us, when we get quiet, really know what to do in our gut, but we are afraid of how it is going to work out and we are worried what others may say, however when we just go forward anyways things work out well!

I know I feel this way plenty of times in my life, however now I am learning that if I just go forward and do what I know to do that they way will appear. Today's episode explores how to just go forward and let the way appear.

Or do you let doubt, fear and thoughts of insecurity get in the way. Often times we think we have to know the perfect path to get there, however, as anyone that's ever taken a cross-country trip knows... we never know the exact path, we just have to move forward towards our destination and good things happen.

Often times we psyche ourselves out and don't even go after what we want, because we feel we aren't in the right place. When it comes to relationships, we won't ask a person we are interested in because we don't feel good enough for them. Today's podcast explores how to go forward regardless of whether you feel perfectly ready.

And even if you feel like you are on the right road, have you ever wondered, why it's taking so long? Today's episode explores how through your feelings GOD is guiding you. If a feels yucky kind of like walking into a bad neighborhood, it's generally telling you that's not the right road for you, and it doesn't matter how long you have been on a road, you can always choose a new road.

For many, it means that they have done something wrong. Today's podcast explores how many times it means that you are doing the opposite. I also share a few practical strategies that have been helpful for me, when I feel down.

Sometimes we feel we have so much to do and we are in too much of a hurry to slow down... but especially when we feel like we have way too much to do, we need to slow down and listen to our feelings... they are our compass.

Today we explore how to ignore the doubt, fear and discouraging thoughts that we have in order to move forward confidently in the direction of our dreams.

Before you get angry, make sure you truly understand, because you may just be wrong.

Most of the thinking in our head does not serve us, it seeks to distract us, slow us down and even prevent us from moving forward in the life that we desire! Today we talk about noticing it better and what to do about it?

Michael Neill is an internationally renowned transformative teacher,
author, broadcaster, and speaker, described as having the unique
ability to “blend the sacred with the profane”. The inside-out
understanding at the heart of his work challenges the cultural
mythology that stress, pressure, and other symptoms of
“seriousness” are a necessary part of adaptation and growth in
business or indeed any area of life.
In his role as CEO of Genius Catalyst Inc. since its inception in the
UK in 1990 to its incorporation in the USA in 2007, Michael has
spearheaded its growth from consultancy to a multi-media
organisation delivering services to tens of thousands of loyal

customers each year through live training, online courses, and self-
study programs.

He has also spent more than three decades as a coach, adviser,
friend, mentor, and creative spark plug to founders, CEO’s,
celebrities, royalty, and those who are up to something in the world.
His global client base is wide and diverse, having served clients in
North America, UK, Europe, and the Middle East in the fields of
investment, sales, energy, manufacturing, the entertainment and
media industry, and more. He has been consistently ranked
alongside Jack Canfield, Tony Robbins, and other legends in the
field as one of the top 30 coaching thought leaders in the world,
and continues to run a small private practice working with high
performers in their fields of expertise.
A gifted communicator, Michael has authored six best-selling books
including Creating the Impossible, The Inside-Out Revolution, The
Space Within, and Supercoach. His books have been translated into
more than 25 languages, and his public talks, retreats and seminars
have touched and transformed lives at the United Nations and in
over 60 countries and on six continents around the world. His TEDx
talks, ‘Why Aren’t We Awesomer?’and ‘Can a TEDx Talk Really
Change the World?’ have been viewed by over two million people
around the world and his blog and podcast, Caffeine for the Soul,
has been entertaining and inspiring audiences around the world
for more than 20 years.

This is a must listen interview. Ofi is an artist, entertainer, speaker and just all around great guy. He is also an advocate for teen mental health. 

He went from being a police officer to becoming the #2 Realtor in the entire state of Missouri in just about 4 years. We talk about the challenges that he overcame to do so including all the hours that he put in to reach his goal and more!

Each of us has failed many times in our lives, so when we fall flat on our face or decide to make a change or even try something new, how do we do it?

I share how each of us has our own individual journey. As we walk that journey and listen to the spirit, or inner voice, and then do what we are directed to do, we will be happy!

I believe that both people should feel like they have won the lottery when it comes to finding a mate, of course you aren't going to get everything you are looking for, but the more you know what you want, the better chance you have of finding it

Join me on an exploration of the adventure of being single, dating, and much more!

Go Live YOUR adventure!

If your answer was yes, I know exactly how you feel. I thought I would get married super young as is very common in my religious culture. The more years that dragged on, the more frustrated that I became. I just felt so behind in my life, and my family friends and even church members would constantly remind me or joke that I wasn't married, and if I didn't hurry and find someone I'd miss out... as if the world were running out of women, and if I didn't step up, I'd miss the last available woman on planet earth.

The more failed opportunities I experienced, the more pressure I felt on me to make sure the next girl was the right one. Then one magical day while talking to my mentor, he helped me see that it wasn't that I wasn't married that was making me unhappy. Nope, it was just the thought that I had to be married in order to be happy that was keeping me unhappy.

This first episode shares more about this and helps you begin to see that you don't have to be married in order to be happy.

Join me on an exploration of the adventure of being single, dating, and much more!
Go Live YOUR adventure!